Muslim Faith Shaken by The Age of Aisha 

مضى زمن لم نرى الدكتور عمران حفظه الله و بقية الأخوة من أكثر المتحدثين فصاحة جزاكم الله خيرا عن سائر المسلمين

i am 20 right now. i got my periods when i was 10 yo. i had no clue what that was , and my mom asked me to not tell anyone in school lmao. so if 21st century kid can hit puberty at 10, when why not aisha (ra) one year earlier?

Masha Allah dr imran and abbas. I am a fan of you guys. May Allah reward you for your calmness and patience. ❤ I love it

JazakAllah'u khairan brothers

In 1880 Entire USA has age of consent 10 years old and surprisingly in state of Delaware USA age of consent was 7 years old.

nowadays girls get pregnant at 9-10 years at western countries! difference is-Aisha married in a civilised way and today girls do behind the bushes 🤧 If allegations were made against the Prophet SAW in respect of abuse or impropriety during the marriage, then one would expect all these claims to surface after his death, when Aisha was free to speak without fear of repercussion from the Prophet SAW. Yet, even after his death, there is not a single recorded account of any complaint or statement about their marriage, save that the Prophet SAW was the best of husbands and that the marriage was an extremely happy and harmonious one. In today’s society, very few, if any, women would describe their husbands in such unequivocal terms. Aisha was nineteen when the Prophet SAW passed away, and until her own death over forty five years later, she spoke of him lovingly.

In 19th century in America the age of consent was 9-13 based on 50 state. it was the norm in all societies. For example young bride marriages in Europe in the last few hundred years: Isabella of Valois (aged 6) married King Richard Il of England (aged 29). Charlotte of Savoy (aged 9) was married to Louis, Dauphin of France (aged 27), in 1451. Anne de La Tour d'Auvergne (aged 8/9) was married to her first cousin John Stewart, Duke of Albany (aged about 21 or 24), in July 1505. Lady Mary Tudor (aged 13), natural daughter of Charles ll of England and Moll Davis, was married to Edward Radclyffe, 2nd Earl of Derwentwater (aged 31), in 1687. Princess Luisa Cristina of Savoy (aged 13) was married to her paternal uncle Prince Maurice of Savoy (aged 49) in 1642. Dorothea of Denmark (aged 14) was married to Frederick of the Palatinate (aged 52) in 1535. Cecile of France (aged 8/9) was married to Tancred, Prince of Galilee (aged 30/31), in late 1106. Margaret of Burgundy (aged 10) was married to the future William Il, Duke of Bavaria (aged 19), in April 1385, a week before William's 20th birthday. Mary, Queen of Scots (aged 15/16), was married to Francis, Dauphin of France (aged 13/14), in 1558. The pair had been betrothed since Mary was five and Francis was three. Mary had originally been betrothed when she was six months old to the future Edward VI of England, whom she was supposed to marry at the age of ten. Jeanne of Navarre (aged 12) was forced by her uncle Francis I of France to marry William, Duke of Jülich-Cleves-Berg (aged 24; brother of Anne of Cleves, who was at the time Queen consort of England as the fourth wife of Henry VII), in 1541. Christine of France (aged 13) was married to Victor Amadeus I, Duke of Savoy (aged 31), in 1619. Anna Juliana Gonzaga (aged 15) was married to her uncle Ferdinand Il, Archduke of Austria (aged 52), in 1582. Marie of Brittany (aged 5) was married to John of Perche (aged 10/11) in July 1396. Maud de Ufford (born 1345/46) was married to Thomas de Vere, 8th Earl of Oxford (aged about 15), sometime before 10 June 1350, when Maud was about 5-years-old. Anne of Gloucester (aged about 7) was married to Thomas Stafford, 3rd Earl of Stafford (aged about 22), circa 1390. Elisabeth of Valois (aged 13/14) was married to Philip Il of Spain (aged 31/32) in 1559. Anne de Mowbray, 8th Countess of Norfolk (age 6), was married to Richard of Shrewsbury, 1st Duke of York (age 4), in 1477. She died at age 10 and he, as one of the Princes in the Tower, is believed to have been murdered at age 10. Margaret of Parma (aged 13/14), illegitimate daughter of Charles V, Holy Roman Emperor, was maried in 1536 to Alessandro de' Medici, Duke of Florence (aged 25/26; nephew of Pope Clement VI), to whom she had been engaged since she was 5-years-old. After Alessandro's assassination a year later, Margaret (now 15), married Ottavio Farnese, Duke of Parma (aged 14), grandson of Pope Paul l, in November 1538 Catherine Willoughby, 12th Baroness Willoughby de Eresby (aged 14), was married to Charles Brandon, 1st Duke of Suffolk (aged about 49), in 1533. Emilie of Saxony (aged 17) was married to George, Margrave of Brandenburg-Ansbach (aged 49), in 1533.

In Christianity and Judaism, there is no age limits in Bible, which is why kids as young as 5 were getting married in Christian countries in the West. 1. Professor of history Margaret Wade Labarge “It needs to be remembered that many Medieval widows were not old, Important heiresses were often married between the ages of 5 and 10 and might find themselves widowed while still in their teens.” 2. Professor Richard Wortley and Professor Stephen Smallbone, both of whom state that prior to the 1900s girls married very young, “In Medieval and early modern European societies, the age of marriage remained low, with documented cases of brides as young as seven years, although marriages were typically not consummated until the girl reached puberty (Bullough 2004). Shakespeare’s Juliet was just 13, and there is no hint in the play that this was considered to be exceptional. The situation was similar on the other side of the Atlantic; Bullough reports the case in 1689 of a nine-year-old bride in Virginia. At the start of the nineteenth century in England, it was legal to have sex with a 10 year-old girl.” Richard A. Posner is chief judge of the U.S court of appeals, Seventh Circuit Chicago. Katherine B. Silbaugh is associate Professor at Boston University School of Law, they say that before the 1900s age of consent was ten years old, “The law governing the age of consent has changed dramatically in the United States during this century. Most states codified a statutory age of consent during the nineteenth century, and the usual age was ten years.” Richard A. Posner is chief judge of the U.S court of appeals, Seventh Circuit Chicago. Katherine B. Silbaugh is associate Professor at Boston University School of Law, they say that before the 1900s age of consent was ten years old, “The law governing the age of consent has changed dramatically in the United States during this century. Most states codified a statutory age of consent during the nineteenth century, and the usual age was ten years.” Professor of Sociology Anthony Joseph Paul Cortese says that a 50 year old man being with a girl under 10 (being intimate) Under United States law was legal until the mid 1960s, “In 1962, the American Law Institute recommended that the legal age of consent to sex- that is, the age below which sex is defined as statutory rape- be dropped in every state to age 10 (Katchadourian and Lund 1972: 439). In fact, until the mid 1960s, the legal age of consent in Delaware was 7 (Kling, 1965: 216). So a 50 year old man could legally have sexual intercourse with a 7 year old boy or girl.” Maureen Dabbagh is a writer and author. Born in Michigan, she serves as a Virginia Supreme Court Family Mediator, she echoes the same statements as previous authors, “…the nineteenth century, the minimum age of consent for sexual intercourse in most American states was 10 years. In Delaware it was only 7 years.”

Is no one else tired of this topic, it's been spoken about forever

Secondary school, just turned twelve and was freaked out by a fellow pupil in the changing rooms. He had a full adult pubic growth (along with a very deep voice) Also considering girls mature faster than boys it doesn't sound strange that a girl can reach maturity at nine. Particularly in a harsh desert environment (as compared with suburban West London) The whole Aisha RA age thing is a red herring, wasn't commented on by the contemporary enemies of Muhammad Pbuh and has only become an issue recently. Life expectancy, responsibilities at a young age and such are ignored in Islamophobic discourse as are the marriageable ages that only changed relatively recently in Western societies. Also ignored is the holistic view of women in Islam. Cherished, valued, honoured and respected are just a few of the words that come to mind when women are discussed in Islam. Mothers, daughters, wives and sisters are all regarded highly.

Out of all Hadiths, that one is the least that causes me trouble. I was nine once, and I've seen 9 years old of my age, so it wasn't a stretch to believe that people matured differently back then. Nowadays, I see how physicially frail and utterly incapable 9yo are so I understand why some who believe Aisha (ra) was like them would have trouble accepting this.

