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My Brother Called My Husband a RACIST!
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@johniii8147 3 года назад

There is something the first caller is not telling us.

@catcoffee7958 10 месяцев назад

Yap

@nowandthennn 3 месяца назад

Someone says that on every show , but there’s no way you can get everything said in one short segment, so they just hit the highlights.

@mannyfresh5051 2 месяца назад

@@nowandthennnI think Dr John purposely did not want to know the meme so he can actually help her but at the same time to say it’s not offensive at all after saying it might’ve been is not being honest

@KeyvonGreen 3 года назад

I wanna know what the meme was... I feel cheated lol

@andytaylor1588 3 года назад

We definitely have been cheated. Even a saltine like me.

@rhondapatterson1 4 месяца назад

@@andytaylor1588 😂😆🤣 Fellow saltine here…😊

@IFBBProYeo 29 дней назад

Fr! Let the people decide 😅

@wessantos4994 3 года назад

Sounds like she doesn’t really care for her brother. When you can’t bother to have a difficult conversation with someone on a personal level, you usually don’t like them all that much.

@wessantos4994 3 года назад

Also-really wish we knew what that meme was 😐

@rachaelvaughan1017 Год назад

Well in a way I could understand because she wasn't the one who posted it so she was really stuck between a rock and a hard place with her husband on one side and brother on the other side and she probably didn't want to receive anger and rage when she wasn't the one who posted it but she'd probably get the backlash from her brother. I think people forget that in a marriage, there's still 2 separate people

@NoEvidenceForGod Месяц назад

@@wessantos4994 It was probably one of those disgusting memes about how 13% of the population commit 50% of the violent crimes or something gross and totally not factual like that.

@ruz6135 3 года назад

That guy promised to keep a secret...then tells that secret to thousands of listeners on RU-vid. 🤦🏼‍♂️

@ElaineLoyd 3 года назад

He didn't post it on twitter or Facebook. Give the him SOME credit.

@salaltschul3604 2 года назад

Or it could be that her husband DID post something that was dehumanising to people and she didn't think it was an issue because she had the same beliefs.

@catholicfemininity2126 10 месяцев назад

I wish she mentioned the post. But what people call 'dehumanizing' isn't 'dehumanizing' at all, people are just sensitive and wanna pick a fight... but sometimes it is dehumanizing and others deny it.

@analozada9475 5 месяцев назад

Exactly!

@woodsandcreek7589 3 месяца назад

Exactly

@ryansack5198 3 месяца назад

Y’all are so damn sensitive

@federation_comrade 2 месяца назад

This is it exactly.

@Jane_1994 3 года назад

That woman sounds so juvenile, avoidant, and defensive.

@salma_Nella22 3 года назад

I agree. My first instinct would be to talk it over and make everything okay again

@salma_Nella22 3 года назад

@@MicheleNichols2 yes but I know many adults that are capable of maintaining relationships with others who do not share the same beliefs. If politics were a problem, don’t talk about politics. My sister and I also share opposing views but we absolutely adore each other . This can be worked out and repaired as long as they talk to each other and hear each other out. She just has to swallow her pride and grow up

@challajuzalei6126 3 года назад

@@salma_Nella22 unfortunately politics easily turn into ideologies now. So, at that point anything with aspersions towards their ideology can cause unwarranted outrage or outbursts (i.e. calling someone a racist). I’m glad you and your sister have a great relationship regardless of political views but I believe your situation to be the outlier.

@salma_Nella22 3 года назад

@@challajuzalei6126 it shouldn’t be an outlier. I guess what I am trying to say is that we are all adults and if you want a relationship to work, don’t talk politics. It’s that easy

@challajuzalei6126 3 года назад

@@salma_Nella22 oh, don’t get me wrong, I 100% agree. Unfortunately most people aren’t that logical or have the self restraint 😣.

@HitmanChase 3 года назад

I am DYING to know what the meme was lol.

@upendo2 3 года назад

As a person of color it brings me anxiety to think of what the meme was. The fact that you’re laughing and desiring a potentially racist meme says that you find racist things funny. Maybe you are aware of this, but in case you are not aware, I hope this comment enlightens you.

@alexisgutierrez4773 3 года назад

@@upendo2 I'm dying to know too 🤭🤭

@beeezeee1783 3 года назад

@@upendo2 it was probably Pepe the frog. Are you really going to claim that Pepe is racist like the media has?

@johnsanchez6836 3 года назад

@@upendo2 snow flake

@Thecairopractors 3 года назад

As a person of color.... I am also DYING to know what the meme was lol.

@LookinAtHim 8 месяцев назад

This discussion makes it seem like pointing out the racism is the probem rather than the actual racism itself.

@annerobinson9781 4 месяца назад

I’m actually disappointed in John here he usually holds people accountable and makes things transparent

@Jeremy-wp4yh 4 месяца назад

@@annerobinson9781people in the US are overly sensitive when it comes to race. That's their government's fault

@jacksoncampbell5523 3 месяца назад

Have you met democrats lately? They say all Republicans are racist....

