Bro I needed this video so much. I’ve been so insecure about myself and I hated myself because I thought I never looked good enough. Especially after I got a bad hair cut yesterday made me feel worse. But this video gave me a reality check and I realized I was living in a fantasy world created in my mind. Thanks chi ❤
blackpill ruined my mental health too. i care about my looks too much. my current girlfriend hit on me for 7 months before we were together and then after getting hitted on for a long time i was finally sure that she loved me and asked her out, she immediately accepted. she really loves me a lot but i cant love myself, i hate the way i look. i feel very uncomfartable everywhere because of my looks. and the thing is my looks arent bad at all but im not satisfied and feeling bad all the time. because of this reason i dont want to have kids right now. i dont know if i will change my mind in the future but right now i dont want to. having a girlfriend has nothing to do with your looks. yes you have more options if youre good looking but the thing is at the end of the day everyone has just one girlfriend :D. so it means there are always enough people for each other. i have a lot not good looking friends but they all have a girlfriend.
Bro good heart good personality matters but also good aesthetic matters.But don't let it consume you and your life.Just think yourself you'll level up your attractiveness.I think myself I'm average today I love myself and if luckily I got changed it is good for me.
Their girlfriend may be looking average and it is common for average and not so looking guys to still get gf but they will be mirror to themselves and date accordingly.Believe me even girls are scared to date out of league if one brave girl do dating handsome guy she maybe dating Nice guy or too good guy.Be a real man handle your life and reject below your rate unless they provide value for you.
I used to tell those people that's it's feminine to care so much about how you look. Sure we can take care it ourselves but trying to maximize everything is like being a women
Sorry dude, not all of us 8+ gigachads, that can dont worry about theirs looks and steel look awesome. And if u rnt 8+ gigachad... Well, u r underestimating how much great life experience u loose
Thank you for this video, internet is full of shit that can ruin a mind of young men. Please dont stop doing what you do because you give me hope that there is future for me out there
Yeah. Young minds must live by the rules and experiences of older generations. After all, in 30, and even 20... EVEN 10 years, nothing has changed. If relationships look like this in Disney movies, that's what they are. Good morning
Hope is double edge knife. What you have to realize in life is that nobody is coming to save you from anything. You are on your own. Hope alone does nothing. So instead of hoping for a savior go out and grind. Be consistent. And good things will come. Bad things will come as well. That's life.
My friend, as a massive autist, let me tell you: this problem can be overcome. Socializing is a skill like any other. Put your mind to learning it the same way you would with any other skill, and you will succeed. There are lots of tutorials regarding charisma right here on RU-vid, and after doing some research, you just go out there and force yourself. I believe in you.
@@theBenStrothmann I just found out about the whole mewing thing and its has just gotten worse. I've just watched this video again and I almost ended up crying. Honestly I am done with the internet, Just want to live carefree like it used to be I can't stand this anymore.
Facts bro. People trying to fit the 'golden mask' perfectly to look like... I dunno some fkn anime protagonist is just completely unnatural and simply wrong. We need to defend our minds from such toxic poisonous ideologies because in its own way this mindset is destroying lives for both men and woman. Keep spreading positive words brother.
Broo i freaking need this, i fall deep in looksmaxxing rabbithole and Began questioning my existence. I lost confidence i feel like i look like shit. I already have body dysmorphia from working out and all this looksmaxxing trend really drained my mental health. Broo like wtf im only 17
I have been following your content since January 2023 and holly moly I‘m amazed of how you developed. But also deeply greatful to have found your channel. You genuinely provide such great wisdom and hope for that is desperately needed in this hope deprived generation. Thank you 🙏
thanks for this man, all ive been worrying about is my hair for the past however the fuck knows long, it is time to accept what it is and work on myself from within.
I used to be just like this bro, mainly in late middle to early high (senior year now) where i was the most insecure. Although i eventually grew out of that mindset i still feel like i dont got a developed personality, even though i might. I think this is mainly due to the fact that im not 100% connected to people at school because i cant relate to them, as I'm on self improvement and away from the norm. Unsurprisingly this causes some anxiety, so everytime i talk to someone it feels like I kinda fake myself and restrict who i am just to look a certain way. For me this is one of the only long-lasting issues I've had.
I appreciate this video so much,and from your words i feel some viewpoints are similar to the stoicism which saved me from fire.And it's now to start stoicism again.Good for you .
I just stumbled upon your channel and I absolutely love watching the videos you produce, your're so down to earth and actually help people, making them feel better and carrying themselves with more confidence
thanks alot for making this video man it helped alot since i have been struggling alot with the way i look this past year and this video opened my eyes and changed that naivive mindset that i had . god bless you man 🤝
I can confirm that going to the gym, eating better and drinking more water will make you look better. you don't need to do the other things like that. I used to be cubby and simply loosing a bit of weight i made myself look just a bit better. so my moral is, clean up your diet and go to the gym.