To the Brothers here Salam There is difference of opinion when it comes to Hz. Aisha's age. Let me give you the other opinion. When it comes to Hz. Aisha's age that is just a misunderstanding of how age was calculated in those days. Aisha was speaking of her marriageable age and not her birth age, because birthdays were not recorded at that time and there was no use for them. The Prophet marrying Aisha at nine years old is an anachronism. People don't use that method of COUNTING today. The Hadith where Hz. Aisha says that she was six when she got married and she was nine when she consummated her marriage is based on her OWN calculations. There are other Hadith's that are presented as calculating her age from historical events and comparisons to the probable age of other people, which makes her age to be between eighteen and twenty one. So the question arises which ones are correct and why the differences. First in a culture where birthdays did not matter and were not recorded, how was Aisha going to know her own age? Was she told of her birthday or DAY of BIRTH? Of course not. She could have never known her own DAY of BIRTH. Then how did she come up with the statement that she was Six and Nine? This is because she started counting from the beginning of her menstruation. That was the important factor for girls of marriageable age. And she was the only one besides her parents that would have known that day. So if Aisha began her menstruation at ten years old then if you add six years to that, her marriageable age, then she would effectively be sixteen when she got married and nineteen when she consummated her marriage. And this would coincide closely with the Hadiths that determine her age by comparison. The Quran sets the age of marriage with Chapter 4:6 Test ˹the COMPETENCE of˺ the orphans until they reach a MARRIAGABLE age. Then if you feel they are capable of sound judgment, return their wealth to them. And do not consume it wastefully and hastily before they grow up ˹to demand it˺. If the guardian is well-off, they should not take compensation; but if the guardian is poor, let them take a reasonable provision. When you give orphans back their property, call in witnesses. And sufficient is Allah as a ˹vigilant˺ Reckoner. Dr. Mustafa Khattab, the Clear Quran The Marriageable age of any person is the day that Corresponds WITH the age of being able to Competently handle their inheritance or Wealth. So Aisha was referring to Her Marriageable Age and NOT her Birth Age. This can also Cover those with Mental Disabilities. So the Quran would be the basis to understand the Hadith and NOT the other way around, because of our lack of understanding the Quran. You may ask, Why was it so important to know a woman's Mariagable Age? Because every Year that goes by after starting menstruation without being married is considered One Year less of an opportunity for having Children. After so many years a girl is considered to OLD for producing Many Children and will be overlooked for another that is Younger. That is why the women kept count of their productive years. The same applies to David. David's age being Very Young was because the Bible is speaking about his age After Puberty, after His Bar Mitzvah. The same applies to Isaac and Rebekah. The Arabs used to send their Children to the Jews and they had many practices that were similar. Even the Prophet SAwS initiated the Fasting of Ashura from the Jews. The Salat was already being Practiced although The Prophet may have changed it to a Muslim Style. This subject like many other subjects in Islam need more Scrutiny than first meets the eye. Be careful when taking positions that you may need to detract from. And Detracting should not be THAT difficult when WE as Muslims should ALWAYS speak the TRUTH even if it is against ourselves. AsSalamunAlaykumWaRahmatullahiWaBrakatuh, keep up the good work Muslims as well as others are really benefitting a lot.

Some really long cooments on here with ppl getting upset. The age is irrelevant. We go by maturity and there is no evidence to suggest she was not considered mature. End off.

I mostly get annoyed by Christians criticizing the age of mother of the believers Aisha may Allah be pleased with her but have no problem whatsoever with Mary peace be upon her giving birth at twelve.

جزاكم الله خيرا

The most common defence for Muhammad’s deeds (especially the one regarding Aisha) besides disregarding/lying about the Hadiths is referencing back to the times he committed them. Usually applying the logic that since these evil deeds were rampant back then, Muhammad shouldn’t be judged by our modern standard. A fair argument for your regular person. However, Muhammad is the final prophet of Allah. Allah is timeless, Allah is all-knowing and Allah is all-powerful. Therefore Allah would know that ‘forcefully’ sleeping with kids would be very detrimental to them, both physically and mentally, especially when the only benefit for the man is a hedonistic pleasure. So since Allah knows this, wouldn’t you think that in his ‘final book’ and ‘final message’, he would tell his most favoured prophet that these things are wrong? Wouldn’t he also tell Muhammad that taking s*x sl*ves is wrong? Muhammad is supposed to be the most perfect man morally, declared such so in the Quran by Allah as an example that we should follow, correct? If the Quran is the final message and Allah is timeless, that therefore means that we can apply those morals to today and we’d be allowed to diddle with kids and do everything that he did. However, deep down you know it’s wrong, unless you truly believe that these things ‘aren’t so bad’? Therefore there’s only 3 select outcomes, either Allah isn’t timeless and therefore couldn’t know the detrimental effects of what his most beloved prophet was doing. Second outcome is that Allah isn’t a moral entity and doesn’t deem it necessary to tell Muhammad that it’s wrong which therefore destroys the notion that he’s a benevolent God and should be treated as more akin to Satan. The last outcome is that Muhammad is a deceiver and either made everything up himself or twisted God’s words, which would then beg the question of why did God use this man in the first place or why didn’t he correct the problem. Regardless of what you think of those options, either way that contradiction completely destroys Islam as you then have to accept that either one of Muhammad or Allah is evil. There is no escape from this contradiction, you cannot say that Aisha wasn’t actually 6 and 9 as that annihilates the Hadiths. Even if you still believe in the Hadiths but believe Aisha’s age is wrong, you still cannot escape from the many other evil acts of Muhammad which I’d be happy to mention if you try to deny them.

This's P.a.r.t.2 Was the mother of the believers Aisha (May Allah be pleased with her 9 years old when got married to the Messenger of Allah, or was she over 21 years old?) ▪︎ Pleased read (part 1) first ● 3) Her previous Marriage before the Messenger of God Almighty to Jabir bin Mut`im. (Was a Marriage and not just an engagement). And this is one of the largest evidences out there, which confirm maturity without any doubt. From reviewing the evidence of Abbas Al-Akkad, the evidence that he is more likely to say that Aisha’s age at the time of her wedding to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, was not less than fifteen years at least. Based on this extensive research of Al-Akkad is certain that the Messenger of God (may God bless him and his family) married to Aisha when she had reached a woman age, and she was seventeen at the time of marriage at the very least. And not that she was at that time a girl of six or nine, playing with swings, as claimed in hadiths atributed to her. As for the claim that Aysha (MOB) had never been married before the marriage to the messenger, is also one of the well-known lies. She had previously married Jubayr ibn Muta`im, then divorced, and the Messenger of God, may God bless him and grant him peace, married her. This is exactly what Ibn Saad narrated on the authority of Abdullah bin Abi Malika: “The Messenger of God, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, when he spoke about Aisha, said Abu Bakr: I was given her to Mut'im for his son Jubayr, so let me save her from them, so he took her away from them as he divorced her, eventually the Messenger of God, may God bless him, married her. ” (Al-Tabaqat al-Kubra by Ibn Saad, c.7, p. 59). Facts: Many hadiths show that Umm Jubayr rejected the mother of the believers, by saying to Abu Bakr (Do you want my son to accept Islam as your daughter did), meaning Aysha became Muslim. This indicates that Aisha, the mother of the believers, was an adult and mature and took the decision of Islam as an adult, and this is in Mecca. If we believe that her marriage to the Prophet was 9 years, then that means that she was married to Jubayr while she was a baby, and this is not acceptable to even think of. Also, her mother, the wife of Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq - may God be pleased with her - saw that her daughter had grown up when her engagement was annulled (the truth is her divorce from Jubayr bin Mut'im bin Uday), and when she learned that the Messenger - may God bless him and grant him peace - had mentioned her for Engagement to himself, she said to Abu Bakr - be pleased God on him -: (This is your daughter Aisha, Allah had moved Jubayr and his family out of her way, so push her to the Messenger - may God bless him and grant him peace - so you may receive goodness and blessing) ▪︎The mother the best to know the signs of her daughter readiness for marriage and signs of her femininity. So what is certain is that Aisha had been married and given to her husband, then she was surrendered and divorced from him, and this also confirms that she had reached the age of readiness at that time of her marriage, not that she was a child. Note: as for whether she was a virgin in this marriage? The Hadeeth is silent about explaining that either way. Our strong beliefs that she wasn't a Virgin, as the narration is sensed, as it confirms that Abu Bakr had “given” her by her husband in marriage. Ibn Saad narrated in Tabaqah (8: 09) on the authority of Abdullah bin Malikah who said the speeches of the Messenger of God (may God bless him and his family and grant them peace) Aisha bint Abi Bakr Al-Siddiq. He said: I had given her Mut'im for his son Jubayr, so let me until I save/drove her from them, so he took her away from them and Jubayr divorced her, so the Messenger of God (may God’s prayers and peace be upon him and his family) married her. End. And Muhammad ibn Saad is a great hafiz and is a great scholar who is approved by the Sunni scholars unanimous- (see: Tadhkira al-Hafiz by al-Dhahabi) 2: 425. ● 4) Aisha's Islam before Omar Ibn al-Khattab: (This's a clear strong evidence) According to Ibn Hisham's summary of the Prophet's biography of Ibn Ishaq, Aisha (Abu bakr Al Sidiq Family) embrace Islam before Umar Ibn al-Khattab embraced it, which means that she was at least 14 years old at the time of her wedding to the Prophet, peace be upon him, thus dropping the age of 9 years completely. G.o.t.o..p.a.r.t.3

I like the way he said " IT'S NOT CONTROVERSIAL,IT'S JUST BEING MADE CONTROVERSIAL" بارك الله فيكم جميعا❤❤❤❤

ibu kami menikah d usia 14 th pada zamannya itu normal d zaman itu .anak.. beliau menikah di usia 23 sampai 25 th bahkan ada yg sampai 30th baru menikah

In 14 states (and Washington, D.C.), clerks acting on their own - without judges - can issue marriage licenses for all minors: Alabama, Florida, Idaho, Maine, Maryland, Missouri, Nebraska, North Dakota, Oregon, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Vermont, and Wisconsin.