@TechGirlTiff 2 месяца назад

The woman was so upset because they were raised to consider racism a serious sin... So not something you fling at someone over a meme. Her brother moved to the West Coast and now everyone is an evil racist. That's what I heard

@d3mized 2 месяца назад

@@Jeremy-wp4yhbecause racism is embedded in the US. stop being ignorant

@Hellokitty7163 3 года назад

Finally John has a decent office. His previous office looked as if he was locked in the cellar. Good for you Dr. John ! Congrats

@matthewdecker2299 3 года назад

"I want my stapler"

@rachelgee7894 3 года назад

I think it's dave's old desk redecorated

@alexlewis8143 3 года назад

@@rachelgee7894 same. But it's still better than the dungeon Anthony is in.

@ElaineLoyd 3 года назад

Yeah I did get basement storage vibes from his previous office.

@martyohlfest8699 3 года назад

I think she needs to call her brother. A year ago, a friend posted a meme, as a joke toward my husband, regarding fishing. Because I was tagged in the post, my sister saw it and commented "Despicable!" When I saw her comment, I called her immediately to ask why she said that. She interpreted it as a racist post. When I explained what the post was about, she apologized for jumping to the wrong conclusion. For us, talking caused it to end as no harm, no foul

@alanparedes2034 2 года назад

How is racism and fishing related 🤔

@martyohlfest8699 2 года назад

@@alanparedes2034 i realized after your reply that i didn't give a very good description of the meme. Lol. Two pictures, one with a fishing pole bent over like a fish was on the line, saying "I got a big one..." The other picture a black man saying "bottom". Of course meaning it wasn't a big fish, but it was the bottom of the lake that the guy had caught. My sister only really "saw" the picture of the black man and instantly thought it was "making fun of him". She didn't get the fishing part of it at all.

@jayrezvani3821 2 года назад

Yeah it was immature on both their parts. People being locked inside their houses for the last two years has driven up depression and anxiety, exacerbated by the fact that social media was the only connection to the outside world for many. Her brother lives on the West Coast, so likely was very locked down due to COVID. If he didn't have a very strong friend group, easy to see how he would go down the social media rabbit hole and end up becoming very opinionated and disconnected from normal socialization.

@catholicfemininity2126 10 месяцев назад

So much better than messaging her...

@daCubanaqt 4 месяца назад

Dr. D hit the nail on the head. Her family wasn’t that close if she didn’t want to talk to her brother to resolve the issue or even to find out what was going on.

@wijcik 3 года назад

I've learned in life, don't ask unless you are prepared for the absolute worst case scenario. Also, never fall for the trap of the other person manipulating you to beg to know the thing. If they keep stringing you along, they want to feel important and perused. The dance of "I'll tell you a bit but then make you beg for more" is a control thing.

@vickimerritt2832 Год назад

it is also a way of dodging accountability, ie, I didnt tell, they figured it out.

@Soyodiggity 3 года назад

The big question is what was in the meme? That could explain why your brother thinks he’s racist. If I post a meme about children being sexy someone might call me a pervert. There is nothing political about that.

@matthewgardner2144 3 года назад

The caller and her husband have likely normalized a lot of things in their day to day life that are likely mildly to full on racist. Caller and husband are shocked, just shocked! to be called out for their behavior.

@michellerichardson3090 3 года назад

Exactly. Didn't even say what it was.

@bloomingale7868 3 года назад

Great analogy.

@brooklove90 Год назад

Exactly. "I'm sure it offends someone" is basically "in sure its racist to someone"

@v.m.4453 3 года назад

You know what's worse than calling someone a racist? Being a racist? If someone called me that I would be curious as to the cause for that, instead of just reacting. Just a thought.

@justicesmith8798 3 года назад

people these days are more offended by the idea of being called a racist than actual racism. crazy.

@deb9806 Год назад

@@justicesmith8798 I think John knew he would be offended by meme and didn't ask on purpose. I've seen so many awful things that people thought were funny but really in bad taste. He didn't want to go there.

@antonioiniguez1615 11 месяцев назад

You're first reaction to being called racist should be calling the other person an asshole because that's what they are. Her brother is an asshole.

@yourmajesty8742 10 месяцев назад

I love how Hohn assumes the meme wasn't racist smh .. address the issue from both ends. It is possible the meme was racist

@chelsmaria 10 месяцев назад

@@yourmajesty8742he only did that initially to build rapport with the caller. Pretty much the rest of the call, he challenged her on whether what was said might have actually been racist and if they have something to learn

@judybarnett7071 3 года назад

I love the "political hurricane, blizzard, diarrhea storm" description.

@rebeccaanne8546 3 года назад

Its pretty accurate as well

@maris7457 3 года назад

ya i feel like lots of families and friends are finding out who they are deep down and some are dividing further and some are coming closer together. thank you for explaining how we can bridge the gap if we are looking to try and do so, John.

@chantelleroddy 3 года назад

Wow, this conversation was so relevant! It’s refreshing to have someone speak from a non-biased standpoint on how to properly engage with politics and disagreements on Facebook and in the real world.

@Twestliw 3 года назад

HI WHOEVER UPLOADS THESE VIDEOS Please time stamp for these longer videos in the description. Thank you, grateful audience

@cosmiqshy8941 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your analysis & kind heart in helping others, Dr. Delony. Just found your channel a few days ago & have been binging on your videos. You are an Angel. 🕊

@9118Ray 3 года назад

13:38 "Hurricane blizzard diarrhea storm" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I lost it right there.

