This is so accurate and I see these same characteristics with Caribbean men, especially with Haitian men! I was at a gym minding my business and this Haitian guy tells me if I have a boyfriend (which he then tells me his English isn't good but yet you can ask if I have a bf. smh) and I told him I'm sure your wife wouldn't be pleased with your behavior towards me. He then tells me he has a wife and a child who are back in Haiti!!! smh So sickening to hear this grown man tell me he left his wife and child back home in Haiti. Girl, he is still married and had the audacity to ask me for my number twice after I told him no and walked away and he yelled out "I'm sure your boyfriend would be okay with me talking to him. smh Where are the quality men at??!!! lol
That reminds me of a movie… can’t remember the name but he omitted to tell her about his family BUT then when she found out, she decided to stay in a relationship and even flew back to Haiti with him and the wife made it clear that she could care less and was NEVER divorcing her husband… a mess chile🤦🏽♀️
I’m a first gen American, my parents are Jamaican. I will tell you point blank period when it comes to West Indian and Latin men never ever date them when they are FOBs. They either have a family, married, girlfriend, looking for a green card or some combination. It’s sad, but all my first gen friends say they have had the same experiences. It’s very rare to find a partner who upholds monogamy if that is what you seek. Even some of the first gen men are the same way.
“I could help you find a husband, we’ll control him and doing our thing on the side”… I’m just praying and fasting caaauuse Jesus take the wheel!!! 😨😭🙏🏽🙏🏽
@mcm3301 The QUOTATION MARKS USED IN ENGLISH LANGUAGE are used at the beginning and end of that statement shows this commenter you are attacking wrongly is only QUOTING WHAT EFIK ZARA SAID about the billionaire who wanted her as a side chic as her FIRST EXAMPLE of the group of Nigerian men who cheat! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
My Nigerian husband is nothing like the Nigerian men born and raised in Nigeria. He was born and raised in Los ANGELES and raised by wonderful parents. Thank God. Edit: you said billionaire lol. Not yet but soon 🤣🤣🤣
Happy for you but Nigerian born and raised men are mostly the best lovers world over. They're in high demand across Africa. Efikzara might come off as intimidating and out of reach for a lot guys because of her background. That means her selection pool is narrowed to men who think they can "afford" her, men who want arm candy and flings because there's also a prejudice on this side of the divide that American born girls are disrespectful, too independent to appreciate traditional values which is mostly what Nigerian men prioritize in relationships and marriage.
Oh my God this is weird but most men share those characteristics oh and am from Gabon 🇬🇦 but I had a long-term relationship with a nigerian guy... The kindest guy I dated till date. Thank God there are exceptions oooo. Good share sis😍
🤢💕💕💕💕💚💚🤢🤢🤢✅✅ girl I just want all the tea😭😂 I’m Ghanaian and I live in the states but my experience with Nigerian men haven’t been terrible but the way they operate…. Nawa ooo
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after watching this video ive come to the conclusion that the way everyone else talks about nigerian men doesnt even compare lollll aunty just gave a PhD course on nigerian men
All men are universally the same at the core! The only difference is some are more “intelligent” in how they move than other groups. Some groups are reckless and sloppy, some are secretive and smart but they are pretty much all the same. Looks, money, status will bring out those undesirable qualities. Even beta makes and simps will bring out those traits when they obtain money or status.
But y Nigerian have got bad records 🤔😕😳even in their entire country they're behaving badly 😢😳Jesus Christ, am from Uganda 🇺🇬but I used to admire Nigerian men, but after finding them in Dubai and they just to hit and run away, i lost interest and they have bad records in uae
Sometimes I feel sorry for our Nigerian men. Unlike their counterparts in the developed world, they struggle to see the woman as human. You will be surprised how most of them believe a woman is a commodity and should not have a say in what matters to her. They hate women who are financially dependent, but are threatened by the woman who is financially independent. Most of them will mostly likely expect you to act a certain way because you dress in a way they assume it's for male attention. But then Nigerian women commoditize themselves so they are always wondering when a woman comes along and is not following the manual. This is the monster created by the Nigerian women, we all will live to deal with it.
@@fikayoadeniran2592 Are you sure, cause every Nigeria women I see don't like to marry other Africans men,the popular ones you see are married to whites or other few WA country.
💙💙💙💙 watched until the end. I noticed you've been mentioning non-binary etc. types in your monologues lately and I am wondering why? I am tired of this absurdity multiplying in our communities here in the US and was hoping for it not to spread to our motherland. However I know it is a spirit and only will it be broken by the Spirit. Nevertheless I just wonder why you included this language in your latest few vids.🙄🤔
Because regardless of my beliefs, God is love. I’m an imperfect being but the least I can do is acknowledge people with different lifestyles because it’s one of the easiest ways to demonstrate love. I don’t want any of my viewers to feel alienated or isolated. I cannot share my faith with someone who feels I don’t value/love them. I’m still very much an American so my lens is colored by the openness of American society. It cannot change the way I express myself in my personal life, but again I’m a firm believer in demonstrating love.
@@EfikZara hmmm! Are you still wondering why you attract those kinds of men? The kind of men who can't take you home to mama... Anyway, I'm sure you don't want to marry a Nigerian man anyway... Cos no "good" Nigerian man wants to take that kinda talk to mama because they're very dedicated to raising right-thinking, emotionally balanced kids. All the best!
Lol, you sound uneducated. I’ve met the parents of every guy I’ve seriously dated because I’m the prize, not the other way around. I drop niggas, they don’t drop me. But anyway, please address women in your class. You can’t afford me.
