Living & Dating As A Trans Woman | 4 People Explain 

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When you realize Tinder has a RU-vid Channel.

And yet trans people are banned on tinder constantly lol all my trans friends talk about how every time they make a profile dudes report them and they get banned like crazy

To be honest even if you put trans in your bio people don't read bio's and when you confirm with them your trans they replay with, your trans? I'm like yes it says in my bio I'm not saying everyone don't read bio's but a lot of people assume your the one based on your pictures you have on your profile page

When tinder doesn’t stop men for reporting transwomen for a “fake profile” lol im done

I came across a trans woman on a dating platform. I politely turned her down and appreciated her being up front. She will find someone who doesn't mind dating a trans person. Honesty is so important for dating.

I find it ironic that Tinder made this video at all, considering that when I attempted to use the app I was banned before I even got to finish setting up my account, let alone make any connections. I appealed the decision on March 17th, 2022 and have received no response, other than a request received email with a case number.

I'm a transgender women I've been struggling my whole life hiding from my family and friends. But I couldn't take the pain in my heart no more. So on 7/31/20 I started my HRT. And now I've been reborn.

As a straight dude, it's always interesting to learn new things, thanks for the info (:

Thank you tinder for making this video, but I’m still banned for being trans

The lady with the golden dress and the silver hair 😍😍

well well well, how the tables have turned... tinder acts like they accept us but tell me why everytime i make an account, i’m BLOCKED THE NEXT DAY! just because guys report our pages for being trans, tinder agrees with them and deletes our accounts?? that’s messed up and need to be fixed!

My trams guy hormones are screaming ✨ P R E T T Y L A D I E S ✨ (I'm gender fluid but probably when I'm older and move out of the house I'm in, ill come out officially as a demi boy)

Yall literally block people on tinder for being trans so i dont wanna see you post this stuff keep the same energy

Thank you for such an amazing opportunity! I really felt welcomed by the crew and was happy to tell my part of the story! Projects like this do make a difference ☝🏻

I am confused about how to sound like a woman and how to feel more confident to wear womens clothes I like to have both styles of clothing on me just in case I I can't get out of my front door without pulling back of stairs just to change back into men's clothes and I don't know how to face please I cry I can't even take baby steps on becoming a woman I still feel trapped in myself no matter how much I try I know how much I want to be a woman I just can't let it out I've tried sounding like a woman but I sound like a squeak none of this will help me because I have no friends or support that in a cage off some sort😭 all I have is my mum all my family just wot me gon right now I just feel like no one and just don't know how to bring myself back up

I dream of a day where everybody is free to be who they truly are without fear. I myself identify as a straight cis man but I am also attracted to trans women. I find trans women to be attractive because they are women and I love women. Being attracted to trans women doesn't make me gay because they're women.

The girl with silver hair has so much wisdom, and eloquent. I love her! EDIT: seriously, people who argue down the thread need to chill out. Why can’t we just have more appreciation for fellow human beings and have the common decency to respect each other.

I actually feel bad for them. I hope they find love.

How can one be “non binary” and a woman at the same time? Edit: July 2021- I now understand and respect this identity!

Alice is gorgeous. Would take her out on a date in a heartbeat

Trans people are beautiful and they deserve love and respect just like everyone else does

yayyyy!! I love this sm!! I’m in a show with Ashley, and getting to know her and learning more about the trans experience as a cis actor has been amazing!!❤️

Could never do wigs. They just felt awkward. I've always had a soft feminine voice. So I had it easy transitioning. As for dating. I got involved with escort work. Did it w few years. However it has manipulated me in a way I find no passion in relationships. Dating is more of a transaction than bonding to me.

Beauty is Beauty all that matters is how someone makes you feel from a straight male

I would be all over Monroe and Alice, so feminine and pretty, total dolls.