@littlemaridee 7 месяцев назад

I wish he would have bought a POC in for the conversation about racism. I'm willing to bet that meme was pretty offensive and it wasn't the first time her husband had said or posted something like that and that their circle isn't diverse so the brother is the only voice they hear challenging their (probably) racist beliefs.

@whenyourgone1994 Год назад

So true about the sugar study! I am an RN & for 25 years I have been telling people over consumption of sugar is your enemy. People thought I was crazy… I guess not! I love your podcasts and learn so much, thank you for your thoughtful, practical, and professional advice.

@davedasilva512 Год назад

😊😊😊😊

@davedasilva512 Год назад

😊

@catholicfemininity2126 10 месяцев назад

I learned from relatives that they had no idea what diabetes was in the 80's and 90's...

@daCubanaqt 4 месяца назад

The sugar companies won the lobby race in the 60s not to be the bad guy and fat lost the battle. This country is crazy with the amount of sugar that goes into everything. It’s unnecessary and the US diet has severely suffered from it.

@cassl1612 3 года назад

YES! dr. Rhonda Patrick and Dr. Attia are wonderful resources!

@joekr9424 3 года назад

I had to remove 80% of family from my life(mostly cousins) what I realized is that I always thought they were idiots, I just put up with them because they were family. I feel a million times better now that I don't have to fake it.

@goalie2998 3 года назад

Maybe look for the common denominator in the equation. You thought 80% were idiots....

@joekr9424 3 года назад

@@goalie2998 The common denominator was work ethic. They were all poor and lazy and wanted free stuff, also very jealous of my success.

@gtolose 3 года назад

@@joekr9424 or maybe they just thought u were an arse, and looking at your solution, yep thats likely what u r. Jealous of u, give me a break.

@dazed_and_amazed1296 3 года назад

Good for you, social worker here and can’t even think of the family stories I have heard over the years of dysfunctional families. Glad you were able to break away, so much guilt attached to walking away from family. I commend those that are able to create boundaries or cut off ties when needed.

@deb9806 Год назад

My neighbor went of FB to try to keep extended family with less stress. It was awful for him to hear what they really felt about things when those discussions didn't come up on holidays. It is what it is though.

@cheeseburger5555 3 года назад

Omg John is awesome! He sniffs out the BS in such a diplomatic way. Bravo 👏🏾

@salma_Nella22 3 года назад

Which story are you referring to?

@cheeseburger5555 3 года назад

@@salma_Nella22 “My brother called husband racist”

@salma_Nella22 3 года назад

@@cheeseburger5555 yes he definitely brought her problem to the surface

@oldsalt4798 3 года назад

You can never go back to how it "used to be."

@Angela-ne9cy 3 года назад

A sugar tax would only put people further into debt. Spending more money wouldn't deter anyone from purchasing sugary products. Just another way for the government to money-grab from the lower class.

@honeyfurfarm2182 3 года назад

Especially when the government has encouraged so much of our food to become that way through subsidies for corn and soy. They would tax us for breathing if they could. 🙄

@tiffanymackey2382 3 года назад

I disagree. I typically drink water at restaurants because it's free. If I have to choose between a bottle of water for $3 and pop for $1.50, I'm more likely to choose the pop. I'd get more salads at Chick-fil-A if they weren't twice the price of a sandwich. Cost does make a difference for a lot of people, and I personally make healthier decisions when there is financial incentive to do so.

@brittany7573 3 года назад

I think it would also give manufacturers incentives to not drop sugar into our prepackaged food.

@stephenreed4324 3 года назад

Yes, Americans being in debt AND overeating is a little counterintuitive. Not very clear cut to assume "those people who don't have money but spend excessive money to eat too much.... will now be more poor when you make unhealthy food expensive". I think it's probably more complex than that. Also.... GMO's might be the answer

@kamarwashington 3 года назад

@@tiffanymackey2382 People still buy sigs and alcohol even though they’re more expensive to attempt to deter people. If you’re addicted people will buy it regardless. That’s just how demand works

@itisAlex_ 3 года назад

I love how Dr. Delony always talks about Nutrition. It is so important!! Thank you 🍎🥬🥕🌽🥭🍓🍇🍒🥒🫒🧄🫐

@PInk77W1 3 года назад

If that’s the worst thing that ever happened in my family, I’d be miles ahead.

@robertperry814 3 года назад

i would never call out a friend or family member publically.

@purpleviolet207 3 года назад

Same here.

@kalindakelly3417 3 месяца назад

Me either.

@growing.grounds4054 2 месяца назад

Why not ? You’re just a hypocrite. Cause you would call out a stranger for the same thing you wouldn’t call out a family member with

@nataliecalzadilla4110 3 года назад

I love this! thanks John.

@marlapadilla7913 11 месяцев назад

AS EX-JW.. SHE NEEDS THERAPY. ITS A CULT NOT A RELIGION. I KNOW I LOT OF WIVES THAT DO IT ALONE AND I WOULD SAY LET HER BE AND FIGURE IT OUT. IF YOU SAY I DONT WANT THEM TO GO SHE CANT TAKE THEM BECAUSE YOU ARE THE HUSBAND. YOUR HOUSEHOLD ITS ABOUT TO BE UPSIDE DOWN. IM SORRY.

@phactress891 3 года назад

You can call it the Nerd Blurb or Nerd Notes!

@ceecee8757 3 года назад

"Walking In Memphis" by Marc Cohn. How fitting seeing that it is Elvis' birthday today, January 8th. Loved listening to today's show, Dr. Delony!!