This's P.a.r.t.4 Was the mother of the believers Aisha (May Allah be pleased with her 9 years old when got married to the Messenger of Allah, or was she over 21 years old?) ▪︎ Pleased read (part 1, 2 and 3) first ● 10) In the seerah of The Messenger by Muhammad ibn Is'haq, mentioned the 20 people who were the first to embrace Islam in the first year of the message start. As he has given number 18 to Asmaa (Dhato nitaqayn), and Number 19 to Aisha (Mother of the believers). And This's a clear proof that she was old enough to embrace Islam at the start of the message (Be'tha) and not as they falsely claim she was born at around year 6 of the message start. ● 11) An other solid proof: The Great Historian and (Mufasir) Abu Ja'far Ibn Jarir Al-Tabari at his Translation/explanation of the Death of Abu Bakr, mentioned the wives of Abu Bakr in Jahelia (Before message started): The first he mentioned is Qutayla and her sons Asmaa (Dato netaqayn) and Abdullah. As well as Umm Ruman and her sons Aisha (MOB) and Abdul Rahman. And he clarified the all these 4 children were born before the message start. ● 12) The Hadeeth book of Nisa'e narrated in his Sunan, and the ruling Mustadrak of Al Hakim, and Ibn Hayane in his Sahih, via Saheeh of Al-Husain Ibn Waqid, from Abdullah ibn Buraydah from his father, he said: Abu Bakr and Umar may Allah be pleased with them both asked the hand of Fatima, the Messenger of Allah said, peace be upon him: She was young, and Ali got engaged to her and he married her from him ([1]). The age of Fatimah the daughter of the Prophet was much older than the alleged 9 years of age of the mother of the believers, Aisha, at the time of her marriage, and still the messenger didn't allow a young girl to get married. (Some source mention the age of Fatima was around 18 years of age) And This clear evidence that the Messenger wouldn't allow young girls to get married. ● 13) This Famous Hadeeth is an other proof: The Prophet said: Teach your children to pray at seven years and admonish them strongly for it at ten years, and separate them in their beds (Boys and girls). Narrator: Its chain of transmission is authentic Source: Musnad Ahmad A girl of 9 years is still an immature child. ● 14) It was never mentioned in the biography that Quraysh or the Arabs before embracing Islam question the prophet integrity of the false alleged Engagement of a 6-year-old girl and 9-year-old marriage to her, and it was never questioned by the other peoples (e.g Romans, Persians and others) and this evidence that this matter/Fabrication is a modern insertion/manupulation of dates/Age in Bukhari/Muslim 2 Hadeeths. (As these books have other hadeeths contracts this false allegation). G.o.t.o..p.a.r.t.5

This is truly amazing. All these people who bring up this nonsense issue as if they are concerned about Ashia (May God Be Pleased With Her). They never actually bothered to examine her testimony about her marriage and what she said about the prophet and how happy to be with him and honoured to be the mother of believers. In addition that she in fact become the first woman scholar of Islam, which I think in my humble opinion the real wisdom behind this marriage

Don't forget that Aisha (RA) was born in the desert. People in hot climate usually reach the age of puberty a lot faster than people in cold places. I lived in Saudi Arabia for more than 14 years. I always saw girls (girls native to that area) that hit the age of purberty and they're still in second grade (primary school), that's about 6-7 years old.

My granma married at 14 my friend married at 18 to a 30 years old guy and I look like a kid compared to her she’s so mature you have no idea , my parents have 15 years of difference Some people are more mature than others , so I think it’s possible that aicha RAD was married at 9 because maturity is different depending on what time and how people of that time viewed marriage age and other things like wars and people died young back then and kids used to work and help their parents it was a completely different timeline but what I like about our religion is that it doesn’t give an age of marriage we say when someone is physically and emotionally mature they can get married

This's P.a.r.t.5 Was the mother of the believers Aisha (May Allah be pleased with her 9 years old when got married to the Messenger of Allah, or was she over 21 years old?) ▪︎ Pleased read (part 1, 2, 3 and 4) first ● 15) Analysis/Criticism of the so called hadiths in question supports (Claiming 9 years old): The Alledged hadith in which mentioned the age of (Aisha) came from five paths, all of which go back to a man called (Hisham bin Urwa), as Ibn Hajar said in (Hadi al-Sari) and (al-Tahdheeb): “Abd al-Rahman bin Yusuf bin Kharash said, and Malik (Madhab Al-Maliki) did not accept him/his narations, he was informed that Malik objected his narations to the people of Iraq - he came to Kufa three times - First - he used to say: My father told me, he said I heard Aisha, and he came the second, and he used to say: My father told me about Aisha, and he came to the third, and he used to say: on the authority of my father on the authority of Aisha. The meaning is simply that (Hisham Ibn Urwa) was a sincere person in Medina, then when he went to Iraq, his memorization of the hadith began to get worse and he began to (pervert/mix information) that is to attribute the hadith to other than the narrator, then he began to say (on) my father, instead of (I heard or told me), and in knowledge The hadith is the word (heard) or (tell me) is stronger than the narrator's saying (on the authority of so-and-so), and the hadith in Al-Bukhari thus says in it Hisham on (my father) and not (I heard or told me), which confirms the doubt about the authenticity of the hadith, then the most important point is that the imam (Malik) said: The hadith of (Hisham) in Iraq is not accepted, so if we apply this to the hadith that Al-Bukhari produced, we will find that it is verified. The hadith was not seen by a single narrator from Medina, but all of them are Iraqis, which proves that (Hisham bin Urwa) had narrated it in Iraq after His memorization worsened, and it is inconceivable for (Hisham) to stay in Medina for a long life and he does not mention a hadith like this even once, so we do not find any mention of the age of Mother of the believers Aisha, when she married the Prophet in the book (Al-Muwatta) of Imam Malik, who was the one who saw and heard (Hisham Ibn Urwa) directly in Medina. So with these grave problems these two ailments to doubt the supports of Hicham's narration. Among the shortcomings of his narations is the fact that some authentic narrations have appeared in al-Sahih al-Bukhari from ways in which Hisham does not appear. ▪︎ The Simple truth is many researches believe the Narations of (Hicham Ibn Urwa) was altered/Manupulated from mentioning Aisha (MOB) was born years before the Message starts, to that she was born years before Hijra. ● 16) These are Analysis/Criticism of the Alleged narations of (Hicham Ibn Urwa) from books of hadith and biography: Ibn Katheer - may God have mercy on him - said in the beginning and the end (3/37): (Ibn Ishaq listed the names of the early companions of the Companions, may God be pleased with them, he said Abu Ubaidah, Abu Salamah, Al-Arqam bin Abi Al-Arqam, Othman bin Maza'un, Ubaidah bin Al-Harith and Saeed bin became Muslim. Zaid and his wife, Fatima bint Al-Khattab, Asma daughter of Abi Bakr, and Aisha daughter of Abi Bakr.. That Ibn Ishaq said: Then God commanded His Messenger, after three years of the mission, to announce the message with what He was commanded, and to be patient on the harm of the polytheists. He said, and the companions of the Messenger of God, when they prayed, went in the reefs and hid their prayers among their people. As Saad bin Abi Waqas in a group of people praying in the reefs of Mecca when some polytheist appeared on them denounced them and reproached them. The researchers concluded from this narration that it indicates that (Aisha) the household of Abu bakr, embrace Islam before the Prophet announced the call in the year 3, while the Mother of the belivers Aisha was (4) at least. Fact: It is correct that the house of Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq was the first to embrace Islam at the very beginning of the Prophet's mission on the first year. And even if the lowest estimate is taken (Not the case) in the year (4), which is equivalent to the year (614AD), meaning that she believed in at least the year (3), that is, in the year (613AD), so if (Aisha) according to (Bukhari's) narration was born in the year (4) From the beginning of the revelation, this means that she was not on the surface of the earth when the Prophet spoke out in the call in the year (4) of the beginning of the da'wah, or that she was a new born baby, and this contradicts all the evidence received. but a proper account of her age confirms that she was born in at least (4) year before The beginning of the revelation, meaning the year (606AD), ​​which implies that her age when pronouncing the call in year (614AD) equals (8) years, which is consistent with the correct timeline of events and invalidates the well-known/Fabricated narration of the age at the marriage. G.o.t.o..p.a.r.t.6

This's P.a.r.t.3 Was the mother of the believers Aisha (May Allah be pleased with her 9 years old when got married to the Messenger of Allah, or was she over 21 years old?) ▪︎ Pleased read (part 1 and 2) first ● 5) And This's an ultimate proof: Knowing the Age of Aisha (MOB) by calculations, based on het older Sister Asma (may Allah be pleased with her): According to Abd al-Rahman ibn Abi al-Zinad: Asmaa was ten years older than Aisha (biography of the flags of the nobles, al-Dhahabi: Maj. 2, p. 289, Foundation for the Message, Beirut, 1992). Ibn Katheer also agrees with Ibn Abi al-Zinad’s narration and says that she is - Asma: Ten years older than her sister Aisha (The Beginning and the End, Ibn Katheer Maj. 8, p. 371, Dar Al-Fikr Al-Arabi - Giza 1933). Ibn Katheer agrees with what all historians affirm without disagreement that Asma "witnessed the killing of her son during that year (73 AH), as previously mentioned, and five days later she died. And like other accounts, she did not die after 5 days, but rather after 10 or 20 days, or a few days later, or even a hundred days after the accident, so that the most likely story remains that she died a hundred days later, when she is 100 years old. (Beginning and End Ibn Katheer, Mug 8, p. 372, Dar Al-Fikr Al-Arabi, Giza 1933). And bin Hajar Al-Asqalani narrates that “Asma bint Abi Bakr Al-Siddiq [That Al-Nitaqain], the wife of Al-Zubayr bin Al-Awam, one of the great companions, lived a hundred years and died in the year of seventy-three (Al-Tahdheeb, Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani, p. 654, chapter on Women, Harf) a thousand). According to the opinion of most historians, Asma, Aisha's older sister were ten years older than the last, and if Asma 'reached the 100 years of Hijra, then her age at the time of the migration would necessarily be 27 years old, and therefore Aisha’s age at that time would be 17 years old, and she also began living Along with the Prophet and she was 19 or 20 years old. Based on the narrations of Ibn Hajar, Ibn Katheer and Abd al-Rahman bin Abi Al-Zinad, the age of Aisha at the time of her marriage to the Prophet was between 19 and 20 years at least. ● 6) The date of Aisha's death determines the date of her marriage: It is also mentioned in Al Maarif by Ibn Qutaybah that Aisha, the mother of the believers, died in 58 AH at the age of 77. Thus, the age of Aisha, the mother of the believers, immediately before the emigration, was 19 years (77-58), and since she married to the noble Messenger in the second year of the Hijra..so she was 21 years old at that time. Even if we take the minimum approach, the presence of other accounts in other historical sources that determine Aisha’s age at 66 years of age, assuming that her age was only 5 years + 12 years (from the fourth year before the mission until the second year of migration) = 17 years at least. ● 7) Sahih al-Bukhari prooves Aisha's age: This's another narration confirms for us Aisha's participation in the Battle of Uhud. “Anas narates that on Uhud: I saw Aisha bint Abi Bakr and Umm Salim, rolled their hands ready (Sleeves) - I witness the work of their arms - transport water containers on their bodies, empty them into the mouths of the people, then return and fill it, then come and empty it into the mouths of the people (Bukhari, Al-Fath. No. (2880). This is a clear evidence of their grown age. Her age and her ability to serve the army during the Battle of Uhud. (As it's well known fact the Messenger never allow young children to participate in battles). Thus, it is confirmed once again that Aisha witnessed the battles of Uhud and Badr. ● 8) Al-Bukhari narrates to us in another hadith: On the authority of Yahya bin Saeed, said that Nafeh said, on the authority of Ibn Omar, May Allah be pleased with them, that the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he offered himself to the messenger on the day of Uhud when he was fourteen years old, and Messenger didn't allow him, and offered himself at the Ahzab, and he was allowed at the age of 15. (Kitab Al-Maghazi, Chapter of the Battle of Al-Khandaq, which is the Ahzab or Trench). This is a very strong evidence that the Prophet, peace be upon him, was not permitting to let someone under the age of fifteen in the Battles. ▪︎ This is evidence that the age of 9 years has no validity at all. ● 9) Participation in the battle of Badr: In Sahih Muslim, a narration confirms Aisha's participation in the battle of Badr and is attributed to Aisha in the course of her discussion of her trip to Badr and about an important accident that occurred while traveling: “... even if we were in the tree ....” Which is clear evidence that she was among the delegation Traveling towards Badr, and the Prophet does not take children with him. (The Book of fighting and travel). G.o.t.o..p.a.r.t.4

