Brenda is bringing her son, Juan, to court for child support. Juan did not tell his mother that he already receives child support from the mother and he is not sharing the money either.
I was heart broken and wanted to give a good kick in A-$$ for her. I can't imagine raising such a worthless selfish child. I feel so sorry for his kod but happy at the same time that at least he has a wonderful grandma. ❤️
Why in the world did he lie about renting vs. owning? And he would have to be a really bad club promoter to only earn $48K a year. That is probably his base salary before his commissions and bonuses.
In a real court they require income verification or the judge can decide what you make. It’s usually best to bring your income verification bc judges quote high if you force that on them.
Then, when he was told to sell his necklace, he gave the excuse " I need it for promoting " 🙄 as if it's more important than his mother's ring. He's a piece of shi.
@carrina1006 it does have to be specifically requested, yes. At least in Texas, it does; idk if the law is different in that regard in other states or countries
True, and he will be a hustler all his life, and if that child makes something of himself when he grows up and he has money, this smiling fool will be coming around cup in hand, and I pray Julian makes it big and never looks at this excuse of a father.
It seems like a disrespectful piece of s***of a dad you can tell that you're a tool cuz you only think about. You just sitting there while your mom's pouring her heart out.
That's just over $57,000 over that 3 year period. I don't know how his mother didn't get up off her seat, walk over, and give him a good slap. I know I would have. When the mother said she could have kept the family home if she had been in receipt of that money, I could have cried for her. Bless her.
@@Steff-js8xq Couldn't agree more. I wish Judge Vonda had taken that into account and had him pay her $250 a month for the money he stole from his mother and son.
@@Steff-js8xq She should have asked for back pay and sued him in family court for her losing her house. I have one son and I'm not a grandma who doesn't want children . My siblings grandchildren are my grandchildren....
What a disgraceful man... Using all the money for himself.... Not giving any help to his mom and child. Horrible. He should have to pay back the 3 years!
He is a jerk. He was collecting child support for a child that he gave to his parents to raise, and did not give them a dime of the child support money to help with his son's expenses. And on top of that, he had medical insurance this whole time knowing his mother was taking his son the the doctor. Not once did he tell his mother the child was covered under his insurance. That "if you had managed your money better" comment to his mother, who has been taking care of his responsibilities for over 3 years, had me livid.
She was just so kind to him still.... Breaks my heart to see a good mother be treated like that.... Not everyone has parents that great he should have cherished her and helped her all he could
I wanted to reach inside the TV and knock his head off. Making excuses he lives in a big house and his mom and son live in a 1bdrm apartment. Shameful 😮😮😮
He's what you call a dead beat dad and a low down dirty son. It makes me feel sick to my stomach to think he let his mother sell her home because of a $1000.
Not only that….He petitioned his ex for child support know full well that he was not taking care of the child. He pawned his son off to his mom. If I was the grandmother I would find the ex and ger child support from her directly. I bet he is getting more than 1K per month and he is probably making more than 48K. He is a poor excuse for a man, son, and human being. This makes me so 😡
APPARENTLY, HIS SON'S MOTHER IS A DEADBEAT AS WELL. IF SHE KEPT UP WITH HER SON, SHE WOULD KNOW THAT HE IS AT GRANDMA'S 99% OF THE TIME. SO SHE SHOULD HAVE MADE ARRANGEMENTS WITH THE COURTS, TO SEE THAT THE $1G WENT TO WHERE HER SON WAS!!!
He should have been made to pay back the 3 years he received child support from the mother. His a very selfish man. And I hope when his son grows up and see this video and he ever needs help walk way from him. Grandma your doing a great job 💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾
Typical child-like response from the son. He has been caught lying and doing wrong, and he is trying very clumsily to move the attention from him to the mother. I wouldn't trust him with anything. And he is not fit to look after his son either. I wouldn't be surprised if the son suffers from some sort of personality disorder, because he doesn't care much about his mother or his son at all. And is very happy just to lie about everything. Not to mention he smiles at the wrong points. Could be psychopathic?
He is the real definition of deadbeat father!! He assumed that's what grandparents do. SONNY LIVE LONG ENOUGH CUZE ITS ALL GONNA COME BACK ON YOU ITS CALLED KARMA.
That son has the face you just wanna punch…the fact that he was smiling throughout the whole thing was disgusting. I’m glad the judge was having none of it.
