LIFE UPDATE: WHERE HAVE I BEEN? | Mental Health, Motherhood, Journey of Finding Me Again 

We really missed you 😢

The black sheep is usually the curse breaker of the family. It's a heavy thing to carry but you carry more because you receive more. Where much is given, much is required. There are battles that Valerie will never have to fight because of your obedience to God and your prayers. Cultivate her gifts because her fulfilling her purpose is directly tied to you fulfilling yours. So kudos to you for being where God has and needs you. Val will be a healthy woman because of the work her mom has put in during prayer, teaching her about God, etc. Keep it up Alisha, we're all so proud of you and happy for you. We're rooting for you always❤

Alisha, you've been through alot! Watching your baby sis get married and your twin having another baby and her marriage being ok. I know how it can be. God got you and trust his plan and the process. Pray and ask God for your soul mate. Don't go looking for him, you let him com to you. Your heart desires God will give it to you. I know. I have a few things I'm asking God about but I'm waiting on him. Press push pray have faith, and jus wait

Life gets the best of all of us. We just have to ground ourselves in God and take it a day at a time. We need to stop looking at everyone around us and be still with ourselves.

Welcome back. Judge Lynn Toler, said in an interview that life is not a mountain to climb it is a roller coaster. I so much took that to heart because every day I was complaining . If it was not Hark the Angels, It was While shepherds. If you know that you are going to ride a roller coaster you prepare yourself whatever comes my way, I am prepared and I have found that nothing takes me by surprise anymore. I wish you the best on your journey.

Congratulations 🎊 👏🏽 💐 on reaching 100k on IG.....That's mega...you are loved❤

I am the black sheep but I’ve learned to take it as a compliment. I’m taking steps to break generational curses and take accountability for my mental health. So glad you are in a better place! ❤🎉

Very lovely, saying I love me is important & feeling like yourself again is fabulous

The irony of this post when I literally mini binged on your content yesterday is nuts😅. You’ve gone through a lot of transitions dear, and gracefully I might add! I’m not sure how most people feel but I personally am more interested in long form content than IG and Tiktok at the moment. Tiktok has been wearing my me out mentally, but with RU-vid I can connect with the people I want to see and just sit and relax instead of constantly scrolling. The other apps just feel like noise compared to RU-vid, but I get it’s more effort of to post here.

We can see how much you love being a mom. You have always made it look so easy! You're doing a great job, Alisha, continue to be gentle and kind to yourself.

I love that you feel like you are where you are meant to be. Many of us are looking for that place.

Yeah. Glad to see you. Was wondering where you were the other day. Glad you and Valerie are well!!

Love your hair and skin is just glowing you are truly a natural beauty❤

Thank you for checking in. It was so incredibly great to see you!💕

Awe Alisha WE LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your honesty and transparency. Welcome back 🥳🥳🥳🥳

Soooo happy to see u back! Praying for u! X❤!

I can so relate, Alisha! But (you) know that you are LOVED❤. Remain blessed 🙌🏾

Hi Valerie🥰 Great to see you back and congratulations on your 100k on IG🤎🤎🤎

I am so glad to see you. Be encouraged young lady. 💗

Omg so good to see you back! I understand your need to take care of you! Stay truthful to thyself ❤

Oh wow welcome back!

I’m glad you’re doing good. Let God keep ordering your steps!🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

Welcome back ❤

Hey Alisha! You’re glowing sis ✨

Definitely missed you. You're definitely my favorite person to watch. You give me inspiration

We missed you and Thank God you’re doing better ❤

Glad you’re back! I literally smiled!

Wow Alisha welcome back! We missed you.

Happy to see you back on RU-vid here for whatever you have for us

Welcome back 🎉

I'm so glad that you're back! I have missed you and love all of your content! Welcome back!❤ Alicia ❤

It's really good to see you Alisha ❤

So glad you are back to yourself. We love you, and I am so glad you are well.

Hi Alicia. Glad to see you back on RU-vid. Congratulations on 100k❤❤😊

We missed you sugar but we understand! Love you and your little Boo Boo 💕 rooting for you queen !

So glad you're back❤

Congratulations on 100k, wishing nothing but the best for you🥰

Welcome back it is so nice to see you you have really been missed glad that you are doing well see you next time take care and God bless

So glad you are doing well.

Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈🍾 missed you too 🤗

Welcome back! Love your channel❤

Welcome back.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Welcome back!🎉

Welcome back ❤🙏🏽

Welcome back! 🥰

❤ So good to see you! Happy New Year 2024!!

Welcome Back!💕

Keep doing what brings you Joy and always take God with you ❤❤

Heyyy Alisha I missed you and Val, but I completely understand about life lifing! Please continue to take care of your mental health and finding your peace. You have been a blessing to us by sharing a little if your testimony. I’m here for you when ever you post a video.❤God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

You are an absolutely amazing mother to such an amazing little girl. Both you and Valerie are both beyond blessed to have one another❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Yes, we really miss our girls😢

Alisha your presence is so greatly needed on this platform. Thank you for sharing your journey ❤

Reset is good for us. ❤

Missed you girl! ❤

Thank you for the update. I see you on IG from time to time. Glad to know you’re doing well.

Beautiful vlog.❤ And you are amazing.