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“But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.” - Matthew 18:6 📖✝🕎

Age number is an astrophysics number, not biology. Your age number is just how many times the earth have gone around the sun since your birth.

I:38 - "And she gives her age..." You're probably wrong, Dr Imran. Isn't there a possibility that she abbreviated? Instead of Tisa' Ashar' ('9 instead of 19), she said, 'Tisa" (9)? Her older sister Asma (bint Abi Bakr) was 27 years old at the time of migration to Madinah. Ayesha (R) was 10 to 13 years younger than her sister. Then Ayesha (R) was 17 to 20 years at the time of migration, 2 years latter, she moved to the Prophet (pbuh) and started her married life. Please, consult Tabari about the difference in age. Enough is enough. Don't we abbreviate all the time? If I'm asked, 'what year is the make of your car', I'm certainly going to reply, with "It's '22". Did I mean 22 CE, or 1722?

It's very simple, Would you let your little 6-year-old sister marry a 50-year-old man?

One part of being a muslim is accepting what the prophet said as the truth. The issue with that hadith is that it does not have a chain back to the prophet pbuh, the chain stops with Aisha RA. That doesn't mean it's a fabrication it just means it does not invalidate the shahadah as your not rejecting anything the prophet pbuh said.

how could they search through their lineage when their own biological father is missing/unknown.

Almost every single attempt at criticism (that’s all it is, an attempt) that people try to make against Islam is the byproduct of modern ignorant upside down logic. Then, once you dig into the topic, you see how perfectly logical and reasonable Islam is. In a way, their attempts at shubhahat end up strengthening our iman, and thus has the opposite impact than which they wanted. Subhanallah.

my mother married at age 14 in 1965 as the second wife and have my oldest brother at 15, it was the norm at that time, in fact in that time when a women reach 20 and she hasnt married they was called as old virgin, she had a friend whos married at 10 and have kid at 12, my mother told me because in her time war was still raging and they have to married at young age because people are dying at not very old age because of the war, disease, bandit/robber etc, so its not that shocking to hear a woman married at 9, this may seem shocking for people in the west/europe, but they got different life than ours different obstacle different norm

puberty, sexual maturity, and mental maturity changes at different times throughout history. For example, in 1880 in America, the age of consent was set at 10 or 12 in most states. Delaware was even lower, being set at 7, which is even lower than when the Prophet PBUH consummated his marriage with Aisha RA! For a very long time in the United Kingdom, and only changing about a hundred years ago, the age of consent was 12. Today in Japan, it’s 13. Today in parts of Mexico, it’s 12. In western law, Richard II of England married Isabella of Valois in the year 1396 when she was 7 years old; when historians talk about this marriage, it’s only about how amazing it was and how it brought peace between England and France, with no mention of age. According to the consensus of Christian scholars, Mary married Joseph when she was 12 years old and he was 90. Also, in the Bible, Rebecca married Isaac when she was 3 years old. In Jewish Law, according to Jacob Neusner’s book, History of Mishnaic Law of Purities, women are ready for marriage at 3 years and 1 day old. Look at how all of these respected countries, people, and religions had a very low idea of the age of consent, with many being younger than the age of Aisha RA. Even the western countries, which many claim and believe are the most civilized, are among the countries that have been normalizing this until very recently. But no one says that the people who set these age requirements were all pedophiles, rather, they knew at that time girls were completely ready for marriage. Now imagine 1500 years ago and how different the women matured at that time! Back then, there was no school or education. A boy pretty much became a man when he was able to hunt animals and bring food home everyday and a girl pretty much became a woman when she could take care of the house. The fact of the matter is that it is well-known that people in the past would generally live a shorter life, therefore, back then, they matured quicker biologically as well, both physically and mentally. The average life expectancy at the time of the Prophet Muhammad PBUH, which is the 6th century, was 30-35, but as of 2020, its 77 years old! A 9 year old today is not ready for marriage, but back then, they were more than ready.

A friend of mine started her period at 9. She looked like a fully developed woman and no one would believe she was 9. She may not have been mentally mature, considering the norms of modern society, but physically she looked much older.

Those who arguing about the age of our Mother Aisha(Ra) *First define what is Good and What is Bad?*

Back then they don't even have a clock let alone a calendar. It's hard to keep track of what year it is let alone your own age, she reached puberty she's an adult.

At about 4:28 it is mentioned that the age of marital consent was 10 in the USA. But this misrepresents consent age laws and tries to give the impression that marriage at 10 were common, commonly accepted. But they were not, and the Mean Age of First Marriage in the USA was in thee 20s from the earliest estimates.

It's quite common in those times when kings married a girl as small as 9 years old. Even King Charles 1 married a girl who was 9.

The people making such accusations forget that they could be progeny of such a case, or worse a progeny from a product of rape. What gives them the authority to act pure and self righteous then?

Tbh, back when I'm primary school... During Islamic study classes... Tbh... I only remember tidd bits of memory back then... But... I'm pretty sure, that the only time, when the prophet is left alone, unattended is when he's sleeping. He's always been surrounded by companions. Especially after prophet Muhammad pbuh's 1st wife, Siti Khadijah r.a. pass away... If you refer to early hadiths, that mentioned Abu Bakar, he's always with his daughter, Aisha. Abu Bakar is the prophet's closest companions. He's pretty much, prophet's BFF, both in life and death. I'm not even surprised, if Abu Bakar's house is actually connected to the prophet's or just 5 steps away... The so called Raudhah, that's supposed to be between the prophet's house and Medina's Mosque. The houses of the prophet and companions, how do you think, they're positioned? If I'm one of the companions, I would suggest the Muslims, to construct our houses around the mosques, but leave enough spaces, to accommodate, the growing numbers of fellow believers... As well as recreational area for rest and relaxation...

most Church Early fathers believed Mary was married of when she was 12 years old and Joseph the carpenter was a very old man 90. Here is the list of fathers who believed that Joseph was fourscore years old when he married 12 year old Mary: 1. Epiphanius (Born 310Ad - Died 403Ad) 2. Hilary (Hilarius) of Poitiers (Born 300 - Died 368Ad) 3. John Chrysostom (Born between 344 and 349 - Died 407Ad) 4. Cyril of Alexandria (Born 376Ad - Died 444Ad) 5. Saint Euthymius the Great (Born 377 - Died 20 January 473) 6. Theophylact of Ohrid (also known as Theophylact of Bulgaria) (Born 1055 - 1107) 7. Cecumenius 8. Eusebius (Born 263 - Died 339 Ad)