@JB-su6tp 3 года назад

What's the meme??!?!!?

@amyfuller3801 3 года назад

Thank you for emphasizing the afterlife dilemmas for mixed religion families. It's a real fundamental fear, and effects the marriage, the kids the kid's faith and relationship with God. It doesn't get enough attention. I've never heard that concern addressed as cleanly as you did. Thank you.

@nicolab2075 2 года назад

The reason it's such a dilemma is because there is zero evidence of an afterlife, so no way of settling the argument.

@Monica-zo7dd 4 месяца назад

I have a friend in a similar situation and it’s actually pretty sad. The kids no longer participate in the religion of the mother and now she’s made them feel that Gods turned their back on them. They never celebrate anything and the husband just allowed it. They’ve stayed together because they’re old school but I really think it caused great turmoil for everyone and she kept selfishly continuing it. I don’t think a religion that separates you from your family is the right one.

@SageKayDee 8 месяцев назад

Wow, John really dropped the ball on that racism call.

@growing.grounds4054 2 месяца назад

Exactly.

@JudePi-jx7yo 2 месяца назад

How so?

@growing.grounds4054 2 месяца назад

@@JudePi-jx7yo he never addressed the issue like he usually does

@MuzzyBarker 2 месяца назад

@@JudePi-jx7yo He often says that, if someone else was on the phone, he might say something different, but he's dealing with the one on the phone. This call was a lot of lecturing someone who wasn't on the phone and very little accountability for the person who was on the phone.

@karenholt8441 24 дня назад

There’s always 3 sides to a story, yours theirs and the truth!

@luckymrsmurray5219 10 месяцев назад

The comments sections of some of your videos gives me faith in humanity ❤

@Wgaunichaux 3 года назад

Maybe he said something inherently racist.

@Angela-ne9cy 3 года назад

That's what I'm wondering. She's SO defensive and so unwilling to admit that it may have been inappropriate that it makes me really wonder if they are just justifying a meme THEY didn't see as racist but someone else could.

@Wgaunichaux 3 года назад

@@Angela-ne9cy People don't like to be confronted on their bias. That situation isn't a political issue, it's a really a human issue. Generalized statement: If you say a joke, that has racial undertones to it, you should expect someone to call you out. With that said, if you're a person calling someone out, you need to educate them why the joke was perceived a certain way and why it is racist. Her call makes it sound like she's not willing to even have that conversation. If she's not willing to do that you cross the threshold from uneducated to ignorant. Because she's complicit in that action.

@Angela-ne9cy 3 года назад

@@Wgaunichaux agreed 100%. I do think there is value in the delivery. If you scream at someone that they are racist, chances are their defenses will immediately go up and they won't hear anything further. But many (many, many) people don't realize something they said/posted could be offensive and taken as racist until someone confronts them. I'd venture to say, though, when confronted most people would feel immediate shame and want to correct their behavior. The caller, however, refuses to even entertain the notion.

@Wgaunichaux 3 года назад

@@Angela-ne9cy I concur with that statement. Hang on to that EQ, "emotional intelligence". It will serve you.

@honeyfurfarm2182 3 года назад

He might have, but pretty much almost anything nowadays can be interpreted as racist or "white privilage". A coworker of mine got involved in a racial case at work because a lady cut her off going into the elevator and she was having a bad day and she rolled her eyes at the lady and made an annoyed face, and because the lady was Asian and my friend was white she tried to take out an HR racial case on my friend and get her in trouble. People are never going to 100% jive with other people and people are ridiculously sensitive today. Anytime I hear someone call someone else a racist I want to know exactly why because probably 60% of the time its a personal disagreement with a person and doesn't have anything to do with race at all.

@julescosby2000 3 года назад

How about "The Geekdown" or "Geeking it down" with Dr. D?

@Nepthu 3 года назад

When you call someone racist (or any derogatory term), what do you expect as a response? Do people have calm, reasoned exchanges on Facebook these days? My sister once wrote me an encyclopedia-length response about the dangers of smoking after I joked about dressing as the Marlborough Man for Halloween. She cited the surgeon general to stop me from being "a puppet of big tobacco" at a Halloween party.

@dominicabollig1918 3 года назад

Wow- did you unfriend her?

@The_Food_Police 3 года назад

This is the funniest thing ever

@msi8311 3 года назад

Racist: a racial bigot. Bigot: person with an unreasonable belief. Calling someone a racist is an insult. If someone calls me a racist and they point to my complexion and not my character, they aren’t exposing my prejudices, they are exposing their own.

@alicearnold8212 2 года назад

The woman who was not practicing the Jehovah’s Witness religion prior to marriage and in the early marriage pulled a bait and switch on her husband. The children are going to be indoctrinated in her belief. There will be constant disagreements. She will not be flexible due to pressure from her family and church family. I believe expecting negotiation from her is naive. A sad situation.

@ludoludo80 2 года назад

and if the meme was indeed racist and offensive how you can avoid to say something? ...

@debrawilliams2781 3 года назад

YOU JOHN ARE SO RIGHT ON, I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU. YOU ARE ONE WHO WILL MAKE THE WORLD BETTER! Today WELL Intentioned FOLK call folk out when they see WRONG DOING to make the World a BETTER PLACE. They call it because they WITNESS THINGS MORE OFTEN THAN ANYONE ELSE.

