Mom Spends Child's COLLEGE FUND on EUROPE TRIP?! 

Story #2. Try to remember this person is not allowed to drink alcohol, and has been the one paying his sister’s bills for months. He needs money for school and his own expenses, and paying for her to lay around is eating into his finances. Kid probably just got frustrated. I go crab apple.

Story one. I saw this one before and got the update. The parents decided that if the daughter was going to be so particular about her laundry, then she would need to use the laundry mat, which was a recommendation from many redittors.. They put a lock on the laundry room door and locked her out for 2 weeks. When the two weeks were up, the daughter came to them and apologized. At college, she got very, very territorial about her things. She begged to use the laundry at home again and agreed to go to have her own day for laundry. She now gets her day off for the laundry room, but if there was anything left on the line or in the machine at 7 am the day after the parents reserved the right to move her stuff.

Story 4: Good Apple; if the money was all his own, then it’s his to do whatever he wants with it, and frankly, I’m pretty sure the son would approve.

For the last story op is definitely a good apple. Its painful to lose family and I'm sure even harder to lose a child. Spending the money on something that was a joke he shared with his son is a great way to honor the memory of him even if it does make the trip itself sad

Story #3 - It sounds like the husband just wanted to be petty and pick a fight. He should be more considerate and accommodating of his wife who not only has Celiac disease but is also pregnant.

Tell the daughter that going forward, she’s free to use the laundromat. Set your own boundaries about behavior allowed in your house. As an adult, her boundaries need to inconvenience her vs everyone else in the household.

Story #1 - It sounds like the daughter is going through an unruly phase. She's new to being an adult and is letting it go to her head, not realizing that she's coming off as entitled and not being considerate of others in the house.

Not many people would let their siblings stay without chipping in. He was in an impossible situation and no one else helped. His request seemed logical.

Going into the 4th story i was so ready to just go off on op and now I wanna cry 😭 Just shows that you can't judge these stories by the title ig

Story #2 - I think this story is a positive example of "tough love." What OP said to his sister was harsh and insensitive, but it also was true and something she frankly needed to hear. If it worked and got her to start coming out of her rut of depression, then it did some good. Sometimes you need to be rude and hurt someone's feelings in order to get them to confront reality.

The pizza story sounds like the husband wanted to order meat pizzas, which the other lady didn't eat. Rather than get a chicken one as one of their orders he figured they would just get what they wanted and his wife could share hers. He was the one being selfish.

the last story was so sweet but also so sad, by far one of my favorite stories we've heard in this series

The 4th story broke my mama heart. I can’t imagine losing one of my children but he is the good apple, I hope he enjoys his time in Belgium and his son will be with him always ❤ and shame on his ex wife. Instead of asking him for the money that he saved, she should be mourning HER son.

The 4th story was so wholesome and heartbreaking. OP, I'm so sorry for your loss. That seems like a great use of the money. I hope you have a good trip and wish you lots of healing

As someone with celiac disease, i can confirm that basically all pizza places with gluten free pizza only have GF pizza in small personal sizes, so I never have enough to share

Story 1: 1st come 1st serve does NOT mean you get to take up everything for hours on end being unattended!. It's not like she was active doing loats of laundry.

Story 2 The brother has asked if he’s the bad apple for being insensitive toward his sister. I don’t think his choice of words when he said “unalive child”. Should be the only piece of evidence that makes his a bad apple. And I’ve always understood crabapples to be whiny and entitled. The entire story was written well trying to give as many pov as he could. A an explosion of change was the only thing that was gonna open his sisters eyes. So his question of bad apple for being insensitive I think demands a bigger picture view and this person needed your communities support for the hard work that was put in and the match that lit the fire.

