@@FraggyTheFrag Yeah. Or risk becoming extremely depended on affirmation from your boy/girlfriend. I had that with my gf a few years back which ruined the relationship. These days I'm still working hard on learning to accept and love myself, until I do I can't have a relationship again.
I've been struggling with self harm for roughly 9 years and in one week I'll be clean for 6 months. every time I get the urge this song helps me immensely. absolutely perfect 💜 thank you so much!
I don't know why, but every time I hear to this song it reminds me of how my life got completely turned over in a year, losing many things I held dear, leaving me completely alone in a foreign country. But I haven't lost hope for a moment, knowing that I "had it in me all the time" and I'm going the right direction, just need a patience... And that one day everything will be okay again.
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I've struggled with PTSD for three years. This song has helped me through so much. Honestly kept me living. I've been doing well the past three months, but had a set back. feeling like I'll never get back to where I was a week ago. Came to the music video for the first time to read the comments and feel less alone in this. Thanks everyone💕
After I got engaged and disengaged when I was 24, I remember I was listening to Maria Mena the whole time. pushing myself to be a better person with her songs as my background music (plus all the songs from Love Rosie movie, LOL) After so many years, now that Im 31 and genuinely happy with my partner I just kinda look back sometimes whenever I hear this song. It reminds me how I just needed to push myself and see my worth to be worthy, not for other people, but for myself. If I can just talk to my younger self, I will be so proud. Thanks Maria Mena. your song inspires. Anyone listening on 2020?
Forgot this song for so long. I finally found it again. I'm so happy because this hits right in my voice's vocal registry, so I can use this to practice singing properly!
Oh my god, I’ve searched for this song for so long now. All I remembered was the melody and the sunflowers. Today I heard it playing in a supermarket. I didn’t even pay much attention but „All this time“ stuck with me. I’m happy I’ve found it here again💛
I used to be a drug addict and I just now I remember i used to listen this song and cry. 'And all this time Oh all this time You have had it in you You just sometimes need a push' and I'm clean now. crazy. 6 years clean. And have nothing to do with the original message of the song. I just take this sentences and carried with me. lol
It happens to so many (happened to me too..). You are only 20. When you get older you will loose the 'sharp edges' in you, will have a better image of what is taking place which, in turn, will give you the ability to relativize things happening!
You self destructive, little girl Pick yourself up, don't blame the world So you screwed up But you're gonna be okay Now call your boyfriend and apologise You pushed him pretty far away last night He really loves you You just don't always love yourself And all this time Oh all this time You have had it in you You just sometimes need a push La la la la la Think all the mean girls that pulled your hair Are barefoot now and pregnant dear And you write pop songs And get to travel around the world And all this time Oh all this time You have had it in you You just sometimes need a push La la la la la So you've had some detours Some stupid men Now we know what not to do again Besides you lucked out, finally And all this time (all this time) Oh all this time (all this time) You have had it in you You just sometimes need a push La la la la la
I couldn't find this song in a long time, I searched for "old school song girl doll house" but I just coudn't find it. Luckily last month it came on the radio again and I was able to pick up the lyrics and finally find it again! It reminds me of so much better times when I was younger
@@mauimeow6797 Yeah. I came across the song by accident on Spotify and loved it. I haven't actually listened to any of her other music though. Really must get around to it one of these days.
You don’t even know how long I have been looking for this song. All I could remember was that damn pink dress in the doll house AND AFTER YEARS I finally found it😂
I have heard that song 4 years ago and I liked it, but I did not know, what is the song or singer name (and it was in noise, so I did not understand the lyrics well). And today finally I heard the song on radio in quiet and I was able to recognize it.
This reminds me off my first year in high school I have been bullied very much and verry mean. At last I was so scared at going to school that I became sick. I was sick for 8/9 weaks and if I went one day to school my "friends " told me to go home before I would make them sick. At the and off the year I was totaly alone without any friends. I reached year 9 and my life got better and better I went to churche and found my best friends there they helped me this hard time and now I am finnaly happy, they made me see that I have had it in me al those years, I love them!
I'm so sorry for you :( Bullies never realize what kind of an impact it has on someone's life, especially on the long term. Must have been horrible. Good to hear you're doing better nowadays. Stay strong!
I was in love with this song this summer (2018) and then forgot about it and about 2 weeks ago I thought about it again and I couldn’t think of any of the lyrics but I remember the dollhouse. My mom was helping me search and I knew it was a song that came out 9 years ago, but I couldn’t find it and for some reason I was so so upset and I just found it again tonight and I’m beyond happy. This song has such an amazing message and her voice is absolutely breathtaking. And ya that’s all
+Cute_cat_forever Not to be rude, but a serious question...once he broke up with you and you heard this...didn't the lyrics sting you? I mean, it says you need to go and apologise to him, because *you* pushed him away. And that he really loves you, you just don't love yourself. And that you cannot blame the world for your feelings, but need to stop being selfdestructive. I honestly don't see anything positive in that.
@@Widdekuu91 The fact that she is comforted by the song doesn't necessarily mean that she is the girl in the song. Do you know all this about her or are you assuming?
@@doinen I never suggested she was the girl in the song. I'm saying that the lyrics say you need to be hard on yourself and kick yourself in the rear whenever you feel sad for yourself. What's wrong with feeling sad about something?
Let's bring Maria into 2020 and hope she has more in her to tribute to this decade. I love this song and love Maria Mena as she pushes me forward into this year.
This song reminds me of January 2009 when my sister went to South Africa for almost a year and we went to bring her to the airport. It was pretty emotional but it's a good memory.
OMG! IM LITTERARY IN LOVE WITH MARIA MENA UR AWSOME, I LOVE USO MUCH UR SO TALENTED AND UR AWSOMEEEEEE! Aww! I wish i could have a miniature you singing in my doll house wh3n i feel down too ♡
The first time I heard this song was in a grocery store and I was 14, back then I thought my problems were so big and now at 20 I realize how childish that was but regardless this song continues to be my pick me up song and I have a feeling it will still be even when I’m 40 and no longer an angsty teenager crying by the ice cream section in a store over her first heartbreak 💕
When my girlfriend and I had a son on this Monday, this song played in radio. Sentence "You have had at in you and sometimes need to push" has taken a whole new dimmension. Thanks Maria for a memory which will stay with all this time forever with my family. ❤️
Just a fenomenal song...Everyone here is so obsessed with how it makes them feel...Just enjoy the beautifull rythems and instruments used...Just shut up and enjoy!!!!!!!
i heard this song propably like 10 years ago. all that was left was just a faint memory of this video and part of the melody and somehow i found this. at some point i have been trying to remember what the song was but ten years ago i was 8 and didn't speak any english so.. pretty hard. forgot all about this. now its like some memories have returned.
