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28-year-old Matthew is a shopping junkie whos finances are in desperate need of rehab. Ironically, Matthew works in finance and brings home £2,700 a month. But, he’s spending twice that, leaving him with a colossal debt of £55,000. Matthew’s spending knows no bounds, from online shopping to luxury holidays, top-notch gadgets to the must-have beauty products. Matthew’s love-affair with shopping means he’s spending all his spare time with his credit cards. His plastic-fantastic lifestyle is a major worry for friends and family. But, Matthew refuses to grip the seriousness of his plight.
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@yatesy117
@yatesy117 4 года назад
"How do you sleep at night!?" "I just go to bed" lol
@anubusx
@anubusx 4 года назад
Makes sense!!!
@maddy3388
@maddy3388 4 года назад
Lol
@andreamoore6477
@andreamoore6477 3 года назад
he said-- "i go to bed- thats it"
@Justdocuments
@Justdocuments 3 года назад
Not very well with everyone dieing of covid 19 but shut my eyes how about you
@blaakcoffee
@blaakcoffee 2 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@jbw53191
@jbw53191 3 года назад
It was really interesting how he always always smiled. It was as though he had this habit of always putting on a facade. That constant smile was certainly hiding a lot
@imalrockme
@imalrockme Год назад
Really annoying.
@cheyenne14320
@cheyenne14320 4 года назад
How tf is it unfriendly to ask people to take off shoes? Some people want to outside germs to stay outside
@mannys9130
@mannys9130 4 года назад
Because feet are gross with fungus and warts, and they stink up the room if someone has a bad case of sweaty feet. I don't want to walk around a stranger's house barefoot and catch their athlete's foot and warts. 🤢 It's very rude in my opinion to invite people over and make them immediately uncomfortable by removing an important protective article of clothing and stinking up the room you're hanging out in. I have declined invites in the past and will continue to do so if that person is a shoe remover... 👎
@LittleCutieABDL
@LittleCutieABDL 4 года назад
I know and agree with you, a lot of people do it, and that's 1 of the first things that got me on the nerves about her and then how she treated him throughout the weeks; no wonder he exploded eventually after warning her and keeping his cool. I would too it's better than your shoes where you walked where many others stepped outside with more germs on the outside floor compared to your inside feet. And most people take showers every day or every other day.
@jjmmm515
@jjmmm515 4 года назад
@@mannys9130....
@cheyenne14320
@cheyenne14320 4 года назад
@@mannys9130 and what if it makes me uncomfortable for you to track what ever has been on the bottom of your shoe from outside and fyi I dont have athlete's foot and people who have that rule probably take good care of their feet hygiene. Did you buy or pay their rent? No? Didnt think so. (How you doing young lady...lmao jk) That's like me saying I can eat anywhere I want in someone else's house when they said PLEASE eat in the dining room only. It's not trying to be rude it's just asking politely to respect their rules.
@cheyenne14320
@cheyenne14320 4 года назад
@@LittleCutieABDL Right! She was so rude to him like you shouldn't be rude to them and honestly if they are judging like that then they really don't need that job position in the first place.
@oksills
@oksills 4 года назад
It’s sooooo obvious and common. He feels an emptiness, worthlessness and is trying to fill the void and establish at least an external value by owning “things”!
@CM-vs5cj
@CM-vs5cj 3 года назад
I am a ginger, with freckles. I was bullied relentlessly because of that in school. In 2021 the people who bullied me are now dying there hair ginger and drawing on fake freckles with an eye liner. Own it 💛
@howey935
@howey935 2 года назад
I’m ginger but put a stop to any bullying when I was 7 and a boy put paint on my hair so I stabbed him through the cheek with a pencil and broke 4 of his teeth. I got into a lot of trouble and had to see a child psychiatrist for 2 years but guess what? No one ever picked on me again.
@nanana6067
@nanana6067 2 года назад
I like gingers.. I think they look hot
@eatinsomtin9984
@eatinsomtin9984 2 года назад
You are dying out
@gemmastaines5706
@gemmastaines5706 Год назад
“Freckles are the one accessory that never goes out of fashion” Coco Chanel
@robertcuminale1212
@robertcuminale1212 Год назад
@@nanana6067 50 years ago I married a ginger. The other girls I liked were also gingers. I don't understand the problem. My wife's 3 brothers have red hair. Oddly each has a different shade as does my wife. All have some freckles and extremely white skin. My wife does not tan, she burns and peels. One brother in law is just one big freckle. He had a patterned shirt on one day and the pattern was sun burned onto his skin. My father had dark brown hair but a red moustache and beard. My mother was auburn, brown with red highlights yet none of us 8 children got a hint of red. Two had dark brown hair and the rest of us were blonde. mine turned a very light brown with blonde mixed in. We're a very strong mix of ethnicities. Danish, Dutch, German, Welsh, Irish, Scottish and Sicilian. The Danes came from Normandy. We're all gray now but there are streaks of the original colors showing. My wife's beautiful red hair turned gray. She used to dye it, I think it was LA-7 Clairol but finally gave it up. My brothers in law never married so no red continuing from them. Red really is dying out.
