Cov niampog txivyawg phem li no tsheem muaj os. Tabsi txhob siab siab phem rau menyuam ntsuag ciaj. Ua menyuam yus xaiv tsis tau yus niam yus txiv os (children can not choose their parents). Dont carry someone else karma, let them carry it by themselves. Yus tsis tsim luag ces yus yeej tsis npam os. Luag txoj kev npam cia nyias ev nyias os.
Tus nbam is you, sister! I would never take that evil woman into my home. After all she has done to you, you are now wiping her ass. If your kids love you they will care for you later in life. Caring for your MIL will not bring you blessings. Ruam thiag.
❤️😭 I pray that I'm a good mother in-law when it's my time and that my future daughter in-law and son in-law loves me when I don't have a husband in my life
My niam pog is the same. My niam pog blames me for everything then turns around saying that my husband and I don't love her. I don't visit her nor go near her by myself, but I do buy food for her once in a while whenever my husband wants to visit. I agree with this story.
ITS OKAY SISTER FORGIVE AND MOVE ON, SHE ALREADY LEARN THE HARD WAY AND GOT HER KARMA. YOU DO GOOD AND ONE DAY YOUR KIDS WILL LOVE YOU. I HAVE TWO SONS TOO. I TOLD MYSELF I WILL NEVER BE LIKE MY MIL. I WILL ACCEPT MY NYAB WHO EVER MY SON MARRIES. RIGHT NOW MY SON HAS A GIRLFRIEND, I BAKE AND COOK STUFF AND HAVE HIM BRING IT TO HER AND ON VALENTINES DAY I MAKE A BASKET FOR HER. I BUY HER THINGS FOR CHRISTMAS. I TOLD MYSELF EVEN IF THEY DON'T END UP TOGETHER, AT LEAST I WAS A GOOD MOM WHO LOVE MY SONS GIRLFRIEND AS MY OWN. THEY WILL REMEMBER ME AS A GOOD MOM. YES WE MUST BE SUPPORTED AND NOT JUDGE, LIFE IS HARD ENOUGH. IF WE LOVE OUR NYAB THEY WILL LOVE YOU BACK.
Good story and good lesson learned. I can relate and it’s a very sad life lesson. On the bright side, be a good person and always try your best to do good. Karma is real! Thank you for sharing your story . May god bless you and your family. ❤
Nyab os nyab aw ! leej twg tau cov niam pog zoo li koj tus no mas neb zaj movie thiaj li yuav lom zem, koj muab niam pog roj rov kib nws nqaij mas thiaj li nkig zoo thiab thiaj li tsis npam koj, niam pog tseev ntxub koj los nws yeej tsis ntxub nws tus tub, koj yeej meem muab kev hlub kom txaus nkaus rau niam pog tus tub ces cia nws tus tub mam li rov tsim nws thiaj li kho nws siab. Txawm koj tsis tu nws los yeej tsis npam koj tsuav yog koj txhob muaj lub siab phem xav ua pauj xwb, yog koj tseem mus khaws tu koj tus yeeb ncuab ces tus npam twb yog koj lawm ntag.
Zoo kawg thaum tsi muaj chaw tuag ce kav tsij hloov mog kuv tus niam pog ce tseem keej 2 tsi tau kam hloov kiag nawb cia saib thaum nkag tsi zawj lawm pua hloov os.
Do these evil mil think that they will be forever young and will never need their nyab? As a nyab, I can manage to put aside any hard feelings and still respect a mil that hates me but still loves my kids. But if you as a mil dont like my kids purely bc you hate me then we got problems. My kids, which are your son's kids also, aint never done nothing to you but if you want to treat them differently then best believe i wont be taking you in when you can no longer care for yourself. Sorry not sorry
1975 parents is a few that has a big heart. Maybe it was bc of the up ringing of a poor country of Asia. That OG are so narrow minded very tight in money and Not wanting to love unconditionally. They always have that one favorite golden child.
Many people will tell you to grow and forget and forgive those who do you wrong so you won’t get karma. This naim tsev doesn’t owe this mil any debt or apology. The pain one gives to another and at the end the daughter inlaw end up taking care of this evil lady? Nah! Not me. She belongs in the 🚮🗑️
Kuv xav hais tias nyaj yuav muaj me ntsis thiab tej zaum koj ho muab los hais tshaj zog lawm tus me sister. Nyob teb chaw meska no tsis muaj cov niam pog yuav phem txog qhab ko lawm os, txhob hais tshaj tshaj thiab tsam ho npam yus thiab os nawb. Koj hais cuag li koj yog tus zoo 100% xwb sub as…..
Ntshe koj ho tau tus niam pog zoo zoo ne. Cov phem los yeej tseem muaj coob heev. Tsis yog yus yus tsis paub xwb os. Cov phem phem yeej tseem muaj, cov zoo los kuj muaj. Luag ruam ruam los tau yus tus tub tsis cia luag ruam, ua ua ua zaj ua ntxeev rau luag txawj ntse li yus ces ho tias luag yog nyab phem tshaj plaws. Cov niam pog no tseem muaj hos tsis hais nyob meskas lau.
