My Husband Keeps Lying About Spending Money 

Gambling, drugs, affair … take your pick. Wake up lady.

A liar and a thief is exactly that. She needs to legally remove herself and that is only through divorce. She will soon discover he has credit cards in her name and when she leaves she will discover she is liable for the debt. My heart goes out to this woman because it will take her years to recover from this and that’s only if she gets out today.

This lady sounds so sweet and rotten people take advantage of sweet people. Hopefully they turn things around for her sake.

Not sure why people are upset with the hosts being straightforward. This woman needed the wakeup call or another 5 years of financial infidelity are imminent... then another 5... then another 5...

Time to sell the husband and start over.

Not sure why she called to discuss what her husband is doing financially if she was going to defend him the entire time.

Dear ladies, when you marry a doofus who is incapable of effectively leading a household that you need to make excuses for….expect this result.

My story exactly. We need to start a support group. And also start a business vetting men ( or women), do background checks, search court records, etc. We could call it Commitment Peace University.

She sounds like she's got the maturity of a 13 year old. Part of the problem is her. She needs to grow up and not just hand the keys of her life over to some man, and hope it works out.

Grandma has a push mower and he upgrades to a $6,000 mower? You can get a used riding mower for 10% of that price...might not be zero turn commercial level but it will do the job. In a marriage, you don't take turns managing the money or parenting the kids...you do both TOGETHER.

Lol, love how people call into get help but then don’t want it! 😂

I think these two work very well together as hosts

Not gonna get into marriage advice based on a brief, one-sided phone call. I'm just glad the adorable "bumbling goofball" in my life who isn't good with money is not my husband. I can still enjoy his company without having to worry about his effect on my financial security.

So difficult to have to admit that you’ve partnered with a liar who doesn’t love or respect you. But I can’t imagine suggesting to this meek, accommodating woman that she accuse her husband of financial infidelity and expect that to go well. She doesn’t seem ready for that.

so my sister has been married to my brother in law over 47 yrs. When they met, he was 10 yrs older, had been divorced already and had a child with his ex. 1st warning sign. My sister was 19 just out of high-school. She thought she got the hard working farmer who's family owned dozens of acres of farmland in rural IA. Therefore, she would have a stable financial footing to raise her kids. No struggles. What really happened was his dad saw he couldn't manage money & made stipulations that he had NO ACCESS to the farmland till his stepmother passed. She's still alive at 90ish. Both of them jumped from job to job not caring about pensions because they thought they had farmland in IA to sell. Now neither of them have a pension he's working driving a truck in his 70s and they have basically been reduced to living in a 5th wheel. My advice is do NOT stay with someone hoping they change! Unless you don't mind being broke & penniless in your elderly years. Get out earn your OWN $ 1st , then find a real partner.

Would love to have him call in to the show and give his side of the story. She seems like a gentle, timid soul and he took advantage.

She needs to toughen up and protect herself and their kids. Even if it means legal separation. She needs to limit his access to all of the money if need be but I’d get an attorney to protect myself and my kids if I were her. She also needs to immediately lock up her credit so he can’t take out anything with her name in it.

Pull your credit report and make him pull his

I don't think this girl is emotionally independent and I think she is afraid of confronting him maybe because she is afraid that if she leaves him she won't be able to sustain herself.

I dated a guy like this once. He was a liar, lazy, and every other word you want to use. His rationale was "I don't want to be poor". My response was, but you ARE poor because you keep spending money you don't have.

They were very patient with her... she is so enabling him and everyone sees it except her.. sad

I was the sole worker for some time in our relationship. My wife still had just as much say. They are absolutely correct. At this point I hope you do not have children. They will suffer.

Spending can be an addiction too. I looked and the most expensive mower they have is $4600, so even that’s a lie.

Let me guess - she doesn't work. Ladies, stop being dependent on these men!

We have a big yard and my husband uses a $600 push mower. Even that was expensive to buy with cash. $6,000 for a mower?!?! I get that some people want a riding mower, but you can get those for $2,000. $6,000 for a mower is like a top of the line, Rolls Royce mower. That lawn better be immaculate. 😮

Why didn't they tell her they need marriage counseling!?!

Yes, this lead to divorce for Me

And she never look at her Lowes card? Seems like there's more to the story then she is saying.

He is having an affair. She needs to listen to herself

From personal experience….dont believe a word that comes out of his mouth. You start doing your own investigating into your situation.

Oh my Lord. This poor woman is in such denial. My mother stayed home with my brother and I too and my father never made any big ticket purchases without a mutual agreement with her. Based on what this caller is describing, her husband does not value her opinion or think she is smart and that is so sad.

Sounds like she is asleep at the wheel not checking and see that money has been spent. Wake up lady.

People....just don't get married.

Man bought a damn $6000 61" 0-Turn. Dude better be out there mowing extra grass!

My wife and I have our separate bank accounts. I don’t really care what she spends her money on and she doesn’t really care what I spend my money on as long as our bills are being paid on time and we’re saving for retirement.

Dr John is FIRED UP he aint playin

Dr Simp John at it again

I have a question, why does he give the wives a “she’s scared, she’s cornered that’s why she spent like that” when they spend like an addiction but for the husbands it’s “they are liars, deceitful and three legged turtles” 😐

"You cant breathe right now, and George and I can hear it" This blatant simpin needs to stop immediately for the good of the Show Thanks

For every rat you see, there are 100 more that you don't.