For story #2: I think I would go good apple. I could be leaned to crab though. What the sister is going through is really tragic, but I think OP had too much weight put on them, and I don't know that they necessarily said anything wrong The wording was a little harsh, but I do think she needed the reality check, and OP did emphasize that they do care for their sister. So I'd say good apple, that's just a tough situation

Story 1: daughter has an objectively reasonable boundary but she also needs to realise she’s not the only person in the house. OP is a good apple. The child is being very unreasonable and entitled: offering her a clear day to do her laundry is really reasonable. Sharing space is hard as adults but it requires compromise

Story 1 - as someone from a household where I wasn’t allowed to set boundaries, I hate everyone’s comments on the matter. I’m not assuming anything about this person, and this is based on the wife’s perspective. That being said, still good apple because if she doesn’t want her laundry being touched, she should have done the laundry earlier so she could do it all herself

I have gone through story #1 with my younger sister. She will claim the washer and dryer all day even if she is not home. Sometimes this is for a single outfit. She yells when anyone takes her clothes out of the dryer because they were folded wrong or hung up on a clothesline when they could have gone in the dryer. There are 2 other people in the house that also need clean clothes. If she doesn't want someone else to touch her clothes she needs to empty them out of the washer or dryer herself. She can't put one outfit in the wash and leave all day without someone else moving her clothes.

Story 1- I (female) have gone to boarding school since my freshman year of high school and it’s currently my third year in college. Needless to say, I’ve done laundry in a dorm setting for a **long** time. And let me tell all of you who haven’t dealt with dorm laundry, it is **not** fun. Girls will move your laundry from washer to dryer or take your laundry out of the dryer and throw it on a counter (doesn’t matter if you have a basket right in front of said dryer) without a second thought. If you aren’t there the second your laundry is done and someone else is, your clothes are getting moved. It’s really upsetting for me when someone moves my clothes from washer to dryer and starts the dryer, because I have specific items that should NOT go in the dryer!! I put them in laundry bags but no one pays attention and it’s always a fright to see my compression socks tumbling around just because I came to the laundry room ten minutes late. Back in high school I would literally bring my homework to the laundry room on Sunday mornings to work on while I waited for a washer to open, because in the dorm it really is “first come, first serve”. (In college I wake up at 5 on Sundays, throw my laundry in the wash, and go back to bed.) All this to say, I definitely understand where the daughter is coming from with her laundry boundaries. However, home laundry is not school laundry and the parents are 100% good apples. It’s nonsensical to put a “first come first serve” rule to a family laundry system. I don’t think the daughter is a bad apple; I’d give her crab apple because to me it sounds like her boundaries are directly coming from experiencing laundry in a dorm and she doesn’t realize the differences between that and her family yet. I completely understand her setting the boundaries but she shouldn’t force the family to leave her clothes to dry for hours at the expense of everyone else’s laundry. Forgive me for the super long ramble, I just saw a chance to vent about dorm laundry and went for it

Story #2 - Crabapple. I completely understand the frustration that the brother was going through during that time, especially being the sole caregiver, in a sense, for his grieving sister. Unless you’re in a situation like that, it’s a bit challenging to understand. Was he wrong for saying he doesn’t care about his sister’s dead baby? 1000% - completely uncalled for, despite the position you’re in or that she’s in, but I know that he cares and wants his sister to recover and heal.

I think story 2 is Crab Apple cause the baby had died 7 months back but he has been paying for her for over a year and now was just using that as a way to get free living spaces

Even without Celiac... prego no share food!!!!

#2- crab apple because tough love is needed. The baby issue sucks but it’s no one’s problem other than her and baby daddy. In the future I bet brother doesn’t help that way they don’t get put in that situation again.

