Today we're gonna be taking a look at another episode of support court, this time with the greediest mom we've ever seen Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
"your honour, my client was speeding, but he was justified, as he wanted to kill his 'bitch of an ex' and wanted to make sure the children didn't slow his car" "Ma'am I don't own a car"
Reminds me of my case. I filed a contempt order against my ex for refusing my visitation, to which she responded to by requesting that I have 2 hours of supervised visitation a week. It ended up with me getting full custody and she was ordered the 2 hours of supervised visitation a week. I didn't have a lawyer, she just destroyed herself in every hearing, except the one she missed because she got a DUI on the way to court.
My mom raised 3 of with without child support, while my dad was stealing money from her, stealing the mail and getting the mortgage in the rear and almost foreclosed on us, breaking into the house and garage and stealing our items, not following through with promises, then he was found dead from an overdose that was intentional and this lady PAID FOR HIS ENTIRE FUNERAL. Because, in her words, “he’s the father of my kids and I will always love him for that”. Plus more things that occurred after. If the mom wants it, she will work for it.
Yes! My child has everything they need! Dental, and eye coverage. Clothing, home, bed, everything! I have no health coverage and I don't complain! My child eats first. I come in second, I'm very happy. My child is my heart and soul and every breath I have. You lady are a self entitled KAREN!
And I get that, but I still think people are overlooking the actual problem here. He didnt object when she said multiple times that all he pays for the childern is the insurance premiums. That's at most 2000 a month for the 4 children. Now I get he makes 100,000 a year less then she does, and if I herd correctly he Makes 80,000-100,000 annually. Now assuming this is all true, if things were fa she would be spending $4,000 a month on the childern because he spends 2,000, but she makes twice the amount he does so in all fairness she should be spending twice what he does on the kids.. From what she said she pays for private schooling for the kids (I'd bet it's a high end school, I'm assuming that baised off her demeanor) so per child that's anywhere between 10,000 to 50,000/year and some are more but let's go with the lower end to stat on the safe side, So 4 children at 10,000/year comes out to $833.33 per month per kid, so 830 times 4 kids we are looking at 3,332 in total just for schooling for the kids. Now she also mentions afterschool sports and clubs, then you have clothing, school supplies, etc. So in the end shes paying way more when it comes down to it.. Also how is it a bad thing shes using her own money for a cook and housekeepers? She has a very demanding job that makes up alot of her time, and insted of coming home and cleaning she would rather come home and gave a glass of wine while being around the childern, I find that commendable. The other options here is have the childern live in a disorderly house and make microwavable dinners for themselves -or- after working a long day come home and have to cook and clean and that would lead to burn out for her. The father in this case is the ass hole who should pay more.
@@matthewnelson1309 You’re off your rocker dude I’m telling you no woman is she makes that kind of money she could pay for her kids. A man is not to be slaving for some goddamn stupid bitch like that no way man if he’s taking care of the kids he gets child support. God I hope you’re not one of those male feminist
@@matthewnelson1309 the mother is choosing to pay for things that aren’t necessary for the child’s care and wellbeing. she’s asking for more child support money, to care for her, not their children. she’s asking for more money to get her hair and nails done, when she could chose, if she so desperately needs her hair and nails kept up, to remove the children from private school, and all their extracurricular activities.
I love her show, but you should know that if I’m correct these are fake, that’s why during judge Judy’s shows it says “REAL PEOPLE REAL CASES” bcc judge shows are normally fake. I mean come on, an attorney not knowing the law?… goofy
@@Bowl427 yeah, I was actually told the portrayals represent the real folks in these cases... these are enactments of the real case situations with real verdicts. Honestly, it makes it more fun to watch.
@ratine6819 i read it depends on what state they are from. Because a lot of states have mediator laws where whoever is the mediator is now lawfully the judge. So if they sign a form saying that the tv judge is their mediator, it doesn't matter if the person is a real judge or not, by law the verdict is real and they have to uphold it.