The reason he was smiling like that is because he learned *from his parents* that if you smile and make cute face, you can get away with everything. I feel really sorry for her, and even more for her grandchild who she is probably perpetuating the same mistakes on, but....yeah.
Absolutely. I don’t think I’ve ever been as angry with any of these episodes as I was with this one. It’s bad enough that he clearly has a lot of money and owns his own huge home (which he lied about) and allows his mum to go without. However, on top of that he was claiming a grand a month (if you trust him on that which I do not) that the mother pays him for the kid and steals it. I absolutely loathe this ugly disgusting waste of space excuse for a man!!
You can't do that in Texas but we do have a lot of things we can do like send them to jail or have their drivers license and ability to leave the country revoked.
I just don’t understand this guy (can’t call him a “man” because he doesn’t act like one) is freaking unreal. Shame on him on so many levels and shame on Julian’s mother as well.
The Judge should have made him pay, for some of the three years that he paid nothing. How dare the son say she should have managed her money better. What a Horrible, Horrible man. I am Scandalised for the Mother and her Grandchild. He is NO Father to that Boy.
Are these shows doctored for the purpose of filming? I just cannot believe or rather, don't want to believe, that the disgusting humans I see in these cases are actually real. I really hope there is some level of staging. If not, God help us.
@@pleasedontfeedthe6235 Oh, there are sons and daughters worse than what you see here, my 54 yr old sister is a prime example, convinced parents me and brother are out to take their home, cars etc, when she took it all to fuel her drugs, brother and I work and bought our own homes, cars etc., we didn't need nor did we try to take anything from our parents, it was all her, mom finally passed 2 yrs ago and sister got the house and cars, I am told the home looks like a homeless encampment with various people going in and out and the house inside looks like a landfill, that is what Meth does, if you don't have addicts in your family, be glad, you can't help them and you're only good as the next fix they need.
@chip6152 yeah I sort of concluded that these were dramatized versions of real cases. Guess it's always wise to check channel descriptions! Thanks for the info 😊
Think about the fact that that grandma thought that her grandson's mother just deserted them but she's in fact paying child support and health insurance and it's not even going to her son. So even though she abandoned her son, she still is supporting her son but not even knowing that it's not even going to her son. That is evil
honestly, she should've take the son and the grandma with her, leave him behind to never see his kid, his mom, let him be alone and be aggroant alone. and if she ever to see this video or our comments she now knows who and where the money will be going
@@highhoper1143 he's a narcissist, he would probably not care if his mother and child left. As for the money stealing because of this video the grandmother has proof of what he did and can take him to court and get all the back pay. Plus the money she had to pay for all the doctor bills.
The Mother has some blame too. The relstionship is over. To turn ur back on your Child emotionally is wrong. The Son to emotionally inflict hurt on his Son with that Walmart stunt is shameful. 🙏 for Juilian & Grandma
@@ammar3094The mom pays child support to him. He likely was lying about her just running out of his life, more likely she just couldn't handle his lies anymore.
I wonder if the son handled the sale of her home and screwed her over with that also. I hope the judge ordered an independent evaluation of his financials. SMH
If I'm the little boy's mom, I would take him to court and use this video as proof to sue him for the CHILD support that she has been providing and have him cough that amount up straight to his own mom.
When she said she had to move from her home, I broke down for her... She has such a huge heart to take care of her grandson. That man is a waste of space. Well done Judge, and well said - shame on him! I wish the best to the grandmother and the kid. They don't deserve that.
Right?! Why not give your mom and YOUR son the right to stay in the house that's so big and you go live in the one-bedroom apartment since you're a single man and like he said he's rarely ever at home anyway.. he's a piece of garbage
Grandma needs child support from BOTH mom AND dad. She needs to get legal guardianship. This beautiful lady stepped up when the parents stepped away, her husband died and her own son is allowing her to struggle. So disgusting!! I hope everyone this dad knows sees this and what kind of person he really is. Anyone taking from their mom like that is a disgrace and he should be so ashamed.😢
The judge gave her both parents' child support, $1k from mom, and $656 from dad. She took his word for it that his annual salary is $48k. I don't believe him.
Grandma needs to dig around and find how much he really earns and take him back to court,also sue for 3 years back payment of child allowance or put a lean on his house for that amount if possible... Should wipe the smile of his face son or not..I'm from the UK so not sure if that's at all possible
@@gsmith5140I don't believe him either. She should have given him an appointment at the tax office and see how quickly that horrible smirk dropped off his face. Plus Grandma should have been given back payments. What a slimy son!