@lovespin4854
@lovespin4854 4 года назад
I do not take to these hosts. The very first thing she says is that she "hates" it when people ask for shoes to be taken off at the front door, because it's "SO unfriendly" -- she must have someone to clean her house because who wants dirty shoes that have been everywhere including public washrooms walking all over your home where you walk with bare feet ?
@crissyfire5350
@crissyfire5350 4 года назад
She probably has smelly feet😂
@michelespracklin1704
@michelespracklin1704 3 года назад
Here in Canada it is automatic to take off shoes when we enter someone's home and our own, there is no second thought about it. In fact people feel uncomfortable keeping shoes on when told they can and repeatedly say "are you sure?".
@rubyrae7715
@rubyrae7715 3 года назад
Exactly! They have such grossly entitled attitudes. 🤮
@kathleenkitcher852
@kathleenkitcher852 3 года назад
NOT taking off your shoes in someone’s home is very rude.
@lilliepaddle
@lilliepaddle 3 года назад
@@michelespracklin1704 We have the same culture in the UK, its very weird if someone keeps their shoes on in the house which is why this host always confuses me as thats not a normal British attitude to have haha!
@geraldinemcgarvey6249
@geraldinemcgarvey6249 2 года назад
He lives with his brother and friend, Richard. That's two people living in his home not contributing to his gross income. If he charged them rent, he would be completely out of debt in two years without taking out the 40K second mortgage.
@daCubanaqt
@daCubanaqt 8 месяцев назад
Wait, who said they weren’t paying rent? I didn’t hear them anything either way.
@celestialcircledance
@celestialcircledance 4 года назад
The title made me think of plastic surgery and body modification . Glad he hasn't gone down that path .
@andreacoones1587
@andreacoones1587 3 года назад
That's what I was thinking too... I thought he was doing a ton of plastic surgery..
@ellenorbjornsdottir1166
@ellenorbjornsdottir1166 3 года назад
Probably takes raloxifene for partial feminisation judging by that face
@smnewstead4093
@smnewstead4093 3 года назад
@@ellenorbjornsdottir1166 You can't change the bones of the face after puberty.
@matildabishops9196
@matildabishops9196 3 года назад
His teeth looks plastic! Lol
@selma-ethelamyciolan1530
@selma-ethelamyciolan1530 3 года назад
of course nowadays our minds would go straight to that...
@huseyinmustafa3410
@huseyinmustafa3410 4 года назад
It’s funny how he buys all those clothes but when he’s on camera he looks so plain
@sevinlillamoon
@sevinlillamoon 4 года назад
YES HAHAH
@celestialcircledance
@celestialcircledance 4 года назад
He does put a lot of care into skin teeth and hair but how many fashion choices do strait guys really have ?
@suredeydo
@suredeydo 4 года назад
@@celestialcircledance I'm not convinced he is straight.
@Wanshkl
@Wanshkl 3 года назад
He probably doesn't wear most of them. Some items he never even tried at the store and aint even his size He just buys them to show off he have expensive clothes in his closet.
@penttijakonen3817
@penttijakonen3817 3 года назад
Plain clothes are way more classy though, you can get flashy clothes for cheap.
@andreacoones1587
@andreacoones1587 3 года назад
How do neither of them see this man is suffering from some serious anxiety issues? I don't understand how they didn't notice it or address it.
@LucyLu-wj3vn
@LucyLu-wj3vn 3 года назад
You’re quite right, yet they seemed to address the issues that cause him anxiety, don’t they? Take away the issues and the anxiety will be diminished.
@daCubanaqt
@daCubanaqt 8 месяцев назад
Benjamin is not a psychologist or a psychiatrist. He leads too much instead of guiding the person. Remember thought, this a tv show so they are going to try to make what they are doing fit into the show.
@SideshowBob44
@SideshowBob44 6 месяцев назад
@@daCubanaqt Yeh, the slightest little thing and he makes a massive deal out of it, like the guy who was scared or heights… like thats related.
@v.t.5278
@v.t.5278 3 года назад
She hates houses where you have to take your shoes off? She's not going to like the world outside of the UK.
@abigailbee7208
@abigailbee7208 3 года назад
His haircut was THE haircut to have back in the day. It’s the 2007 equivalent of the top knot.
@flyingpossum6958
@flyingpossum6958 2 года назад
I had the ab swing pro which also an invention from 2007 lol
@madmemadhouseme4885
@madmemadhouseme4885 2 года назад
Porcupine?