I never saw a penny of the child support my dad sent... it all went to my egg donors habits of drinking, weed & going out partying every weekend. 🤷🏽♀️ The best part is I no longer have any communication with egg donor & only talk to my dad!! ETA to clear a few things up for the comment section: 1. Thanks for the support & hugs to those who have dealt with the same. 2. My egg donor worked AND received child support while my grandparents raised me WITHOUT her giving them a dime. 3. At the point I did finally go to live with the bitch, she not only had a "daddy of the weekend" around, but intentionally kept me away from my dad. 3. I was brainwashed by her to believe my dad abused me, didn't love me or want to be around me. 🤷🏽♀️ 4. She married a pedo when I was 9, but still made me believe that my dad & step mom were worse than my home life. 5. I started working at 12 & buying most of what I "needed". Clothing, girl essentials (including deodorant, shampoo, soap, etc). 6. By the time I was 16, I rarely stayed at the "house" some of you seem to say that is what the CHILD support goes towards. WRONG!! She is to provide that regardless of CHILD support... as well as food, although I paid for my own & most nights had to bring home food that was taken off MY paycheck. Read that again. 7. I was 21 when I FINALLY reunited with my dad & found out the truth, not only from him but her family members as well. 8. He DID try to get custody of me when I was 3 months shy of turning 12. She was suing him for MORE CHILD support, however the judge wouldn't let me into the courtroom bc I wasn't 12 yet. So she got more money & he got nothing. I would have told the judge what I was dealing with, but he never spoke to me. 13. I'm grown & have a grown child. I divorced his dad when our son was 5, but we ALWAYS made sure he was provided for physically, emotionally & financially. I NEVER asked for child support or spousal support & we had 50/50 custody & worked together as a team for all holidays, including spending some together with our S.O.'s. I learned there is NO amount of money worth my child's wellbeing. I made my own money & did well, as did his dad. And last, but not least... for those who have never had to experience this level of selfishness or greed, you'll never fully understand. The child support goes for the child's expenses. Period, end of discussion. Housing & food is NOT factored in, as that is the parent's responsibility. For those that think this statement is wrong... maybe don't have kids. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ kids are NOT your money makers, that's what a job is for. If you're not ready to make this level of commitment, don't have kids. YOU need housing & food, what's the difference of adding a child? That support is for THEM... NOT for you to live in a bigger house bc you can't afford it on your salary. NOT for you to eat out every night bc you don't feel like cooking or bc your salary can't afford going out. It's for the fucking CHILD!!! For clothes, shoes, school lunches, all supplies, glasses, medical, dental & any extra expenses the CHILD needs...NOT what YOU need!! Hope this helps clear a few things up.
Technically child support is to support the child so in the eyes of the law if you had a roof, food, and clothes then the child support was used for support. But my mom was similar, used the child support for herself and things she wanted instead of things we needed
She sounds like one of those mothers driving BMWs and getting together with other mothers to drink wine and talk about how difficult their lives are. The entitlement on this nincompoop is off the charts. She has NO CLUE.
If she's an attorney she must be a crappy one because she sure as hell can't argue a case. In a weird way, it does make sense that she's broke because I can't imagine that she's successful in that line of work.
Here's how she could afford her kids loose the personal chef, house keeper, the weekly drinking, getting her hair and nails done, and boom she can afford her kids
She should have been in divorce court reevaluating their divorce settlement. The problem is she's living above her means. Even at that salary, having a personal chef and maid is way to extravagant.
