Narcissist are scared of you 

So true!!!

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They don't trust you because they can't trust themselves. If their a Cheater your a Cheater.

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@@Chosenaireyes my husband triangulated me with his mom as well they mother abuse and neglected me.

Mine did. 😭💔

Bingo

Very true. And it causes them to be paranoid at times and always try to get you to "confirm" the relationship is still working.

N that’s when they ghost yo ass!🤦🏽‍♀️

After a 2 year engagement n financially supporting him in every way cooking every night after work…I finally called his ungrateful ass out n he moved out my house that same night drunk af!

They have one? 😂

@@ForexroadrunnerThat’s what I’m saying!

With me it's like a double edged sword ⚔️ because a women's wrath is like wind with fire . It's sad but true but as many times as I forgive them and God's Grace is so I won't be misplaced. That's my temperament and a lot of people test my temperature to see what bothers me but the less that I am not around that toxic ways of people and I cut the silver Cord of destruction it's a better way for my healing methods/ lessons from the Blessings and not wishing any bad unto others .#1❣️❣️❣️

@@Forexroadrunner 😆 more so the “conscience” of them knowing what they’re doing to you is wrong… tryna be slick about it… and accusing you of doing whatever it is they’re doing to you on the low. 😆 ex. Cheating

Their conscience is just fear you treat them like they treat you.

you’re welcome

thats not funny at all

Eggxactly like wild 😢are generation is so scary to me they take “hurt people, hurt people” to a new lvl

That's why they're so worried. As he said they fucking know.🙄

Amen God is great 🙏🙌❤️

Yep, I called it.

That's sooo cool! They sure don't like it when they get treated the way they treat others.

No they do not. I was shocked when he backed off actually. I was expecting him to drag me around by my hair or something. I think he could see that I wasn’t scared of him that day. I had a real red mist moment and let him have it with both barrels.

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Awesome! 6 months ago I went off my Narcissist after 4 years of his crap. I'm trying to get a discard or reverse discard soon! They are awful and the stress can kill you

You didn't say how long ago this happened...if it's recent, please be careful. The smear campaign might be awful. Think about what power he still has over your life, and protect that intelligently. Can he ruin your relationship with family members you love or your finances? What can he still make you lose? I've been in a similar place and wasn't smart enough that's why I'm telling you this.

Yes can we just be real?!!

I know right

WOOOWWW!!! That’s crazy! Such sick feeble people

That's exactly what they think too! He was telling you the truth! You didn't see your value which is why you stayed with him.

Ex covert would tell me “now I know you’re crazy cause you have all these complaints of me but keep coming around.”

In a weird way he was right, we stayed because we are the one without standards and boundaries

This lets us know that people use alcohol as an excuse to for acting like they don’t know what they said, see he really does know drunk or sober he treats you bad.

Yes, they project very heavily.

Every accusation is a confession.

@@Scooand that’s even sadder like imagine doing all that behind somebody back, treating them bad and then projecting your screaming confessions on them you, I couldn’t imagine lying through a smile day in and out, and being bold enough to stand firm on lies and betrayal and can’t even tell the person you cheated like jeez ppl are wild

The smeller's the feller.😉

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Straight from hell cause like why on earth would one work so hard to be so evil like smh - “it takes more to be wicked then it does to be peaceful”

Omg. So after I had my son I had post partum depression and ended up drinking (I had been sober for 6 years). I got overly emotional and somewhat combative (mostly crying but did not hit anyone but did throw over a shoe rack.) My ex had me arrested and placed a restraining order, took custody and i didn't see my infant for 3 months. Everyone around me from counselors my therapist, my AA sponsor, everyone said it was very harsh because yes i drank but this was like an over reaction. I was racked with guilt and shame and immediately got sober and did all things required of me and stayed sober. When I first saw him again after 3 months he started to hoover me (didn't know what that was yet) by asking me if I wanted to come in (he had moved out and gotten his own place) and I always said yes because of course it meant more time with my son. Mind you I still had the restraining order so I was very hesitant and scared. He got back together with me and I was so grateful that I forgot everything. As we were back together, one time, I asked him if he wanted a coke from the fridge and I opened it for him and then noticed he didn't drink any of it. I asked him why he wasted it and he said he was scared of me poisoning him. I said why the hell would I poison you?? And he said he's afraid of me because he knew everything he put me through for drinking one time was too much and he was expecting me to get back at him any moment. He was self aware in that one moment. The rest of the relationship (3 years) was him reminding me everytime I would even think of calling out one of his unacceptable behaviors in the present moment, he would throw that one time I drank in my face and say I didn't deserve to be treated with respect. 😢