Now do "what it's like being an asian man on tinder"

Me, scrolling down to the comments knowing damn well what im gonna see: (-_-)

The only issue I had and still have is that when discovering/knowing whom you really are. And knowing that family members will not accept you for whom you are as a person is very sexiest, degrading and so many other words I cant think of right. See I'm hitting 32 years old and I knew I wasn't the same as others I was 100% different I loved girly feminine things but I wasnt at the time fully aware cause the family I had was or claimed to be very conservative cause like when I told my biological mother at a time I needed to come out she shunned me she was like (you are a man not a woman deal with it) I blame her lack of wanting to have an open mind about personality, mentality vs physicality. Yes all transwomen know that we will never be seen as like an actual woman and in every other womans eyes. They'll say well you cant have periods or you cant give birth to a child so you'll never know what it means to be a woman. With that point of view/aspect in your mind you are 100% correct but at the same time lol I gotta say you are wrong exhibit a when a person goes into surgery for heart transplant they go by what's called an organ doner. What makes anyone think specific organs are salvageable and others arent. Yes we may not have the same time of bone structure but in all honesty everyone's bone structure is 100% different. Transwomen are just as vilified as societal genderd women. We all didnt wish to me born this way so dont victimizes us. Cause I'm all honesty that's very very disrespectful and yes I may not have a pretty feminine face but jesus christ cut me some slack I am a woman just like any other woman. What really gets is when you meet the most manliest woman but yet shes still called miss or ma'am and shes very butch. When you see a transwoman dressed all pretty omg sound the alarm I've also just started hormones and I feel alittle bit abrupted cause most men just keeps their emotions bottled up and women dont lol ever since I start my hormones my behavior and attitude has changed for the good and to others for the bad in their eyes I've been on estradiol for 5 months and spironolactone 6 months. I feel more comfortable in my own reality and it's all thanks to my hormones. I wouldnt be here if it wasnt for them cause living as something I'm not I rather die and alott dont understand that so I live as my true self and I couldn't be more happier. I rather be someone I am and have people hate me vs live as someone I'm not and have people love me.

I got blocked and unblocked for many times in tinder because my profile got reported alot by users and the reason is because I stated that I'm transgender in my profile. There are ton of men who are swipped without even bothered to read profile then get mad later or send you hate message before reporting you. You can unmatch if you want, dating is a freedom world where you are free to have your preferences, but reporting profile because they are transgender is ridiculous. If you can't see transwoman as woman then it is fine but you gotta realised that we are human who have same right with you to be there. So thank you Tinder for making this video.

Hit like if you are straight but decided to learn about the LGBTQ community out of respect?❤❤❤❤ I truly want to get to know them so I can at least understand some of the struggles they go through with the society. I think you all are loved and God bless you

**Tinder:** “4 people explain” **Tinder Again:** “only shows 3 people in the thumbnail” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

The woman in gold looks beautiful

Literally I'm currently banned on Tinder, Grindr, and any apps affiliated with said apps. I reached out to both teams with these concerns and was immediately shut down. It's more then just the people on the apps, but the algorithm made by the binary. Now, because I'm banned on these dating apps I can't meet people or go on dates at all now. ITS BEEN OVER 6 MONTHS :/ Guys don't just come up with clear interest in you in person when your different. Most of them need a internet wall to hide behind so I'm SOL. Lol

I for one have always believed in inclusivity. Unfortunately, I am a bit late for this age-wise. If I was younger, I would love to date the young lady in the brown cardigan. She's intelligent and she looks great!

I can't stop looking at Alice's makeup. Her highlight is captivating. She looks beautiful.

Alice is gorgeous. Would definitely take out on a date.

As a trans woman I'm happy to watch this video and to see more beautiful trans girls xx

"The world will come to you" yes girl

these women looks so gorgeous compare to me....oh yeah I'm a trans man NO COMPARISATION!!!

Trans women make great girlfriends.

People are people.. So long as we treat others the way we want to be treated and behave with respect.. ( thinking of how our actions affect others around us) I see no issue with simply being ourselves. I was cheated out of well over 2 decades of my true self because of people's blind judgment and my parent's mentality.. Just be and let be and only judge when it is clear that some deserve to have a problem....

the women are beautiful, u can’t even tell if they transgendered or not like I’m a girl and I look trash

Love watching Alice

I really feel bad for trans girls that don't have the resources to pass. ;-;

Funny how you made this video tinder yet you delete so many trans girls on there for getting wrongly reported ?

A bit of advice for transgenders when they are dating: Disclose this information before the date! You will save yourself a lot of grief from yourself. You have to be fair to your date, as well as yourself. If you engage in any sexual activity, even a simple kiss, with a man or woman, that does not know that you are trans, you could seriously get physically hurt. Your date might feel deceived and their response could be harmful.

