My Fiancée Won't Get Married Until She Can Have "Her Day" 

She's 31 with huge health issues and can't work. What can possibly go wrong?

If she thinks it's "her day" she doesn't understand marriage

She doesn't want a marriage She wants a wedding. Good god

If someone refuses to marry me because I’m not spending enough on the wedding then they can find a new groom 😂 what a terrible person to be so selfish

DO NOT GET MARRIED!!!!!! Run for the Chopper!!!!!!!!!!!

Once he said morbid obesity Dave’s thinking don’t marry her lol

"If we were married, I would want to go into marital counseling" - HUGE red flag

“Morbid obesity” - “Ok, let me take a step back” 😂😂😂

“Diabetes and morbid obesity” Dave looking concerned: “Um…”

The woman is on a downwards spiral, refuses to compromise on anything and the fiance doesn't look for solutions but ways to enable her insane behavior, jeez, run Forest, run.

This dude is a doormat.

She wants the wedding but doesn't care to be a wife. Dude run for your life!

Let her go, she’s a liability

Yikes. She’s refused to marry him based off her need of him financing an expensive wedding DAY. Now she’s expecting him to fork out $800/month to pay for her health insurance? Sir - move on. She’s going to be a burden as a wife and as the mother to your children. SEVEN years - come on.

She wants "her day?" Yeah, dude, you need to leave.

Tired of these Women that want their day. Funny how they will not be traditional, but want the traditional wedding.

Run brother, sounds like she can’t catch up either LOL

This is straight out of my 600-pound life! He's an enabler!!

“Her Day” needs to be the day she got on the treadmill.

There is be a bigger relationship issue. She chooses waiting for 'her day' over insurance, potential bankruptcy and marrying the person she claims to want to marry.

My X GF told me she wanted a 25k wedding ring, needless to say she's my X GF...

He is not a boyfriend/husband to her. He is her *caregiver.* Walk away, sir.

She has diabetes and morbid obesity to the point where she can’t work. But she wants a “her day” wedding she deserves? My husband is diabetic with severe issues and STILL works full time.

“Health problem is she’s obese” I could see if she had like a brain tumor or cancer or something, but this can literally be fixed with diet and exercise.

You run or she runs on the treadmill

If he marries her, he has a long life ahead of him.

Husband and I have been married 10 years and we paid less than $2,000 on everything. My wedding ring was less than $100 from Walmart and I’m still rocking it. When you love someone you don’t care about the cost of the wedding. You care about the marriage not the wedding itself.

When Dave said I smell a rat I literally screamed 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

The show took a whole new spin as soon as Dave asked what her health problems were. Suddenly Rachel's demeanor changed from helpful and chatty to instantly shutting up and quietly looking down at her fingernails and the quiet and concerned look on Dave's face said more in that few seconds than either one of them verbally said the whole show. I have no idea if this caller is going to read these comments, but in my opinion this girl needs to go and now. At 31 years old she is way too young to be dealing with these kind of health issues. It seems to me that this is the kind of woman that doesn't take responsibility seriously as she wants what she wants when she wants it if it's food, money, things, etc. Basically a 2 year old in a 31 year old body. This woman is going to be a big liability for this guy for the rest of her life. This woman sounds like a taker and he sounds like a giver, bad combination.

My guy, she ate her way out of her job and wants her special day. You don't want that future.

If she is morbidly obese she can fix that and her diabetes would go away. Their situation is much deeper than finances

“She has to stop working because she has morbid obesity” Sounds like a keeper

Dave has some massive self-control to not dig in on her being morbidly obese. Props!

Girls who REQUIRE these expensive "special" days are immature and focused on the attention and not the marriage.

They keep on that path the only “Special Day” is going to be a funeral and not a wedding 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Rachel's facial expressions really make these episodes great. Lol

He doesn't need to go to marriage counseling, he needs PRE-marital counseling.

She wears the pants, yet she is the one not contributing at all. Life will be miserable if you have no say.

my husband and I married at our old apartment for $400, saved up bought a house, had a daughter and we will have the wedding of our dreams for our 10 year anniversary one day. Her "day" can be any day if she really loves you.

Red flags!! If you both loved each other to get engaged …you would have gotten married after a couple years and made that “special day” happen with what resources you HAD!! Lots of people have their special wedding by being creative and learning how to save on extra costs. For example: wedding on a Sunday, keep the guest list lower, find family to make the bouquets and go thrifting for centerpieces. It ain’t that hard!!! Just long hours of love planning. She sounds like she’s truly unhappy and miserable and her overweight status is causing depression and the truth is she will never have that “special day” because there is no satisfying an individual like that. You could blast through tons of money to have a wonderful wedding and still it would NOT meet expectations because something is wrong inside. A wedding is Not a bandaid …oh no Get out sir!! Get help

I came here for great advice from Dave and Racheal…..I stayed for the comment section 💀

Engaged to someone with morbid obesity at 31. Everyone salute this man

She wants a wedding more than she wants to be married. Find someone better.

