My Husband got my Mom Pregnant… So I Ruined Their Lives - TrueOffmyChest Reddit Podcast 

When someone claims you ruined their reputation by telling the truth, you haven't ruined their reputation, you made it more accurate.

When I hear stories like these I think to myself being a orphan isn't half bad sometimes

Blaming it on the genetics is like giving a murderer a free pass because it might because of his genetics

The mom's an extreme narcissist and the 38 year old sister is clearly jealous of OP

You really forgot how bad the poor dad got it. The mother only stayed with him for financial stability.. Slept with him each time after she slept with another man.. Found out most of his kids aren't really his kids.. Found out his daughter knew and never told him.. it was also his HS sweetheart so he spent his entire life with her for this.. my heart breaks for OP and her dad.

Update: the family reconciled after therapy, turns out the OP’s mother groomed him from the age of 14 as a Youth Pastor. (He may be at fault for a lot of things as an adult, but I keep that in mind that his perspective on things are a bit fucked up) OP’s mother is the villain and I hope she has a horrible life

Blows my mind how family take the side of the cheaters, they are disgusting.

You know it's bad when they start calling their parent "donor"

She did a final update of this story which is pretty wild. So congrats to OP because she finally gave birth to her newborn son. Then she later heard that her mom and the ex were having problems and the ex decided to break up with OP's mom which he did. The egg donor ended up going to prison and she started to bertae the 38 years old daughter because she wouldn't bail her out of jail. I'm shocked to see how the ex decided right there to leave OP's mom, but what makes this more disgusting was the OP's mom was after her ex when he was 14 but didn't start having sex until he turned 18. There's some things I forgot to mention but that's all I can remember from her final update.

First story: it’s sounds like the op’s mom don’t care about the op’s feels because she moving in with the op’s ex and the fact she enjoyed having the attention is gross 🤮

The husband’s ability to look his twin boys in the eye and call them brothers IN LAW for DECAdes is whats getting me.

This is the most utterly, dumbfoundingly, logic-defyingly, confusing and disgusting expression of something I think we all thought was only possible in _that_ kind of fiction. I'm fucking appalled.

………I have no words. Honestly I don’t even think a Karen would approve of this and we all know how delusional they can be

And here I thought my divorce from my cheating ex was bad... this is heart breaking

I love how idiotic her ex's family is "OmG YoU aRe A JeRk FoR DoiNg ThiS PuBLicALy" No, the ex is jerk for literally sleeping with his wife's mother, what happened after it is just called the consequences. Yes, his reputation is totally ruined but he only has himself to blame for that.

The fact that anyone can say she overreacted when she was seven months pregnant is unbelievable. Also, why are her siblings on the mother's side? If I were her I would be wondering why me? The mom had several other children to hate but she specifically singled out this child and hated them and stole her husband. Why?

Bruh that’s gross…this been goin on for years got dam yo that’s crazy and I feel bad for the op father being 63 and finding out most of the children he raise may or may not be his and 2 is actually confirmed to not be his that’s just crazy

This story sounds too unbelievable to be true and if it is, OMG! The OPs mom sounds soooo evil it’s sickening. Bragging to the daughter that she was better in bed and kept her husband happy! I don’t condone violence of any sort but it wouldn’t surprise me if something would’ve happened to mom by her daughter or husband. It’s this type of betrayal that makes rational people do the irrational. Besides the OP, the dads other children may not be his? UNBELIEVABLE. I really hope this story is made up because if not, this is every happy families worst nightmare

So to get this straight. The mom and the husband did the deed after he vented to her. Husband loved it. So they did it over and over again. And then when caught, they get mad at HER for ruining their reputation? And then admit they enjoyed the fact that they enjoyed it better than their own spouses? THEN the husband does an Amber Heard? God. They are psychotic, delusional, and downright DISGUSTING.

Honestly this isn't even enough "revenge". I'd go to their workplaces on working days, & publicly out her there, I'd out them in front of their friends, social media. Make sure every damn bar, public square knows the story. If it weren't for the on-going lawsuit. I'd rain hell & go nuclear. & then move to new state & startover.

dang, and she was teaching children in church for decades?

Sometimes reality can be so scary that you might think it's fake, but no this is reality.

I cannot comprehend this story. This is simply years and years of evil.

As unbelievable as this is, I believe it b/c my mom went after my husband. He thought this was gross but was a serial cheater. She was seriously crazy and evil as well. Hopefully OP and dad can move on and heal from this! Prayers for you both! 💖

Mother sounds like a narcissist and groomed the older sister to be her best friend/on her side in anything.