@alamedadanceparty
@alamedadanceparty 6 месяцев назад
Looks like a Male Karen haircut 😂
@debsbaines6662
@debsbaines6662 3 года назад
Aw his mum could have been more affectionate in the cage and she should have comforted him, I would not be able to stop myself reaching out for my sons, I'd be in tears if they were upset. Parents should never be cold towards their children especially when they need them emotionally 😪
@juliab.1974
@juliab.1974 3 года назад
She is in a emotional cage herself…
@FeistyShlomit
@FeistyShlomit 2 года назад
Very stereotypical British - stiff upper lip and all of that 😎
@purplequeer
@purplequeer 3 года назад
I like how everyone has a stack of debt statements just lying around in this show
@anufajemisin4348
@anufajemisin4348 Год назад
I know. One would have thought that these people would want to hide those kind of reminders from the cameras but clearly not it would seem!!!
@renukac7391
@renukac7391 Год назад
Maybe they get asked to leave them out for them
@daCubanaqt
@daCubanaqt 8 месяцев назад
@@renukac7391 Of course they did. Why don’t people realize these shows follow a formula and there is a thing called production.
@SideshowBob44
@SideshowBob44 6 месяцев назад
All my statements are online 😂
@deekat605
@deekat605 4 месяца назад
Omg found him in the comments! He looks great all the skin care routines paid off and is doing great 750k house with 6 bedrooms!! Married his best friend Richard. 😍☺️☺️☺️ I love a good happy ending.
@adel-711
@adel-711 3 года назад
Being debt-free a great thing I know all about that . I’m 58 years old I don’t have any more debts, I sleep well and I’m very happy about that . I have done it all on my own . I am not credit cards anymore . I have a Visa debit card in my bank account, I only buy what is essential and what I really need .
@ohwhatworld5851
@ohwhatworld5851 3 года назад
4 years ago when I turned 30 I realised the value of money. I am like you. I only buy things I need and I am debt free. I have 2 credit cards which I spend a little on and pay off each month to build my credit rating. Feels good.
@kentuckynanasaves1903
@kentuckynanasaves1903 3 года назад
I will be debt free from my mortgage n debts in 5 years ❣... cant wait, i will be 5 years early 👏🤑👏❣... I'll only have utilities, n i coupon to get wat i need , have my Stockpile full ❣... im working on the Pantry too, God is good Everyday 😇💭❣I'm happy for you, n anyone who becomes debt free 👏👏😘💭❣
@freddytw206
@freddytw206 2 года назад
@@kentuckynanasaves1903 well done. God is good and you have been wise.💜
@blaakcoffee
@blaakcoffee 2 года назад
@@kentuckynanasaves1903 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@eiruggriffiths8491
@eiruggriffiths8491 2 года назад
I also sorted out my debts,so now debt free,don't use credit cards, and only get an item if I need it.
@AbolishTheATF
@AbolishTheATF 4 года назад
55k to look like a Karen
@roriramokolo
@roriramokolo 4 года назад
Exactly
@sperduper
@sperduper 3 года назад
I don't think there where Karen’s in the early 2000 XD
@AnitaN844
@AnitaN844 3 года назад
@@sperduper no but the were Molly's😂
@Justdocuments
@Justdocuments 3 года назад
Give the lad a break his really trying.
@jenniferhcsmith-5586
@jenniferhcsmith-5586 3 года назад
@@Justdocuments definitely
@marcelinoarmuellesgordon6900
@marcelinoarmuellesgordon6900 4 года назад
He bought a dog because it’s matches his carpet? What the hell
@waterairfire
@waterairfire 4 года назад
Marcelino armuelles gordon LOL
@hansen5
@hansen5 4 года назад
It was obviously a joke, mate
@Unchaise
@Unchaise 3 года назад
Duh, i got kids to get welfare make sense lls
@jenjones90
@jenjones90 2 года назад
He'd probably buy a child for the same reason
@Brooklyn-rj3np
@Brooklyn-rj3np Год назад
It was a joke
@rtv1simshd
@rtv1simshd 4 года назад
But he's still looks....basic
@lindalinda9441
@lindalinda9441 2 года назад
I wondered why his moms first response (when he was in the cage) wasn’t “ you are good enough just as you are” I would have been in tears as a mom if I heard that from one of my kids and hugged and reassured them and then asked why they felt that way. He seems like he’s never felt accepted by his family or kids at school. Poor guy 💔
@kiki29073
@kiki29073 Год назад
Because he didn't need that at the time. He needed toughness.
@Lilygirl283
@Lilygirl283 4 года назад
Her saying "taking shoes off at the front door is so unfriendly" lady if you would come in my home with shoes i would throw you out, shoes and all, i have a sign that says please take of your shoes... my house my rules, she could drag all sorts in on her shoes....
@brooksequine7621
@brooksequine7621 4 года назад
Snapdragon : I would NEVER grace your home .
@Lilygirl283
@Lilygirl283 4 года назад
@@brooksequine7621 could not care less...
@jcbrookbanks1755
@jcbrookbanks1755 4 года назад
Yes, wearing shoes inside somebody's home is so rude to me!
@brooksequine7621
@brooksequine7621 4 года назад
@@Lilygirl283 : Good because it's your ATTITUDE of Entitlement that is UGLY .
