Love Is Not Enough with couples therapist Shawn McBride | A Bit of Optimism

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Relationships are hard. No matter how much we like, respect, or love someone, conflict seems inevitable.
But even as we fight and disagree, we can also learn the skills we need to resolve our problems. For over two decades, Shawn McBride has helped thousands of couples do the work to strengthen their relationships. And he has tons of practical advice.
Shawn sat down with me to discuss the three biggest problems couples face, why I'm a huge fan of his Instagram, and how love can keep relationships afloat, but it's often not enough.
This...is A Bit of Optimism.
For more on Shawn and his work, check out:
www.couplescounselingcenter.org/
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Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together.
Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do.
Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and The Infinite Game.
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Start With Why: simonsinek.com/books/start-wi...
Find Your Why: simonsinek.com/books/find-you...
Leaders Eat Last: simonsinek.com/books/leaders-...
Together is Better: simonsinek.com/books/together...
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16 июн 2024

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@lifetools-help8017 Месяц назад

I agree with Shawn 100%. My husband and I have learned the Heavenly Blessings that have and continue to come as he gives me the love, respect, communication, understanding, validation and so on, that I need. I have joy in expressing and admiring his many wonderful talents, characteristics, wisdom, communication skills, nuturing and loving nature and so on. In more words, we are each other's biggest cheerleaders, best friends, trustworthy, kind and honest. Excellent video!

@sarahalexander9243 Месяц назад

Simon my absolute favorite part of your podcast is when you bring out the common thread that ties your guest's favorite childhood memory and their favourite accomplishment in their area of work. Your ability to tease it apart and find that bottomline is SO cool. This guest said "Simon you are so wise"!! I echo that to you... Simon you are SO wise!!

@unityonenessify 2 месяца назад

Thanks Simon for hosting this speaker. Wonderful!

@visualsstudios Месяц назад

Shawn and Simon, thank you for this powerful conversation!

@dkgilmore8 12 дней назад

Thank you both for this powerful and insightful conversation.

@cartoonskpop3075 Месяц назад

Saying sorry is such a "basic" thing but this talk made me realise just how much I got worse in it since the time I was a kid. And I realised my problem for apologising was the acceptance that I just did what I did, the fact I just hurt someone I so deeply cared about and that it was my fault, that I thought I was in a right, but there is noone in the right or everyone in the right when it comes to fighting. Because I myself did not want to realise what I just did I was reluctant to apologise and became much more defendant of my actions instead of simply humbling myself down.

@impactmakerstribe Месяц назад

Love can bring people together but to stay together , it's helpful to share similar goals and values.

@gnxk1854 Месяц назад

Thank you for bringing this kind of conversation.

@maurizionepi3331 Месяц назад

This conversation it’s one of the best pieces that I ever heard, it so enriched and hopefull that made me cry

@impactmakerstribe Месяц назад

Wisdom at its best , great conversation

@olgamurguia4476 Месяц назад

Gracias Simon por presentarnos a Shawn. Hermosa conversación entre dos personas geniales ❤

@naglaaabdraboh5788 2 месяца назад

Thanks a lot for both of you ❤ Simon is and always my inspiration

@carline1489 Месяц назад

I keep in mind connecting emotionally before correcting

@rideronthestorm4294 Месяц назад

What a valuable 50 minutes of my life!!!

@harmonylifewithjess1593 2 месяца назад

Congrats on the 2mill here 😉👍

@rodrigoandrade1657 Месяц назад

Man, that was awesome!

@LeadershipA187 Месяц назад

We love you simon..

@venoalbazy77 2 месяца назад

Simon to the rescue, we hear but not always listen ❤ nonetheless, great video 😊❤️

@user-lx9rq3mp2q Месяц назад

Amazing..

@evasccl7846 2 месяца назад

Certainly, the "love" form as the world portrays and sings about... is NOT enough in any way, shape or form!

@user-rq1ly6pf5b 2 месяца назад

What happened to your arm Simon.... I pray fast recovery with God's blessings !!! ❤️

@Livingguestbook Месяц назад

Simon this absolutely crushes me. That would you put a clip like this out there is so confusing to me. This man is saying “sorry you didn’t know you were to blame that your spouse cheated.” Coming from someone who devoted so much time and energy to making my spouse feel special only to be discarded and undervalued sets me back years. I am crushed that you would air this without talking about the other side. Sometimes cheaters are cheaters.