Yes!! I went through the same and then when I move out and got tired of him and started ignoring him he got madder his text messages were pages of putting me up and slam down!! 😬🙄🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😂

I went through the same, just much more covert, elusive, sneaky and hidden.

Actually they do CARE what you think of them because they CARE about their reputation and image daily. They are worried and paranoid about you exposing them but they will act like they don’t care. They want you back because they need to feed off of you, however when they realize you don’t want them back, they fear you because they know you can truly hurt them and hurt their chances of deceiving new supply.

Me is that you?? Girl I wish I couldn’t relate so much 😩😩😩😩😩

I went through the exact same thing the manipulation is unreal.

Ahhhh that makes sense

Yes!!! I rarely stood up for myself... but one day I had had enough ... "Oh... so, rules for me buy not for thee?", I asked.. Oh boy. He blew up.... went on to accuse me of bring disrespectful... the nerve .. he was the one cheating and I was the disrespectful one because I tried to stand up for myself. ? They are all the same

@execbot Yes, they are so alike. There must be some secret narcissist playbook we don't know about.

Like that is what still is so wild to me like 😂you thrive off being messed to ppl and secretly feel bad and at the same time blame the opposite person and accuse them of what your actually doing behind there back is always going to be wild to me

@@dream_catcher0181 yes, absolutely wild...horrible

Omg I’m going through the same thing. I’ve taken on an apathetic position after several months of dealing with toxic coworkers. I genuinely have no interest in interacting other than for mission-critical reasons. And I no longer care how they feel about it because that’s not my weight to carry either.

They accuse people of the very same things they're themselves guilty of! 🙃 It's textbook narcissistic behavior... Their behavior/accusations should always be looked at as confessions! :)

Yeah.. similar.. each time he accused me, I later found out, it was he who was cheating. Felt so dumb... still do every now and then.. you gotta remember, don't beat yourself up. You love some and open up your heart... give them all your trust... Most of us wromgly assume the other person would never cross a line we wouldn't... we get wrapped up in our feelings towards them that we believe their words and not pay attention to their actions... Looking back... I now see all the actions... it was crystal clear my ex couldn't and shouldn't have been trusted... but I trusted his words... How are you feeling now? I hope things are better. Keep learning.. it does help to understanding all this... *hugs*

@@Analysis_Paralysis I see that now.

@@execbot when I realized the accusations were confessions it angered & extremely hurt me. I try not to be too hard on myself bc I know on my end was pure but it doesn’t stop the pain of realizing how foolish I was trying I tried to hold on to an imposter.🤦🏽‍♀️

Yes they run away not knowing they tell on themselves by moving so obvious people who have been talking to you then have a sudden change in behavior have a guilty conscience

Fight the dark narc with bright light

Narcissistic fleas !! Love that Agree with everything you said. My daughter can spot a narcissist or anyone trying to manipulate her. I don’t know where she got that from but I’m glad she’s such a strong person.

I don’t want to be all in your business, but can you offer any insight into what might have caused your son to develop his toxic behavior?

@@ThePoseyWosey genetics 🧬

Para-Site. They need you to host them

@@Lc-sh7uk- I phrase I came across, the other day, is quite fitting.. Genetics loads the gun - environment pulls the trigger.

Get away from them.

Absolutely

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you’re welcome

Have you considered that maybe you’re the narcissist? Everyone, every single person around you cannot be the narcissist and you stay….

Unfortunately, these idiots are every where. Once one gains better insight, self-awareness and a greater sense of self-worth, one realizes that they are illogical time wasters.

Happy Thanksgiving

😞😞 i can do that

*”Now, concerning only yourself, what does Stealth mean for you? Your meaning is your answer of how to deal with, and counter his f&@! a@& at home, and period.”*

@@MentalHealness*”She can, too!”*

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Thanks, will do!