“As for me and Lisa, we stopped dating. There were differences between us” yeah I think she never wanted to go along with him cheating on her but felt pressured than realized he didn’t give a f*ck about their relationship. I was fully on board with him till he slept with Rebecca.
Yeah he really didnt need to sleep with her. Cheating on your girlfriend to get back at your cheating ex wife seems redundant and hypocritical. Now he really is just as bad as she is.
Story 1 wow this man really went full scorched earth on thr ex. Story 2 it seems the sbtxw wasnt as wonderful as he thought. She tried to pass an affair baby as his. Glad he is divorcing her and he is moving on
Story 1 op, I don’t think the revenge part is bad but cheating on your own girlfriend to complete the revenge is awful. Lisa didn’t deserve that. I hope OP gets help because that’s ridiculous. Lisa deserves better than OP.
@@classicrockkid345 I highly doubt she was ok with it she probably was pressured into saying “ok” to it because OP sounds like he would do something like that
@@areszeudion5153 exactly. He did the revenge so she would clear his name only to be known as the guy who cheated on his girlfriend to get revenge on his ex from many years ago.
@@audreyyyyyyyyyyt Lisa was told the plan and agreed(I would have left if I was her). But she is a adult that can make her all choices. OP will have a very hard time trust anyone again. But this will help him. Maybe he can move forward now.
He cleared his own name: not that its important unless someone felt conflicted about which to believe in. He made the ex suffer the same thing by tricking her : that's fair because ex ruined his life in all manners through her lies. However, involving Lisa who's not 100% okay was where he fucked up, because it proven that he's capable of prioritizing his own grudge and resentment than his loved ones.
@@ToxicKingHazeSo, he basically used Lisa and I guess LDRs don't really matter? Even here admitted he was an ass for doing that so not sure why you're rationalizing OP's awful treatment of Lisa.
@@ToxicKingHazestill an ah for involving and using Lisa, both op and his ex are immature and both need to grow up, I feel sorry for Lisa, hopefully she dumps op.
Im glad op1 got revenge but if i was Lisa i would ruuuun away from that proposal. He literally cheated on her with Rebecca for his revenge then used her as a tool to make Rebecca jealous. Imagine telling the story of the wonderful proposal to friends and family 😅
Story 1: I'm glad he got his revenge. I hate those kinds of stories where the cheater ruins a person's life and gets away with it. Everyone who does this deserves to get a taste of their own medicine. Can't believe she expect him to be fine after everything. You come back I to his life and expect him to raise the child of the man you cheated on him with? Seriously? Story 2: This is starting to feel like some sort of trend. Wife cheats on her husband and tries to pass of her affair child as his. I feel sorry for those who have and had gone through that. It's definitely good that he got that vasectomy otherwise she would have gotten away with it. Story 3: Feels like OP is more upset at the friend than the husband. Hope she divorces the husband and finds a better loving man in the future. The sad thing about these kinds of friends is that we sometimes only see the red flags when they do stuff like this. You've know them your entire lives, lots of good memories and experiences and in the end, they are the ones who betray you in the worst ways possible
I feel sorry for OP for being cheated on, and then framed for something so heinous that did ruin his reputation and character in the eyes of the public… BUT Lisa deserved better than that and she dodged a literal bullet. It’s not fair to hurt innocent people in your revenge plan.
@@koyelimukherjee.3115 she can just leave him, he's not the "hero" of the story...but at least he's not a victim either. 🤷♂️ Revenge, is the only true form of justice. And I'd seriously question your intelligence if you tried to argue otherwise.
@@cjgroves4429 He's a victim of himself now, as is everyone else in his story. He didn't come out looking better, only feeling like he got back at someone who hurt him before, which is objectively worthless.
@@unpocoloco369 it's not "objectively worthless" to win over someone who hurt you. Holy hell, how were you raised that poorly that you don't understand such basic things?🤦♂️ Life is about winning. Not about being the "better person", get over yourself sweetie.
At worst the first op could reasonably called is as bad as his ex. Even then, I wouldn't go that far. While he is a cheater as well now, what keeps him from being the monster his ex is, is the fact he never slandered her.
To be fair he faked an entire relationship with a single mother who was already beaten down by life after what she did to him & then cheated on his actual girlfriend with her just to traumatize his ex even further. Id say he's equally as bad as his ex wife. Those two deserve each other tbh.
Story 1: all hail, the God of revenge, and to people who think OP is worse than his ex they must be stupid because how is that worse when someone cheated on you falsely accused you and ruined your life for seven years is just one sweet dessert of revenge for that b****h who else agrees with me here
The only thing I take issue with is the part where he used someone who was uncomfortable with being used just to get back at his ex. He should have asked someone else. :/
@@topazcoyote5482 Sometimes you don't get the option, sadly. While I do agree that using Lisa was a bit low, he did at least make sure she was aware of it and what was happening.
To anyone interest, there's a concept called r * pe by deception. The OP for the first story would've gone to jail in England for it. Plus, why would he involve himself with her son? That's unnecessary collateral damage.
It's because of the way he his at the time his current girlfriend to get back at his ex it was so slimy and disgusting I don't care what his ex did to him Lisa deserves better. Now I'm actually starting to wonder if the ex was telling the truth.
Everyone praising Op from S1 are awful people. Op should have stopped once she cleared his name. Everything after that makes him.a pos. I hope Lisa sees it and leaves him.
I don't care how badly somebody screws you over you do not do that to your significant other like that dude did in the first story. I'm glad Lisa left his destructive @$$. Jesus Christ.
The story 1 OP is a prick. Not for revenge, but for how little he cared for his current GF. The revenge part was great, but I personally would have recommended stopping after she cleared his name. If I was Lisa, i would have left him
Vasectomy is a procedure where they cut the "canals" that deliver the sperm to the penis. Testicles remain intact, so to reverse it all you have to do is reconnect the tubes and let them regenerate.
