Mom The Mooch 

Mine actually left with the first statement that she said. I'm still laughing and I ain't even too deep into the video yet 🤣🤣🤣

Okay I just heard the trifling line. My soul left my body again. Had to pause the video for a good 2 minutes to get that laugh out because the look on the daughter's face says it all!!!

I hollered.😂

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She knows her child ‼️

Agree 😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂 sent me over the moon

Yea Grandma was not leaving anything out lol!

I was like “Wow mom!”😭😭😭😭😭

Lmaooo

OMG i just commented about that too😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

daughter a deadbeat ,she got the $$$ and wont take care of her kids or pay her mom back ...and she leeching..she got the $ rent free 3 ys making $3000 a month plus ...gtfo.. she found thma new mom to freeh03

I had to look up trifle

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Girl saaaaame hahaha I seriously screamed!

My mom told us the same thing.

Agree. Most of these grandparent cases on the show start out with: "we let them move in to give them some help" and then the parent going all crazy acting like they suddenly have no obligations at all an can get a free pass. Sure you can help out, thats what families do, but you definitely need to things as unambiguous from the start.

I would love to take care of my grandkids more.

My mom said “bring me my grandbabies because you never know what can happen in a daycare”

My mom and dad and brother’s in laws provided child care and Nanny supervision for years after my SIL and brother’s parental leave were over. My folks took one full day and one day with Nanny. The in laws did the same. My bro and wife alternated a WFH day. Basically, my nephew was never alone with Nanny until he went to preK. The arrangement saved $$ and let everyone bond and breathe easy.

When I was a little kid I was mostly raised by my grandmother

Same I was raised by my grandparents. Shame on her for being so disrespectful to her mom. She’s lucky she’s still around . I left home at 19 cause my grandparents got sick and they passed away 2months before my daughter was born . I would do anything to have them back and around my kids .

Amen right is right and wrong is wrong and it's a shame that some women are so neglectful 🤨❤️🖤💚 ps some men are too,do better people do better

All the faces she's making just shows her ignorance and disrespectful to her mother. She's lucky her mom is there to begin with. She thinks things should be given to her and she doesn't have to worry for anything. Sad!

She just wanted to live there for free. She's a free loader for sure. She'll never know when she might need her mother assisted again. Grandma will take the boys, grandma says get a motel room. Grandma knows what kind of a person her daughter is. Trifling for sure, a liar, & just a user. She needs Jesus.

Yes, but she’d taken a shovel and was determined to dig herself a deep hole to jump into.

Vonda said, “double it and give it to the next.” 😂

Same thing I said 😂

+ the health insurance

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i hollered!!!

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And yet she was the one who wanted grandbabies. I believe the mom when she said that because there's a lot of mothers who pressure their daughters into having children. She just didn't realize how much it would cost having children and now she's flipping. You can't get blood from a stone. If I were the mom I'd start doing receipts for her hair braiding and then that way she can prove how much she's making. She could take it back to court to get a revision. It's odd that the grandma was able to do that without a lick of proof other than her word. Presumably the mom does her taxes every year and all she would have to do is provide them to prove her income. What it says on paper is what it's supposed to go by. If the taxes says she doesn't make any money then that's what it is. If I were the mom I'd stop doing any favors for the grandma. No more "church stuff", cleaning up for her, making dinner. Grandma wants to be paid child support? Fine. That makes her the effective parent and responsible for cleaning up after the kids and herself. The mom doesn't have to do jack crap in the house anymore. That would give her more time to look for a job and take her and her kids out of such a toxic environment. I just hate that smug look grandma had while she screwed her own daughter over.

@@jessicaarmstrong5035 you know that these are skits, and not real?

@@Oxzilion of course. That's why I said this can't be real.

She wasn't. She's in a difficult spot. Didn't you hear her? Her husband took her to the cleaners in the divorce. And then she lost her job in the pandemic. We don't know what her financial situation was like before that and what she was paying for. The grandmother is getting the tail end of the event and assuming that it's always like that. What gets me is that if she's divorced and raising the kids, why isn't the mom getting money for child support from the dad? Where's he in this picture? It feels like we're only getting half the story here.

True, I know the experience of ungrateful children 😢

Fr I moved back in with my mom after having my own place for a year and they tried to raise the rent to 1,600 not finna do that. Anything my momma ask for I do she don't ask me for money she want to to save to be able to leave but she don't watch my babies unless she come home and be like give me my baby cuz she love them but yea ain't no way she doing all that

How old are you?

