It feels like she genuinely thought OP was joking, but yeah, blocking and ignoring him after he messaged that he needs to go to the hospital is unacceptable..
She very obviously can't be trusted in an emergency. Even her reaction, that i don't believe for a second was genuine, screams "me, me, me!". Damn, she can't even accept that you were actually in pain. Imagine seeing that someone vomited out of pain and rationalizing it to "meh, it surely wasn't that bad" Also, the way she speaks with you "where the F are you?" The disrespect is thick, really thick. Just dump her and move on...
There's no excuse for the girlfriend, and this also sounds like she was "busy" with someone else, I hope OP breaks up with her, it would take her less than 5 minutes to confirm OP was not joking and she chose to be an a$$hole. Also, who gets mad by getting home and seeing vomit everywhere after the messages and the calls?? I would be terrified.
Nope. You need to split. You were way too dependent on how you came across to her. She didn't care how you saw her. You both have red flags hers are larger. You come off as needie (called her before the emt.) She comes off having one foot (not inviting her BF to going clubbing)
How is it needy if he genuinely needed her help? Neediness is more like him constantly needing emotional support, I don't think "come home I'm having a medical emergency and need your help" qualifies at all.
Tbh... "My ball hurts" sounds like a boyfriend tryna joke with her girlfriend... I understand u felt awful.. But i think she did think u were joking. And as soon as she knew you werent joking... She became very concerned. I dont think you should break up like that
@@VeryGoodDealsReally? After multiple calls and texts you don't think she should even have considered a little bit that it might be serious? She's totally untrustworthy.
She was in the wrong.. but we don’t know the full story. It sounds like this guy always causes problems when she’s out or wants her to come home. Because why would she send the side eye emoji and be over it if it’s never happened before?
@@Johnny-zs7ho But maybe he thinks that or lied about it. Maybe he genuinely believes he isnt being an issue. I don't know, its just such a weird reaction to have for the first time something like that happens
6:28 100% accurate Last comment is reasonable. Way too quick to call it quits. 5 year relationship, 12 year friendship. Terrible lapse of judgment, but a horrible decision to break up just for that one time issue.
She repeatedly showed her disrespect throughout this whole ordeal. All the condescending remarks even after getting to the hospital. He could have had a major emergency but she only cared about herself.
No matter how long have you been with a person, you should never accept something like this, I've been with my now husband for 17 years, and I would totally leave him if he did something like this. You have to love yourself enough to understand you need someone you can trust by your side.