This's P.a.r.t.1. Check the facts from the Authentic sources, Was Aisha the mother of the believers 6 years old when The Messenger of Allah Almighty sermoned her (Engagement)! and was she 9 years old when got Married to the Prophet? (peace and blessings be upon him) ▪︎ We still find some muslims try to defend this about this theory about the Mother of believers marriage, and ignore dozens of Authentic evidence from the Authentic (Sunnah/Seerah) that clearly prooves she was at least 21 years of age when she was married to the Messenger of God, and that may give the Islamophobes and Muslim haters a reason to Attack the Messenger with falsehood. Let STOP this wrongdoing, and take the truth based on evidences. Important notice: This marriage age of 9 years old of the mother of believers, is NOT found in the Glorious Qu'ran, or even from a direct saying of the Messenger himself, rather is a claim from a third generation Muslim about the mother of believers claiming it. (Even though he never met her or met the Messenger himself!) ▪︎ So these are 18 irrefutable Authentic Hadeeths/strong evidences, that shows her Age was at least 21 years old at the time of her marriage, beyond reasonable doubt as indicated by many scholars and researchers from Saudi Arabia and Egypt). ● The evidences are as follows: ● 1) The date of the revelation of Surat Al-Qamar determines the age of Aisha (MOB): It came in Sahih al-Bukhari on the authority of Yusuf ibn Mahek, who said: “At the time of Aisha, the mother of the believers, she said: It was revealed to Muhammad, peace and blessings of God be upon him, and I am a Maid. 《Rather, the hour is their time and the hour is worse and more important》knowing Surat Al-Qamar was revealed in the sixth or seventh year before the Hijra and the Messenger, peace be upon him, married her in the second year of the Hijra. If we believed the narrations that specify the age of nine years, this would mean that Surat al-Qamar was revealed while she was a baby, not a maid. She plays as she said in this hadith in Sahih al-Bukhari. Facts: Surat Al-Qamar was revealed at the beginning of the Prophet’s mission in Makkah. And a maid, is not a child, meaning her age is more than 10 years or adolescence. If her age is 10 years, at the time of marriage in the second year of migration will be more than 20 years at least. ● 2) Another hadith in Al-Bukhari specifies the age of the Mother of the Believers, Aisha. Al-Bukhari (Bab - Jewar of Abu Bakr during the time of the Prophet) reported that (Aisha) said: I have never thought of my parents except when they are professing the religion, and not a day passes for us without the Messenger of God coming to us both ends of the day in the morning and the evening, and when the Muslims were afflicted, Abu Bakr went out, migrating toward Abyssinia). Then (Aisha) says that she did not understand her parents except when they were religiously professed, and that before the migration of Abyssinia as I mentioned, and she Said that the Prophet used to come to their home every day, which shows that she was rational for these visits, and what is certain is that the migration of Abyssinia was unanimous among the history books in the year (5) From the beginning of the Prophet’s mission, which corresponds to the year (615 AD), The narration that was mentioned in Sahih al-Bukhari, which indicates events that occurred before the fourth year of the mission and that Aisha (MOB) narrated, indicates that Aisha was present before the fourth year of the mission started, and not only existed, but she was at the height of her awareness and understanding, enabling her to narrate the events of a story that occurred In this way and this means: If we assume that Aisha (Mother of the believers) was at least 5 to 7 years old before the fourth year of the mission, as it's realisticly and practicly impossible. This means that her age when the Messenger Married to her in the second year of the Hijra, cannot be in any way less than 15 to 17 years at least, and this undermines the narration that says that it was 9 years old from its roots! G.o.t.o..p.a.r.t.2

Time (and age) in essence are just measurement and stamps of series of events (or experiences). I don’t think it really matter. That’s why no major/ancient religion on earth set rules about the age of marriage. When you born, when you crawling as a baby, when you learn how to talk, when you got your first menstruation, when you first time went to school, when you start to understand things, when you independent enough for survival, when the earth and moon rotated, when sunrise, when rain drops and stops, etc. it all just series of events. Without event, when everything is static, time/age will never be exist. Without event/experience, the age 9, or 16 or 50 will never be matter

Whats Imran's @ ?

At about 4:44 someone with a "medical background" is asked. But he omits that traumatic fistula/incontinence and infertility and death are known risks of engaging in too early intercourse. These risks were known at the time of Muhammed and several countries legislated against intercourse with 9 year olds in muhammed's time. There was also the serious risks of very early pregnancies. None of those dangers and valid objections are mentioned.

She was over 17 years old. Also Dr. Joshua Little did his thesis on this. Idk why people keep promulgating this false hadith.

Remember if Islamaphobes uses the age of aisha in debate, then mention them the bible age of consent, medieval marriage, creation of youth and other pre-modern history.

Shaykh Uthman made full documentary on this issue

Muslims always fail to defend their prophet regarding age of Aisha

This man's moral compass works better than the one of the false prophet, who did not even hesitate to do what is unthinkably evil

For comprehensive answer look for following : *"Muslim Questioned About The Prophet's Marriage! Muhammed Ali"*

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Aisha mother of the believers (ra)

Salam aleikum.. I rarely interact or comment on RU-vid ( content onsumption only)… but this has gone unaddressed long enough, and can no longer be tolerated.. it is utterly confounding that to this day age, Muslims STILL believe the prophet married Ayesha @ 9 or shockingly- 6 even.. this is a blatant desecration to the prophet’s memory, his message, and most importantly- his human dignity.. so take note and read carefully please, because it’s actually very simple and irrefutable: 1. Before the revelation (message), Ayesha -Allah be pleased with her- was engaged to aljubeir bin mata’am bin odai. (Who converted ONLY after 10hijri). at the advent of the revelation, Abu bakr converted and severed the engagement because aljubeir was not Muslim..so IF her age before the da’wa was 10, and the da’wa remained in Mecca 13 years before Hijra, and she was married in year 2 hijri, then: 10+13+2=25 And in the Hadith: Bukhari- Ayesha is quoted to saying: “I did not acknowledge ( consciously aware of denoting mental maturity) my parents until they were Muslims.” Also, Bukhari- “Ayesha was amongst the children who converted @ the start of the da’wa.” (So we know in FULL CERTAINTY she was old enough to be conscious of her parents belief system) 2. Asma daughter of Abu bakr (and Ayesha’s elder sister); wife to ibn al a’awaam- was older than Ayesha by 7-5 years (documented). asma died in 72hijri @ 100 years (mashallah), so in the 2nd hijri during her sister’s marriage, she was 30 years. Meaning: 30-5=25 OR 30-7=23 - Making Ayesha’s age 25-23 MINIMUM! 3. The year of mourning (A’am Al huzn): was initiated due to the demise of Khadijah- Allah be pleased with her- 3 years BEFORE Hijra, and had occurred 5 YEARS BEFORE Ayesha’s marriage. In the year of mourning, khawla bint alhakeem came to advise the prophet (pbuh) to marry. and so he asked, “who oh khawla?” To which she replied, “ if virgin, Ayesha; if thayyib (non virgin due to previous marriage obviously), then sawda bint zama’a.. and the prophet married Sawda! (Not Ayesha).. In conclusion: if this isn’t indisputable evidence, I don’t know what is.. Prophet Mohammed married ayesha @ 25-23 MINIMUM- NOT 18, NOT 12, and most CERTAINLY NOT 9… so give up that dream people, because IT DID NOT HAPPEN.. had it been the sunnah of f the prophet… you would have witnessed it amongst his companions during his life and long after it… but NONE married girls @ this age… this IS an INSULT and a grave injustice to the prophet’s legacy, astaghfur Allah.. I close with a quote of the late - and venerable- ahmad deedat: “The greatest enemy to Islam is the ignorant Muslim who- in his ignorance- distorts and maims the image of the religion. So KILL THIS DISEASED IDEOLOGY… because it DID NOT HAPPEN. ‎والله اعلم واعز … From DUBAI with ❤

They got fully married 10 years later then she turned 19 years old, no touch till she reached 19

At about 0:35 History is misrepresented by omitting the European Marriage Pattern which saw the mean age of first marriage for females be in the mid 20s from about 1400 and in the USA over 20 from the earliest estimations. It is simply not true that our great-grandfathers married young girls.

I agree with Mr Abbas that marrying a girl with young age is not an issue and its not controversial but it was made as an issue and controversial...people in every culture and I assume also in every religion allowed to marry a girl with young age as long as they reach the puberty stage...why people especially the Christian missionaries made it as an issue for they know that their religion allowed it to marry a girl in young age

I must add that while its true that the age of Aisha (ra) doesnt affect our imaan, but for those who claim to be muslim yet either deny it or worse, say its haram to marry at that age, then they have clearly disbelieved in what Allah has decreed. i strongly believe that out of Allah infinite Wisdom, He willed for prophet Muhammed (pbuh) to marry her at that specific age just to test the next generations of both muslims & non-muslims, will they accept it or deny it, and i pray to Allah that we are among the people who when they hear the Truth they accept it. Ameen

I have the same questions before but Alhamdulillah I come across on one video of Muhammad Ali of Muslim Lantern. He explained it so well. The islam did not recommend at age women should get married. What is required is that the girl/woman have reached puberty. Physically, mentally and psychologically ready to be married. You cannot apply the condition of 9 year old today to 1400 years ago, physically, mentally and psychologically. Muslim Lantern explained this well, so you can also check his channels.