This is making super emotional. In tears. The trials we all go through. I'm not Trans but I feel for these beautiful women who stand in their truth. 💚💛❤️

Girl in the gold dress and silver hair looks so beautiful 🤩

Thank you for this video as I travel and learn a lot about people as my Chinese wife & I travel to Thailand where gender is not an issue. I also have some family that are transgender but I still respect their choice in life. Who am I to judge another person? Between the gender there is a lot of gray area, but the key is to be kind to one another. Take care.

All 4 women are gorgeous and beautiful, so refreshing to see trans women expressing themselves in such a positive way, we need more of this with so much negativity around trans issues.

The little Asian one is sooooooooo adorable!!

Being a T woman, you can't understand what it's like, unless you are one. And this can be frustrating when you have people treating you with such deranged mindsets, stereotypes, and discrimination. It has nothing to do with kids or tricking you, it's in our body image and soul of what makes us feel good, comforting, and to be liberated in that body. We feel trapped in stupid role models, but transforming ourselves into what we are attracted to, while being fully conscious of both perspectives, and that becomes super elating and free.

My whole family labeled me a freak and banned me out forever.

4 beautiful, brave women. I admire all of them for living their truth. I'm just starting to live mine too.

Trainwomen are NOT women! They are transwomen and that is ok.

I met my best friend, who's a trans girl, two years ago on Tinder. I'm a trans boy, and she was the first trans friend I ever had.

This is so amazing to see my trans sisters talking about our issues in such a positive light 💕💕

Does Tinder even have a trans option?

For y’all who are anti trans/lgbt, this comments section is not a breeding ground for hate and misinformation. Trans people don’t need your validation or opinion to exist.

I'm a trans woman and a lesbian, 35 years old, and a year into HRT. I wasn't a big dater before I started transitioning; most of the girls I dated were back in high school, during my boymode years. Now that I'm a year into living my truth, I'm thinking of getting myself out there but don't know where to start. Dating other women as a woman is new to me. I'm navigating without a map, compass, or GPS here. Never used any apps; always preferred doing things in-person (it gets me out of the house). Don't have any human kids but I do have a feathered child.

I’m trans, and I wouldn’t ever use this feature because my profile would be banned so fast🤦🏼‍♀️

As a transgender woman i had encounters with straight men. Even after all was said and done. He wasn't any less masculine than before had been introduced. Much more polite than gay men in my eyes. Also less aggressive on an intimate level. So i can relate with the straight transgender woman about not wanting to be labelled as a gay man. Because that would feel awkward eloping as two guys.

I’m a trans woman. I was born anatomically male and that will never change no matter what surgery or hormones I take. I’ve been on hormones since I was a teen and I’m 33 but I’ll always be a *trans* woman. I love my identity and transitioning made me feel happier. I love my life and I’m aware I cannot ever truly be a natural born woman.

what actually makes woman a woman? what makes me a woman if not my vagina and XX chromosomes? isn't it sexist to say that there's something more behind "being a woman"? because it's sexist to say that dresses and makeup have anything to do with women. women are not obligated to wear dresses and makeup and men can do this, which doesn't make them any less of a men. like, i've always answered to stupid people with gender stereotypes instead of actual brains that your vagina or lack of one doesn't make you obligated to look or behave in certain way. that woman is still a woman no matter how she looks like. she's still a woman because she has XX chromosomes. and my vagina is the only thing that I need to prove I'm a woman. but then suddenly it isn't. it's suddenly transphobic and not enough. if my vagina isn't the proof then what the hell is? maybe I'm not a woman then? please, answer me what makes someone a woman. feeling like one? what does it mean - feeling like one? what if I don't feel anything special expect for my sex biology??? please answer me in a non-sexist way. because wearing dresses does not make you a woman. wearing make-up does not make you a woman. loving pink color (what a stupid stereotype) does not make you a woman. what does, then? it's not like feeling like a horse will make me a horse. not trying to be rude, just very confused. gender is such a stupid thing. why should it even exist and make people uncomfortable with themselves. can't we just treat sex like skin color (thing that we didn't choose and can't change) and don't let it affect our personalities and behaviours in any way? can't we just agree that man can wear dresses if he wants and he's totally ok and valid and not bully him? can we just stop giving gender to clothes, colors, interests and hobbies, cos they DON'T HAVE ONE?