@falali9060
@falali9060 4 года назад
It's odd that he even needs a sign. Anyone with any respect would take it off without being asked.
@ashleybellofsydney
@ashleybellofsydney 4 года назад
Overspending often is the result of a subconscious fear of abandonment. The fear of being alone, and unlovable. A plastic credit card will never reject him, a credit card can never, ever leave him...
@ellenorbjornsdottir1166
@ellenorbjornsdottir1166 3 года назад
Nah. Plastic loves letting me down :)
@willsinghforfood
@willsinghforfood 3 месяца назад
I love how he’s asking if he feels claustrophobic during the televised therapy session with a giant camera looming in his face.
@stephenn8366
@stephenn8366 4 года назад
Filling a void.
@raccoonchronicles5134
@raccoonchronicles5134 4 года назад
Filling a void that will never be filled.
@nepadron
@nepadron 4 года назад
Aren't we all
@SuperMrScience
@SuperMrScience 7 месяцев назад
That small house for 240k in 2009-ish in Birmingham...... is WILDLY Overpriced for the time.
@patriciakelly69
@patriciakelly69 3 года назад
When I watched Mathews journey it made me feel quite sad for him. He seems such a lovely young man 👨 who for reasons he’s learning to understand has made him question himself. If I was Mathew I would try to consider how well his life has turned out (except for the spending). I wouldn’t worry about the people who can be unkind and concentrate on the people who care about me. I think that no matter what colour hair he has he will look good. He has no problem with his looks. Sometimes I really think that spending some time with others who are less fortunate is a wake up call. People who have been badly burned, others who’ve lost limbs or being treated for indescribable conditions who are learning that it’s not about looking good but the person that you are. I hope Mathew manages to turn his life around, he has so much support and a huge amount going for him. Xx
@sharonsolana
@sharonsolana 4 года назад
You are brave Matthew! Keep up the good work!
@mazzmj5809
@mazzmj5809 4 года назад
Those eyebrows are...interesting. 😬
@bdel80
@bdel80 4 года назад
Men with eyebrows like that I just think they are gay strait away
@nublessed8993
@nublessed8993 3 года назад
gotta love 2005
@PigSty1985
@PigSty1985 3 года назад
🤨
@selma-ethelamyciolan1530
@selma-ethelamyciolan1530 3 года назад
horrible. they brows are dying.
@clonejones7955
@clonejones7955 3 года назад
He wants Whitney Houston teeth.She had dentures after decades on the pipe.lol
@ashleybellofsydney
@ashleybellofsydney 4 года назад
The psychologist lady said,"He's bad at interacting with people". A true psychologist wouldn't label behaviours and abilities as either "bad" or *good*. Being 'bad' with people is often a symptom of a fear of being hurt or vulnerable; and there is nothing 'bad' about being scared. Being afraid is not a character flaw. She should know that. I like the psychologist man better. His voice is calm and soothing; and he innately understands his talent for empathy can be a therapeutic tool.
@OlyaOrton
@OlyaOrton 2 года назад
She's not really a physiologist tho, she's the "lifestyle coach," basically helps you budget & get out of debt. The guy is the therapist here.
@blaakcoffee
@blaakcoffee 2 года назад
Facts. You should be on the show. You’re super smart.
@blaakcoffee
@blaakcoffee 2 года назад
Facts. You should be on the show. You’re super smart.
@rightersbloc
@rightersbloc 2 года назад
That's the difference between a phd and md
@Brooklyn-rj3np
@Brooklyn-rj3np Год назад
Yuuuup.
@enderyves
@enderyves 4 года назад
He looks like he's wearing an artificial mask 😭 please 💀
@michelespracklin1704
@michelespracklin1704 3 года назад
And here I am dying over my dark blonde hair to be a redhead!! Red hair stands out, it is unique :)
@talithat423
@talithat423 Год назад
I’ve got auburn (reddish brown) hair naturally and I’ve dyed it golden ash blonde 👱🏻‍♀️💕
@AtTheLake91
@AtTheLake91 Год назад
Man, that mom is COLD. ❤
@mimi_elk.7614
@mimi_elk.7614 3 года назад
I love how his home is so spotless. Amazing...
@eniam2675
@eniam2675 3 года назад
Back in the day.... When the mortgage company would give you extra money on your mortgage even though you are at the top of your credit limit....
@dangsood4945
@dangsood4945 2 года назад
ah, pre 2008 was a crazy time
@eniam2675
@eniam2675 3 года назад
His "friend" Richard
@RBrown-zl6wo
@RBrown-zl6wo 4 года назад
I hope this person is better and finally happy!
@LCmonman
@LCmonman 4 года назад
18:20 I’m not usually a big fan of this pseudo-psychologist Benjamin, but there are times that he nails it
@ellecee453
@ellecee453 4 года назад
I found his situation quite touching. I love ginger hair and am always surprised that people make fun of it.