Let me share some of my research with you too on this very sensitive topic.... There was NO … historian in the 1st 80-90 years of Islam who sat down to write history. This history was written down through oral traditions after about 100 years. These oral traditions were common among the people of the time. These are the same oral traditions that our Hadith scholars use to compile their history books. These are the same narrations that our historians use in their books. After researching and reviewing said…( Javad Ahmad Ghamidi) these narrations some people had try to formulate our history. For that reason, it became popular knowledge that Aisha ( RA) was 6 years of age at the time of marriage and 9 years at the time of consummation. Javad has written an article in his book called “ MAGAMAT” and has presented questions in it. These questions are based on the same sources that historians have compiled based on oral traditions. Let me mention those sources to you…. Then you tell me what is been said in those sources (does it really sound plausible) This entire event and how it is been described is sourced from the first history book “ Tabqat Ibn -e- Sa’ad” it is said about Aisha(RA) one can read the translation of it and, Javad, explain that he has presented his points from this source in his article. So what is the event? The prophet married his 1st wife Khadija, it is said she was a widow who had children and was about 38-40 years old. They stay married for a long time (25 years) until the prophet was 50 years old and passed away. The prophet continued preaching but also had to provide and take care of the children. With all these responsibilities he used to be worried, and grieving the loss of his wife. It is been said that a female Muslim named “ Khaula” met the prophet on the way. She mentioned O! Prophet of Allah, I have been noticing for quite some time that you look very sad. She asked why you don’t get married again for someone to look after your household/children. The prophet replied…have you got someone in mind? (Remember his 50 now and have small children in the house) She mentioned that the prophet needs a woman to take care of his house and a companion too. Therefore she mentioned that she think he needed a wife to take care of the family and made 2 proposals, a maiden, and a widow. The maiden was Aisha (RA) daughter of his friend Abu Bakr, and from the Believers there is Sauda who is 50 years of age and a widow… The question is …This Muslim lady who we all think is counseling the prophet intelligently, do you really think she was proposing a 6-year-old girl? Why do men need to marry, for a marital relationship? Then it cannot be fulfilled (for her age?) is it for taking care of kids? Some of the kids in his household were older than Aisha(Ra) is she ( Kaula) suggesting adding one more child to the family? The prophet asked her to propose on his behalf. She went to Abu Bakr's house and put the marriage proposal in front of his wife. She replied, that although Aisha is betrothed for quite some time since we are Muslims now, they don’t seem to be interested anymore in that engagement. If she was really 6 years of age, then it means she was engaged when she was 3 - 4 years old. Can COMMON SENSE…Justify this? When she ( Kaula) found this out she went to Sauda and made the marriage proposal, and was accepted. In the meantime, Abu Bakr went to the family where Aisha( RA) was engaged, and they broke the engagement. Therefore the prophet committed himself to both marriage proposals. He married Sauda. Although both marriage proposals were accepted, he did not marry the younger lady, Aisha, just because he did not want to be unfair to Sauda. He gave preference to Sauda, also because she could appropriately look after the kids. Aisha although married to the prophet did not cohabitate with him for 5 years, until Abu Bakr, her father enquired about it to the prophet. Only then she started living with the prophet. He asked for permission from Sauda if it was ok for Aisha to come live with them, or if she(Sauda) would prefer a separate arrangement. Sauda said she would like to remain in his marriage, then only Aisha (RA) came to live with the prophet So this is the whole event. Is this about the 6-year-old girl, then what did actually happen? In the Arabic language, numbers are READ as broken numbers just like in English. For e.g. 22 (twenty-two, i.e. Twenty and Two) Therefore the age of 16 in Arabic is SIX and TEN. For some reason the 10 dropped out of the ORAL TRADITION and it remain six only. This is the entire story and not FACTUAL that she was (6 or 9). NEITHER THE INTELLECT ACCEPTS IT…. NOR THE EVIDENCE SUPPORTS IT. A famous historian Ibn-e- Khuldoon, stated a principle. If an event is being presented, then 1st based on intellect whether or not it is ACCEPTABLE. Show less Reply Javad says he has presented all the facts… and that there is more other supporting evidence that she was between 16 and 19 when she was married and then went to live with the prophet for a few years after that. You can look up Javad’s book “ MAGMAT” in his article by the name “Age of Syeda Aisha” a great scholar from Deoband who has written a detailed book on this topic. Let the Intellectual mind decide and let LOGIC prevail...I have more evidence to support the above.....

There is doubt on the Hadith and there is narrations that suggest she was upto 19yrs old too. Eg Dr Joshua Little of Oxford Uni

Al-Khattaabee said: From this Hadeeth(Sahih Muslim, Book 008, Number 3311) it is understood that playing with dolls (al-banaat) is not like the amusement from other images (suwar) concerning which the threat (wa'eed) of punishment is mentioned. The only reason why permission in this was given to 'Aa'isha is because SHE HAD NOT, AT THAT TIME, REACHED THE AGE OF PUBERTY. And according to Muslim scholars such as Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani, the reason why Aisha was allowed to continue playing with her dolls is because she hadn’t attained puberty yet: Narrated 'Aisha: I used to play with the dolls in the presence of the Prophet, and my girl friends also used to play with me. When Allah's Apostle used to enter (my dwelling place) they used to hide themselves, but the Prophet would call them to join and play with me. (The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for 'Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, NOT YET REACHED THE AGE OF PUBERTY.) (Fateh-al-Bari page 143, Vol.13) (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 73, Number 151)

They forgot about Abu Bakr which is her own father who married her to the prophet and he always there around them and it's his wish too..no issue what so ever . case closed

it should be noted that the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, on marrying `Aisha, never aimed at fulfilling a lust or satisfying a desire.Had it been true that the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, aimed at fulfilling a lust or satisfying a desire, he would have done this while still in his youth when he was still free from the responsibilities of delivering Allah’s call. At his early age, the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, accepted to marry Khadija, may Allah be pleased with her, who was 15 years older than him. He also never married a new wife until after her death. Even after her passing away, his new wife Sawdah bint Zam`ah was an old-aged widow who possessed no particular appealing qualities. This adds to our certainty that the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, had many great lofty aims behind his marriages. The motives of this marriage can be understood to this-The Prophet’s main concern was the future of Islam. He was interested in strengthening the Muslims by all bonds. This also explains the reason why he married the daughter of `Umar, his Second Successor. It was by his marriage to Juwayriyyah that he gained the support for Islam of the whole clan of Bani Al-Mustaliq and their allied tribes. It was through his marriage to Safiyyah that he neutralized a great section of the hostile Jews of Arabia. By accepting Mariya, the Copt from Egypt, as his wife, he formed a political alliance with a king of great magnitude. So his marriage to `Aisha was for spreading teachings of prophet(saw)only.she lived long life after prophet and was renowned source of hadiths, due to her qualities of intelligence and memory. Aisha is one of the great hadith narrators who kept the speech of the prophet, peace to him, alive by memorizing his words during his lifetime and teaching them to others after his death.Ayesha is known for narrating 2,210 hadiths, not just on matters related to prophet Muhammad’s private life, but also on topics such as inheritance, pilgrimage, and eschatology.

Ghamdi has explained it perfectly, some of the stuff in sahi hadees are just nonsense their for use hadees as a historical data or news came from one source.

where are the women in this discussion???

the marriage was not consummated until sometime after the emigration to Madinah, when she had reached puberty. Aisha, before the Prophet proposed to her, was being pursued by Jubair ibn Mut`am, indicates that she was mature enough for marriage, according to the prevailing tradition at that time, if not, the Quraish people, who would never waste any chance to insult the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, would have found this marriage as a golden opportunity to pour on him rain of insults. Rather they found nothing wrong in this engagement, and they received the news of the Prophet’s proposal for `Aisha as something usual, and even, expected. `Aisha was not the first case, for many girls married at her same age to men who were at their fathers’ age. Hala, the cousin of Amina bint Wahb was married to Abdul-Muttalib on the same day his son `Abdullah married Aminah bint Wahb who was at Hala’s same age. Also, the Companion `Umar ibn Al-Khattab married the daughter of Ali ibn Abi Talib, may Allah honour his face, while he was at her grandpa’s age. After the passage of many centuries, we find now some Orientalists who try to strike a comparison between the conditions of our present time and what was existing 1400 years ago. They are trying to apply the criterions of the Western society to that society that existed in the Arabian Peninsula very long ago. It should be noted that in the hot regions, it’s normal for a girl to attain maturity at a very early age. Thus the case is totally different from that which does exist in the cold regions where a girl does not attain puberty before 21 (Physicians maintain that the age of puberty in the hot regions normally ranges from 7-13).

I've watched nearly all the videos of salafists' dawah about this particular subject and I still don't understand why these guys keep on affirming that Aisha radhiAllahu anha was 6 and 9... The only reason I find for such claims is sectarism and hadith worshiping... First, this hadith in Bukhari isn't reported from the prophet alayhi Salat wa Salam but from Aisha. In sahih muslim for example, she said that she was ten, that means that even herself wasn't 100% sure of the age she got when she got married. But these salafists keep on affriming that she was 9 and that there is no debate about this... Then in this video Abbas said why those who attack the prophet with this hadith don't look up at their own family tree to see the age when their grand grand mothers got married and he added that people till recently didn't know exactly how old they were etc... But when it comes to Aisha they affirm that she was 9 and that she knew her age with precision... The main reason people attack the prophet isn't because of his marriage with Aisha but because of those muslims who take this hadith as an absolute truth People didn't konw their age at the time of Aisha, 6 or 9 years old in 7th century Arabia could mean 12, 15, 18 years olds of our years because people didn't count years as we do it now Aisha didn't celebrate her birthdays with a birthday cake and blowing candies as we do it now It is known that Aisha in comparaison with her older sister (as reported by Ibn Kathir for example) couldn't be 9 at the time of her marriage. it is known that Aisha couldn't be younger than 15 at the battle of Uhud etc etc So there are numerous arguments showing that Aisha was not 6 or 9 but some hadith worshippers keep on affirming it and that's this claim the islamophobes use to insult prophet Muhammad alayhi salat wa salam. The main issue isn't the age of our mother Aisha radhiAllahu anha but the dawah of those who make this hadith (ignoring the other ones that suggest a different age) a sacred scripture.

Hello, English is not my mother tongue. I hope that my words are clear. How can he be a Muslim if he denies any of the personality, sayings or actions of the Messenger, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, and claims that the Messenger did something immoral compared to the customs of society at the present time! This is injustice and transgression against the person of the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace. Please pay attention to this thing. Aisha, may God be pleased with her, was engaged to another person before the Prophet Muhammad, and this was a very normal thing in their society Be careful of the science of speech, as it spoils the faith, O Muslims Warning and alerting anyone who did not accept Aisha’s marriage to the Messenger, because he opens the door to denying the hadith and the person of the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace.

Also, people often died around 30 in those days. Imagine if we applied today’s standards to then? You’d be a parent at 18 and dead by your child’s 12th birthday. What kind of society would that bring about.