1:11 fax cardio worked wayy more for me than “mewing” yet these red pill guys try to gaslight me into thinking otherwise. “You just didn’t do it long enough”😐
The 5 most important things you need to improve to make a better life is gym, healthy eating, reading, meditation and a martial art. Looksmaxxing is just some bs to make you more insecure about your looks. All this face hammering and other crap just to get 0.001% closer to the perfect face isn't worth it.
This really helped me. My face is round so i cant have a decent jawline even if i got jacked and i also dont have hunter eyes, but im working out to at least change what i can change and im starting to accept myself the way i am.
Hey, recently saw your No-fap Video and that has convinced me to completely quit my addiction with masturbation and 🌽🌽. Every time I get an urge, I remember your words I say to myself "I don't masturbate no more. I don't watch corn no more." Thank you for saving my life.
Yes, oh this Internet I wish everyone could just go outside and touch the grass. The people around you will love you. Well, of course, if you are 185cm+, not going bald, with perfect skin and a smile and other facial features, u r welcome
Bro thank you for this video.. Just like so many other guys that stumbled upon this video, I really needed this. All I have wanted is a girlfriend and I can't even interact with one without turning into a damn tomato because "I'm not good enough" or "I'm ugly AF". This is why social media isn't all its cracked up to be. It's evil. It's the goddamn devil manipulating you into believing your not worthy or your ugly or giving into your unwanted desire. Keep doing what you do. I believe you can help uplift so many people with your content! ☺❤🩹
looks are so overrated.....better behaviour can gain you more than better looks.....how you look doesnt matter much....how you behave matters much more.
I think this is the only video I don't agree with. Appearance is clearly the most important thing, even if a person exists to "like what I am" if I'm ugly they won't even want to know and know what I'm like. Another thing is, I've always been ugly, I've always tried to gain confidence and talk to people, improve my clothes and go to the gym and indeed things change, but only personally, the way I see myself. I've always been made and in my 20 years of life I've always been ignored and placed in the friendzone because of my looks. I don't have many friends, And I could go on and on, but I think that's enough to prove my point.
man I'm just 18 years old and i was ugly , i remember everyday i was telling my mom that I'm ugly and like you i was always friend zoned , i wished just a gf , but one day i realise that a lot of good looking girl are with ugly boy , even uglier than me, so man if u think u are ugly everybody will se u like this even if not but u will think that they see u as an ugly man , u just have to gain confidence i'm not saying that looks dont matter , but your personality your humour to matter ( i don't how to express my self cause i don't know how to speak english very well i'm morrocan) dont give up man ❤️
You don’t agree with me because of your own limiting beliefs. You’ve completely given up because the limited sample size of girls that you’ve met have friendzoned you - and you’re extending this to “every woman in the world thinks I am ugly”. Can you see how flawed this pattern of thinking is? Also, you’ve tried to go the gym and improve yourself, but it didn’t work? It sounds to me like you gave up. Did you build the best physique you possibly could? Have you done everything in your power to become a more powerful, attractive person? You haven’t. The only reason why you’ve given up is because you’re not willing to go through the pain of working on yourself. At 20 years old, you haven’t even completed your development as a man. What you do over the next 5 years: training, work ethic, introspection, self-improvement - will determine the person you will be at 25 years old. Do you want to sit around and complain that you’re ugly for the next 5 years? Or do you want to accept who you are and start working on yourself to give yourself the highest possible probability of finding someone who will love you? It’s too early to give up. You literally haven’t even tried. You’ve been friendzoned by a few girls and gave up. I’ve been friendzoned more times than you can imagine - those girls just weren’t the right ones for me. Every time you get friendzoned, think of it as a filtering process. You’re discarding all the wrong women and one day you’ll stumble upon the one for you. Getting friendzoned should be motivation for you to train harder, to become a better man. Not to sit around and complain. I promise you, complaining and giving up will not help your situation. If you want your outcomes to change, you must change.
@@chiyinde thanks for the text indeed and the suport you give to your subs. I've never given up, it's been more than a year that I've been going to the gym and I have a balanced diet, giving up has never been an option and of course I want to reach my maximum potential. I did talk about what my life was like as a 20-year-old person who was always ugly, I have no idea how things will happen in the future. But yes, your text was enlightening in some points, such as being placed in the friendzone. Thank you.❤️
yeah i dont get it man like look at michael b jordans face to me its honestly get in the gym for health and when your healthy youll look your best and your best is amazing.
@@Cosmicmoralesthe blackpill is the real redpill, just as you’ve stated redpillers live in “masculinity” fantasy, the reality in life is women very much care about looks.
mewing works tho, mouth breathers have underdeveloped jaws. my friend has small nostrils and are always clogged so he has always breathed through his mouth and he has a underdeveloped jaw. and the mewing tongue placement is where it should be normally anyway. its not like this superpower but its just the normal way of doing it