@briceanderson3281 3 года назад

John.... I'm feeling you my man... been married unequally yoked for 18 years..... Spouse is Muslim..... man.... been really hard... very hard... Guard your heart my man..... if you two are truly serious about your convictions EXPECT confrontation... if both of you just kinda sorta believe you may be okay.... Don't let the confrontation weaken you to were you lose who you are...... James 1:2 to 4..... and verse 12 This is the first verse God gave me when the bombs started dropping one year into my marriage....

@clementmckenzie7041 Год назад

You know what I grew up listening to casual racism. I never liked it, but I had to live with it. Mostly the people involved would not think they were racist because they were not burning crosses or lynching people. I went off to college, met and became more comfortable with diverse people and understood how hurtful "jokes" really were. I just couldn't take the casual racism anymore and I just didn't feel like keeping quiet about it when I saw it anymore. Lost friends, lost family members, but it was worth it not to have to listen to any of it anymore.

@Gxport Год назад

This is an important experience to share. Thank you for sharing. ❤

@antonioiniguez1615 11 месяцев назад

Jokes aren't offensive. Racist jokes aren't real racism. Grow up. Your issue is you're too soft.

@bluecollarnobody4217 8 месяцев назад

Well, guess what in this life people are going to say things that are offensive rude, or just plain cruel can’t silence everybody This is still America, and for the moment we still have the first amendment do I agree with people that are racist absolutely not, but it is their right to have their opinions and beliefs

@ladydatura2529 5 месяцев назад

@bluecollarnobody4217 they never said you couldn't be racist if you wanna be. They said you can do it OVER THERE, out of their range of hearing. Freedom to be free of b.s. exists even if it isn't on your beloved constitution. It comes with being human and having relationships. You can end a relationship if the other person is being offensive. They can continue being offensive way over there. Simple as that.

@bluecollarnobody4217 5 месяцев назад

@@ladydatura2529 how are the crazy liberal California everything and anything that doesn’t go his way he doesn’t agree with called racist

@rawa7417 3 года назад

when Americans call each other racist, it makes me chuckle. racism in the west is like a unicorn compared to what other countries have

@redcomic619 3 года назад

True but Europeans are VERY racist compared to Americans despite their virtue signaling.

@TheSnoozeFox 3 года назад

@@redcomic619 No they aren't i'm black and have been all over Europe, only racism I ever experienced was here in London.

@jasminesuarez8358 3 года назад

This country was founded on racism and still has a Eurocentric since of pride. In other countries they might have racism but its usually directed at foreigners not at its own citizens. Thats the difference.

@rawa7417 3 года назад

@@jasminesuarez8358 Do you live under a rock? check Turkey's past with the Armenians then the Kurds, Iraq with the Kurds. China with Uyghurs....the list goes on. There is nothing wrong with being proud of your own roots, actually if you are not, something is wrong with your culture.

@catholicfemininity2126 10 месяцев назад

I will continue to keep warning people NOT TO MARRY someone that doesn't have the same beliefs as you. Don't even marry someone with different political beliefs... you are risking your future peace. Don't believe false promises either.

@xyzsame4081 3 года назад

That the brother called the BIL and the cousin a racist in one day does not mean it is not true (maybe cousin shared the meme of the caller's husband or commented additionally). Sometimes the casual covert racists exist in clusters in families ;) - I also noted the way she framed that he is now "at the Westcoast". - I disagree that facebook comments are not the "real world" People share ideas, and validate each others ideas etc. - and embolden each other. It is as real or unreal as if the husband had made a joke in person that the brother did not find appropriate. On facebook people have clear name - it may be a little esier than to call them out in person, but not much.

@honeyfurfarm2182 3 года назад

If you wanna ever learn more about why our food is the way it is Dr John I would highly reccomend "Everything I want to do is Illegal" by Joel Salatin. It brilliantly highlights the legislative roadblocks small farmers and local producers face today in America. Food and safety laws don't have a lot to actually do with safety anymore, it's more about making the process to get food from farm to table so expensive and arduous that small producers just can't afford the time or money to make it happen. It's all from lobbying made by Big AG.

@alexgosser5587 2 года назад

"It's offensive to someone" - very strong indicator its an offensive meme. When your first reaction is to downplay it... chances are you are part of the problem.

@nicolab2075 2 года назад

Yes,I got that feeling too.

@angeleyes3396 Год назад

And her response “I liked it” rather than clarifying how it wasn’t was another indicator to me.

@jcfisher4988 Год назад

nowadays people are literally offended by everything so it's possible it wasn't. you never know

@monkmane2345 Год назад

Who cares if it's offensive lol grow up

@scottwarren3948 Год назад

@@monkmane2345 normal people. 🤷🏻‍♂️

@I_Am_RosaV 3 года назад

She's acting all innocent but what was the meme??

@DeRocco21 6 месяцев назад

based on CRT anaylsis you racist

@ElaineLoyd 3 года назад

If you don't talk to people, you don't have issues with people. Doesn't mean you get along.

@kenya1067 3 года назад

That is such a good point. I want to quote that.

@streitrat 3 года назад

Love the idea of a "geek minute"!

@kishajones841 3 года назад

This guy is learning a lesson about staying out of drama. He pried for more information, then swore to secrecy...how boring is his life?!