I'm not sure that's what happened here. I think that the mom got screwed in her divorce and then the pandemic hit and she lost her main job. She's now braiding hair and honestly she's probably not lying about only making $80/head. The actual amount she makes is probably somewhere in between the $4800 and the $1200/month that they say. More like $2500/month. I would've based the calculations on that. If I were the mom I'd tell her mom that I'm no longer doing any favors for her and she can clean up her own house. Yes, it's your job to clean up after yourself and your kids. Nowhere does it say that you have to clean up after your mother. Nowhere does it say that you have to do "church stuff" for them. If the grandma wants it to be a straight transactional relationship I'd do that. I'd tell her that I'm moving out and that she can pay for everything and all she will get is the $700/month. No favors. No making supper. No cleaning up. Child support is meant to pay for the rearing of children. That means picking up after them. I'd never pick up another thing in that house that isn't mine. In fact, I'd square out a bedroom and say that's my space and I'll clean my own dishes, like a roommate. Because that's what the mom just made her into. A roommate who pays rent. I've seen the kind of culture that comes from being in church groups. Mothers expecting their children to be baby-makers. It sounds like that's what happened here. Grandma wanted grandbabies to spoil. She pressured her daughter into doing it and after going through hell is forcing the daughter to pay her when she knows her daughter doesn't have it. Her daughter will never be able to move out paying $700/month in child support. If I were the mom I'd move out with the kids. There are cheap apartments that you can get in rural towns for that amount of money. She can braid hair out of it and whatever she makes above the $700/month she can use to rear her children. Insurance isn't that hard to get. If you're on a low income you can apply for Medicare so that the kids are covered for insurance. She can apply to the state for benefits due to the loss of her job from COVID. It may seem like she was taking advantage of her mother but the fact is that when a husband takes a wife to the cleaners in the divorce you have nothing left. Sadly it happens a lot in many states because women virtually have no rights. Losing your main job makes it hard to give any money at all if you have to pay for things like gas and bills and such. I believe it that she didn't have the $400/month. And Judge Vonda just made it infinitely worse. The people who will suffer because of this will be the kids because that much animosity is not good for children. It's sad when situations like this happen.

Jessica you need to grow up! She is living with her mom. Not paying rent, not paying for anything. It's not the grandmother's responsibility to do all of this. She is taking advantage of her!

W baby mama

It's called being a silver spoon kid/ spoiled kid....... they were raised feeling entitled to everything

@@randomguyscott i was giving everything that i wanted, but i was always supper thankful for my mom and grandma, I don’t know how other children who are in the same boat as me aren’t , Maybe it’s because my mom would take things away when i was little

@@maddiek7497 that may be the reason plus you maybe saw that they how hard they had to work for it thus you being grateful. (At least that was it for me)

@@randomguyscott That is my deal. My parents worked HARD, HARD, HARD for us kids. We were not rich. Not a lotta cash.. I would never have dreamt of taking advantage of my parent’s generosity. She knows her Mom is a wonderful grandma. I would have insisted that Mom take the money. I would pay for soccer, football, food. I would save that running the street money and treat Mom to spa day or maybe pat for her and a pal to spend three days in a hotel by a swimming pool and a good book. I would be up making breakfast, cleaning house. To this day, if my parents need something and we kids hear about, we go right out and get it. Don’t treat the twins’ grandmother in a disrespectful manner. Those kids love her to death. Treat her with every amount of love and respect you can muster. That way your boys learn how you treat family. Come on, now! That daughter knows better!

.55 an hour?? From who

Why do you enable your family? Another one for you to help raise? I don't know if you are doing this voluntary or not. I hope you want to because otherwise you are being used.

At least u got something. I worked a full time job & a part time job. On my 2 days off I babysat my grandkids. At first my daughter was appreciative. After doing it for years she took me for granted & no longer showed appreciation. She would not let me do anything with them like a grandma would. I was just the baby sitter & had to sit at her house all day. One day I wanted to take to the movies. She said no. Final straw. I quit. A few days later I called to ask to take them to the movies. She said stay away from me & my family. We haven’t talked in years. My poor grand babies lost their g-ma that day.

@@valeriesrtaskey9208 sorry to hear that. God will provide! When the kids grow up they will remember and appreciate the good you did for them!❤️

@@celineshields394 thank you. You made me cry

It’s kinda a lot considering how much she makes but I get what you mean

I thought she made all that money doin hair tho 🤔

@@npatillo63 but she lives there for free and the money she makes braiding hair is not taxed . I’m almost certain that she makes more from the braiding than she reported as well . So everything she makes is just spent on her.

@@amygarrison3664 I thought you knew how to spell? "tho"?

@@npatillo63 it wasn't a lot of $ considering EVERYTHING the grandma was doing for them including insurance when they weren't even Her kids. Trifling bottom feeders make me sick 🤢....

right! i have my post notifications on and i always click right on i love her i wish she was on tv

And when she drinks her 🫖/☕ I truly lol

Right?