So much wrong with this call, I don't even know where to start. Young men... do not be this guy.

Rachel's face when he said her health issues 😆

TO HENRY - lots of love from Scotland -but seriously - RUN BROTHER BE FREE!

Wake up, Henry! You're 34 and still have time to find a better partner.

“Well if she’s the one u wanna marry” 😅🤣🤣🤣🤣-- then Dave said , lemme take a couple steps back . Funniest clip I’ve seen on here

This dude sounds like such a nice guy. You can tell he wants to make it work.

Morbid obesity is not a health condition, its compounded interest on very poor food choices

“Her day” probably includes consuming the entire wedding cake by herself. Don’t do it, dude.

My dude... find someone who isn't still a child.

This woman wants a wedding not a marriage.

People saying they can't afford to get married but what they really mean is "I can't afford an extravagant party". And it's not the bride's day. It's the couple's day.

My husband and I were married at City Hall. That was 40 years ago. At this point a “big day” is just plain foolish. Cut your loses now. It’s the marriage that counts not the wedding.

These seven year engagements are ridiculous! I always thought an engagement was somewhere between 6 mos. To a year. And these over the top weddings are ridiculous too

Sad thing is this guy sounds like a good fella. He’s trying everything.

Dave said “welcome to GrownupGirl Land! 😂😂😂 I’m dying. Dave always has the best phrases!

Dave flipped that real quick!

Caller: this is the love of my life Dave: I smell a rat 🐀 😭

She can have her day "on the streets."

The moment he said morbid obesity would be the same has someone saying a person is a gambler an alcoholic or a cheater. You run you dont get married. But it takes someone else with issues to put up with those kind of issues.

I had a friend who’s wife lost her job due to obesity and was able to get SS disability. He was obsess too and ended up dying of an enlarged heart which caused her to die two months later due to depression, etc. Both in their lower 50s and all brought on because they could not stopping eating too much and we as a society rewarded it with disability payments.

Dude if you get married to her you deserve whatever bad happens to you. Love doesn’t mean make poor choices.

So, uumm... sis wants a wedding more than she wants a marriage...👀

She deserves an expensive wedding like she deserves to eat whatever she wants... Sound like a nightmare for this guy.

I was listening to this on audio only but had to rewind to see Dave and Rachel's reactions to the beginning. 😂😂😂

Major health issues at 31, have to solve that problem before anything else.

At a point where we are uncomfortable to ask people to be healthy. You can feel the tension and that they want to say what they are really thinking. She needs help I wish the best

Dave is in rare form here, and I mean that in the best way! No other host is as direct as him. He makes a great team with his daughter.

Everyone wants to be a princess and expect someone else to pay for it

People don't "deserve" anything, but life liberty and the PURSUIT of happiness. People EARN it.

Rachel’s face when the caller said “morbid obesity” 😂

That advice was far more mature than anything I would've said.

In two years we get to hear about this divorce...

If she thinks it is only about her. then she is not worth your time.

That wind sound was me flying out the door.

Dave did a full 180 the moment he heard “morbid obesity” as the health issue 😅

She's gonna roll down the aisle and knock down the wedding party like bowling pins 🎳

Let someone else be the next schlep for her!! She sounds like a princess who thinks every toad is her prince and must acquiesce to her desires. She should see the good thing this poor guy is trying to do, but I'd still say he needs to walk!!

Her Day? 😂

Rachel's expressions tho 🤣

If its not "our day" and instead "her day" then she aint the one my friend.

Another great call from the show thank you so much for putting them out there for young men to hear. Young guys you out there? Don’t be this guy. Good luck

If she can’t understand it’s “our day” time to RUN!!!

RUN HENRY RUN!!!

I know alot of people that is over weight and diabetes. Lost weight and diabetes went to normal. Dude Run. Tell her to watch Dr Derg.

I had an ex girlfriend like this.. noticed I said ex. Delusional!

It's a hard life for a simp

"I mean... If she's the one Henry... " 🤣🤣🤣

WHY Dave scratched his head when he heard morbidly obese 😂😂😂. Why on earth is he even trying to marry her😂😂😂😂😂

"Diabetes and morbid obesity." I guess her big day is gonna be a REALLY BIG DAY. If she lives that long.

4:08 😂😂 "i mean, if she's the one, henry" translation "uhh, you might want to leave her"

Run in the other direction as fast as possible - stubborn- selfish Self centered - health issues - no job - mental issues? - not a recipe for a healthy marriage

The health is fixable. She just needs to decide to do it.

Bro she dosent love u, run 🏃‍♂️ 🏃 🏃‍♀️

Break up yesterday!

I started laughing so hard when he said the health condition😂

Bro, if you are seeing this. Run away from her!

RUN ! ! ! ! !