@wedlawson 2 года назад

My favorite thing he says is “internets” 😂

@alexpeters7159 3 года назад

The biggest thing to do is being able to talk about the issue. Whether you are on the left or the right you need to be open to different opinions and opening your eyes. If you do you may learn something new

@Kodak718 2 года назад

It's easy to say this when you're a white person who hasn't experienced the racism and you haven't been explaining racism over and over your entire life. There are so many articles, think pieces and scholery articles to explain what you expect people to.

@DFergie722 3 года назад

I'm disappointed that you didn't have the sister do more self-reflection vs the emphasis that the brother is going through something. Triggers and offense reveals what's in you. I wouldn't be surprised if the real reason they are mad at the brother is that it's true and they are racist, and they hate him for calling them out. No one gets this upset of their wasn't an element of truth to it. The brother shouldn't have posted it, but since her husband posted whatever he did publicly, the backlash was also public.

@DFergie722 3 года назад

@wowalinbievery intelligent and relevant response...😄

@novocaine09 2 года назад

@@DFergie722 I agree with you!

@curiousone6129 4 месяца назад

Stop that nonsense!

@petlover9696 2 месяца назад

@@curiousone6129 why is it nonsense?

@dannyb47 3 года назад

As soon as the video starts. Dr. Delony: ...we talk to a woman who’s brother called her husband racist. Me: ...but is he though?? 😬

@VioletEmerald 2 месяца назад

Seriously!

@jhonilocran6077 10 месяцев назад

I’ve never been called a racist. I know plenty of people who’ve never been called racist…sooo….what was the meme?

@jacksoncampbell5523 3 месяца назад

Have you met any Republicans? Were called racis all the time fort for things like not wanting an open border during a time of war.... Voter ID, racist. Voting for Trump, racist. Criticizing Obama, racist......

@Jane_1994 3 года назад

I love science and I love your show. 💞💞💞

@paulam408 10 месяцев назад

I have relatives who are in the Witness faith. My uncle was never involved with it. Their kids went with their true believing Mom but both kids eventually left the organization. My aunt still goes but uncle made it clear he was not going to convert & didn't. They've been married 50+ years.

@daCubanaqt 4 месяца назад

You mean the Witness cult. Sorry, I have the experience to call it that. Being in that religion is truly hard. It’s really not fair raising children in that belief. Those “prophesies” have been modified since the Witnesses were preaching about that the end would come before 1914 generation passed. Well, that generation is passing and the end hasn’t come. I would tell that caller to run far away from his wife and take his children with him. That cult is dangerous.

@ElaineLoyd 3 года назад

If a bunch of racist like a racist post don't mean it wasn't offensive, lol.

@frugalprepper 3 года назад

Looks like the finally took him out of the closet and let him sit at on of the big boy desks!

@shawndugan4375 3 года назад

Science Says, The Nerd Alert, Nerd Word, Statistical Seconds, Delony's Discoveries, Friendly Factual Findings, Look What John Found, Dr's Orders

@itisAlex_ 3 года назад

I personally love Delony’s Discoveries!!

@rickycastro6555 3 года назад

Doctor & The Geek, Geek Gossip, Geek-O-Nomics.

@shawndugan4375 3 года назад

@@rickycastro6555I like Geek Gossip!

@Kurodarkness 3 года назад

Love all/any of these!!

@maam-yj8ph Год назад

Word to the Herd from the Nerd 🤓

@svetlanabilyk1219 2 года назад

You can call it "information station"

@USpatriot741776 3 года назад

Cool. The government found another thing to tax. Despite the fact that corn subsidies are what have caused our food quality to decline.

@simplyhandy2769 3 года назад

A ton of stuff government does has ruined ways of life. But I think is very powerful discovery. I personally believe people have a personal responsibility to change their habits. Edit: should the U.S regulate the amount of sugar sold or served in restaurants like Europe regulates the sugar legally allowed to be used in its bread sold?

@caitlinhunsuck9099 3 года назад

I was going to say the same thing. Let's start with stopping subsidies to corn farmers. Let's also start with sugar floors and tariffs. I don't think sugar is the actual issue. I go to Europe for a month and drop 10lbs-- the entire time I'm eating icecream, pastries, etc. I get back here and cut that stuff out and still gain weight. It's corn syrup.

@meganparker8703 3 года назад

@@caitlinhunsuck9099 how do you avoid corn syrup? I’m not even sure what it’s in

@caitlinhunsuck9099 3 года назад

@@meganparker8703 it's very hard to do in the US. Start buy looking at labels. You want the ingredient to be sugar, not corn syrup. Then you have to cook from scratch for a lot of things. Possible, but not as easy when you are in other countries.

@carolallison9685 3 года назад

Ive had to get rid of friends because theyve called me racist just because im a conservative. The funny part, im mexican and theyre all white 😂.

@dorlisastjean4072 3 года назад

People who directly or indirectly say that someone is racist without proof or not able to conversate are the ones you avoid. It is not really you. It is them forcing their trauma onto you and others.

@lauvasquez7198 3 года назад

Same except I’m Costa Rica and they are all white 😅 I wouldn’t even say I’m conservative necessarily...

@MDM00023 3 года назад

People throw that word around too quickly. Also you can be racist regardless of race. It’s not a solely white problem

@greenfly0917 3 года назад

Umm Mexican people can certainly be racist.... Also I feel there's more to this story than just being a conservative.

