Living at Peace with Difficult People (Part 1) - Brian Noble

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Pastor Brian Noble, CEO of Peacemaker Ministries, has extensive experience in conflict coaching and mediation. He wants Christians to understand we live in a fallen world where conflict is common and reconciliation is only possible because of the Gospel - that Jesus died for our sins to bring us into reconciliation with God and others. Brian acknowledges that reconciliation can be very difficult, and he described a series of “courageous attitudes” whereby we can move toward reconciliation with other people. He also talks about no longer counting the other person’s offenses and seeing them as “brand-new” in Jesus. Brian shares stories about conflict in his own marriage, how he was able to reconcile with his father growing up, and stories about people he’s counseled through reconciliation.
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4 апр 2022

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@tracyhoney268 2 года назад

Thank you! Recently belittled and scorned in my prayer group and then tattled on to pastor. Never been spoken to so arrogantly or with such hostility and ive been in the church for 30 years. I took several nights to be able to sleep again and stop churning

@theronelletomeraasen8461 2 года назад

Sorry that happened to you. I know how you feel.

@mazinheatwole1907 2 года назад

You, sadly, are not alone.

@kathybuckley2338 2 года назад

I left my church...I was there 5 yrs. I discovered there was clicks I was blinded to...I was very naive!!!! rather walk with Jesus alone 😔

@mischelledotson4197 2 года назад

I’m so sorry you’ve experienced such a horrible expierience my prayers are with you 🥺❤️ Take heart, Jesus knows how you feel and is with you ❤️😊

@sararapp9798 2 года назад

So sorry 🙏

@cordelia81 2 года назад

well, Jesus knew how to deal with conflicts because HE has all authority in

@GailNixon-fc6pq 2 года назад

Much needed in this day and age. 🙏🙏🙏 Thank You

@atenas80525 2 года назад

background resentment - that underlying, unresolved conflict, crossing of boundaries

@geraldstrayton2545 2 года назад

Thank you for this message! How true your words ring in my ears! Love and forgiveness is a choice we can make in Christ!! Blessings in abundance!!

@daphnekivinen9482 2 года назад

It's been particularly out there since covid. Impatience, rudeness, self-absorbed, and just plain nasty! I have felt that there are clicks in churches especially if someone has been a member since day one of the church. Some old members just don't embrace new people like you think they should.

@drkiehl9527 3 месяца назад

So difficult dealing with mentally ill/narcissist and in a family business deal. I pray every day. Thank you for your help.

@atenas80525 2 года назад

Jesus was the master of "loving truth"

@cindirose3390 Год назад

Great point about delaying attention to problems only delays God's assistance to Fix the temporal aka carnal difficulties

@denicehaley9902 2 года назад

Thank you, Pastor Nobel!

@tracy6734 2 года назад

I needed to hear this today. TY

@TheDoriette 2 месяца назад

Thank you.❤

@conniesagredo5316 2 года назад

Thank you for that message it was surely meaningful for especially me my son doesn't talk to me I feel like a fool always letting him know I love him when he refuses to speak to me I guess I'll have to be the one that loves the most

@focusonthefamily 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, Connie. Please know that you and your son are in our prayers. If you'd like to pray along with a caring staff member about this situation, don't hesitate to call 1-800-A-FAMILY.

@t505beauty6 7 месяцев назад

Lord they are not my child but yours 💗 game changer

@nccrchurchunusual7990 2 года назад

"...this life is like a tent, not a nuclear safe bunker" great analogy

@atenas80525 2 года назад

Forgive them Father, for they know not what they do

@cphaleiellc 2 года назад

What a timely message! Thank you for this. I will definitely be adding this to my library.

@jesusfreak316 2 года назад

Facts 👏❤️✝️🙏

@olafpamela 2 года назад

Yes me too😔🙏🏻❤

@freebird6832 2 года назад

Same here

@skyjust828 2 года назад

It's important for parents to "discuss" things they may have differences of opinions in at least earshot of choldren. My parents were separated around 7 yrs total when I was young. I never saw them argue or even discuss anything. I grew up never to this day without the tools to speak to any of my 4 husbands. I couldn't get any of them to stop beating me each time when I left they couldn't understand why. I couldn't explain that either. 😪

@paulaboshoff1700 2 года назад

Precious Woman I pray that the healing love of Jesus Christ minister to your broken heart and spirit and that you will realize that His love for you makes you the most worthy being ever! Much love - Sisters in pain

@atenas80525 2 года назад

Too often adults look like overgrown 10 year olds

@ChereeLS 2 года назад

This was so timely for me to hear and practice TODAY!! I would like to hear more about the how-to/examples/etc of the 'whoever pays the debt' practice, please.

@christineskead1663 Год назад

Very interesting,⛺ deep stuff here... THANK YOU.

@patricelauverjon3177 2 года назад

LIVING AT PEACE! Pilgrims walking towards Spiritual Sites can just aim at getting there, travelling, or can associate walking with journeying as in Stations of the Cross or other Spiritual mental or physical interactions. It is a mistake then to match, for example, a Religion with the type of walk. Since Sacred Psychology considers paths towards one's truth or Faith, it may not be fair to dump the baby and the bath water. It is fantastic to reach a point where we can very much relate to views and feelings that deeply touch our buttons and it requires openness to appreciate a variety of both lateral (stopping on the way at given opportunities) and vertical activities aiming more directly at a goal. A tree cannot be fully determined by the trunk alone. Each of us has been given, more than in the past, a wider vision of the world that can allow us to fully use, enjoy and sustain the Gratitude associated with a feeling of Oneness to the fuller potential that is made available to us!

@yamicanada Год назад

❤❤❤

@onecharitywalker 2 года назад

What do you do when a Father is constantly provoking their Child? The Child is trying their best to avoid conflict but the Father keeps pushing them to Sin.

@geraldstrayton2545 2 года назад

Choose to love them… it is always a choice… our nature is to repay unkind with unkind, specially our family, but choose to love!

@lovealways1257 2 года назад

Maybe speak to the parent about this with love and respect and the Word, but don't expect change in the short-term. The Holy Ghost has to do His work. And care for yourself, talk to Christian counsellor/supportive and trustworthy church member. And keep giving thanks no matter what, speak over yourself, confuse the enemy, we are a peculiar people.

@battlevain Год назад

This is abuse. Leave or avoid such cruel people.

@ica-do9ij Год назад

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@ST52655 7 месяцев назад

One of my sisters has been extremely toxic, to the extent that every single member of our family has cut off communication with her. I do not feel the least bit guilty because she has hurled false accusations at all of us and has burned all of her bridges. She continues to lie about me on Facebook. I know this because my youngest daughter is still “friends” with her and has told me. I have tried several times to reconcile with her, but she loves sewing discord and spewing hateful rhetoric at me. The last email we had was about salvation. Even though we had godly parents who raised us up in Church in the fear and admonition of the Lord, she has chosen to be bitter and leave her Christian faith. When I shared with her how to get saved and that Jesus is the only way, she blew up at me and quit emailing me, but continued to lie about me publicly. This is not about irreconcilable differences, because I have an unsaved brother that I communicate with on a regular basis. It’s about me being verbally abused at every turn and deciding that I don’t need to subject myself to It anymore.