@BigMek667 Месяц назад

I'm sorry this happened to you. You should watch it again. The argument is much more complex than that. He roots it deep in childhood trauma, that you, as a spouse, simply cannot solve alone if your partner doesnt work too.

@foramchandarana6478 Месяц назад

Simon throwing his WHY question at 43:00, 45:00, what is it about this couple? Pick one story! Early childhood memory

@OlgaSunny-pl2sg 2 месяца назад

I often hear this phrase that woman want to talk it is incorrect in my case maybe I am weird. I like to be silent I feel people’s energy and that is sufficient for me. I can be with my loved ones and we would not be talking just drinking coffee baking it doesn’t always entail communication. We just spend time together and enjoy each other’s company. I think it also had to do what astrological sign you were born under.

@kevinbissinger 2 месяца назад

54 comments on this channel says otherwise. Seems like you want to talk a lot but you hate the stereotypes. Gender is just a construct, fighting against it is just as damning to your sense of self as fighting for it.

@OlgaSunny-pl2sg 2 месяца назад

I wish that was the case but we all reflect based on our experiences.

@Gorf1234 Месяц назад

Isn't the "women want to talk" a generalisation? A woman might want to talk two hours, they might want to talk less, they might not want to talk, they might want their _partner_ to talk (whatever their partner's gender). The lesson that I saw here was that each party needs to understand the other person's needs and accommodate them, rather than try to "fix" them so they coincide with own needs.

@OlgaSunny-pl2sg Месяц назад

@@Gorf1234 I don’t know if this is cultural or simple a human nature but I disagree.

@Gorf1234 Месяц назад

@@OlgaSunny-pl2sg Disagree with what? That people are different?

@colouredIncognito Месяц назад

We started a relationship with me cheating on my ex partner from an abusive relationship. I have no clue how to make it up to her, how to show how much i regret, and how much i am into her.😢

@blondieyogagirl Месяц назад

Hi Simon, if you are I interested by this kind of subject, I highly recommend you to check on Thais Gibson. She is mastering attachment styles and relationship. She is amazing and makes you have s’il many breakthroughs ❤

@brain_respect_and_freedom 2 месяца назад

👍

@jmac6973 Месяц назад

instead of apologizing, my wife tells me "I know I know, its always my fault." its infuriating. rarely there is a real apology. if there is one, its usually, "well sorry!" coupled with an excuse

@vatsalbhatt1111 2 месяца назад

Bro looks like Chris Gayle😅

@GarrettAvery108 Месяц назад

Did someone catch the R in SMART?

@tarinabrits2598 Месяц назад

Reading your partners emotions

@JayJay-bp5bw 2 месяца назад

What's your take on Polygamy?

@Timberbeartrail 2 месяца назад

What happened to Simon’s arm? He’s got a standup job there isn’t any agility course that he runs lol what happened Simon what’s going on?

@jadonbaldwin8365 2 месяца назад

Plenty of people break bones when they’re not at their “job”…

@haetube0 2 месяца назад

아마 해일로 인간들 반이 다 작살났을 때쯤 사랑을 깨닫게 됌. 그냥 나쁜 놈들 징역살이나 하면 좋겠음.

@alenaadamkova7617 2 месяца назад

John Gray: "Estrogen makes women emotional, and during stress the female brain notices the problems 10 times more...she feels an urgency to alarm everybody about it. Testoserone makes men much more calm and focused on tasks, therefore hormone testosterone is about problem-solving." Women need probably doing a yoga or Qi-gong to feel grounded so she will not disturb the amn when focusing on his jobs. I was wondering "the alarm state" of mind" probably comes from ancient times when woman tried to keep her new born baby safe and alive, and the brain was probably in the scarecity reaction of subconscious mind program, so she would alarm everybody, please help, my child has a flu, or some bacteria etc so maybe the estrogen hormone craeted such a chaotic state of mind over the generations, I wonder if its genetic thing. Other wise why would the estrogen create such chaos in her mind,10 times more during the stress situation, if its purpose wouldn´t be the alarm system of the mind...please come save the baby from the flu or some virus etc? And men are technical geniuses usually so they realise immediatelly what the baby needs, she knows it too in other ways, but she isnt as technical as men are, when it comes to crisis. So these two hormones probably have its purpose, but we should learn to manage it.

@kevinbissinger 2 месяца назад

Both sexes have testosterone and estrogen. They're not gendered hormones, they're just hormones.