Props to the Father of #1 for handling the situation as best he could.

I'm sure cheating can be forgiven by some, but I doubt cheating with your daughter's husband for like 20 years will ever be forgiven, that is something beyond cheating. I'm also sure her twin brothers will patch things up with the OP, and that her father is right and they are shooting the messenger. I'm sure she could have gone about it a better way than publicly outing them like that, specially her brothers who would be deeply emotionally damaged by this, but I also understand her rage. Both her egg donor as she calls her, and her soon to be ex deserve each other, they are a poor excuse for human beings and anyone on their side is an idiot and deserve them. His children will never forgive their father, and I doubt there will come a time when they look at him with anything but contempt, but I'm also glad they decided to not tell the smaller children until they are much older, because even though the father is a piece of work the children don't deserve that kind of pain, and I feel really bad for the 14-year-old, a very delicate age for a girl, this kid will need a lot of therapy to get over this and will most likely have a very rocky relationship with her father as she grows older. And P.S.: to have the gall to be that involved in a church and do something like this, this is the worst of the worst and why some people hate the church, because of people like her who use it as a vail to cover up how nasty they are while still trying to pass of as a good person. I laughed when the egg donor is pretty much blaming her daughter and husband for the 20-year-affair. the only thing I believe out of her mouth is that she liked the attention, not hard to seduce an 18-year-old, I also doubt her sons will ever be okay with what she did.

3:22 I'm not even that far into the video and I can say with 100% certainty, that OP did NOT ruin her mothers life The mother did it to herself. She is the one who ruined her own reputation. Not OPs

This OP's mom is worse that all the serial killers, murderers, psychopaths and criminals in general (not including those who were falsely accused)

Woo! This is the most intense cheating story Ive heard this year, my heart breaks for the poor wife who caught her mother and husband. I couldnt even imagine the pain she's going thru, talk about betrayal at the highest level.

As a fellow dude myself, I would like to apologize to you because your ex has just ruined every man’s reputation bc there are still some of us good guys around.

Alright. I give in. I think murder should be on the table, especially after the response by the mother and husband was to get angry at the cheated on wife, turn people against her, etc.

I was expecting a classic "husband cheats on wife with wife's mom" story, but this was SO MUCH MORE! Not gonna say better or worse, the amount of affairs is devastating, the reaction of some of the family members are.. somewhat understandable, but nonetheless shocking, and the revenge was SWEET!

I feel bad for the twins in the first story

"She claims I have essentially ruined her reputation and her life..." Nope, she did that all by herself by sleeping with her daughter's husband repeatedly over the years. How did she never think this was going to be discovered? LOL!

This story is just sick… what kind of evil people would do that to others. Not to mention, they were PROUD of what they did and had NO regrets. That’s so messed up on so many levels. The fact that some tried to justify it, makes me livid too!

One of the reasons I don’t want to be a lawyer in divorce cases, your defending the messed up side and that sticks with you forever. Like “So you slept with your wife’s mom and got her pregnant and your wife pregnant near the same time… I guess I can try to win that case”. It’s more depressing than it seems.

I can not even begin to comprehend what was going through her ex's mind and why he would do that to such a nice caring and loving wife. As a member of the same sex as him, I am beyond disgusted and mortified from just hearing that story, their is a special place in hell for people like him, even then, hell seems too good. I can not even begin to fathom her emotions right now and want to comfort her but that would just feel wrong seeing as she has lost her trust in men. If that was my wife, which does exist as I am currently happily single, I think I would have killed both of them then and there in a blind rage. You have endured so much and deserve all he love in the world, and I hope you have a save birth.

This just shows how cheating can cause trauma to so many people. Sending so many blessings to this woman and her children. I can’t imagine coming home to find my mother with my husband and then finding out everything else about my siblings this story is extremely tragic.

OP should have sued the husband for emotional damage afterwards to have him pay for her medical bills. I cannot even begin to understand what she went thru and is likely still going thru.

Just saw this video and I am absolutely blown away. I believe that both the mother and husband are truly selfish people with no regards for what others think and truly have no concept or understanding of how wrong they were.

this is messed up. they deserve all the humiliation. i can never forgive if this happened to me.

If she murdered the grandmother and ex husband, and I was on the jury, it'd be a quick acquittal.