@dorlisastjean4072 3 года назад

@@greenfly0917 Just because you had a few encounters with someone who was Mexican that said something racist, it does not mean they generally are. Take the bias out of your mind, will ya? Also, people assume that conservatives are racist because majority of them don't like identity politics. In reality, they only say that because they have a couple of family members who were ignorant and conservative so they just group them all together.

@devynselnes4282 4 месяца назад

"i don't know what happened to my brother" he's a liberal. That's what happened 😅

@dominicabollig1918 3 года назад

That was a great geek minute- I enjoyed my Dr Pepper while you talked. Yolo, I eat what is good for me and enjoy a dr pepper too

@ElaineLoyd 3 года назад

I don't get how people who drink soda enjoy being burned 😂. I see people drink soda and I'm like ouch🤕I'll take my unhealthy sugar in the form of juice from concentrate thank you very much😊😊😆

@dominicabollig1918 3 года назад

@@ElaineLoyd it is however you enjoy your life! I pass on alot of calorie dense foods, and I pass on alcohol, spend my junk food bank calories on that sweet sweet Dr Pepper. I knew a woman that had a pepsi everyday and lived to be 95. All things in moderation 💕

@surfingswimmer1711 3 года назад

fun topics!

@cg741graf5 3 года назад

We use Lankato it’s great and can be bought at CostCo, thrive market really reasonable.

@annav21 2 года назад

The safest part is the wife going back to the religion and she believes not celebrating birthdays and holidays .. that would be hard thing to resolve.. the kids will have a mother that will hardly acknowledge their special days.. no extra baking and nice cooking for Christmas and Easter.. I don't understand how a celebration could be sinful ... ugh...

@rational9229 2 дня назад

It makes a huge difference as to whether the meme was racist or not, Delony wanted to avoid that like a hot potato.

@skrrskrr99 3 месяца назад

If someone is racist out of ignorance that’s one thing if they are racist and they know it it’s another thing. If one is wrong they should be open to the idea that they a should be corrected especially when it’s an issue like this.

@dtcmommy 2 года назад

So in other words, tolerance does not swing both ways. This is more of "believe what I believe or get out".

@mv7374 3 года назад

The first caller reminds me of an entrepreneur on AUS Shark Tank whose company name included an ethnic slur. Only one of the sharks mentioned it to her, but many of the YT comments said that yes, it was a slur. I’ve never heard of it before. Just some food for thought in that even if you don’t think or realize something is racist, doesn’t mean it’s not.

@christopherclifton2061 3 года назад

Intention makes something racist, that's like saying if a baby accidentally said the n word that they're racist, no they just don't know how to talk

@daegrun 3 года назад

@@christopherclifton2061 cool. Her husband is just cannot think well and not a racist. I think that is better too anyway. Although the first related to the other. ^^

@TS-fh4ii 3 года назад

@@christopherclifton2061 I would disagree with this a little bit. There are several different layers to racism and the interpersonal and intrapersonal levels usually have intentions within it. However, you can be passively unaware of racism in systems and institutions and continue those racist procedures, cultures, etc. and be COMPLETELY oblivious to it. For example, there are organizational networks in higher level management where a lot of the hiring is through social networks- for centuries now white men have been able to move up in build those social networks and wealth. These circles hire within themselves and they are not intentionally perpetuating racism but because people of color and women have only recently been allowed to climb the latter they are not yet in those social networks at the same rate as white men are. It’s systems as well that can continue racial disparities without people realizing it.

@Phantom8260 2 года назад

@@TS-fh4ii There are a ton of assumptions in your example that can be pretty easily dispelled by 2 facts that explain this phenomena of "white men" in higher level of management. 1) Men: Men on average tend to work more hours than women. This is largely due to the fact that more men are willing to either sacrifice their youth for gain in the long term OR that they need to provide for their family (wife + children). If you work more hours, you tend to have more time to devote to your craft and therefore garner a higher level of position and economic benefit. 2) White: The united states (as a fact) is still predominantly "white". The definition of white seems to expand or contract depending on who is using the statistic, but in general about 74% of the USA identify as "white". So if there is a higher percentage of people of a certain ethnic background, shouldn't by law of averages there be a higher amount of that group in the respective area? No hostility here, but just be careful about telling people an assumption without any evidence to back up these claims.

@jborrego2406 10 месяцев назад

@@christopherclifton2061something wrong if ur baby 1st word is the n word

@aliciaspears7847 4 месяца назад

Hurricane blizzard diarrhea storm.... 😂

@kaizenborntowin 3 года назад

It was probably a political meme.

@calebmallen 3 года назад

That's probably exactly right, and you know if you don't support the "correct" political team, you're a "_____", a "_____", or a "_____"! 😄

@MichaelJones-rn2pq 3 года назад

It's amazing how many people below take the husband to be racist just because they know somebody called him that. Almost like a dog whistle, they don't know who is blowing it or why, they just come running.

@tiffanymackey2382 3 года назад

I'm not going to make a judgment either way, but after all the things I've seen and heard in the past year that the people saying them claim "aren't racist," I'm dubious.