Story number one is interesting, now OP said that they have been in her life since she was five so I don't think it has anything to do with stepparenting. While this uni student may seem entitled, there is also clearly some anxiety or trauma around people touching her things or her things going missing, clearly something happened that she didn't tell them about that is causing her to have this trauma whether it's because she has lots of siblings or some sort of trauma from her uni experience, I think the best solution in the scenario would be for her to purchase her own clothesline, you can get small cheap ones that come in different sizes and just pick one that is a big enough size for her clothes that can be folded up, she can just fold it away in her room until she needs it, then take it out and hang her clothes on it once they're done in the washing machine and that way her parents don't need to touch her things at all. This is a great solution for anyone who lives with roommates as well, I feel like this is a hard truth that she'll need to learn. For anyone with roommates or who is flatting for example, you're going to have other people touch your stuff sometimes especially when you leave it in communal spaces, obviously living with family is a little bit different, but I feel like firstly them folding up her clothes for her was really nice and it's odd she got upset about it, but again if there is that trauma there she's not sharing with them, that seems like something they should talk about, but if she's not interested in sharing what happened, again having her own small foldable clothesline is the best solution because she can fold it away in her room get it out when she needs to hang her clothes And that way the family can continue using their big shared clothesline to hang out all of their clothes and other washing, they can do as much laundry as they need to do without fear of touching her things without her worrying about things going missing, it seems like the best solution and I'm surprised they didn't think about it, again you can get those pretty cheap foldable ones From lots of different places they come in different sizes they have different pricing, just get one that is a relatively good size and not to expensive that she can just use when she needs to hang out her washing, they can come up with a solution where she does her washing in the morning maybe, then before she leaves for work or university, she hangs it out on her separate clothesline then they can do all their washing and hang it out on their clothesline and then when she gets home she can take everything off of her clothesline and then folded up again and put it in her room, again I don't know why this wasn't thought of since it's the best solution especially when it comes to people who live in Sheridan environments, a lot of people get their own separate clotheslines it's very common. I only had one sibling so can't quite relate, I'm also fortunate enough to live on my own now that I've left home, but for those who aren't fortunate enough to live alone, whether you are flatting or still live with your parents, I think having the skills of learning to do your own laundry and your own dishes etc is very important, so I like that this girl is able to do it all herself and isn't making her parents do it, but if she's so worried about them touching her stuff, again the best solution is just to get her own separate clothesline just get a small portable one that she can tuck away in her room and get out when she needs to do her own washing, it's a win-win situation and in my opinion the best solution to this, let me know if you agree or disagree with this.

On #1, if she doesn’t like sharing the washer, she can not be allowed to use it and go to a laundry mat.

First time commenter here. For story 4, I can see it being okay that the ex wife asked about using the money if it was something they had set up together when they were still married. Otherwise 100% good apple.

Story 1: Good Apple; one big lesson as an adult is that it’s rude to inconvenience others, and it’s a lesson the daughter needs to learn.

Story 3: Good Apple; the husband clearly still doesn’t understand the wife’s condition, and that feels like a red flag.

Story 4: I’ve read this one myself. Not the bad apple. It’s his money and his ex is so entitled to even ask. She essentially hoping to benefit from someone else’s enormous loss.

Story #2. What her brother said kicked her lazy, smoking 🫏 outta bed and she started applying for jobs! He’s the good apple all the way. If she cared so much about the baby why was she smoking?! She may very well have caused the miscarriage! Sounds to me like she was fast becoming a professional victim and had absolutely no appreciation or guilt or anything for her brother that was so generous. Rebecca you had more than enough info to call this one differently.

Love your videos, Rebecca! I love hearing your perspective on these stories. Maybe you could read some of the commenta on the posts in your videos so we can hear your reddit community's thoughts on these situations.

Story #1: good apple and the step-daughter is bad apple. Would tell her that if she doesn’t want them crossing her boundaries then she can’t cross theirs. If she doesn’t want them messing with her laundry, here’s where the closest laundromat is.

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Story 1 Good apple, Story 2 crab apple ( get where you were coming from but sometimes tough love is the only way to smack someone out of it. I've been in a situation where no matter how kind you are with your words, it just doesn't register until you become the meanest B for them to finally snap out of it. Crab apple only because I would have been harsh too but not say the baby part.} Stories 3 and 4 are GOOD APPLES!! And omg I couldn't help but cry on that last one.