This op and her father should sue the husband and mother for compensation, for everything they can get, plus have a no contact order so the kids are not subject to their insanity

How in the world can this woman be held at fault? She is the victim. The mother and husband are dispicable.

It's amazing that I have heard hundreds of stories about cheating, and this is literally the most horrible one I have ever heard of. Almost evil in hindsight

The op had a terrible mother of course theyre not the jerk 😂

sometimes it really shocks me how ur perfectly happy life can get absolutely ruined in seconds and leave u in shambles

Sadly something very similar happened in my family. No children were conceived THANK GOODNESS!!! But my Aunt (I hated her and her side of the family for MULTIPLE reasons and them just being jerks, narcissists, cruel, heartless scums) she seduced her daughters husband that was only 25 years old. He divorced my cousin and then married my aunt (who was well over 50!)So he was first my cousins husband then began being her stepdaddy. No one on that side of my family seen anything wrong with it!! I am so glad to have not been in contact with any of them for over 30 years!!

I can't believe there are people out there capable of doing such horrifying things to their own family 🤮

Right at the beginning when I heard "We never fought", that was the very first red flag. Ya'll, something else is always up when there's the illusion of no conflict. It means no ones being honest, things are being ignored, and something's about to blow up.

i already consider cheating the act itself to be unforgivable especially with kids being a factor or being with someone close to their partner's heart. but this story HOLY shit that was seriously unforgivable and disgusting her own mother had slept with her son in law and had twins from it so those kids are not only OP's siblings but step kids as well how vile do you have to be to stoop THAT low thank God OP found out who knows how long these 2 would have kept it up had they not been found out. May those 2 burn forever in hell for this level of disgusting betrayal.

Fuck man… Imagine your sister (the op) had a supposedly happy relationship with her husband but to find out that your own mother was having an affair with the husband since they were a teenager and to find out she’s been doing this for years and you might not be related to your own father or even other siblings and uncles and aunts or even worse that your also siblings with ur aunts and uncles and possibly others??? That’s just so fucked up… I don’t think I would mentally be able to handle all of that. Just props to the Op and the people who sided with her about handling all of that cluster fuck of a mess.

There is no excuse for cheating. Idc what kind of "logic" you think is involved, but to completely destroy someone's trust and intimacy with you because you can't keep it in your pants is disgusting and foul. No excuse. I hope she wins full custody and everything that little cretin owns.

Did the husband actually takes the "doing your mom" jokes seriously?

Cheating is Hereditary? So losing your freedom of thoughts is also hereditary then? She was born unable to think for herself. Thats what shes tryna tell me

Holy flippin train wreck. I can't even imagine how the OP and Grandpa feel. At least they have each other's strength through this.

WOW first story is just...DAYUM

The OPs lawyer must have seen dollar signs in they eyes after they had the sit down with the Eggdoner

What a nightmare. I'm sorry you're going thru this. I'm glad you've got your dad because you've both been betrayed by this church lady. This doesn't reflect on anything about you no matter what your ex says.

After listening to this. I think what I'm going through is just fine and dandy. Wow, I think that woman's ex and her mom deserve each other. Stay far away from people like that.

I feel so so so sorry for her and whoever else are suffering in the family coz of this. And I thought my family were evil

Cheating is a choice 🤦🏻‍♀️ the fact the egg donors family thinks it’s hereditary proves that ppl can be born stupid. And what kind of mother is that? She’s not a mother. If they even get together they’re gonna cheat on each other. They had no problems doing it all those years I’m sure they’ll continue cheating. I have to wonder what kind of person you have to be to do that to your family 😒🤔

Your mom and husband showed their true colors and reputations.

damn, if this was a movie, i would think no way this could ever happen 🤯

This story is so unbelievable but this really happening and experienced someone out there 😭😭😭stay strong ❤️❤️❤️❤️

The narcissistic mom needs to create a blacksheep/scapegoat kid in her eyes (the OP married daughter) and a good perfect kid known as the golden child in her eyes too, which would seem to be the 38 year old difficult sister who most likely became a narcissist too and Very likely slept with her brother in law too in order to feel superior to her sister. Also perhaps she felt she deserved the house next door, instead of her married/OP sister due to it being inherited from the grandparents via her dad after (thus perhaps kept the secret of the moms affairs from the dad as payback). Narcissists want it all, all of the time at all of the expense to others

How are people against the OP when she's one of the victims?