I’m a little disappointed she didn’t order him to: 1. Pay grandma all the child support money he had been given by the child’s mother 2. Pay retroactive child support This dude is a thief, and there is not a word to encapsulate how terrible of a son he is.
Would of been paying back all the child support he collect, with what he should of been paying and reimburse all the out of pocket medical bills mom payed unnecessarily. The part about her ring was a disrespect and should of earn him a few to the face, SICKHEAD! One time judge disappoint me and his true earning need to be investigated and his mom need to sue him for having to sell her house.
She did.. that’s why he’s paying an extra 1k a month which brings it to 1600.. she’s making him pay what he owes.. but he is def a piece of crap.. and he’s here in the dfw?? I hope I don’t ever see him… he’s disgusting
This young man is a jerk. He's smiling all through this case, his mom is pouring her heart out, asking him for help, and he's admitting that he gets child support from his son's mother, and he never told his mom that he has medical coverage for his son and was making her pay cash when she takes his son to the doctor's office. He is unbelievable.
This case need a part two. He's lying, and he need to pay back child support as well. As a mother, I feel her pain and disbelief that your own child would do something like he doesn't have a heart to do his part as a dad. I'm praying that God continue to bless her, and I'm praying that God teach him a lesson sooner than later, just ridiculous on his part.
Honestly. I think he needs to bring proof to back up what's he's saying so they can get the REAL numbers for the mother. She does not deserve that when she is literally raising his son 😂 Bless her.
Me too, he is a sacrosanct and cares nothing about anyone but himself. A narcissistic brat. How could he do that to his mother and his son? He should serve time for what he has done. He withheld support and medical care for his son and broke his mother's heart.
I agree we need to hear from the mom here!! How much child support she paid Mr I am more important than my son and mom…. All of that money should go to his Mother!!
I am crying. I am neither a mother nor a grandmother. What Brenda and Julian are going through is tragic. Juan seated there and smiling through out this hearing is heartbreaking.
I hope whoever he does business with sees this and sees what type of person he is. I personally wouldn’t wanna do business with anyone who would do their own mother like that
The Judge had me rolling when she rolled her eyes saying okay. I love this woman. Put her on national television. I bet you she will win a daytime Emmy award!
The moment when the grandmother said she would've have had to sell there family home with all her life memories especially the ones with the love her life I literally broke down in tears.
Incredible how kids treat their parents. Woe unto them! My mother is 84 and has 9 children. After my father passed she wanted for nothing. Those (brothers & sisters) who received raises on their jobs said "mom will also receive more money monthly". We're supposed to take care of the widow and honor our parents.
It truly depends on the parent. My mother robbed me of my college fund and spent it on cigarettes, and she immediately tried to mooch money off of me when I got married. Used child support from my father to pay for designer bags while I was struggling. Most parents are indeed worthy of respect. Some don’t.
@Jackie I'm so sorry that your mother did that to you. However, unfortunately, this will not be a worldly view, you cannot "punish" her by not helping her should she need it. There is a God who will hold her accountable for what she has done and that God is not you. You must honor your mother and father because that is what you're supposed to do and it doesn't matter that she was a lousy mother, she will get her judgment in due time and you will be allowed to see it. God is good and fair and if you think otherwise, the enemy has lied to you. I promise you, you will be justified and you are probably already seeing the blessings coming your way that you wonder, "what did I do to deserve this?" Those are your rewards for your suffering. I really hope you don't think I'm condemning you in any way...I am truly sorry that happened to you and I do think your mother should pay but not at your hands. Peace be with you always and may you be given the serenity you deserve.
I give mom the ultimate props for being very patient and under control and composure while finding out all about these things about her son in court. I cannot believe what a shameful despicable and irresponsible son would do that to his mother. I felt so sad for her when she already lost her husband but to also lose the home that made all these memories in - that is such a betrayal. He should give his house to his mom and Julian. Let him rent an apartment instead. Ugh. Awful.
That’s the most selfish self centred person I have come across. How could he let his mother move knowing he was stealing 850 a month from her. Sad and unbelievable.