I love how people say how they would handle it. So not true. Armchair quarterbacking is the WORST kind of advice.

Why you gonna call the show to complain about your husband, then defend him every step of the way when the hosts call him out repeatedly?

Financial health is high on the list and he is ruining it

Nothing says “he’s cheating on you” quite like a $6,000 mower.

If you think not being committed to someone 100% is fidelity i think your insane. 😂😂

recent generations disdain arranged marriages of past generations. But's lets face it, young women have little ability and/or willingness to assess financial viability of their SO

What kind of help is there when you go through this? My ex took $100's of thousands. Is there any recourse or help going forward? Prevented me from seeing the mail for many many years.

Note of warning: money is power. Having none of your own puts you in a bad position.

The more I listen to this call, the more I see she's a huge pushover. John is right. Everything needs to be put on the table, or she needs to leave.

From personal experience, this sounds like someone with underlying mental problems, such as bipolar, who had a triggering event (father figure passing away). I hope things get better, but theres a tough road ahead for them.

Daloney, you think making all those YOU accusations will help fix things?

My sweet Lady stop making excuses😣!! Something is up

This lady doesn't know much. "I think. I'm not sure." How can he buy a mower and she not know? My wife would know immediately!! She needs to get to him tonight and find out exactly what is going on.

Y’all are both so right. My dad was the same way and was a secret bad bad guy. Get out!!

Seems like there's a lot of guesswork... really need more info.

Annual Credit report? Really? You can log into your banking app and get a free credit report updated weekly. Oh...wait. Dave is against big banks.... almost forgot

Typical. Have to call the husband names.

This lady is clueless about finances. She needs to be involved and not so passive. There's no way I could spend thousands of dollars without my wife knowing, or vice versa, because we do finances TOGETHER.

It sounds like it could be some form of addiction. To me, it possibly could be gambling.

Title loan. Like pay day loan, only on the car

Yes John, you can be honest. Stop asking

hE hAs a CrEdIt CaRd wItH 300 doLlaRs oN iT. Bro get rid of this chick lol

Last time i was at HD, a questionable push 21" lawn mower was $499. Try mowing an acre with that thing. Dr Baloney probably has a $10k tractor 🚜

😂😂 Ironically this is on "Gemini Day" should be a national day. Iies, lies lies ♊♊♊

Dave would have cut her off much sooner.

Why does none of these three individuals understand how you take a lien out on a vehicle? How are they making money?

Not a husband a snake

He put a lien on his car to, maybe, get it fixed.

$6,000 for a mower? Come on!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't buy it.

We've heard the exact inverse of this call, and they basically told the guy "what kind of world are you creating for your wife where she feels like she needs to spend all this money to feel some sort of happiness?" So when the man overspends, it's the man's fault, and when the woman overspends, it's also the man's fault. Interesting.

Chicks always make excuses for their spouse. He’s a grown man.

This lady makes more excuses for her husband than anyone. She needs an extra job so he can spend more. 😂

Trust is very difficult to repair no matter what you do. For me, if my husband lied to me about anything, I would never trust him again and get a divorce and start over. If it was me, I would get rid of the bum so you can have a happy life with someone who you can trust.

I love her accent

My husband bought a lawn mower. Delaney….He has an addiction. Lol! Come on

Dr. John loves to try to break up marriages.

Husband should not be allowed to handle the money.

I thought credit doesn’t matter!

Why is John’s chair so freaking high?

I bet it was a title loan!

Jon is such a simp in this video. Im a counselor and this isnt even the case 99% time. We dont know much. Stoppppp

That’s awful. This poor woman. Wow.

ARE YOU SAFE????

I love to hear his side of the story. Jon is guessing at best. 😂😂hes a joke

I doubt he bought a 6k lawnmower. I bet he bought some stuff for it and total was 6k. Even if he did. Whats wrong with that?

Trusts gone I would of walked no question

Keeps making excuses.....you are being run over and around by him...wake up!!!

$6,000 for a lawn mower? Something is up with that. Lowe's doesn't sell a mower that costs that much.

Divorce.

Waiting for Johns line, "Are you safe"😅

I see a divorce in their future

Jesus Christ... He's mowing his grandparents farm with a nice $6k mower. Not mowing every lady in towns bushes. I'd run right down to Lowes tonight and buy the toro 21" for $499 and tell her mow day is Saturday. She could probably get 2 acres done in a 4 hour afternoon, at about 3mph...

A friends husband pulled these sorts of stunts and it turned out he had a gambling addiction

A divorce is on the way

this lady is out for lunch to say the least

AVP not the issue / sweet / salary / and check stubs/

It sounds like she's bringing up stuff from the past, stuff before they agreed to the Ramsey plan. Stupid stuff happens before discovering common sense, I mean, the Ramsey plan. Also, the first seven years of marriage is a learning process. Baloney's advice is to start a conversation with accusations. Pfft

She sounds like a doormat...I doubt she'll take any of their advice 🤷‍♀️

She picked him.

He is spending it on a man or a woman.