I found your channel the other day and have to say I’m so glad I did! I’ve been watching videos on a couple other channels but they’re not specifically channels focusing on marriage. Their relationship advice still valid & very helpful but not custom fit for the delicacy of marriage. Your channel is exactly what I needed. Thank you for providing the resources and knowledge!!!
Thank you for the videos they are slowly sinking in and starting to help. The biggest issue is trying to control myself when I do talk to my spouse. I am so anxious and missing him and wanting to talk to him that when I do I think I rush and jump the gun just out of impulse. I can see now how that has been pushing him away. Thank you for the delicate way of showing that the problem is not always what the other spouse has done and also clairifying that not all men are narcs as that is what is portrayed so much. I am hoping we can come to Nashville.
Again thank you this is very uplifting and it’s definitely pointing me in the direction that I need to go choose you choose somebody close to me you’re doing God’s work
I found your videos last week my husband is shouting divorce he wont even say “I love you to me” infact he told me he hates me 😢 I feel like I found my solution now the hard part is implementing
My wife had her mom come to stay with is just as we began to reconcile. The day after and now 2 weeks later, its a total nightmare....Nothing but ALL Negativity from her in every way.
Right with you. 15 years for me and she wants out. I don’t drink, do drugs or beat on her. We drifted apart and instead of asking her to work on it, I gave her space. Somehow that worked against me. I am doing the right thing and giving her the break up. I do not want a divorce so I am learning here and anywhere else I can to improve me or my chances to reconnect with her. Be strong. You are worth it. You are special. Be the lover you need and start loving yourself. You deserve to be happy. You are the only you in this world and that makes you amazing! Take a moment and cry. Take a deep breath then tell yourself you are strong. You are a warrior. You Got This. Then breathe out the pain. Above all else strive to become the better you you can be. We are special people and deserve to be happy. Work on being the best you can be. You and I got this! God bless
@@patrickdeminter8678 I’ve been doing extensive work and giving her the space she requested and I thought it was important which it is, but after 23 years, it seems not to matter
Tbh it’s sad ,having to rearrange a whole life ,especially at an older age,I could probably have a secure life with pretty decent pension ,is it worth risking it
I need your consoling to safe our marriage. How can we be console? My spouse live in the USA and am currently in West Africa Liberia. Dr. Joe please give my case attention sir.
My husband moved out and left me with 2 kids. Now he finds time for them though so far he didnt care...I want to move on and sort out the divorce- he said he didnt love me - but he is helping now, answering calls, taking kids out but won't commit...how to set boundaries and start to learn to live on my own.
My wife therapist is not helping my marriage. He refused to see me. what can I do. she's already at the let's be friends after the divorce. we are still living same house. what can I do?
Hey Carlos G, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!
As long is she is there you have a chance.. i wish mine was aleast here.. you have no idea how it hurts when she tell you. I dont want to be with you anymore.. and its not inlove with you..
Hey larry, thank you for your comment. However, we disagree. We believe there is ALWAYS hope for a marriage no matter what. If you have had a bad experience in the past that has caused you to feel this way, we understand wholeheartedly. But there is always hope. If you change your mind and decide you would like to seek help for your marriage, we would love to talk to you and will always remain a safe place for you. You can call us directly at 1 866 903 0990 if you'd like to chat. Blessings,