@jacquelineb4375
@jacquelineb4375 4 года назад
I am going to assume that it was Mathews choice to take part in this programme because he knew his spending was out of control. If I was a hefty £55,000 in debt I would want somebodys help & that is after all what Jay & Benjamin are trying to do. Yes they maybe seen as being harsh but but they are there to get results, basically being cruel to be kind. Regarding the removal of a person's shoes when entering a person's home is respectful if asked to do so...people that say their shoes are not dirty are kidding their selves seriously, & those neanderthals that think it's normal to put their dirty shoes on seats on public transport are even worse YUK. Regarding hair colour red & ginger hair is lovely...no need to change it....if only we could change ignorant people's attitudes. Mathew seems like a nice person & I wish him all the best for the future.
@noeltony
@noeltony 4 года назад
On my recommendations..I think RU-vid's tryna tell me something
@AnitaN844
@AnitaN844 3 года назад
"Please take shoes off"is not unfriendly it is his house his rules! Plus is she aware how much germs is on ppls shoes?!!!!!🤮
@aestrobe
@aestrobe 3 года назад
literally, its so unsanitary and dirty to wear shoes in the house, especially if someone has carpet flooring
@penttijakonen3817
@penttijakonen3817 3 года назад
@Jennifer And the benefits of wearing shoes inside? I can't think of a single one really. Protecting your toes maybe but slippers (that you wear inside only) will do that too.
@dangsood4945
@dangsood4945 2 года назад
It literally said the house is a new build as well - the carpets will be brand new! I wouldn't want shoes all over my brand new carpets either
@lorabetht9206
@lorabetht9206 2 года назад
@@penttijakonen3817 I have no arches at all (and I have 4 pins in my ankle from past surgery) so I have to wear shoes with arch support all the time, even inside. Although I like the idea of no shoes inside for cleanliness. I just wouldn’t be able to do it… I can designate a couple pairs only for indoor use.
@marywagner9927
@marywagner9927 Год назад
It is a ridiculous practice! Face it - germs are a part of life. So many people have allergies and I believe it is due to this germaphobe mentality. So there is a bit of dirt on your shoes,- do you lick your rugs? If it worries you then vacuum every day. But to expect visitors to partake in your phobia, it is rude! They might have foot fungi and now your house has more germs than it would have with shoes! Get over it.
@skylar8277
@skylar8277 4 года назад
Im going back to work soon and this just makes me want to hold on to every single penny i earn lolol
@ignazs.5816
@ignazs.5816 3 года назад
Working sucks.
@lorabetht9206
@lorabetht9206 2 года назад
You can also use your money to invest - we own 7 rental properties. My husband is a real estate appraiser and has done very well. Hopefully we will have enough to retire at 50 and still have residual income.
@AnUrbanGypsy
@AnUrbanGypsy 3 года назад
‘Only a ginger, can call another ginger, ginger’, as the great Tim Minchin once sang. 😆
@cypher237
@cypher237 4 года назад
He says the ginger thing isn't an issue, but has a complete breakdown & leaves for a week.... 🤷‍♀️
@jillians5792
@jillians5792 4 года назад
He's definitely embracing it these days!
@cypher237
@cypher237 4 года назад
@@jillians5792 is he??
@littleblackcar
@littleblackcar 3 года назад
Yeah, WTF is this thing against redheads? I have two cousins with the. most. beautiful. natural garnet-red hair and I'm envious beyond words.
@melflo4651
@melflo4651 4 года назад
Mathew, at your age 28, I was still struggling to graduate from university. I barely made enough money to survive; but you already made decent money. You will be okay; listen and follow advices from the counselors then you will be fine.
@giv-0234
@giv-0234 2 года назад
i have £35000 net worth and im 28. i could have had £100,000 net worth if i dumped more cash into crypto during 2018-2019, after investing in 2017
@Brooklyn-rj3np
@Brooklyn-rj3np Год назад
Lovely comment
@Sammy117
@Sammy117 4 года назад
I wonder where he is now. This looks super old
@kikuribot4316
@kikuribot4316 4 года назад
Looks like it comes from Paris Hilton's golden era
@Sammy117
@Sammy117 4 года назад
I’d say that’s quite accurate... I caught sight of the date when they showed what he was selling on eBay, and it looked like 2007.
@bdel80
@bdel80 4 года назад
You can also tell how old the show is the technology showing in his house. For example the computer monitors and phones. Another way is his take home wage per month, prices of items
@jillians5792
@jillians5792 4 года назад
Just google him...he's embraced his ginger roots and I think is a fitness instructor!!
@LOLLOL-xb3iy
@LOLLOL-xb3iy 4 года назад
his best friend Richard is now his partner and they have a pet dog as a child, he's also blond now
@melaniepaul6627
@melaniepaul6627 3 года назад
My default is to take off my shoes whenever I go into someone’s home
@cypher237
@cypher237 4 года назад
It's like he doesn't think of it as spending money at all, or that he doesn't need to pay it back...