Oh. My. Zog. This is tragic. I feel awful for OP. My ex put me through hell too, but nothing even close to what this poor woman is going through. Someone give her a hug for me. I have no more appropriate words.

I just cannot fathom how anybody can defend the husband and the mother here. Both of them are beyond jerks here, and so is the 38-year old sister. I feel bad for the OP, the old father and most of the children here, they did not deserve ANY of this.

To say that’s messed up is an understatement. Beyond disgusting of her ex husband and mother and the fact they feel no shame makes it even worse.

According to me the one who is in the worst situation is ops dad. I pity the man😓. Having himself and his daughter also cheated by their partners together would have been so hard on him

I just wanna say that if someone says here that the op is a jerk, needs to be checked by a doctor as soon as possible 🤨🤨🤨

Oh hell no! That man wouldn’t be living anymore. Played me for a fool for decades with my mother? Had kids with her? Then had the nerve to tell me she was better than me in bed? Sorry, some things are worth going to prison for and that’s one of them. I think this would be a good case for jury nullification anyway.

Heart breaking😔. May God help her heal from this terrible betrayal.

Story 2 your mom groomed a teenager years old. It is stupid to think that it is a relationship of equal in the beginning. She is a predatorand and she should be locked up. It is discussing to think of her to do this to her family

There's cheating and then there's cheating with a close relative or friend. I wonder how people like the mom and husband never think that if the other can cheat on this level, then there's no possible way they could trust each other. They'll betray anyone with anyone.

My husbands friend found out his wife and father had been having an affair. The wife and father are married now so the kids grandfather is also their stepfather. Really messed up. Double betrayal.

You don't get to say that somebody else ruined your life by telling people what you did, you ruined your life by doing what you did.

I am literally SHAKING! HOW CAN PEOPLE LIKE THIS EXIST!??,

My mom who I don't have a relationship with, would do some bullshit like this. She always thought she could have anyone she wanted, that included other people's husbands 🙄

Lol I love how the mom says the daughter ruined her life and reputation. No, you doing the deed for 20 years with your son-in-law ruined your life, your actions did.

Story 1: I truly feel sorry for OP, because any sort of partner that cheated is a scumbag

The first story is devastating. I feel so sorry she had to endure this deception. I pray she can pick up the pieces of her family and live her best life. I hope she records all conversations with involved parties to help her law suit.

You are not the Jerk! You are the Victim!🤯 But Somebody gotta pay for all that Disrespect, So I don't feel sorry for the Mom at all!😠

I feel bad for the op, but imagine being those twins finding out that your dad isn’t your dad, BRO

the husband was like "I like those genes!, hot daughter, hot mother".

Bro took “your moms hot” to another level💀💀💀

The twins trying to draw a family tree when they're 15 be like:

So can we talk about how OP's mom is low key a Predator?

Honestly I'm surprised we haven't seen a news article or channel report a 40 year old mother shooting up her husband and mother then giving off this story. Like I can't even begin to understand what she's feeling and the fact she's still functioning as a reasonable human being is fucking amazing to me. Like she's stuck between a rock and a fucking gross, disgusting hard place. A lot of people would have lost the plot and gone insane based on how close knit all the family and everyone was and just how deep and disgusting the story went. Not like it was even something that happened in the last year or so due to a rocky marriage, it went on longer then the long ass marriage. Op deserves unending support and I'm sure most people who have seen this will agree that they wish they could do something to help.

It's stories like this that make you realise how lovely and boring and normal your own family is in comparison ...

Wow... And I thought I was in trouble with my controlling super protective mother that whines I am abandoning her everytime I mention getting my own home when I am financially stable. This story deserves a price of most fucked up shit I've seeing latelly. This is traumatizing in a level I can't even conceive.

So the twin siblings are uncle + half brothers to the daughters kids!!?! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ “MOM” is for the streets…

This is truly the worst situation I have heard on here.

The floozy gene? I'll admit that's a new one.

I really like your videos and the stories of the OP's and the retribution of Human Nature itself. I have already watched your videos 8 times now. I found your channel on the top of my RU-vid Video Algorithm.

I would put a restraining order on that ex and her mother and her older sister who knew about it and I would tell the ex family that they're all crazy and should be in a mental hospital

Bravo girl, full speed ahead!

This is one of the most disgusting stories i have ever heard. I barely have the conscience to eat a grape from the store without paying for it, yet people are here sleeping soundly at night after having had multiple children with their kids partners???? Humanity was a mistake.