First story the family sounds amazing. They folded all her clothes (when she was holding up the laundry)?? These people not only sound like people you don’t have to worry about losing your clothes with, but also people that would make the clothes nicer than how they found them.

Story 1- in communal living, dorms or even apartments it’s curtesy to wait 10-15 mins if a person comes to move their laundry, and then on the part of person doing the laundry it is common curtesy to set and timer and promptly move your laundry. If that person doesn’t move it, then fair game to move it yourself.

Story 3 As a mother and wife, it makes me sad how unsupportive that husband is during his wife's pregnancy. Her safety and meals go to his unborn child. Story 4 Maybe this is unfair, but with that much audacity, I wonder if the ex-wife would have tried to weasel the money from her son if he'd lived.

#1 story- make her get her own place. She has a job. Let her figure it out

Story 3: husband like so many people don’t understand Celiac is an allergy !

1st story: It's your house and machine? Where'd that go? It's a reasonable boundary until it affects OTHER people's boundaries.

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#1 Until she has her own private laundry machines - you move stuff as necessary in a house with 6 residents.

I follow a vegan diet. Often, store bought vegan pizzas are also gluten free. As a somewhat frequent eater of gluten free pizza, I can safely say that this man does not know what he's asking. Don't get me wrong... it's a great alternative for people who need it, but a typical wheat eater would find a gluten free pizza... um... lacking. Just count your lucky stars and let the woman enjoy her pizza!

Story four is a gut punch for sure, good Lord. 😢

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I went to university in New York and just recently graduated and our rule for laundry were if it's been 15 minutes after the cycle has stopped then anyone is allowed to move whatever's in that washer and dryer and they would move them on top of like some sort of counter we had in the room so everyone in the dorm knew if you didn't get your stuff out within 15 minutes of your stuff being done it would be moved but we also had a rule that if your stuff was just sitting there for over a week on the counter done and you still haven't gotten it then we go straight to lost and found or it would be up to the lost and found person

Story 2: The sister was being selfish and the Brother Just Lost It

I have to disagree but n the second story regardless of him saying “I do not care about your child” he was basically saying he was there for his sister and not for the child he wasn’t saying he didn’t care like he just sad about the kid dying he is just there for his sister and I commend that. He is the good apple

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Story #3 really hit me. I have Celiac disease and my husband doesn’t. All the time we’ve been together - now 7 years - he did (and still does) everything he could to understand my celiac disease and make sure I don’t get any gluten and get sick ✨

For my dorm last year in university rule was 15 mins after timer went off u had to move but if laundry room was not crowded / not many ppl were doing laundry u could get away with clothes being left alone for little extra

Story 3 good apple.

1st story ~ 100% agree. It's their house, their rules. Yes, we should respect people's boundaries, but when it interferes with the regular function of the household and the mom did something nice to help her out, she is entitled 2nd story ~ is bad crab apple a possible rating? Yes, the comment was uncalled for, and I 100% with what you were saying, but he was pushed past his limit 3rd story ~ husband was being rude and insensitive 4th story ~ so, ex-wife thinks her stepson is entitled to ex-husband's money? Yeah, whatever. Get a grip lady

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Story number 2OP is definitely either a good apple or a crab apple, understand why you want to go bad apple, but remember OP is paying for sisters rent and all of that without being asked, did it after their parents stopped and has been doing it for over a year while sister has been doing nothing, I am a woman but I'm still single and have not had this experience of losing a child and I'm sure it's horrible and traumatic, I know people can get in depressions because of it, but a year seems too long to be still in that way, there are different stages to depression and it's shocking to me that sister is still in the curled up in bed smoking a cigarette stage, I think what OP said was very justified, yes maybe they went a little bit too far, I don't think they meant they didn't care about the baby at all I know that's what they said but people always say things they don't exactly mean when they're angry, all things considered based on what OP said in the situation I think it was all incredibly justified because they're right they are paying for everything and they care about their sister very much they don't care about her baby, they care that it happened and they care that she lost it but what they mean is they don't care about the baby in the same way that she does because there is no baby anymore there's nothing to care about and as awful as that is as bad as the situation is with her losing her child, again it happened over a year ago so they do need to get over it and if what they said helped her to get over it then that is what is most important yes they went about it a bit too rough and a bit too intensely, but sometimes what you need to hear is the tough truth and honestly I think if you reread what they said it actually doesn't sound that bad it sounds really sweet actually like them saying how much they love her and care about her and want her to get better it sounds like they're concerned and worried and I know it's hard to know based on tone, but I don't read that insensitive at all, maybe slightly because of the whole baby thing, but it's definitely either good or crabapple in my opinion, feel free to disagree though.