@AbolishTheATF
@AbolishTheATF 4 года назад
Diana Fronsdahl I see you in the comments all the time lol, hows that raccoon doing?
@robbiehall9958
@robbiehall9958 4 года назад
I know what you mean. It is so easy for a person to get easily in debt as credit cards are so convenient for people to use. A person starts off with 1 card and then before you know they are paying off 5 credit cards
@littleblackcar
@littleblackcar 3 года назад
A lot of people seem to think that. I used to work with a girl who, if her card got declined, would say, "Oh, there's no money left on that one," like it was prepaid and not a credit card. OMG, that's not how it works!
@Loriburnett
@Loriburnett Год назад
Keep up the great work! You were so lucky to get such excellent help.
@LittleCutieABDL
@LittleCutieABDL 4 года назад
Ok she is over the top. Like I know you want to help him and I agree there's solutions and give him a little push However! you don't need to be constantly dishing out things like thick and stupid", as well as saying bad things about him to the psych without even knowing him or why he's the way he is as he was discussing with the psych, where all you care is how much stuff he has and the cosmetic looks he has vs you, I sense a bit of jealousy there. i'm not agreeing with him either and I understand her part again but the way she's coming across is not just to toughen him up, she's speaking down on him by calling him names; speaking like that way he will despise you for sure and he's not gonna follow with ANY advice you have to say or give. It's basic common sense that is not how anybody would like to be talked to and or How you should speak with anyone. Respect goes both ways. I'd tell you to leave me alone and learn some manners before you dare to speak or treat me like that again. The more you do it the less he's gonna open up. Damn She really got on my nerves.
@gojeta1982
@gojeta1982 4 года назад
Shes bad cop, the guy is good cop.He needs to be told that hes stupid and thick because thats the way hes acting.Hes got no real issue to spend like he does, the money is just to freely avalible and he cant stop himself.55k at 28 is shockingly bad.
@penttijakonen3817
@penttijakonen3817 3 года назад
She got on my nerves literally the moment she walked in and called the note rude.
@renukac7391
@renukac7391 Год назад
He wasn’t getting it, that’s why she had to be harsh.
@mmp495
@mmp495 6 месяцев назад
I found her unbearable and such a downer when she made negative comments. Matthew is already dealing with hurt. 😢
@riyakadam1937
@riyakadam1937 3 года назад
0:42 “must have beauty products” proceeds to show a tub of nivea cream
@lisamiller7317
@lisamiller7317 3 года назад
I love gingers! My daughter and grandson are gingers! Love Love Love
@one_more_chance4694
@one_more_chance4694 10 месяцев назад
Look at all those CDs!! Start saving up for a future iPod, Matthew 😂
@alamedadanceparty
@alamedadanceparty 6 месяцев назад
I’m embarrassed to say I used to have 2,000 cds. I love music.
@joey1723
@joey1723 5 месяцев назад
​@@alamedadancepartyWow that's an amazing collection! Over how long have they been accumulated, if you don't mind me asking?
@andreacoones1587
@andreacoones1587 3 года назад
This is the ONLY time I've actually liked this therapists approach to helping the person out. All of the other ones were awful. Role playing and just cringy. This one actually worked and wasn't awful.
@janedoe247
@janedoe247 5 месяцев назад
“Clearly, there’s something’s he doesn’t like about himself since he has that many beauty products” lol!!!
@wombatperson5431
@wombatperson5431 3 года назад
God I wish I had rich friends. You ever spend zero dollars a week? That's my budget.
@rebvanwinkelstein2578
@rebvanwinkelstein2578 Месяц назад
Hope you are in a better place today 🍀
@LaithNight
@LaithNight 4 года назад
Why are people hating on this guy tho
@wobuzhidaoification
@wobuzhidaoification 4 месяца назад
"I just bought a suitcase in case I go away somewhere - although I've already got 3". Brilliant.
@courtniewill
@courtniewill 3 года назад
In most of these episodes I feel like the psychologist forces confessions onto the subject.....like the kid has feelings of inadequacy probably nothing to do with his mother... its almost a given with the societal constructs that lower and middle class people aspire to with the latter being able to reach that through the use of debt......why you forcing him to says its his mother?!
@thomhoff1431
@thomhoff1431 2 года назад
They should do a spendaholics revisited.
@gemmastaines5706
@gemmastaines5706 Год назад
They did! Not with all of the spendaholics, but some of them they went back 12months later to see what had changed!
@alamedadanceparty
@alamedadanceparty 6 месяцев назад
@@gemmastaines5706oh! I need that episode!
@lightworlddouglas4601
@lightworlddouglas4601 2 года назад
Lightworld From Canada - on one show of Shopaholic people. They took them to a “soup kitchen” & shelter for homeless people for 3 days. It woke them up enough to realize that they could end up in the same situation. One accident, one chronic illness and things can ALL change. One show from Canada was “ till DEBT do us part”. My husband & I have been married for 47 years and we have 1(one) credit card and unless we have the money in the bank we DO NOT buy it! I went for surgery and ended up with “nerve entrapment and chronic pain. I was a nurse and eventually had to go on Disability pension. My disability pension was less then 1/2 have a nurse’s salary. We had 2 teenage daughters at the time but they learned a lesson. To expect unexpected issues, illnesses, accidents that could change your earning opportunities.