So glad Judge Vonda saw right through this lady!!! I loved it when she told mom that SHE has to pay HIM support!!! Well THAT WORKED, didn't it???😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
you guys really cant think past whats being said. let me make this a little easier for you. say we are friends and we decide to go see a show where tickets are $150 each so to make it easier I buy the two tickets. I go to you a week later and want to go on a date with my husband so i say "hey Ive got no money for my date tonight do you have that $150." you say "I dont have to pay for your date!" Thats kind of how this is going. its not about what she wants to buy its the fact hes not paying anything. also shes making 170,000 a year and she should be able to do all those extras, i bet hes paying for BS that she couldnt
I am a single mom, I’ve raised my children by myself since my third child was 2 months old and she is now 28. I never got a penny from my ex husband, I worked 2 jobs for years and had to get subsidies from income support unfortunately, however necessary. As a parent you do what you have to do and sacrifice what you have to sacrifice. My children always had food and clean clothes and a home to live in. They did extra curricular activities and all three graduated and went on to university and all are working good jobs, actually careers. I am gobsmacked at the audacity of some of the greediness of some of the women demanding unbelievable amounts for basically themselves! Every penny of child support should be spent on the children and I firmly believe that the courts should require proof that the child support payments are being spent on the children. Whether the custodial parent is mom or dad, prove the money is being spent on the child. This judge is very grounded and fair and doesn’t stand for the BS and I applaud her.
This wasn’t about money, it was a failed power play. She was trying to exert dominance, and happily the judge saw through her. On the side, she should ask for a refund from the beauty salon, they ripped her off.
She most certainly can afford it. My husband makes only 50 some thousand a year and I still can get my hair and nails done and other things. Our kids want for nothing. So she’s definitely just trying to be greedy af!! I don’t have a maid once a week cause I’m not a lazy person and can clean my own place. Lol!!
@@aureliana2001 Also, 170k a year is not exactly an exorbitant income if you have 3 kids all in private school plus another that sounds like maybe out of school? (would hate to think that child does not get the private school and other perks). It seems to me, while some of that would be deductible perhaps (with the new tax laws probably not though, simple filing with flat standard deductions) that alone could be 30 to 40 percent of her take home income (which is prob like 10-12k a month depending on who gets to claim those kids, I would imagine her (but splitting it would be fair if they are 50/50 shared time in supporting). Then throw in all of their activities. It does depend on where you live and its cost of living, but where I am in the NYC metro area, even 100k a year with a family of 5 is practically subsistence level living. That means no or FEW extras, definitely no private school, chefs, maids, vacations, and salons!!!!! Rent/mortgage alone for a family that size is anywhere from 2.5k (the very lowest end) to 4.5k a month! I don't know about you, but food alone for that many people is easily 1k a month, way more probably. Now bring in utilities, clothing, shoes, phones, internet, car payments, car insurance, etc etc uh it's a nightmare, you know. This guy cannot be living too well on 70k unless he's in the middle of Iowa or something. I spent about 5 days on a car vacation last year (did'nt fly, my own car) and have a wife and child. That vacation about 300 miles away (Wash DC area) cost well over 2k and it was not exactly luxurious. Shit is just expensive and the money pisses away.
@@caitlinmyriah7657 man when I was a teen I was making 300 a month and STILL found a way to look presentable. I always had my nails done too. This ladie a lie.
It really is hostage, we are all here cos we have prob been in this situation! You know what it's like,mentally berated and made to feel sub parr! Fucking feel shit each and every day cos you can't have an opinion! Thank god this guy got what he deserves! Piece of mind! I don't care about money, but feeling vindicated would help me so much
I love her show, but you should know that if I’m correct these are fake, that’s why during judge Judy’s shows it says “REAL PEOPLE REAL CASES” bcc judge shows are normally fake. I mean come on, an attorney not knowing the law?… goofy
My state court have 3 method of support: alimony, child support and maintenance. Alimony is for two years. Though a I think a judge could extend it for 4 yrs of college. Child support is child support, maintenance is to maintain assets after divorce but if they are to maintain a home/assets until children graduate HS, that’s usually less than 5 yrs or so. That might extend to college if that is negotiated. All bets are off when domestic violence is involved, a judge can give all martial assets to the victim. Usually judges will only apply this in severe cases, though that seems subjective. I’ve seen men and women taken to the cleaners in other states. But my state has the Equal protection Clause for men and women in our state constitution and though it still been slow to change, we have had since 1972 to make it happen. Everyone knows judges are not always fair or “just” in some circumstances, so my state is not perfect.