*What happened:* Aisha got betrothed at 6, then stayed with her family for 3 years to be ready, then married off and consummated at 9 at puberty. *Child definition:* Child by definition is below puberty. Aisha was not below puberty when marriage was consummated at 9. She herself said she reached puberty. So by definition, Aisha was not a child. *Reason for the marriage between Aisha and Prophet Muhammad* ﷺ *:* During the time of prophet Muhammad ﷺ , it was a norm for girls to get married at puberty. Not just Aisha, but other girls at her time and location also got married at her age. And nobody had a problem with it, not even enemies of Islam. Not just that, but marriage at puberty has been norm throughout human history. Just to give an example, just 140 years ago, age of consent was 10 by law in 39 different countries all over the world including USA, Canada, Europe, etc. In fact, mine and your existence today are based on our ancestors practicing this. Only today's society has increased girls age of marriage because of today's increased lifespan, girls going through education/careers, changed lifestyle, society, environment, etc. *Marriage rules/prerequisites in Islam:* 1. Father/Guardian has to consent: him deciding of whether his daughter is ready or not, whether the husband is worthy or not, whether he agrees with the marriage or not. 2. The girl has to consent if she has reached puberty. And these rules/prerequisites were fulfilled on Aisha's marriage. A girl's maturity, marriageable age and acceptance for marriage varies depending on the person, time, location, culture, environment, etc. And the father's the approval for marriage is shaped by these factors whether it's in the past or at present. *Marriage consummation in Islam:* Marriage consummation cannot happen unless the girl is ready and there's no harm.

How old was Rebecca?3 Isaac was 40 , but nobody said in the Bible or Qur'an they were anything other married in name until they became of age .

we(muslim) arranged woman livelihood based on menopause..

Yall have been teasing Quran streams for 3 years now...surely you're close, right?

There is only one hadith by Hisham which suggests the age of Hazrat Aisha as being nine when she came to live with her husband.There is consensus that Hazrat Aisha was 10 years younger than her elder sister Asma, whose age at the time of the hijrah, or migration to Madina, was about 28. It can be concluded that Hazrat Aisha was about 18 years old at migration. On her moving to the Prophet’s house, she was a young woman at 21. Hisham is the single narrator of the hadith whose authenticity is challenged, for it does not correlate with the many historical facts of the time. All the narrators of this hadith are Iraqis who had heard it from Hisham. Allama Kandhulvi says that the words spoken in connection with Hazrat Aisha’s age were tissa ashara, meaning 19, when Hisham only heard (or remembered), tissa, meaning nine. Maulana Usmani thinks this change was purposely and maliciously made later.

A perusal of the Quran will reveal that marriage in Islam is a civil contract, meesaaq (4:21), and as such it can be finalised only between persons who are intellectually and physically mature enough to understand and fulfill the responsibilities of such a contract. This can be further understood from the verse; “And test the orphans until they reach the age of nikah (marriage), and if you find in them rushdh (maturity of intellect) release their property to them.”(4:6). It may be noted here that the Quran makes intellectual maturity (which always falls beyond the age of puberty) the basis to arrive at the age of marriage. This is also in conformity with the Quranic description of marriage as emotional bonding between two mutually compatible persons through which they seek “to dwell in tranquility” (see 7:189 and 30:21) in the companionship of each other which is not possible if either of the spouses is mentally undeveloped. the Prophet could not have gone against the Quran to marry a physically and intellectually immature child. So no doubt Aisha (ra)was mature enough to marry. •It was also narrated in the collection of Bukhari that the Messenger of God said, ‘No virgin is to be wed without obtaining her consent.’ So Aisha(ra)was asked for consent and she gave her consent!!!

Aisha wasnt 6 when the Prophet PBUH married her. This hadith contradicts the Quran. Any hadith which contradicts the Quran is false. The Quran sits in judgement of the hadith not the other way round since the Quran is the primary text of Islam not the hadiths! The Quranic verses which Aisha's age contradicts is “And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphans, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four.” Quran 4:3 Marry a woman it says not a child! Aisha was, according to this hadith, a child not a woman at the age of 6 no girl is a woman ready for marriage at the age of 6. The prophet PBUH was a walking talking Quran. So, he wouldn’t do anything that contradicts it. As he doesn’t speak (nor acts out) from his own desires. “He (Muhammed PBUH) doesn’t speak from his own whims” Quran 53:3 Another Quranic verse which this hadith is in blatant conflict with is: "Your wives are your tilth; go, then, unto your tilth as you may desire, but first provide something for your souls, and remain conscious of God, and know that you are destined to meet Him. And give glad tidings unto those who believe" This hadith describes wives as "tilths" thus we conclude for a women to be a wife she must quality to be a tilth I.e must be over the age of puberty! No child at the age of 9 qualifies to be a tilth! No child at the age of 9 is ready for sexual relations! As i have stated before and will do so again Muhammad pbuh was the walking talking Quran therefore wouldn't do anything that contradicts it. Shame and disgrace be upon the majority of the scholars of Islam and thus muslims who blindly accept this hadith. Only the Quran is the undisputed, inflammable word of Allah. If the age of Aisha RA was in the Quran then fair enough, however it isnt! Those of you who blindly accept this hadith, your making a mockery of the greatest of Mankind. We can also use the hadith to reach the same conclusion by speculating Aisha's elders sister Asmah's age and the hijrah period. The hijra as well because it was around this period when she was promised to the prophet PBUH. According to Imam ibn Kathir and the majority of Islamic scholars, Aisha’s older sister Asmah was 10 years older than her, Asmah had died at 73 years after hijra (AH), at the age of 100. If Asmah had died at 73 AH and was a 100, she was therefore 27 when the prophet PBUH had made the hijra. So, if Asmah was 10 years older than Aisha, this therefore makes Aisha 17 when the hijra had taken place. Aisha was promised to the prophet (PBUH) a year or 2 before hijra meaning she was probably around 15/16 roughly. So, a few years down the line after when the marriage was consummated, she was roughly around 18-20+ Lest we forget the prophet Muhammed PBUH reigned over the lands of Arabia and could’ve had over 1000 wives who were pre-pubesent girls as well as women, if he wanted. Yet he didn’t marry any other little girl like Aisha (RA) supposedly was. Thank you for taking time out and reading. Peace be upon you.

I've been saying to efdawah through my comments that this question has been already dealt with in French- speaking countries by Michel Dardenne a Muslim brother from Belgium. To cut it short that how it goes : Rassool 1st attempt to betroth Aisha didn't succeed as she was already betrothed to a non- believer. Let's yourself & your interlocutor reflect on that. Don't try to persuade anybody

Aisha Ra's age has only become a topic in last 30-40 years... nobody cared what her age was before that. Even during the time of Prophet pbuh when his opponent wouldve scrutinize him even for the smallest of details against him never bought this up.

Guys seriuously, I will not allow myself to question the authentic hadiths. but there is an anomaly in the statements. We know that Khawlah proposed to the Prophet Aisha and Sawda after Khadija (ra) passed away. We know that the best friend of the Prophet Mohamed (asws) abou bakr (ra) accepted the request of the Prophet Mohamed (asws) to take the hand of Aisha (as) while she was engaged to Jabir Ibn al Mut'im before to get engaged to the prophet Mohamed (asws) Asma, the big sister of aicha(ra), was pregnant with her first child in the year 622 at the age of 27. how is it that asma is known to have her first marriage only around her twenties unlike aicha?. How is it also that the prophet Mohamed (asws) married his other wives beyond the age of 15? Here is the list of the 11 wives of the Prophet Mohamed (asws). Ummuna Khadija was 40 years old while the Prophet ﷺ was only 25 years old. Ummuna Sawda was 55 years old so the Prophet ﷺ was 50 years old. Here the prophet Mohamed (asws) married 2 women who were older than him. If it was customary to marry very young girls between 6-13 years old in his time, why didn't he do it with his other wives? -------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------------------------- Ummuna Âicha was 6 years old during the engagement and 9 years old at the consummation of the marriage, while the Prophet ﷺ was 53 years old. -------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------------------------- Ummuna Hafsa was 21 years old while the Prophet ﷺ was 56 years old. Ummuna Zaynab Bint Khuzayma was 30 years old while the Prophet ﷺ was 56 years old. Ummuna Um Salama was 33 years old while the Prophet ﷺ was 57 years old. Ummuna Zaynab Bint Jahch was 38 years old while the Prophet ﷺ was 58 years old. Ummuna Juwayriya Bint Al-Hârith She was 20 years old while the Prophet ﷺ was 58 years old. Ummuna Safiyya Bint Huyay She was 18 years old while the Prophet ﷺ was 60 years old. Ummuna Ramla Bint Abi-Sufyan (Um Habîba) She was 36 years old while the Prophet ﷺ was 60 years old. Ummuna Maymouna Bint Al-Hârith She was 36 years old while the Prophet ﷺ was 60 years old. For the example he was, for the status he had and for the wisdom he transmitted, I prefer to wait for the day of resurrection to know the true version. Use the wisdom of the Prophet Mohamed (asws) and be patient. do not play the game of its disbelievers who allow themselves to sully Islam without knowledge and without research.