These dramatizations are comedy gold.

YES!!!!!

Wasn't the same guy,is was her boyfriend's father

Where is the kids father????

Then she braiding hair charging 300-400 and working. She can definitely help out.

I some what agree but some of what granny said was fishy no way you can braid 3 to 4 heads of singles in one day

@@kimmyj4661 Unless it's a salon, no one is paying 3-4 hundred. Grams def inflated that number. It's about half that much. And depending on length, she's doing two clients AT MOST. Because braiding is exhausting AF. It hurts your hands and your back. Especially if you're standing because it takes hours to do.

Good for you baby girl ❤it's ridiculously hard, and yes, it might be out choice to have children, the responsibility is ours, but you really showed your mother gratitude and appreciation. That's absolutely the right attitude to have for people who go out of their way to help us and our kids.

AMEN

Awe. Your mama is so sweet! As are you. I wish my mom was like that when she was alive. I hope she's doing well since her fall and your little family is well too 🙌🤗

Thank you!!! Because she's home doesn't mean she entitled to be a full time babysitter. She's should be grateful she has a mom who cares.

Thw mother raised that trifling daughter

@@ericrivera8410 that doesn’t mean that’s how she was raised. People change every single day, based on people around you. You can raised with parents always there, taught you manners, and in the end you can be the opposite of how you were raised.

How true

Facts because that’s grandma and not their mama it sounds like she running and gunning the streets while mamma got the boys getting them right because now that the boyfriend came into play it sounds like she spends most of the time with dude and not her kids

@@TruthTeller-si9wp It's amazing to me that the 'boyfriend' doesn't become a factor until she realizes that she has to pay child support. Because it's amazing that she says that's the reason why we're up here at all. Your mom has been on a fixed income and allows you to live in her house for over 3 years, and you want to come with this weak sauce about the boyfriend? What have you been doing with yourself this entire time to make yourself better for the children and yourself? You've been living off your mom and you're mad because she's sick and tired of it. She shouldn't be spending all of her money on your kids and you. She should be spending it on living the rest of whatever life God has given her. Man this case made me mad...

@@shioriryukaze it made me mad as well she has no excuse not to do for her kids

Had same issue when my daughter left her husband and twins with us. Then he was lazy and i was the only person working due to husband being disabled and we were trying to get on disability, and taking care of my own child and mother in law. As soon as I said I'm getting food stamps and adding them to my plan, he all the sudden ups and moves out. While we were moving later on, found he had placed a camera in our bathroom. No clue who he was watching. Cringe

@@Alimira.quinn327 that's against the law you know?

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$754 lol. It really isn’t bad at all. She needs to cut it out

And then she makes the comment that she's going to casually leave her kids with the grandma. Those are your kids. You're the one that laid down a had them. They're your responsibility. And for you to make the statement that I want to try to find me. You've had three years to find you. If you're that lost, you need a GPS or a microchip.

Where I stay I see ppl your the court system n lie tho just cause of a break up or w.e to bring the kids in it then also ppl don’t have places to go to live just cause off their income but I would tell my mine to choose one sport to do since we in this situation

$750 for 2 kids that’s ain’t shit in this economy

With love!

Don't forget she has an entitled and ungrateful attitude to the women who is keeping her and her kids off the street.

@@Naturefan354 Right! I just don't understand it!

I feel like this would've been resolved better if Judge Vonda had just ordered her to pay the $400/month. The grandmother said that was what she asked for so why not? $400/month is a lot more manageable than $700/month. If the grandma said that $400/month was enough to raise the kids that means she's done a budget somewhere to determine that. I'd also like to know where the dad is in all this? If I were the mom I'd say okay I'll pay the $700/month. But now I'm going to sue the dad for child support. He may have taken her to the cleaners in the divorce but child support is an entirely different matter. The pandemic killed a lot of people's budgets. I think it's sad that a mother is so greedy that she would do this to her own daughter.

My brother did the same. My mom asked for $400 and he moved in with his wife and 3 kids. Never paid her a dime. Lights and water were off for 2 whole weeks.

PRE DIED B4 MY DAWTA IS TRIFFLIN...BWAHAHAHA

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I still love grandma😭😭😭

Lol true! But gotta love them!!! I thank God that my grandmother is still alive at 94 🙏🏾🙌🏾

I felt that comment so deep!!!😂😂😂

Yes this is my mother, one day I’m over her house drifting asleep, and she has the audacity to keep talking lol 😂

No, I've seen enough of these disrespectful daughters to know that you don't have to be an enabler, they take advantage of these grandmother's love towards their grandbabies wellbeing and do what the hell they want to do as grownups, period.