Welcome back Beautiful Lady! I really enjoy your content and will start following u on IG. (Just not a Tik Tok fan). Your baby is so blessed to have YOU as her mom! We know she’s your WHOLE ENTIRE WORLD! ❤ And Sis, your positive vibe is always appreciated and loved by your followers-family!! 🤗

Glad you are back, and you and Val are doing well. We all need a break sometime.

We appreciate your presence!! And understand that you have to take life for what it is, work on what you can and continue to press forward. You are gracefully working on you and we appreciate that!! Give us what you can when you can and don’t worry about the rest!!! But yes I agree with the other ladies ytube is so much more better to watch than the other socials!! Keep growing and glowing!! You’re amazing!!

Alicia I love you content. I know how you feel. It will get better.

Yayyyyyy a vlog from my fav youtuber🎉🎉🎉

Stay true to you sis. We miss you but also understand that you gotta take care of self first ❤

Hey sissy pooh💝.....glad to hear from you and know you are doing okay....More Blessings to you Queen🌟🌟🎗🎗Keep pushing...

You were truly missed ❤. May God give you beauty for your ashes 🙏🏾.

I am truly inspired by you. 💛

Hey pretty lady how are you doing I am well watching replay love your missed you glad you are back congratulations 🎉 you deserve it you are great mom strong independent praise God thanks for sharing blessings 🙏❤️

My mom is visiting in March thanks for the restaurant recommendations. I follow you on IG so I don’t really feel like you’ve been gone, but I love to see your beautiful home.

Congratulations Alisha on hitting 100k on Instagram 🎉❤

Yess a new video!! 🤩

Here from the begining always loved your honesty.

I love your content and follow you on IG, Tik Tok and here. As long as you and Val are happy, that’s all that matters. ❤❤

Glad you are doing OK.. Your demeanor reminds me so much of myself. I'm the first to say I am my hardest critic. I'm applaud you for taking steps to prioritize yourself! It's important to celebrate ourselves and our needs just as much as we celebrate others. Keep it up!!!!!

blessings 🙂 long time no see, good to see you back

I wished I would have traveled more with my son when he was younger. I know I wasted so much time in a bad relationship, and if I could've told my younger self one thing at that time, it would've been to get away, travel, travel, travel.

Hey girl how have you been we miss you God bless you it's good to see you again ❤

I thought about you a few days ago…and here you are!! If I think of lottery numbers will they are too? Welcome back sis!

Hi Alisha I was just thinking I haven’t seen you in a while glad your back

I missed u🎉🎉🎉

Missed seeing you. I’ll have to follow your IG and Tik Tok. Glad you’re doing better. Continued blessings to you 🙏🏽😊

You look very happy. Live the hair

Hey Alisha!! I enjoyed the video. Congrats on reaching 100K on Instagram. It's really helpful. I'm just curious as to what makes you feel as though you are and label yourself as the Black Sheep of your family? I would have NEVER guessed that as your positive within your family dynamic. Please explain how you came to this conclusion? Is it something that you yourself feel internally due to certain circumstances like being divorced and the only one not married out of you and your sisters? Do you feel that you're the Black Sheep being that you are now raising your beautiful daughter in a single parent household? I'm beyond curious, because I can't phantom you being labeled as the Black Sheep of the family being that you and your sisters are ALL super successful and accomplished and especially with you making things happen for you and Val all on your own within your household. On top of that, your family appear to be so very close-knit and supportive. I would have never guessed that there would be any Black Sheeps in your family....especially not within your immediate family (parents and siblings). Honestly, I have certain feelings that come up here and there when I'm around my immediate family that have caused me to conclude that I must be the Black Sheep. So, I'm so interested to know why you feel that way.

I went through a bad break up as well that caused me anxiety I call him the mistake of my life and we dated after my divorce then next I met the love of my life and it is all well I promise you will meet your next and he will be the BEST to you and Val ❤ he loves cherished me and my boys .

welcome back. Mental hair is important. Where you got the round table and chairs if you don’t mind sharing

Glad ur back!! The music playing in the video is nice can u send the link to it? So glad u came back to you tube land! 😊

Hi Alisha 👋🏽. Good to see you again! I remember you saying in one of your videos that you like to listen to Gospel music and sermons when you’re in the house moving around. I have a Gospel song that I think you will love. The singer is Anita Wilson. The song is More Than Anything. I love that song and I think you will too ❤.

18:39 you are Sis! And don’t feel guilty for not having a 9-5 job! This is for you. Period💚😀!

Welcome back Alisha!! What music was that on your video? It’s so calming 😊

Hey sis love your hair cut looks good on you loving being single life take your time relationship thanks for sharing blessings 🙏

Hey Alisha 😊

I miss you❤

11:14 Yes, I don’t feel Like I’ve missed much because I’m connected to you on IG.

You was definitely missed we need some regular uploads even if it’s not long lol

I am the black sheep in my family. So I totally understand how you felt.

Just come back once a month or here and there😊

OMG! I said to myself, what's new with Alisha! And BAM, you uploaded a few hours ago. Welcome back!

Hi ❤❤❤

Welcome back girl!!! We missed you!!! I SALUTE you for putting yourself FIRST and doing what was best for you! I also commend you for your transparency and vulnerability!! 🤍🫶🏽🤍

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Let me get my behind up!🤣🤣🤣🤣

you are so beautiful in that hairstyle