As a single Mom I had the cheap hair cut, worn out shoes, painted my own nails. Worked 55 hrs a week in factory, so that my hours worked with school. I was my own personal 👩🍳 chef. My child support put a roof over my children. This witch 🧙♀️ is clueless
I didn't have a haircut for 3 years and dyed it myself...and nails? What are they?? haha. Women like this need a huge reality check, hopefully the extra money she now has to fork out each month will assist in that reality check in this case.... probably not though!
I believe what she is saying is that if Dad contributed more than what he is currently contributing then she could reallocate her funds. As an attorney, there is a certain aesthetic she needs to maintain as it affects her clients.
I absolutely love this woman's work .She is just ,fair and right . What kind of attorney are you ?? Nevermind ...We need more Judges like her. Amen to this honey .👏👏👏❤️
My ex-wife tried to get alimony while I was going to college after I worked and payed all the bills while she went to college. The judge just looked at her and said no.
@@SonicTheDarkHedgehog been married 35 yrs..was a sophomore in college hubby went back to school we both worked together at a restaurant while in school Its not for everyone for sure but it worked for us
@Zionist Jew WTF are you talking about? All families are products of a broken system, just some of them are capable of sticking together, majority are not. I'm also not going to marry anyone and have children in the future.
The sad thing is that 3 innocent children are learning that this behavior is acceptable. They will believe that they are entitled to whatever they want whenever they want it. They belong with the dad or his family. She is only a negative influence on them.
CHILD SUPPORT IS A VOLUNTARILY SERVICE, IT'S NOT REQUIRED BY THE CONSTITION OF THE UNITED STATES OR GOVERNMENT! EVERY STATES CHILD SUPPORT SITE, READ IT IS A PUBLIC "SERVICE" CONTRACTED WITH A 3RD PARTY, MEANING, THE GOVERNMENT/STATE CHILD SUPPORT AGENCY AND WHOEVER IS DUMB TO SIGN THEIR FREEDOM AND FUTURE AWAY WHICH THEY MANIPULATE AND THREATEN YOU , TO SIGN THE GOVERNMENT PROMISES TO GIVE AIDE TO THOSE WHO APPLY. IT'S A SCAM AND A PIECE OF THE PIE FOR THE GOVERNMENT TO GET IT. THAT'S WHY THEY GET INTEREST. IT'S A LOAN AND THE NONCUSTODIAL PARENT HAS TO PAY BACK. CHILD SUPPORT IS SEXIST AS WELL. MEANING, THEY SAY THE PERSON "IS A DEAD BEAT" YET, THERE ARE BOTH GENDERS THAT CAN'T AFFORD TO PAY, DUE TO SO MANY LEGIT CIRCUMSTANCES. I AM 42 MALE AND OWE $25K ON MY DAUGHTER WHO IS 19 AND ONLY BORN BECAUSE HER MOM TOOK THE CON DOM OUT OF TRASH AND PUT IT UP IN HER AND GOT PREGNANT.WHEN SHE WAS BORN, HER MOM, GRANDMOTHER AND TWO UNCLES ARE A HERD AND MOVED ALL OVER HERE IN KANSAS, MISSOURI AND ARKANSAS JUST TO MAKE SURE THEY DON'T LET ME HAVE CUSTODY AND GET PAID YEARLY TAX REFUNDS. I AM HEREIN KANSAS, AND THE JUDGE ASKED HER ABOUT IT, AND SHE FREELY ADMITTED IT, AND I MADE IT CLEAR I DID MY PART TO KEEP FROM HAVING A CHILD. YET, I OWE $25! UNTIL TODAY. UNTIL THAT'S PAID, I HAVE NOT EVER HAD A PASSPORT, CAR, HOUSE, BANK ACCOUNT, TAX REFUNDS, ANY LICENSES OF ANY SORT, FISHING, DRIVING, HUNTING, RECREATIONAL! CHILD SUPPORT IS A SCAM! PLAIN AND SIMPLE! I WAS 20 WHEN THE COURTS THREATENED ME IF I DON'T SIGN THE 3RD PARTY CONTRACT, I'LL GO TO JAIL ETC. I HAD NO LAWYER, I HAD NO REPRESENATION, I DIDN'T KNOW MY RIGHTS.
