Living Alone Diaries: How I Am Coping With Loneliness Post Divorce (watch this if you feel lonely) 

At least you have a cat, I come home to pure silence, today it was so deafening I had a meltdown. Thank you for your vulnerability ❤️

I was always someone who felt I needed someone to keep me company and after moving abroad I have learned to love spending time with myself and my thoughts. You learn so much more about yourself and are able to connect with your inner being. I love that you’re documenting these visual diaries, you will be able to look back on these videos and see how far you’ve come as well as help others heal that may be feeling the same🫶🏽

I found you and this video today after searching "living alone after a breakup". I really understand how you're feeling. I've lived with my ex since I was 19. We have been together 13 years. I have never lived alone. I always thought I was so comfortable in my own company but the idea of being completely alone terrifies me. This is my first video I've watched of you and I'm excited to watch more to see how you're coping because I feel so hopeless right now. Thank you for sharing this. It's helping me a lot.

For two years I have been FAKING life! I keep busy from sun up to sun down, but I have NEVER stopped missing … I was in a committed relationship for nearly 35 years! I don’t think that I will ever get better.

Two things stuck out to me in this video. First you were saying how lonely you'll feel in the winter - I know its easier said than believing but remember God is always with you. That being said secondly, I really thought hard about the part you said about families or couples you see and the decisions they've made. I'm married and have a baby and there are days I still feel lonely since my husband works and I care for my son most of the time. It's intentional decisions made to go out and do things but just because you see a couple together doesn't mean they don't feel lonely. Sending you love and prayers - your videos are really making a difference in my life. I'm also from Ohio too so it feels like talking to a friend. 💞

I think my biggest issue is just wanting someone to talk to at times. Like good convos. Or wanting someone to share my triumphs and joys with. The hard times can be hard but I find that nobody to share these joys with is even harder. (Even just on a friend level). I guess as far as going out alone, I enjoy it. I’ve been around so many toxic and annoying and pushy or selfish people that I was feeling relieved that I didn’t have anyone pestering me or dragging me into places and activities that I didn’t even enjoy or being negative or not having to worry that the other person wants to leave early or whatever. And I’ve also been surrounded by people I couldn’t relate to or connect with and have felt more alone surrounded by them than when I was by myself. One of my fave things personally tho is going on thrift store “treasure hunts.”

This video gave me a little smile and some hope. I genuinely was on the verge of tears, and truthfully it happens to me a lot more than I care to admit as a man. I'm rooting for you to master this stage of Life. Just as you said I wouldn't wish those feeling upon anyone. You are more amazing than you realize, and no one out there can fulfill and love yourself better than you can.

It is a weird feeling after being with someone for so long. I found myself being incredibly anti social this winter, which was odd because I definitely wanted to be around people but also didn't at the same time. It was a strange conflict I ran into.

Lauren…not yet. It’s not your time (not at this time of your video). You are/were still healing. Family, conquering loneliness, releasing suppressed anger…this will all become easier to manage and it will allow you to feel less crazy. I know, I had the same journey many years ago. Many Blessings 🌻

Dear Sister, i feel your the feelings in your soul. Praying for sisters like you, me and the countless others, praying they find strength and comfort....

So excited to spend the fall and winter with you! 🍂 ❄️

Its really comforting to know that there are other people going through things like me. Thank you for sharing, hope life treats you well

I’m so glad I discovered your channel! I’m also learning how to live alone and I really struggle at times. All of my friends have moved away since I graduated college. I feel like there’s so many things I should know how to do but I just don’t. I recently had to isolate because I got Covid and your content made me feel less lonely. Thank you for making these videos!

I totally understand you and the feelings you explain.❤ I am also after a divorce and it is not easy to beat alone the worst days and the deep lonely moments. It is also not easy to to live together with a disrespect of some people.

I’m so glad you are making RU-vid videos again!! Yes, take us with you for all the fall things 🥰

Omg the wee steps onto the bed for your cat ❤

Im glad that you were brave enough to share your vulnerabilities on here. Im in the process of a divorce & my husband left the house 5-6 days ago. I have children & struggle to take them to do things alone. You accomplished your goal. I feel less lonely tonight & slightly inspired to live life- alone or not.

Thank you for your videos and for sharing your feelings so openly.... , it is really helping me through my divorce because you can't always share about those feelings with family and friends

love your videos going thru very dark times. crazy how most of us want somebody to be with

Thank you, I could use this inspiration

I am so glad with your content. I am currently experiencing this thing and it scares me so much, but because of this video it kind of tells me that it's okay. I'll be okay...Just like you I also feel lonely but happy but sad I don't know mixed emotions seeing complete families with the parents and children.like how did they do that? I mean they're lucky❣️❣️ but I'll try to be okay on my own now😌 ... Maybe someday I'll meet someone who will choose me, but first I need to choose my self.

Personally, I avoid being so isolated in public. It's not safe. #nohate

Hey girl, do you mind sharing what camera you use ?? The quality of this video was so amazing. Sending love from PA 🫶🏽💕

hi lovely! wondering where you bought the cute sleeping set you’re wearing in the beginning of the video? x

The loneliness is very hard i am very thankful for my dog mack it definitely takes time to over

Nice video 👍🏾🔥

Ugh..Im feeling the fall and winter thing so much...We HAVE to learn how to give ourselves the warmth and cozy love.

I'm going through this now, aged 29. First divorce papers came through today :( How are you coping now a year and a half later?

Thank you

As a man , i just recently seperated from my wife. Im lonely as well.

What book were you reading at the 20 minute mark? 💕

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Don't go hiking alone in the forest especially as a woman.

i love your content SO much, it gives me pure joy seeing you living life by yourself (because i’ve been feeling lonely lately so it’s helping me a lot 🫶🏼🤍)

As someone who is coming out of narcissistic abuse from someone I was in a relationship ship with for three years this hits home so hard. With three little kiddies to look after and also feeling all these types of things and learning to be alone your videos are bringing me so much comfort and weirdly enough, don’t make me feel so alone anymore. Thankyou 🤍