The J&J podcast. Once a month. Q and A's, marriage ups and downs, babies, home life, God, new marriage getting to learn one another...so many topics to touch upon. You two would be great at this.
It’s hard to step to your mother in law respectfully but… my mother in law has came at me in every way but right!!! Y’all it’s hard but my husband knew I don’t play with people trying to pick so… it’s always been us, then them.🤷🏾♀️ eventually they will understand and if not then keep your distance! Honor them, love them, but do not allow them to ruin your marriage or something like that.
The pause when Johnathan said he doesn't believe in soul mates 😂😂😂😂😂 Same! I don't believe in them either but I definitely feel like my husband is my person ❤
OMG I don't either! I feel like we have multiple "soul mates" in this world. Many people that can compliment us greatly. But I also feel my hubby is my person too. It's a weird concept to explain lol
Jess! You’re so freaking gorgeous! I’m loving the hair. I’m watching and trying to pay attention but I’m legit mesmerized by your velvety chocolate skin and angelic smile. Your energy is always amazing. I guess I’ll have to watch it again to receive the message cuz I just can not hear these “SuJessathans”. your vibe/energy is taking over the video! #ICantFocusOnTheword
Issa YES PLEASEEEEE for the podcast! The J&J energy is what we (the viewers) love and need in our lives! From people we respect and enjoy listening to. So, I vote YES! Let go of those fears and let God lead. The sky is the limit! 🙏🏽🙌🏽😍 Sidenote: It'll be a lot less video editing for you too🥰. You could do the visual podcast for those that like watching, and the audio podcast for those that just want to listen. #teamJ&J #teamPodcast
Johnathans (hopefully I spelled his name right) facial expressions during the first reading was ME! Cus what?!! That was whew!! That girl deserves better!!
I truly appreciate when yall share honestly surrounding your journey before marriage. Sometimes its refreshing to hear a couple share about their not-so-perfect story since most people hide theirs.
Jonathan was spitting when he said God has an abundance of good things! 🙌🏾 🙏🏾 The soul mate theory is man made and confusing… we know that God is NOT the author of confusion.
Oooo weee!! Johnathan's facial expressions when you were reading that letter 🤣 This was really good though. Thank you for dedicating the time, space, and energy.
You guys are such a great team. I would love a weekly (or monthly or however often works for y'all) segment from you together. I even like the set up...just chilling on the couch giving your thought on people's issues. It seems more intimate and real. Keep it coming. 💕
You guys are good, your advice is spot on. Both of you seem wise beyond your years. I can tell that you definitely spend time with the Lord. Keep up the good work.
I love how Jonathan had that look on his face concerning the manipulation. Because I was over here with my mouth wide-opened. That young lady is young and definitely need to move on because that manipulation is a form of abuse and just straight toxic.
The Father said no! And she respects her dad’s decision! It’s not about their love! It has to be very serious they broke up because dad didn’t give the acceptance…
Wheeew chile. That wedding one hit. So I'm once divorced and when my ex and I split, I was still close to his mom and siblings. And because of that, HE did not want me invited to anything he was attending. Mind you he is the one who ended the marriage and had a new girl as soon as we made our separation official and I moved out lol. I'm like nigga you broke my heart. I think it was guilt. I couldnt see my friend (his sister) graduate! Like really!?!? And she said she would never let him dictate those things again. Fast forward 11 yrs, we are both remarried, and his sisters and I grew apart which was probably his plan 🤷🏾♀️ and the one I was closest to is now besties with his current wife. Also, because we fell off so much our interactions are awkward when we run into each other at mutual friend functions. She's engaged and I already know I'm not getting invited to her wedding. Mind you she was my bridesmaid In both of my weddings. Her twin is pregnant and I found out from their half sister (who is my bestie) about the baby shower being soon. Divorce definitely sucks and trying to maintain certain relationships are just not possible.
Ah this sounds horrible 😭 I can’t imagine how messy it can become and how certain relationships break apart after that. But I’m glad you got your happy ending 🩷
Love what Jonathan said about soul mates. It's so true that we are all out here trying our best and constantly falling short. Sometimes i picture God is up there like, ok, I can still work with that lol. He's so good to us, because after all, he can't make us make the right choice. It's hard to do, but we should be allowing Him to guide and lead us so we are in His will, but we all for short and need His grace sometimes. We would have to make perfect choices to end up with our perfect person, and none of us are there yet.
❤❤” HE will make it abundantly clear!” Jonathan i believe you might be destined to be the spritual leader of a God given flock one day! You are well beyond your years! Are you a youth group leader? If not… you should be!
Jessica I would like to hear about your husbands job, and being young working with much older adults in his field. And does he get discriminate against?
Love it when you guys do these sit down discussion videos . Definitely would love to hear your thoughts on more topics lol can't think of anything right now to suggest though😅
Great advice y’all gave. But if you are unevenly yoke you will have problems. The Bible says marry only in the Lord, three fold cord cannot be torn into two and if both are applying Bible principles you will be happy even when you have disagreements which you will because no two persons are alike you will not agree on everything but your love for each other will last.😊
Not me tuning into this like it’s a whole new episode to a series. No sah mi need fi get up and guh bout mi business but that a when this done tho cause mi nah move. Love from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Always a positive vibe and energy when I get the chance to watch how you two interact with each other. It’s the respect you two have for each other for me.
I understand the first woman! My husbands mother and I have argued since the first time we met! Y’all….. lol but I wasn’t truly in Christ then, since getting in my Bible and growing with Christ I don’t give everything a reaction anymore. It’s easier said than done but PRAY for them! It’s spiritual!
"I'm never starved of community"45:04 I've been wondering why my best friend feels like I'm replacing her but it's more of her living in a small town and always being indoors opposed to me who lives in the city and in an apartment where everyone around me is a socialite. She might just be starved of community 🥺
Y’all should do more sit down talk videos where y’all discuss real life and perspectives, arguments y’all have had(obviously not too much to breach the marital unit) but relatable generic things. Like y’all could do a segment where you ask on ig people to post scenarios ,hot takes, and y’all say whether you could get over and marry the person or go separate ways like for example gf wants to have kids bf doesn’t can you work it out or no or gf doesn’t believe in marriage bf does can you work it out
.Jonathan LOVE and FEELING comment... Hit different. Because if we were to follow the hurt only and dismiss the brain.. people wouldn't survuve. Feelings change so sudden, bud decisions if you're serious about your future, are permanent.
Some of these questions have me like 🥴 isn't it obvious lol but i can see how it's nice to be able to ask these things aloud anonymously and basically get confirmation for what these girls already know. But I do enjoy the sujjestions its just the questions be all over the place like oh you wanna work it out oh no wait you wanna be single and figure out how to move on? *scratches head*
Sounds like the mother never got over the ex husband. She definitely needs to make it NOT about her but about her son and his bride. They can be placed at separate tables etc…
Can you guys please please discuss the Keke Palmer and Darius situation? I would LOVE to hear your opinion as a married couple. Absolutely love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
That second to last one, I feel like if it's not a heaven or hell issue, God may allow them to be together and if they set aside their differences bc not everyone is going to be for a couple getting married.
Hey Jess, you guys should call it Sujestions with J and J when both of you guys are going be on and keep Sujestions when its just you replying. Just a Sujestion see what i did there.
Jess you wear your wedding ring on your left hand not right. I recently just figured this out after the jeweler and my coworkers told me this lol. The right hand is for a widow or women in other countries. Just a tip ❤