Not this case, but often one parent, father or mother, fully supports the child. All their money goes to the child. When they receive CS, they are not spending it on themselves, but now their money is freed up, because the other parent is helping financially support the child, so they can spend their money on themselves.
You know it's strange , he shares custody makes 100k less but still manages to maintain his appearance clean and neat . She on the other hand wants someone else to do everything for her that he does for himself and his children .
I was born in '62. I graduated in 80. My mother recieved $20 in child support. When he retired from his job because of a disability I was not entitled to any of his benefits. There was no atty advertising they could help my mother out.
The judge was another woman. She saw through that and wasn’t buying it. Women are harder on other women when they see bull shit when the man is being reasonable. During jury selection on some cases, sometimes women are excluded by one side or the other depending on the sex of the parties.
@@paulae9579you are making up shit. She doesn't want to work but request even more money which just tells you that she is lazy and that she wants money for herself.
@@paulae9579 With a 100k salary difference on her favour? Yes, exaclty as i expect the guy to pay if he is the one making 100k more. It's only right that the one making more money contribute more to the childrens, in this case the difference is such that most of the costs are on her even on split custody.
@@paulae9579 the dad pays health insurance while making 100k less.... Way more than would be expected of a woman but sure stand up for the alcoholic to have more money for booze.
The fact that the mother, who is a lawyer, showed up expecting things to go her way just proves that she knows some judges would've given her what she wanted, but she hadn't counted on Judge Vonda being fair.
I love her show, but you should know that if I’m correct these are fake, that’s why during judge Judy’s shows it says “REAL PEOPLE REAL CASES” bcc judge shows are normally fake. I mean come on, an attorney not knowing the law?… goofy
‘Your honour, I am living on the bread line, I am almost so poor that soon I will have to cook my own meals! I need helpppp!’ 🤣🤣 you certainly do need help 🙈
I’m so very grateful for several reasons why the court awarded me sole custody of our one child. The mother was abusive towards our child since birth. Various medications over the years either failed or made me woman worse. Second time and last time in court after I was given custody we were asked if we had anything else to say. The child’s mother then asked if I could pay her support. A good thing for her was she gets SSI income from the government. By the way she only got 8 hours supervised visit lol per YEAR
Where I'm from, common law marriage, by living with eachother for two years, is as legally binding as a legal marriage. A prenup is meaningless in that situation. No matter what someone has in their will, the spouse automatically gets everything when the other dies.
Prenuptials are useless. Because she can just say that she signed it under duress even though if you video taped it and everything else. Then it's null and void and you still get fucked.
Sounds like the mother is the only one putting the children first. SHE is the one who is putting all her money into the support of her children while her ex husband is paying only for health insurance. She deserves to be able to do her hair and nails and her children's father deserves to pay support for HIS kids regardless of the difference in income. So now, not only is she solely responsible for supporting her children she is to pay HIM child support? BS. I like this show and this judge but this time she got it wrong.
@@stripedtigress Did you notice the income question? Judge was right, if you earn that much and still can't afford to raise your kid, you're a bad parent.
@@Burtlocker It has nothing to do with her earnings vs his. He is the father and his child support should be based on his income not hers. His inability to gain employment on her level is not get fault and shouldn't be used against her.
@@stripedtigress Greed should be held against her, which is what happened. His position has nothing to do with her actions. Being entitled does not make it a fact.
@@Burtlocker So, the mom has split custody and pays for EVERYTHING for her kid: clothing, food, school, after school activities, housing, water, electricity, toys etc. Everything but healthcare, which is ALL the dad pays for. But you think she's greedy because she wants to have some money left over for herself? The dad pays for health insurance. That's it. And the moms the greedy one?