Stealing more than than 850! The absent mother paid 1000.00 a month and he was ordered to pay for medical expenses as a part of the child support agreement. He didn't have his son, signed over rights to his mom, and was not only taking the mothers child support, but also not paying his own support for his child! Hes a prime example of what is wrong with his generation. Hes a elf entitled a**hat who thinks the sun rises and sets on his a**. We are doomed if this is a example of the product of this generation of young adults.
This POS for a father, should have to raise and support his own child. He needs to learn a very hard lesson, all by himself. She should be able to live her own life.
I’m in the military and my mom kept my dog for me while I was on sea duty and I sent my mom money every month, in addition to paying for her food. The money was for my dog and for my mom to use on whatever she wanted. I have my dog but I still send my mom money so she can get stuff for herself. Same with my dad. When I go home I always treat my parents to dinner, purchase their groceries if we go shopping. Try and pay a bill. They didn’t have to keep and take care of my dog. Like how is this guy not grateful that his mom is caring for his son?
What a disgusting person, and it’s appalling to know he’s doing that to his MOTHER!!! Not only that, not telling her his SON has health insurance?? What would’ve happened if Julian had a major accident which led to a hospital stay that grandma couldn’t afford? He’d just let his mom who houses HIS SON go into debt and inevitably become homeless with HIS SON? This dude is a narcissist and just a scummy human. Props to the judge for keeping it as professional as she did because it couldn’t have been me.
I cannot fathom how disrespectful this child is to his mother after everything she has done. I pray the mother receives all the blessings that she deserves along with her grandson. Her Son is str8 up FRAUD!
ALL HIS PARENT DID FOR HIM, FOR HIM TO TURN AROUND AND NOT ONLY ABUSE HIS MOTHER BUT TREAT HIS SON AS AN INCONVIENCE, PROVING HE CARES MORE FOR HIMSELF AND MONEY IS BEYOND DUCKY UP!!!THE JUDGE SHOULD HAVE IN A KIND GESTURE ADVISED THE MOTHER TO TAKE FURTHER LEGAL ACTIONS AGAINT THAT ROTTEN SON OF HERS. ALSO, THERE SHOULD HAVE BEEN A DEMAND TO SEE THE SO-CALLED PAPERWORK ON THE NUMBERS HE WAS CLAIMING TO PAY FOR ALL THAT WAS MENTIONED IN ORDER FOR THE JUDGE TO COM TO A "PROPER CONCLUSION." WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND!!!
@@BuzziRus Thank you so much for disagreeing with something I had written over a year ago. This is why people can't have opinions anymore, because in the future, someone will disagree with your comment, & you have no idea what the subject was about....because its insignificant. Some people just want to disagree, & it is only their opinion that counts
Mom needs to contact ex daughter in law and find out howmuch she is paying support. Bet its more than $1000 and he makes more than $48000. Judge needs to demand a W2
This is a financial and terrible crisis. He’s a failure by ever extension of the word. If someone is taking care of your child, the least you can do is pay her!
And then tells his mother she wouldn't have needed to sell her house if she had handled money better! Disgraceful!! She sold the house because he WASN'T paying HR child support and she was payed Ng for the child. I felt the judge was too soft on him!
How can be in your courtroom your honor? I raised my 4 children alone the for 12 years. I'm still raising 2 alone. Got a support order in Tarrant County many years ago and never received a dime. Their mother has been absent for a decade and didn't even show up to court. I need this help. 🙏🏽
"If you would manage your money better..." I wanted to jump through the screen and give him a piece of my mind! So disrespectful! I've never been so angry watching the videos until now. He had the nerve to tell her that while receiving child support from ex, and not even giving it to his mom to help her raise his son!
What a horrible son and father. I can't imagine letting my mother go through all of that. Through the whole thing he had a smirk on his face like it was all so hilarious. No shame at all.
He made me sick trying to schmooze Judge Vonda. Good thing she’s too smart for those kinds of shenanigans!! He is a sorry excuse for a son. I can’t image treating my mother in this manner!!
What a disrespectful slug. How dare he ! Talking about her for not budgeting right losing her home and ... He needs his chain for promotion but thinks she should sell her wedding ring. Shameful !!!
Judge Vonda, you're great!! I'm sitting here on the other side of the world watching your series knowing that you're back home in DFW keeping things straight!
I just want to give his mama a hug, she deserves so much better!!! She’s busting her butt for her grandchild and her son is not only Not paying child support but STEALING IT FROM HER?!?! Ugh that’s disgusting.
