These questions are called closed ended questions that gives the person a chance to answer with one word. In sales they train you to ask open ended questions that start a conversation.Dating is much like makes sales in business. So this advice is true. Do you have boyfriend? Yes now go away! LOL i love it!
She’s talking about cold-approaching. You have to remember there’s a bit of a language barrier, so we have to listen to understand what she’s trying to say - even though she might not be articulating it properly.
Correct. She certainly wouldn't have any problem replying to the question if the guy is young and good looking. It's only certain guys that "scare her" with those types of questions
I find it IRONIC that asking foreign men hese questions are VERY IMPORTANT to a filipina. I love the idea that these questions force some filipinas to lie. NOBODY forces you to lie that's a choice YOU make yourself. I understand about cultural and traditional differences between countries. One thing that's ESSENTIAL in any relationship is HONESTY. There should be Honesty, Trust and Mutual Respect in any relationship. If any are missing it's not a relationship worth having. Raine I don't understand WHY you would be scared about being truthful.
Agreed. I waisted 7 years with a Filipina and yes she had secrets. If she can't stand those questions, she has something to hide and it is a red flag, move on.
Some Filipinas asked me questions that I answered within seconds, but when I asked the same question back then I never got any answers back. Love is supposed to be mutual respect. Most woman doesn't answer questions they them self asks the man they are dating. This not only apply to Filipina woman but woman all over the world. I have dated many and most of my questions was left hanging in the air while they kept asking me new questions.
No, go WITH HER to get the CENOMAR - 30 minutes time and you pay $4 US dollars for it. For those not waiting until marriage to sleep with her (and I would) make sure you have the CENOMAR before you sleep with her. Critical.
Every girl will ask this question almost at the beginning: Are you single? Do you have a GF? Are you married? Do you have kids? So why we should not ask the same???😂
I could understand this advice if the goal of the guy is just to have fun the evening or the upcoming weekend. Then you don't care. But if you look for something serious, definitively better to ask those questions. And if she lie / is scared, that's fine, run away...
If this is the thinking of the girl you approach, you don't want her from the jump street...she will lie to police when she get caught cheating and tell them you took her or attacked her..video everything..especially her saying her age...your a tourists tell her the truth I need this for evidence...you scare me.
You are the prize and I'm happy she wants to interview me on the first encounter. Take control of the relationship, which means taking control of what you respond too. Run disqualification on her quickly so you don't waste your money or time. Then, you will find the good sincere ones and not waste time with the others.
Yeah, and they are the ones who ask you "do you have an ex?". So what the heck? 😊 Most of them does anyway so if you say no she will know you're dishonest, if you say yes then the jealousy and tampo kick in so, again, you get unlucky.
The only 2 questions to ask her: BEFORE proposing or marriage, and it will only take 30 minutes to get, go with her and for $4 US Dollars she needs a "CENOMAR" which is proof she isn't married. Take her to the used (some are US brand new name brands with the sales tag still on!) Ukay Ukay Store to shop for $10-$20. Watch how much good clothes you leave with! She will look like a million bucks (dresses too), so now ask her if she likes her "new" clothes? "MOST" Filipinas say they all shop at Ukay Ukay stores and feel more "COMFORTABLE" in those clothes than the expensive mall clothes, anyway.
Given the laws in the Philippines regarding dating a married woman, asking if she’s single is REQUIRED for your own safety. If that question scares her, or embarrasses her, then she’s not going to be honest with you. BUT, while you have to ask her these questions, find the best time to avoid putting her in a bad situation by answering. But you need to ask, especially the question regarding being single.
You should absolutely ask these questions and do it on ig, fb, whatsapp etc so you have documented evidence if she gets caught by her husband and they go to the police. And text after every sexual encounter to make sure she enjoyed herself ;)
So what about if the Filipina will be the one who ask these questions?! Most of the time before she ask you what is your name, she will ask you if you are married, if you have kids, if you are single and other 100+. So...I have to be scared then?