Thats how the old saying goes "dont make a bad situation worse" woman was trying to be greedy and ended up gettin the bad end of this situation 😂😂 all she had to do was shut up and take the child support she was getting
A teaching moment for all she said "I don't have money like I used to when we were living together" its called being married. And it provides financial freedom to some sort.
I was behind the ex husband 100% until he threw shade about her drinking, house keeper, and chef. What does that have to do with support? Is he suing for sole custody? NO. Is he suing for supervised visitation? Nope. Is he claiming she is unfit because of her visits to the liquor store? Didn't hear it. Only heard his jealousy. As for her lifestyle, so what? She is paying for it. However, I would not ask him to contribute to it.
I was a single parent and successfully raised 3 beautiful children to become great adults. I worked as a caretaker to a wonderful woman and I had to supplement my income by cleaning 3 houses because I only received 125 per week in child support, and that was after I took him to court to fight to get him to actually pay. I’d like to see her try to get along with that amount of income. We made it and my children are grown and happy, responsible adults.
Yep been in the same situation . I currently receive a whopping $42 a week for 2 children. Well I should say when I receive it. I've learned to provide for my kids on my income and when I do receive the child support I give it to my kids to go out to the movies or eat out on.
It's your JOB to take care of your kids. It's YOUR responsibility the parent that wants soul custody should bare the financial burden of taking care of the kids people always cry about how much they get monthly give custody to the other parent I'd rather have my kids then receive child support. You are both responsible for taking care of the kids people are just greedy and you waste money on lawyers and going though a court battle and the 5000-10000 you both spend could be used on the child instead of acting like adults and coming to a mutual agreement that is best for the children. 1 child is a minimum og 3600$ on taxes usually parents get 6-8k for 1 kid I have friends with 2 that get 10k 3 kids that get 12k-14k. That's a five hundred to a thousand dollars a month. Nobody takes the children into consideration it's me me me, I had to work this hard to support me and my kids yeah your an adult that decided to break up or get a divorce then spent money on a lawyer to full custody then you whine about how hard it is or that you work 3 jobs. What do you expect. I'm a single dad with 2 kids I didn't ask for a dime of child support we didn't have to waste money and go to court it's not hard to come to a mutual agreement that benefits the children and not yourselfs
@@lovelife7343It's your JOB to take care of your kids. It's YOUR responsibility the parent that wants soul custody should bare the financial burden of taking care of the kids people always cry about how much they get monthly give custody to the other parent I'd rather have my kids then receive child support. You are both responsible for taking care of the kids people are just greedy and you waste money on lawyers and going though a court battle and the 5000-10000 you both spend could be used on the child instead of acting like adults and coming to a mutual agreement that is best for the children. 1 child is a minimum og 3600$ on taxes usually parents get 6-8k for 1 kid I have friends with 2 that get 10k 3 kids that get 12k-14k. That's a five hundred to a thousand dollars a month. Nobody takes the children into consideration it's me me me, I had to work this hard to support me and my kids yeah your an adult that decided to break up or get a divorce then spent money on a lawyer to full custody then you whine about how hard it is or that you work 3 jobs. What do you expect. I'm a single dad with 2 kids I didn't ask for a dime of child support we didn't have to waste money and go to court it's not hard to come to a mutual agreement that benefits the children and not yourselfs
@@cameron3991 wow a little angry I'd say. You know nothing of other people's circumstances . I have a special needs child . While raising him I had a $6750 medical deductible before one penny was paid each year along with $200 a month in therapy and special dietary needs . No help from the government. All I asked for in court was for their father to see them and work more than 14 hours a week. He gave up his job as a plant manager so he wouldn't have to pay child support or medical insurance and the state allowed it. Everyone needs to take accountability for the children that are brought into this world .
That was AWESOME!!! It's about time a judge sided with the father in family court especially when the mother is just being greedy and the money she's seeking is for her NOT her kids
After I heard that they share the kids 50/50 and that she made more I knew she wasn’t about to give that woman any child support. A lot of women think it should be given to them regardless of custody and income.
