Matthew Hussey: How to Have Difficult Conversations with Your Partner | The Drew Barrymore Show

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What should you do if your significant other shuts down whenever you try to have a difficult conversation? Dating Expert Matthew Hussey has the answer!
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@Kiwi--nk6dq Год назад

Wow this is so true. Most get defensive thinking they’re being attacked, well their character anyway.

@Lin-ff9fv Год назад

Yes they get defensive because they don't want to change.

@mistydake2109 Год назад

Don't date a narcissist. Thats how you can both be heard.

@shinew7185 Год назад

A lot of times couples will refer to a problem by using the word “YOU” when they need to take more of a “WE” approach. For example: I think YOU could do better with our finances, YOU’ve been spending so much money lately when YOU know we’re on a tight budget right now.. or I could really use more help around the house, I need YOU to participate more because I feel like I’m doing it all by myself.. etc. It begins to feel like an attack on one’s character and playing the blame game never works. It’s a good way to get your significant other to shut down and or possibly cause an argument which always defeats the purpose. Choosing the word “WE” is a much better option.. like WE can do so much better if WE work on these things together. 😊

@emfisher8168 Год назад

Set healthy boundaries you both agree to and stick to them. That’s the boundaries set for starting the conversation, during and ending it when the first sign (Red flag) of things going south so no more unnecessary confusion or damage is done. Be aware of how you’re phrasing things. Depending on your partner, it may be as simple as saying this makes me or I feel this way when or whatever. Instead of You make me feel…. Or May be very complicated and a professional can help give you the tools to navigate through it. Just because your spouse or family member has narcissistic tendencies/personality doesn’t mean you have to turn and run. However you will need to do things differently than you have been, if you want a more peaceful and fulfilling relationship.

@ragga7862 Год назад

I agree with this comment section, it sounds like the person shutting down is manipulative. We need more context

@Lin-ff9fv Год назад

They take it wrong because they dont love themselves you need to LoveYou first then you will attract what you want. be that those qualities first. if they take it wrong and don't want to change or get defensive then let them go...they resist because they no longer belong on your path.

@Kiwi--nk6dq Год назад

Well said.

@leyacallender4405 2 месяца назад

Interesting. So does mine. Or wait, he just disappears… this time it’s been a month. But this is helpful, Matthew. Thank you

@michelleliddle3488 Год назад

Sounds more like a gaslighter

@twildabuckingham Год назад

You sound so much like Harry

@A22208 Год назад

Avoidant attachment

@GailG74 Год назад

I’ve bern married to that type of person for 21 years, and that advice Matthew gave does not work. At least not with my husband. Believe me, I have tried every which way from Sunday.

@gushutchinson8758 Год назад

Don't WORK ever....Your partner is a PERSON not a Louise the 15th sideboard... A person isn't a job.... PLAY!!... Just play.... PLAY!!!! The future is PLAYING...