Story #2 I'd say crab apple. He was brutally honest. Perhaps the potential child that he never met didn't feel real to him, and he felt he was loosing his sister to her grief. And there is no way he could possibly care anywhere near as much as his sister does about her lost child. He was harsh; but she was wallowing, stuck in her grief. He parents tried to give a gentle push to progress in her grieving provess to start caring for herself again but she wasn't having it. Sometimes people get stuck in their grief and forget we have to keep moving forward in life or life either moves on without us or rolls over us. Then, even though it seems harsh and they hate you for it at the time, you have to give them a shove because you love them and they NEED unstuck. Honestly I can't see fetuses as people until they can exist on their own without their mother; so I can see why the baby didn't mean anything to him. I can also see why his sister absolutely lost her child and needs to grieve for it. Such a hard situation, but as she heals I think his sister will forgive him and understand why he said what he did.

Story 1- good apple Story 2- crab apple Story 3- good apple story 4- good apple

Story 2: Crab Apple; sometimes people say stupid things when push comes to shove, and OP was very clearly pushed too far after their sister got upset because they no longer could afford to be taken advantage of, and after a year no less. Yes, the comment was over the line, but so was the sister getting upset as if she deserved to be supported and not contribute anything. And yes, I’m aware the sister definitely needs to seek out therapy, but that’s hard to do without money.

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Story #1 - Idk if anyone else noticed this but the dad said that the daughter started crying when he and his wife said that if that situation keeps happening then she can’t do her own laundry or whatever it was. She may just be acting like a spoiled brat. But something seems odd about it. Like maybe something happened to her regarding her clothes while at school and she hasn’t told them about it. Idk

Story 1. I think in that situation, the washing line space itself is their property and by leaving it there for 10 hours she has effectively abandoned it for that time. It's a completely different situation than if she say, went into her room or something, even if the room was piling up with used clothes.

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Oh my gosh Red Pizza Flags!!!! So controlling! How he worded it, be grateful for things that don't belong to you....as in he doesn't see the food as being her's, and how gracious he is to let her have some.....run

For story story number one, I would like to point out that in college, you can’t leave her clothes in the washer or dryer all day. I used to wait five minutes before I took someone’s clothes out of the washer or dryer. I wanted to at least give them a shot to show up. Some people don’t even wait that long. This is her family touching her clothes, not complete strangers. I agree that objectively, don’t touch my clothes is reasonable… until the amount of time that they are in a communal space is unreasonable. I don’t think that they should’ve folded the clothes considering that she didn’t want them touching her clothes. But she needs to quit being selfish and recognize that there are five other people in that house, and that shit doesn’t fly at College either. And I understand one day not being enough to do her laundry, but she can’t monopolize it constantly.