@@toriladybird511 I absolutely agree. That’s why I think it’s silly for a women to expect money just because society has made it a normality for single moms to get child support. There’s so much more that goes into it than just being a single mom.
I love her show, but you should know that if I’m correct these are fake, that’s why during judge Judy’s shows it says “REAL PEOPLE REAL CASES” bcc judge shows are normally fake. I mean come on, an attorney not knowing the law?… goofy
She doesn't get any child support money from him because she makes more money than he does, hence there are no receipts to show. He contributes by paying for the kids health insurance. She actually went to court to ask for child support money from him, but it backfired: the judge said that she has to pay child support to him because they have the kids 50/50, and he also has another child (not with her) that he has to support.
Dressing down, wearing her hair simply brushed back, no makeup and not having manicured nails to try to gain sympathy from the judge is despicable. Glad he was awarded support.
Imagine if she drew the kids from their extra classes and said "your father won't give me as much money so I've had to withdraw you. Take it up with him." hmm.
Why shouldn't he pay for half their education? I agree, the lawyer mom shouldn't have expressed her need for hair n nails. But dad shld kick in, you know hes hiding money right?!
I worked 10-12 hr days, 6 days a week, and I never would've imagined "maintenance and self-care" could be a component in a child support case. This lady is ridonkulous. If I wanted to get those services, I certainly would not expect my son's Dad to pay for it. 😮
I love her show, but you should know that if I’m correct these are fake, that’s why during judge Judy’s shows it says “REAL PEOPLE REAL CASES” bcc judge shows are normally fake. I mean come on, an attorney not knowing the law?… goofy
Shit like this pisses me off...this woman wanting tons of money for HER needs. Being a parent means sacrificing your wants/needs over the good of the child. My ex literally pays me a whopping $50 a month (court ordered) and even working full time I still need help through the government. Some men get screwed over financially by woman like this who just want the money for greedy reasons while mothers or fathers who genuinely need the help of child support get smacked in the face by a judge who thinks $50 a month is enough. Our system is so ass backwards sometimes that it's infuriating.
I agree “Life is like a box ( nuts 🌰 ) when you are chocolate, you Never 👎🏽 know what you are gonna get!!! I’m grown now and I see what lies, prejudice, mental illness and mis education 👀 looks like. Shout out to Xeno dude THANK YOU 🙏🏽 and Yes I am keeping it SEXY 🫶🏽 big ups 👊🏾 Hang in there Sis, your time will come !
@@darkpisces8125 This show might be fake but cases like this do actually exist. Real people are effected by the way our court system is broken and it needs to change.
OMG! what a narcissist. I got child support, but I was working a full time job and coaching soccer (as a volunteer). I did not get my nails "done" nor did I get my hair cut at a salon with regularity. I worked to pay the bills, the child support was for my daughter's After school care and anything she needed for school.
Nice video Xenoshot and great commentary. I could not agree more with You. And Judge Vonda, my heroine for the day. I think She couldn't believe what She was hearing, but sorted it out brilliantly.
This is why we need a debit card system for child support. The mother or father can use the debit card to specifically buy things for the child, Clothing, school supplies, sports, toys, food, etc. If the mother or father has an accounting on a debit card of what is being bought with child support money, a record exists to determine if more child support is needed. Keep this in mind, the custodial parent is still supposed to supply a “bedroom” for the child. The other parent paying child support is not supposed to have their money used to support the child’s custodial parent.
I remember in 1980s a friend was bent over for LARGE Child & Spouse support including $1200 month for MAKEUP. It all back fired when HE got the children after another marrying again and SHE had to pay the agreed amount that she demanded.
I went to court and voluntarily ended child support collection against my ex-husband when my son was very, very young. I was able to voluntarily end child support collection efforts against my ex, because I always had a JOB, my child was never on government hand-outs such as health insurance and or food stamps because I supported him. I didn't want my son's entire childhood to be spent listening to his divorced parents screaming about "child support," as my parents did when I was a child.