My 1st grandchild a girl is 9months old,dont have much but buy milk ,nappies food every month,I'd give her the world if I could

@@jenniferburnett2165 Exactly.

AMEN

correct

She did a piss poor job of raising her daughter

Those birthmarks on Mom's face were distracting!

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So funny

Love her momma

Me too. My Mom helped my Sister and she never helped my Mom. But still this woman is Ridiculous

Your comment despariages your parents. You should not expect your parents to take care of your children.

@@brooksroth345 never said My parents were useless and never said I expect them to take care of my child, all I said is wish they cared enough to offer a helping hand

I was raised by my grandma but I’m like you my parents ain’t even built like that.

We're your kids left with there grandparents

All the time

They aren't obligated due to western individualism. But anywhere else the family actually matters. Extended family has duties, just as much as family. It makes the west look miserly that we pay people to care for our kids, rather than actually being there for our family and helping out over familial duties.

She is going to have a problem leaving the house and living her own life too. Because not only you got a deal with your living expenses, you got to deal with paying $754 a month. Maybe that'll stop her from allowing her friends to switch so she can braid their hair while they do her nails. She can actually charge all the people that she braids hair and get paid.

oh shut up

That's just rent not car, food, traveling, clothes, utilities etc

Tell my poor mom who got only $100 month to raise 1 child

That only pays for daycare, still have to pay rent, food, car, diapers, clothes etc. I love my kids... They're are expensive but they are worth every penny and more... But a 1000 dollar in this economy isn't much

Do you know what 'crocodile tears' means?

Crocodile tears mean the opposite of what I think you mean.

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That’s traumatizing. I’m glad things are better

I would have told her, 'the kids can stay but you can't'.....

Lawd I am happy u r ok

We’re u an adult, also did u have a child?

She is the part of what's wrong with Black Children today, she lucky that her boys are not Out Thugging around and CARJACKING people

Me to

I did too, and was upset when it was over. Happy for a new video!

@siera foster Thank you!😘😘

THAT PART! Where is the savings from 3years?!??

Believe you me I was soooo glad after I had kids that family stopped coming up with s#$t for me to pay for.. At 23 I had a M.S. from a big Midwestern University and I was kicking it. My sweet girl who turns 30 this month made me happy in more ways than one!!! BTW been married 30+ years. Hubby also a good excuse for holding on to my coins.

Yes! So much cheaper!

It really sounds like she didnt want to due to her husband. But wifely duties and all that jazz. And growing up in a religious house hold, you do feel obligated. Now she's divorced, she's rebelling from the life she was brainwashed into. The problem is she's including the children in the rebellion. Also, why is the dad not paying child support? Both parents should be doing that.

So they kinda feel obligated, to correct the mistakes they made with their own child....

The problem is that I don't think grandma was telling the truth about how much she was making. People who braid hair out of their houses instead of salons make a lot less than a salon because no one's going to go to someone who isn't trained. It's probably closer to $2000/month that the mom is making. And honestly if grandma is receiving child support that makes her responsible for the kids. If I were the mom, I'd stop doing things for grandma going forward. Grandma wants to take care of the kids, let her. I don't like this whole, "You pay child support but you have to pick up after your mom and do all her errands." Grandma wants a transactional relationship, I'd say fine. And every time that she wants her to do something for her I'd say "Okay how much are you going to pay me for that?"

I live in Connecticut. Idk what percentage of a person’s paycheck has to go towards their child support, but damn 60% in Maryland is crazy 😳

The daughter is the one who should seek support from the dad

Well not only that, those are her daughter's kids. Your mama has done the job of raising you. It's time for her to enjoy the rest of her life. It's for her to be a grandma not a second mama

@@shioriryukaze Right

I agree she is the mvp frfr thank God she not an addict and the kids had to see it she a freedom junkie

@@shuggscomedytv508 she could have sent those kids to foster care too. She could have called CPS on her daughter. I don't think her daughter understands the magnitude that her mother could have gone on this. Because basically what she's done at this point is abandon the kids. Or she's about to. What happens if Grandma passes away? Who are you going to dump your kids off then? While you're trying to find yourself....man please...

Will do. Thank you!❤️

Not the shade Lmaoo why would you think they are actors

@@keytho1002 because it was in the description in one of her videos

@@keytho1002 Because they actually are. These are reenactments based on real court cases.

@@keytho1002 it is pretty clear!

Tyrone block his number😅😅😅😅😅

@@kevinknox1239 😆

YAW PEEPED THAT AS WELL...BWAHAHAHA

The daughter is a rough neck

she might be. They are actors after all. And not related.