Shawty in the gold dress is OMG gorgeous and mad passable.

I’m a straight male but I’d date a few of these ladies 🥰

I didn't even realize this was tinder until reading the comments

@0:11 Transgender woman, noun, a person who was born a male/boy (not assigned) with xy chromosomes at birth who later decided he’s a girl/woman. That’s the correct definition, the doctors didn’t “assign” your gender at birth based on a quota or their feelings lol they saw your genitalia when your mum was around 21 or so weeks pregnant or if it was kept a secret or your mum didn’t do a scan, the doctor/nurse will know when your born based on (again) your genitals. Language is important and words have meaning.

Be who you wanna be i applaud you all be proud of who you are hold your head high an never let anyone ruin your true spirit

I’m a straight man & I would like to to date a transgender woman but do not know how to go about it

I just want to be a more understanding person and something I learned today is that on many dating apps trans people get singled out and reported. It makes me glad for apps like taimi and stuff

hey ive been thinking about getting the transition done im wondering about my voice can i get it to be more feminine whether thought surgery or training ect? im from the uk if that helps

Have you seen the horrible transphobic comments on the Adidas “I’m Possible” commercial?

I love that they’ve found themselves and they are so confident in their own skin. It’s honestly so inspiring

Sex estimation is the process of assessing whether skeletal remains are biologically male or female. Sex estimation is vital in establishing an accurate biological profile from the human skeleton, as sex influences the analysis of other elements (e.g., stature and age). Sex estimation is based on the premise that male and female skeletal morphology differs in size and shape. This difference is referred to as sexual dimorphism. Practitioners distinguish between estimating sex by visually examining skeletal features (nonmetric methods) versus estimating sex using equations based on skeletal dimensions (metric methods). Experienced practitioners can quickly and easily assess sex by examining nonmetric traits, particularly those of the pelvis.

Love this video 🙃

Imagine going home with one of them and then realising what was happening....no thanks!

Alice got 11” hands and a 6” dingdong

Thank you so much for ur awesome stories

If trans women are women, then why are they called trans women? This is a general question and I'm not meaning to offend anybody.

This is beautiful, with a group of incredibly beautiful people! (Especially my good friend Ashley, who is one of the smartest, kindest, bravest, most talented, and, yes, most beautiful people I know!) Thank you for elevating Trans lives!

I'm a trans woman too. Why are they always so much prettier than me?

I got to know a transgender woman as a friend 16 years ago and it was a very mind opening experience. I never had prejudice thoughts and never gave the idea any thoughts. I now have a lot of respect for anyone who is a little bit different

Became a Tinder member a few years back..tried searching but never found a transgirlfriend...is this the banning thing that's happening? Might explain it

I'm a transman:)

Being a woman is more than cosmetics!

I'm literally like 2:22 seconds in the video and i see a comment saying tinder has a youtube so i look down at the channel name and my jaw drops

I love being a transWOMEN

Thanks I found my man there. And he known that I'm trans ;)

Cool people, I wish nothing but the best! ❤ Wpuld be interesting to talk to.

Identification doesn't mean anything, Male and female is ingrained in every single fiber in your bones your subjective conception of your identity doesn't change it.

thank you for this

I exclusively date transgender women, can't stand the prejudice and biases.

Thank you for this, the world needs it 🙌🏾🙌🏼🙌🏿🙌🏻

Does anyone know if Alice has a RU-vid channel? She so beautiful and I love her style.

«Be kind, Dont worry so much about gender». We should all be kind, but many people naturally cares about the gender. Most of the population are attracted to opposite gender. Or maybe both genders. The solution is not to say that people should not worry so much about gender. With that being said, I hope dating apps will be easier to use in the years to follow for Trans-people. I also think Trans-people should be open to the person they would like to date about their history of transitioning. I feel like the opposite part deserves to know, and hopefully they are perfectly okey with dating a Trans-person.

*Why is not on tinder option to search just and only for TRANSGENDER? (not transexual)*

All these women are so beautiful! (I don’t like all the hate this comment is getting, whether or not u agree with the scientifically proven fact that people can be transgender people still deserve respect. If they say they want to be seen as women you don’t have agree with it but you do need to have a base level of respect. Thank you)

Got into a stupid argument with my girlfriend about this shit….. now I’m single🤷🏻‍♂️