If I ask you those two questions ruin a potential relationship with the filipina then that filipina isn't worth it. A relationship even in the very beginning is to be open and honest and free to ask any questions they want.Whoever I'm seeing or potentially seeing can ask me anything.They want to know openly and freely. So if I ever become single again and I'm talking to a Filipina.Those will be the first 2 questions.I ask and if it ruins the relationship then obviously, she's not worth my time or my energy.So now I know a quick way to get rid of the losers.
The first one is inaccurate. Literally the first thing they ask you is are you single. 😂 It’s almost like you are giving foreigners advice to give them and therefor the economy of the Philippines money. 😅
Great video reine, so if i ask those two questions she will be scared off and what if i don't ask her those two questions and she has a boyfriend already then what dear. Chester hixon
This is complete BS. More often than not, the very first thing a filipina will ask me after meeting is "Are you single?" It's no different for a guy to ask a filipina. This "you're scaring her" stuff is a bunch of crap
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@steelguitarunionhall I agree on the part that he MAY have learned something from this video and maybe even other videos/ RU-vidrs out there. HOWEVER, you didn't provide a valid argument in contradiction. I and many other guys in the comments find this topic and the questions awkward because they are 😂. Just like also in a previous video saying one of the things to never do in the Philippines is never to yell at Filipinos. Like wtf are they even thinking about the topics well for these videos or just going with what the algorithm boosts? Hmm oh let's see YES because it seems most Filipino RU-vidrs have been uploading clickbait content in order to get more views, subscribers, money see where I'm going with this?
@@vaan4500 You are like a guy complaining it's the fishes fault you can't catch them. lol. Sorry son, you move to a foreign country, you play by THEIR rules, not yours, no matter how much it offends your western standards.
So you are saying to all of us that we should not care if the woman is married and possibly have children in that marriage? I am so confused right now.
It's not irrelevant, I guy doesn't want to talk to someone has a boyfriend or husband. It's disrespectful to date someone who is already committed to someone else.
It's irrelevant. That is a HUGE comment. So if she has been in a relationship for the last 10 years and someone else asks if she is in a relationship, she will easily jump in with the new guy. Keep this in mind men. She will drop you if the new guy has even the slightest better looking flip-flops.
Power always dictates the rules to others considered to be less. Good looks, youth, money.. Makes the rules how others approach ..The goal is to make you feel powerless...while we wade through who we want..what a burden to have a lesser person ask me if I have a gf..Creep factor But its posdible to acquire power :) Then who has more power.. Its laughable the day to day short sightedness Great video..
This is funny because when i was 19 i worked at cvs in dallas texas and there was a filipina that worked there, so i asked her if she had a bf and she said dont ask me that i might want to give you some, and yall dont need to know everything but this video is funny
555 you are funny - These are the first questions that every filipina would ask a guy ! So - if you ask such questions - be ready to answer them as well .
NOOOO BAD VIDEO Why can't a man ask those questions? Since YOU ARE GOING TO ASK HIM THOSE QUESTIONS, so why he cant ask? noo This is a HYPOCRITICAL VIDEO. No... bad advise for a video. 👎
Guys, dont be weird guys....I t hought the questions would be.... 'where is the nearest jolliebee..?... or 'Have you seen the remote..??. stop being weird and cringy guys...
In a culture when offending someone is one of the worst offenses are you saying we should be running around with women that we have no idea if she has a man or not? I mean out of decency and my own personal morals I don’t want to step in another guys toes, I’ve been the man who others have impeded upon. I have no interinterest in being that guy
We are the prize never put a woman on a pedestal? Ask whatever you want we don’t chase any Filipina because the man is always the prize you are giving bad advise.
Respectfully, I strongly disagree with these. How are we supposed to know if they’re married or single? I learned that it’s a crime to date a married woman which I do not want the huge risk.
So don't ask her these 2 important questions? Horrible advice. So don't ask her until she takes you home and introduces you to her husband and boyfriend
I'll just tell you the easy way for ldrs has to be 7/8 times a day I took the chance met her in January we already knew each other so no surprises going back in August this has been going on for 4 years