Islam states that Jesus is a human and is a true prophet (peace be upon him). However, in today's age we find, the sources such as the christian Bible, and the Roman Catholic Church, all these unfortunately had underwent lots of corruption. So much so that we would never, ever, base our salvation on such sources. Islam is totally different, Islam is better & true. The Roman Catholic Church practise idol worship and pagan practises (which are against the teachings of Jesus). Even the people of the Old Testament (the Jew religion) are also against idol worship and against pagan practices, because that is what their prophet Moses taught, as what is instructed by God. But yet the Roman Catholic Church blasphemously practise idol worship and pagan practises. The Roman Catholic Church did not do justice to prophet Jesus, praying to their idol statues/images of the human prophet Jesus, instead of praying to God 'the father' ONLY. That idol-worshipping towards idol statues/images of Jesus in their churches, eventually led them to regarding Jesus as supposedly 'divine', then eventually led them to regarding Jesus as supposedly 'god'. Blasphemy. So that created a concept of supposedly two 'gods',... 'god the son' and 'god the father'. But as that would cause a major contradiction with Jesus' teachings that 'there is only One God', the humans at the church then decided to create the concept of trinity. Notice that the word "trinity" is not in any of the earlier more-original bible. Notice that Jesus, as well as all the rest of the other prophets sent by the same God (eg. Muhammad, Moses, David, Solomon, Isaac, Noah, Abraham, etc, etc (peace be upon all prophets mentioned)) all the prophets had NEVER ever teach mankind trinity, why? because the trinity concept was artificially created by the humans of the christian church ( eg. church fathers/pope/bishops/priests, etc ) but its NOT from God, and its NOT by God. And please dont assume humans of the christian church cannot do any wrong, because its publicly no secret the many multiple incidents of church choir young boys being groomed to be secretly sexually abused/exploited by priests or by whatever humans of the church. Thats already public knowledge, its no secret. And also one of the things the Roman Catholic Church did was to blasphemously change the date of Christmas from spring/summer to December 25th, winter, believing it to be the shortest day of the year and to be compatible date with one of the previous pagan gods that the Romans previously worshiped. The humans at the church changing the date of Christmas to say its 25th December is a major Lie. Its no secret that December 25th is not the real date of christmas (date of birth of Jesus Christ) but its a Roman pagan day of celebration. Even famous Christian pastors admit 25th December as Christmas is actually a pagan celebration, Link: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-0zKeiFqFgqE.html Yet hundreds of thousands of christians in USA still celebrate fake christmas day as 25th December pagan day; I pity them, the devil/satan succeed in corrupting their church and their bible, ...they are corruptedly taught by the church to follow idol-worship & paganism, ...corruptedly taught by the church to follow worship of supposedly '1' god but are actually multiple 3 'gods' and this is major blasphemy clearly against all the prophet's teachings of monotheism of God ('there is only ONE God') from all the prophets. ...And they are also taught by the church to live a life of Lies. They're living a Lie. =============================== It is no secret that the bible has many numerical contradictions and many factual contradictions, and its not the complete original God's words. 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The Quran is the ONLY holy book in the world today, where even if all physical copies of the Quran books were to be burnt or destroyed, it can still be reproduced thereafter by the thousands or millions of muslims in the world today because it is the ONLY holy book in the world that had been memorised from begining to end, by thousands or millions of Islam people. What many christians have ignorance or fail in understanding is that the Quran, being MEMORISED by thousands/millions of islamic followers ( from the time of prophet Muhammad until today ) also means there's a natural 'original-accuracy' AUDITING process. For example, if there is a typo error in a printed Quran book, many muslim memorisers can spot that and point that out. If there is a misquoting of a word in Quran passages during a prayer, other muslim memorisers can correct that. Hence originality of the Quran contents - had always been preserved, - is still being preserved, - and will be preserved insyaAllah. (unlike the bible contents that was multiple-times undergone being modified-deletions-additions by humans and was never preserved; ...so much so that we, and those people who are learned people, would never, ever, base our salvation on the bible, why? because the bible had been fabricated and corrupted). Praises and thanks be to God the all-knowing, that guided the muslim faithfuls with memorising the Quran and keeping its content original and authentic. Muslims regard memorising the Quran as a great honour (and is bestowed with great blessings from God) as muslims regard the Quran, which is a FINAL revelation from God, as a treasured gift to humanity, from a loving God that wants to guide all of humanity. Praise be to God (Allah) creator of all worlds, 🌏 creator of the seen and unseen, creator of the whole universe 🌌 and everything in it, including you and I, Allah is the master of the Day Of Judgement. 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I hit puberty at ten so that must mean I've been a man for a while

Please say Um ul Mumineen Syeda Ayesha RA or at least part of it. I am sure none of us calls his mother by her name. And she is more beloved to us than our own mothers.

My family tree showed an average age of 20.

السلام عليكم كيف يكون مسلم إذا كان هو ينكر شيئاً من شخصية او اقوال او افعال الرسول صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلِيْهِ وَسَلَّمْ و يدعي ان الرسول صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلِيْهِ وَسَلَّمْ فعل شيء لا اخلاقي بالقياس على عادات المجتمع في الوقت الحاضر! انا هذا ظلم و تعدي على شخص الرسول صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلِيْهِ وَسَلَّمْ أرجو الانتباه لهاذا الشيء عائشة رضي الله عنها كانت مخطوبة لي شخص اخر قبل الرسول صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلِيْهِ وَسَلَّمْ وكان هذا شي طبيعي جدا في مجتمعهم أنا ذاك إنتبهو من علم الكلام فهو يفسد العقيدة يامسلمين تحذير وتنبيه أي شخص لم يقبل زواج عائشة من الرسول صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلِيْهِ وَسَلَّمْ فأنه يفتح على نفسه باب انكار الحديث و شخص الرسول صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلِيْهِ وَسَلَّمْ

Benefits of marriage of rasulullah salallahualayuwasallam and aisha radiallahuanha Firstly we found out what the correct criteria for marriage is its not about being 18 16 12 all ages used in west rather it is about a women puberty physical mental maturity and readyness to get married regardless the age womenhood is based on puberty and physical mental development not age alone a 12 year old still may not hit puberty yet a 9 year old may have hit puberty and her mentality will be different to the girl who hasnt gone through puberty due to hormones and mental boost along with physical development Before going to the next part response to even some muslim is that she was not 18 19 at marriage infact she couldnt have been anything older then 12 at marriage so those muslim trying to impress the west you need to fix yourself according to three authentic narrations her age was 6 to 9 at engagement 9 to 12 at marriage and 10 to 13 when she moved in with the prophet salallahualayuwasallam she wouldnt have been anything younger or older those are the possiboe ages, in those days age dispute was common, fatima radiallahuanha the daughter of prophet salallahualayuwasallam narrations show she was born 5 years before or 5 years after prophethood both these are unlikely the more agreed possible date of her birth is born on the year of the prophethood or a year after prophethood had started her husband ali radiallahuanhu its said he was 6 9 or 10 when prophethood began so theres a 4 year gap in his age, uthman radiallahuanhu had a 3 year difference for his year of birth you will see for many sahaba their age is slightly disputed but we have a rough idea on how old they couldve been but no doubt she was nothing older then 12 at marriage and 9 minimum Second benefit of her young marriage was she was of a similar or same age as fatima radiallahuanha the daughter of prophet salallahualayuwasallam depending on which narrations you accept, when she moved in with the prophet salallahualayuwasallam he moved fatima in the same house as aisha radiallahuanha where she quickly became friends with her and would remain close to her even after the prophet salallahualayuwasallam death, also she aisha radiallahuanha got the best of examples to follow there was prophet of allah the best of creation and there was the daughter of the prophet who was one of the four perfect women, she aisha radiallahuanha living with these two great people was a great learning experiance for her in every way she saw how their relationship was their manners good behaviour and in fatima radiallahuanha she had a women to look upto for all this Last benefit to mentioned she lived upto her 60s or 70s where she narrated the second most hadith of sahaba and spread knowledge

So what she is still 9 how can you defend early pubert are you really human and also yes maybe my grand dad or in my family they have married at 10,11 but now we don't endorse that but kuraan says a real Muslim will follow the character of prophet I say there is 100 good things but would you allow your 9 years old to be conceived by 52 years man(who has power of 10 men as kuraan) or not would you allow??

It's so strange that so many Muslims strongly denied the true age of aisha until it became public knowledge, and now, as Muslim scholars confirm it, they're saying it is fine because she might have already had her period. She would have been considered too young, even in Muhammad's time! Don't be blinded by culture, seek truth. Jesus is the only way. Muhammad is a false prophet. Decide for yourself but ask truly who is a better example to live by? Who would God really want us to follow?

Dear speakers stop trying to defend the early marriages of the 7th century in which Arabic culture would allow as the other nations did the almost same ages acceptable too. The people who judge Arabs of 7th century should check their ancestors' traditions and culture. What would be a grave mistake is that some Soofi people have their daughters married around the the same ages, making the culture of Arabs a part of Deen.

She wasnt 6-9 at marriage. It doesn't make sense.

Puberty starts from 8-13 in females. I don't understand why Muslims are concerned about the age of Aisha (RA) when she had no issues marrying Ar Rasool (SAW). Apart from that, do Muslims doubt the act of Rasool ALLAH (SAW)? Whatever Prophet MUHAMMAD (SAW) said or did was from ALLAH SWT and marrying mother Aisha was one of them. Believing in one God who is not even visible to us is more controversial than the age of mother Aisha (RA). When we accept Prophet MUHAMMAD (SAW) the last and final messenger of ALLAH SWT then we should have faith that whatever he (SAW) did was absolutely correct and we have no right of objection. This is for Muslims, obviously non Muslims do not agree with what I wrote.

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Not only that because aisha her self said he had the most self control over anyone. He would help was her without diing anything sexual to her...he had several other wives who is to say that he didnt wait til she was older then 12 before he had skept with her...consummate means to make whole, complete , it doesnt just means to have sex

You trust an orally passed down story ie. Hadith written 100 or 200 years after death of prophet , with contradictions around Aishas age which they obviously didn’t know . Hadith are not a birth and death record .

Why doesn't anyone tell these people she was 5 months away from 21. Remember the book the Saudi's banned ?

This case is very simple and I really don't understand why it's still giving drama in the muslim community. There is literally a verse in the Quran saying the following : Surah Al QALAM (The Pen) (68:4) : And you are certainly on the most exalted standard of moral excellence. Is it of excellent morale to marry a 9 year-old child ? No. Can the Quran be contradicted ? No. Then it means that our knowledge of what the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ did here is incorrect. Can we really think that the Prophet ﷺ would've done something considered as morally incorrect centuries later ? Even when saying "but maybe at the time it was acceptable" ? No. How can we even fathom this idea ? How are we even going to see him ﷺ in the afterlife and say that of him ? Do we have no shame ? If this is morally questionable, then it means our Prophet ﷺ did not do it. It's simple.

There are still some ahadithe and other books from early islamic period, that show that there is no 100% confident proof how old aisha (may allah be pleased with her), really was. Back then calenders used to be not a common thing and therefore counting your age or that of others, used to be an unsual, hard thing. It was not a common practice.