Story 2 to me is a crab apple, and here's why. Depression is a terrible thing, and it's really hard, but in my opinion if she is just not wanting to get any help like therapy or medication. I kinda think she was taking advantage of her brother. I truly that offering therapy would been good

Story #1: Good Apple. I was leaning for bad apple on story #1 until we got to the proposed laundry day. That’s a PERFECT solution! Sounds just fine to me. It’s also very strange that once a week isn’t “enough” for her…like, does she own two outfits? This one is easily good apple - it would be bad or crab if OP didn’t propose a solution, but she did, and a perfectly reasonable and even extremely efficient and benefiting of both parties at that. Not just good apple, she gets a gold star too (lol) Story #2: Good (maybe crab) Apple. I disagree. The sister had plenty of time to find a therapist or ask for help to find one to help her get back on her feet. At this point, she was just being a mooch. It’s beyond help, it’s just mooching behavior. It was a harsh, strict comment but she clearly HAD to hear it Story #3: Good Apple. No explanation needed Story #4: Good Apple. Holy crap balls. I’m sure OP’s son is very happy that his father was able to get that trip to Europe instead of having the money just sit there

#1: Honestly, as an adult, she should've managed her time better. She didn't have to leave until noon. So, she could have easily started her laundry around 8:00-9:00 and got it finished with time to relax before she had to leave. She forced her mom into the situation and should have been happy they took good care of her clothes. OP and Mom are Good Apples. #2: While the words were terrible, I can understand lashing out in the heat of the moment. I can't go full Bad Apple on this because he does regret saying it like that. I would go Crab Apple because the words were bad even if the intention was to help his sister. #3: Two large pizzas for three adults is plenty. No one needed to even touch the GF pizza. He was just being a 🍆 for 🍆's sake. Good Apple. #4: Wow. First of all, his ex-wife's stepson is not his responsibility. He was the responsible one who put money into a fund for their son's education. If she had put money into it, I would say she deserved her part back. Otherwise, it's OP's to do with what he wishes (other than what he has to give back to the gov't), and he wants to honor their son by taking this trip and having a beer to get closure on their inside joke. He needs to do this, and she needs to figure out something else for her husband's kid. Good Apple, and if OP ever sees this, I just want to say I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you take the trip, and I hope you enjoy that beer.

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Story 2 is good apple

Story 4: that ex needs to get over yourself yes it was money set aside for your son but it's still his money. So he can use it however he wants.

Story 1. If shed done that at a public laundry mat or laundry place in her dorm that would we have be gone 😂

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Story # 2- I've had three miscarriages so what I'm saying is coming from a place of experience- she needed a wake up call. Her parents and everybody else stopped helping her after about 7 months and he continued. And I think it's wonderful that he helped so much but it gave her a crutch. She needed to be snapped out of the depression that she was in and the depression is reasonable but you still do need to live and manage depression instead of letting depression take over completely which is what she was doing. Where her brother was very blunt with her it's what she needed to snap out of the depression hold. I will say crabapple only because he had to be very blunt.

Story 3: good apple. Why are people so inconsiderate of dietary challenges

Story #1 Good Apple Boundaries are valid, but if you're going to set boundaries that impact other people and in a place that isn't yours, you might need to compromise. They even folded them for her! In college, people just throw your laundry on the floor or the table if you're lucky. Story #2 Crab Apple I can't fully give them a bad apple because if I pay your bills for a year, tell you "Hey I can't really afford to do that anymore" and you go off on me? Nah. I'm going off right back. I don't like telling people how to grieve, but you have to understand that your devastating event isn't necessarily someone else's. They could've gone about it differently, but I think they'd held on for a while and I'm not surprised they snapped. Story #3 Good Apple That's really unreasonable for them to basically ask you to eat less just for the sake of "sharing". If he's so into sharing, why not he get the chicken order? Asking a pregnant woman to eat less is absurd. The husband is a bad apple. Story #4 Good Apple I don't think they're obligated to give their money to a child they are completely unrelated to. At the end of the day, it's the parent's money to do with as they please. I think they're entitled to do what's meaningful to them : )

I'd say crab apple or maybe even good apple on Story #2. I'm sorry, but she really needed a reality check to get back on her feet. He was in college and wasn't able to afford helping her out anymore. Not to mention, he was the ONLY ONE helping her. He provided options for her, like get a job or move back in, but she didn't want any of them. Unfortunately, that led to him snapping the way he did which, eventually worked. I'm sure a lot of people said this already, but he saying "I'm not here for your child" wouldn't necessarily mean he didn't care, it's that he was not there to provide for someone who was not there. It was harsh, I'll admit that, but sometimes that's all you need to wake someone up. Also, his life does not need to stop just because her child is not there, you even said so yourself several times before that other people's lives do not revolve around other people's children, and just because she lost her kid, her brother's life shouldd not stop.