@MalonsMilk
@MalonsMilk 5 месяцев назад
I don’t know anyone who doesn’t take their shoes off in someone else’s home when they’re on the carpet. It’s rude if you don’t take your shoes off as you could be damaging someone else’s property
@marianfrances4959
@marianfrances4959 6 месяцев назад
Keep going, Matthew! You're a fire young nan with much ahead of you. Bravo! 👍😎🇨🇦💫
@TheCanadiangirl4
@TheCanadiangirl4 3 года назад
I don't understand the problem with being a ginger in the uk? Why is it seen as such a bad thing?
@mojopika
@mojopika Год назад
That is same in Turkey they call them carrot
@shanishine38
@shanishine38 8 месяцев назад
Everyone keeps asking this question, and no one can give an answer. It's a very random form of discrimination. My thought: Red heads are the white people that other white people discriminate against? 🤷🏾‍♀️
@deekat605
@deekat605 4 месяца назад
Who’s watching this in 2024 and wishing they bought a house in 2005 but really were only finishing school 😢
@duvessa75
@duvessa75 3 года назад
I love my simple life. NO debts, NO creditcard. I live off of what I make throughout my jobs. That's it's. NO money? NO buying.. This guy is really out of touch with reality.. He'll have a rude awakening.. And still he doesn't look all that!
@Livelaughlimpbizkit
@Livelaughlimpbizkit 8 месяцев назад
I forgot about those weird businesses that would sell on eBay for other people
@nevermind3421
@nevermind3421 3 года назад
It’s literally a disrespectful thing to walk in someone’s house with shoes on lol. I don’t get people who thing it’s weird.
@mona.shaaban
@mona.shaaban 4 года назад
That's why the Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) said, "It is also charity to utter a good word." I wish I had a ginger hair color, too 😊.
@ritadecassia279
@ritadecassia279 3 года назад
Dye it
@happydayz7857
@happydayz7857 3 года назад
What does that mean?
@mona.shaaban
@mona.shaaban 3 года назад
@@happydayz7857 It means words make difference, they seriously hurt. Everyone has to find kind words to be rewarded.
@mona.shaaban
@mona.shaaban 3 года назад
@@ritadecassia279 I'll think about that 😊.
@lynneawilson1365
@lynneawilson1365 3 месяца назад
It's unfriendly that people don't want dirt and animal waste on their carpet?
@pinkp3582
@pinkp3582 4 года назад
He is being too hard on himself. There is nothing wrong with his natural physique and looks. He is good looking naturally.
@Unchaise
@Unchaise 3 года назад
Can you go in the past and tell the kids that bullied him that, that way he won't internalize it
@lumemaa7
@lumemaa7 3 года назад
It’s a custom in many countries, taking shoes off! Shows respect towards the host and also who would want someone walking on light carpets with shoes. 🤦🏼‍♀️
@ignazs.5816
@ignazs.5816 3 года назад
The hosts always talk bad about people's homes before they meet them and even when the style isn't so bad. I would've loved to have seen their own homes then and just make nasty assumptions about them too.
@suredeydo
@suredeydo 4 года назад
Rollerblading?!? Yeaaassss, girl.
@haroldfridkis3536
@haroldfridkis3536 2 года назад
Credit cards are the root of all evil!
@matildabishops9196
@matildabishops9196 3 года назад
I love Ginger people, I’m waiting on my redhead grand babies in the future!
@afergie76
@afergie76 5 месяцев назад
I am a red headed American. Yes, I did get some bullying from it when I was younger. But nothing that would make me feel like he did. I’m wondering how much of a taboo it is in the UK?
@LazyDaisyDay88
@LazyDaisyDay88 2 года назад
A young man who just dips into and out of adulthood.
@KandeShack
@KandeShack 4 года назад
Hoping he gets the therapy he needs for this destructive addiction!
@nildabridgeman8104
@nildabridgeman8104 3 года назад
We knew 2 sisters growing up in Nyc, we were all Puerto Rican, who happened to be red heads with freckles, CUTE & these girls pulled all the guys. Another red headed Dominican pulled any girl. I don't understand why the mistreatment. Red hair & freckles is just another form of beauty God created.. I hope this guy can learn to love & accept himself so he can begin to LIVE
@Unchaise
@Unchaise 3 года назад
I mean you have to look at it in different ways ie the culture, race, religion. No offense but Im assuming your talking about the NYC where the struggle is real and you need the white teacher to save y'all(joke)
@christopherstmarin
@christopherstmarin 7 месяцев назад
Really not liking her this episode. The whole snotty “hoe rude to ask people to take shoes off” to her rudeness calling him daft etc. ya she’s mean for the sake of mean fh
@BOLLOCKS1968
@BOLLOCKS1968 3 года назад
He says he never ever looks at prices. BS! He doesn't make that much money. Have you shopped in London? You can find a purse for £4.000 and that is on the cheap end. Sad that he is so desperate for approval and attention that he would put himself in that situation.