@christopherclifton2061 3 года назад

All I needed to hear was that he moved to the west coast and I knew immediately why he suddenly started calling all his family racist, if you don't offer to blow every black guy you see in California some idiot will call you racist

@nicolab2075 2 года назад

Dr John did well to say it's a good idea to ask what their issue is with the husband's post, and then listen. And maybe learn something. People who breezily say 'oh, it wasn't racist, they're overreacting' often could do with stopping and reconsidering.

@MichaelJones-rn2pq 2 года назад

@@tiffanymackey2382 You prove my point...

@pswizzle6616 Год назад

@@MichaelJones-rn2pqexactly! People these days

@Chartlaub5 3 месяца назад

If someone truly felt that way about someone then you don't put it on their Facebook or social media, say it to their face

@donnag7908 3 года назад

I think the caller knows her husband is racist and she just ignores it. Otherwise, why would she just let it go and take on the attitude of "I'm just not going to deal with you?" It makes no sense. Her brother's talking about her husband. I think most people would want to at least want to find out from the brother what the problem is. Maybe it's a misunderstanding. The fact that she's willing to not deal with a problem over something said on Facebook makes me think she already knows the issue is.

@justicesmith8798 3 года назад

she’s a racist too - she openly admitted that she liked the post.

@catcoffee7958 10 месяцев назад

Some women will agree to anything or embrace the man believes and morals to keep him,,,, she sounds caggy about the meme

@sarahcouture24 7 месяцев назад

Call it the Research Recap

@catholicfemininity2126 10 месяцев назад

Because of what I experienced, I don't always believe people when they point the finger and call others 'racist'.... too many 'boy cried wolf' scenarios I've seen...... I once got called racist for not being attracted to a certain race when I was 12.... some people aren't even racist.... yet they get called racist for saying something politically different... it's frickin' stupid.

@blissfulxsunshine 3 месяца назад

With a name like catholic feminity, I don’t know… maybe you are part of the problem

@dorlisastjean4072 3 года назад

Look, I could care less what the meme was. Want to know why? It is because before BLM, majority of people on social media and even before that would end up being canceled anyways for either laughing or saying ignorant stuff [even if you were in high school]. Even those who are calling people out others for it would get canceled. If you have a family member who posts memes that are offending you and you have their number, you should call them instead of posting your feelings. Communication is really important 👌

@IFBBProYeo 29 дней назад

28:06 The next call absolutely does not need to be to the boss!! Because if that boss is doing really bad stuff that should be exposed, You basically just gave them the heads up they need to cover their tracks. That's not your place. But I suppose that all depends on your loyalty and how far in you want to get. Snitching is a big risk. And also them going out of their way to warn him about this woman could have been a preemptive strike To defend themselves. You just don't know.

@LL-lj1kq 3 года назад

Science is always changing.

@Cathy-xi8cb 3 года назад

Let's hope so. Advancements should happen, and ignoring them isn't intelligent. We are out there every day, learning new things about this amazing world of science.

@Commanderson7 3 года назад

It's the west coast mentality. Everyone is racist.

@jumbomrmeaner3016 3 года назад

Diarrhea storm LOL

@TomiaMacQueen 3 года назад

Interfaith marriage can work but it begins with respect and communication and ends with the lack of either. Come to agreements, write them down, refer to them as needed and be flexible when occasional changes are necessary as long as it's not detrimental to the kids or marriage.

@daCubanaqt 4 месяца назад

Interfaith relationships are very hard with Jehovah’s Witnesses. The JW religion is essentially a doomsday cult. They shun people who are baptized, but no longer practice the religion. They are also very stern on not celebrating holidays and birthdays. It is not an easy religion to grow up in or be married into as a non-believer. This caller is going to be separated from his wife and children for the rest of his life. It’s really sad honestly. Dr. Delony is simplifying the matter because he doesn’t understand what it means to be a JW. It is a cult. The wife will be trying to convert him the entire time during their marriage and eventually it will be the children trying to convert him. If his wife doesn’t stay in the religion, her mom will stop talking to her and I feel like that is one of the reasons why she is going back. This father needs to nip this conversion in the bud. I hope he can get his wife into therapy because JWs don’t really do therapy. I don’t know if he is religious, but showing his children an alternative religion would be the best thing for them.

@loriluv127 2 месяца назад

It sounds like she does not want to be bothered with her brother. Maybe past issues but we are not getting the full story. She's telling Dr John what he wants to hear.

@greencase 3 года назад

What is the post??????

@joshuahealy2228 Год назад

Really that’s the answer for everything? Let’s just tax it?

@belindabullock4060 2 года назад

People are finally being called out for racist junk. People did racist stuff my whole life, but I finally say something and show receipts so I’m the bad guy.

@audilecreations 2 месяца назад

I need to know what the meme was, people live in different worlds

@nizhonichica2005 10 месяцев назад

People take social media too seriously, don't like something, don't read it or look at it. Sounds like he wants attention.

@marthahunter9864 3 года назад

How about "A Slice of Science"?

@michellerichardson3090 3 года назад

I told my ex his friend was racist. He kept telling me I was just saying that because she didnt have time to meet me. I kept teling him all these things he's told me about her and the things she's said shows me racist or a bigot at least. Just recently she got fired from her job. She got accused of calling a co worker a racial slur. When he asked if she said it he response was "the manager has said the n word." He still doesnt want to acknowledge her being a racist, he now just says "well I haven't see her do anything and she's nice to me so idk." Mind you theyre the same race...