Depending upon how rich the ex and her husband are in story 4 I think that the best option would be if you could trade say you found out you were only going to get $30,000 from the account and it has 50,000 currently in it Well have your ex pay you 30,000 and then give them the account so the rest of the money isn't lost. You get the same amount of money either way but they get a bigger chunk of money so win win. Other than that interesting thing I wanted to say, i think OP is a gpod apple.

Story #4 omg my heart good sad apple

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16:26 it’s about the son’s wishes and if donating that money would be his wish, then do that. If going to Europe would be his wish, do that.

If the money was put aside or the child to go to college and then the kid doesn’t make the grades or just chooses not to go to college why shouldn’t they be able to use the money for a trip, as the money wasn’t the child’s it was for college.

Story 3: I have a theory. I bet the reason the husband sounds so unreasonable here is because there is something in their relationship, probably related to food, that has gone unsolved for a while. It kind of sounds like something has been bubbling up and this was just a moment that triggered it. She isn't the bad apple in this story, but I bet there are other ones where she might be. If he lashed out about this, especially since they're married and he knows her well, there must be another reason behind it.

I started doing my laundry, and my sister’s at 16, but I wasn’t being raised like a brat and took turns wt my mom to use the laundry room.

Number 4 •Thoughts based solely on question: Yes. •Oh. That's unfortunate. I'm sorry for your loss. Probably not especially if it helps with your grieving. •Not the bad apple. This is very sad. I hope the trip helps you heal.

Story #3 Who is paying the girl of the friends and if the friends are paying does the gluten free pizza cost more and if so by how much

See, I got to give story 4 a crab apple for one simple reason. His son was killed by a DRUNK driver, so going to Belgium to have a beer feels a little insensitive in the context of the death. That being said, I agreed with most of the other stories this week.

Why can’t the husband in Story 3 get chicken on one of the gluten pizzas? It’s ridiculous that OP was supposed to share

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Story #1 I bet she had some bad laundry experiences at school and is now paranoid about loosing or having her clothes ruined. My college's laundry was just a cement block room with 6 washers and dryers, a dubious detergent vending maching, on large table, and a dollar changer that never had quarters to vend. No one watched it. I had my clothes ruined by someone overbleaching their clothes and by some sort of black grease left over from someone else's laundry. People would just pull your wet clothes out of the dryer if all dryers were full and their washer was done. If you were lucky they waited until the dryer shut off and dumped them on the table and not the floor. I learned to wash the washer before I used it and sit in the corner of the table waiting or go check every 15 minutes. Even so, her boundaries don't get to inconvenience the entire house when it's not het name on the deed or her payingvthe bills.

Gluten Free is such a trend that I think a lot of people assume that being gluten free even for a disease is still just part of the trend...but the person in story 3 is the husband, right? I feel like he'd know the difference between his wife having a legitimate medical issue and his wife just being trendy.

Story 1: don’t touch my clothes????? She is spoiled and there’s no way that would go over in my house. She should go to the laundry mat!!

I wholeheartedly agree with OP in Story #2. That sister was not coming out of her depression and grief, and was instead lashing out. She needed to hear that her support group was here for HER, not her dead child. Yes, its a loss, yes its sad, but SHE is the one who is here, and SHE needs to be the one responsible for her life. Good apple, maybe crab for harshness, but again, I thing it was needed.

Story 1 good apple.

13:00 The husband sounds awful. Is he secretly being infidel and is trying to use this crazy scenario as justification? Also, what husband wants to jeopardize the health of his pregnant wife by giving her a hard time of being able to eat a full meal of food she can eat? So odd.

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Story 4 good apple.