@FirozAlam-oh1le
@FirozAlam-oh1le 3 года назад
Excellent
@racquelford1595
@racquelford1595 4 года назад
Matthew all you have to do sell what you can all off your stuff in good condition and start paying your debt and live a normal life OK
@ashleybellofsydney
@ashleybellofsydney 4 года назад
"I did a thing with his mother". Bless!
@aarondouglas4232
@aarondouglas4232 4 года назад
I can't believe people used to look like this
@stonecold998
@stonecold998 2 года назад
Wait a decade then look back at all the e-girl/softboy thats going on now
@daus6035
@daus6035 4 месяца назад
Exactly!
@seedhillbruisermusic7939
@seedhillbruisermusic7939 11 месяцев назад
never understood how anyone thought that haircut looked good. It might have been fashionable but it's one of the least flattering hairstyles there's ever been, and I'm including mullets in that.
@bluegypsydoll
@bluegypsydoll 4 года назад
SHE NEEDS A BETTER VOCABULARY. She is RUDE.
@re7416
@re7416 7 месяцев назад
14:00 - "Friend" 😉😉 Richard's birthday. ● As in "very special" Friend....? 🤔 ● (Oh) BOY....😉
@sunnysunny9966
@sunnysunny9966 3 года назад
It's unfriendly to take off your shoes 🙄then she never left the UK I guess 🤦🏼‍♀️
@samuelcareen5563
@samuelcareen5563 3 года назад
do people in the UK wear their shoes inside? im canadian and we always take shoes off
@lilliepaddle
@lilliepaddle 3 года назад
@@samuelcareen5563 I live in the UK and people dont tend to wear shoes in the house, so I’d assume we are similar to Canada, this host is just weird.
@loliqueenloco6495
@loliqueenloco6495 3 года назад
Honestly he just needs to put his house under his brothers name and everything's he owes. Declare bankruptcy and he won't owe any money to them or have anything taken
@michellec2899
@michellec2899 3 года назад
Oh my goodness ,if he is this good looking,I can just imagine how beautiful he would be with his red hair.My mom was a red head,& she is now grey, she has always had a strong personality.Red is beautiful! be proud, don’t let some silly people run your life, you are amazing, just be yourself! 🌺🌸🌼🇬🇧🇨🇦M
@metime4325
@metime4325 8 месяцев назад
The therapist is almost bald, and he is so confident. It's not how we look on the outside , but how we are inside.
@jenniferloftus2363
@jenniferloftus2363 3 года назад
I do wish there were updates on the people featured on the show.
@BOLLOCKS1968
@BOLLOCKS1968 3 года назад
I know. I keep wondering ... is he homeless now? Has he turned his life around and stayed out of debt? Is he now a ginger again? Where are all these people ✌
@matthewvokes7025
@matthewvokes7025 Год назад
Paid all my debt off in 3 years, married my Richard, bought a new 6 bedroom house and now don't have a mortgage... oh, got a 54% payrise too. So yes, things picked up. 🙂
@matthewvokes7025
@matthewvokes7025 Год назад
@@BOLLOCKS1968 Defo not homeless... now mortgage free in a £750k 6 bedroom house! Paid all the debt off in 3 years and got a huge payrise, so things are good!
@rebvanwinkelstein2578
@rebvanwinkelstein2578 Месяц назад
​@@matthewvokes7025the red hair looks fantastic 👌best wishes for the future and thanks for being brave enough to be on the show 🙂
@Thelocalavenue
@Thelocalavenue 4 года назад
That eyebrows
@lilianecarvalho2940
@lilianecarvalho2940 2 года назад
Até que enfim um inglês cuidando dos dentes!;😄😄😄
@heyjude2109
@heyjude2109 7 месяцев назад
You're funny! 😂😂😂😂
@mikz8694
@mikz8694 2 года назад
that outdated EEXPENSIVE gadget xD ommg. what a time to waste money haha
@SpoonieSensei
@SpoonieSensei 3 года назад
the love of my life is ginger.i think of him and get chills every time. too bad he will likely never be the love of my life.
@boboHuman
@boboHuman 3 года назад
As a black woman I’m confused. I feel like ginger hair is a Caucasian issue. Nobody else cares 🧐
@vienogola1421
@vienogola1421 3 года назад
There's a reason they say so and so is treated like the red headed step child.... meaning treated badly or harshly...🤷
@sarabera325
@sarabera325 3 года назад
How in the hell is he making way less than me and not look at any price tags when shopping. 😂 I feel anxious thinking about it.
@OakieDokey31
@OakieDokey31 3 года назад
Humble brag much
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