Kv niam pog lo g nyiam kv ib yam li thiab os niaj hnub no nw muaj 6 leej nyab tab si tu nyab twg lo ua g haum nw siab li es xyov yuav nrog tu nyab twg nyob li lau
Ua li koj thiaj yog cia peb ua zoo rau lwmtus vim peb paub txoj kev tsim TU siab los ev raum raubqaum ua zoo tabsis ho txhob TU siab yog muaj ib co ho tsis hlub yus mog me viv ncauj vim yog peb yug zamtxim pub lawv
Lawv aw lub neej niam pog txiv yawg tsi nyiam yus ces tej muam tej kwv lo yeej ntxub yus tag li os ho yus tus txiv lolawv hais tsi tau kom nrauj yus li ces lawv cia li ntxub lawv tus tub nrog yus li lawm os kv zaj dab neeg yog muab lo tham mas ntshe ntau ntu heev li os ntshe yuav ke tham ke quaj li os peb ib tsoom mi niam tsev aw😢😢😢😢😢😢
zoo heev li os tus tswv ntawm txoj neej neeg koj hlub2 koj tus nyab ua rau kuv ntshaw kev hlub ntawv kuv leej niam pog kawg li 😥😥Nyab yuav txawj hlub niam pog los yuav tsum tau kev hlub los ntawm niam pog coj ua ntej nyab thiaj li paub hlub rov hos
People tend to forget that they have choices. You put yourself in that situation knowing full well the niam pog doesn’t like you. Once upon a time someone’s mom called me telling me I’ll never let my son marry you and I broke it off immediately because I knew it would be torture only living with her. No thank you, next please. Current ladies, know your worth and move on please.
People will teach you how to love by not loving you back. People will teach you how to forgive by not apologizing. People will teach you kindness by their judgment. People will teach you how to grow by remaining stagnant.🥲 You have a good heart. God blessing you, sister.❤🤲🙏
Hauv ntuj lub qab plab no ces cov niam pog phem tau nyab zoo, cov niam pog ho zoo2 los tau cov niag nyab phem, phem tag siab nrho li es xyov qhov twg yog qhov zoo thiab xyov yuav ua li cas thiaj li zoo li os cov niam pog thiab cov nyab aw????????? Lub ntiaj teb no ces saib mas zoo nkaus li cov ua zoo los tau phem hos tej tug twb phem2 los kuj tau qhov zoo lawm thiab no ces tsis paub piav li os, tab sis txawm li cas Thov qhuas nej cov uas niam pog twb ntxub2 los thaum kawg tseem kam nqa niam pog li quav li zis li koj thiab os sister.
Niam ntsuab teev aw kj hai rau tu viv ncau ko tia kv ce raug kiag li nw ko thiab os ntiaj nhub no ce kv tau tu niam pog li tu me nyuam 5 hli kv yog neeg txom nyem nw g nyiajm kv li os tam sim no kv tau pub mov rau nw noj niaj nhub so nw li quav li zis kv me 2 thiab kv mob duav tag nqa twb g tshua tau li tu siab heev os
Cov niam pog phem Los yeej muaj ho cov nyab phem Los yeej muab thiab. Haus ntub lub qab pab no ces muaj all mix li os. Peb yog cov nyab ces peb yuav tau ua siab ntev xwb os. :)
Ua cas es kev npam Nyob deb ua luaj. Kuv mloog zaj twg los kev npam poob rau yav laus xwb. Yog poob rau yav laus ces cov neeg phem muaj sib hawm ua phem ntev loo Thaum yav hluas. Life is not fair.
cov neeg siab phem ces yeej tau nyob ntev2 kom nws tau txais txoj kev txom nyem kom txau nws qhov kev siab phem os. tus neeg zoo ces nws nyog txog nws lub cais xwb nws mus yam kaj siab zoo siab. tus neeg phem ces yuav tuag tsi tu siab. tuag ciaj tuag cias kom txom nyem kom txau nkaus mas mam tau mus. thaum mus lawm yeej tseem yuav tau mus hais pluab pem ntuj.😂😊
Tsis nyiam yus ces txhob nyiam kom tag tiam mas, cas thaum laus tseem yuav los rau yus nqa quav nqa zis thiab? Yus los ntshe hmoov npam thiab thiaj li kam lees nqa lawv tej quav tej zis os.
Sister, you created your pain, suffering, misery, and heartbreaking. You knew from the very first get-go that your mother in law doesn't like you. She's made it very clear to you and all the family. Why are you still putting up with her. Tell your husband to move out of that town and state period if he wants a life with you. You do not even need your husband. He obviously isn't much of a man to stand up and protect you against his mother. Cut all ties, ghosts, and no contact with that evil wicked witch....
It is a curse that you have created for yourself, sister. Well, I hope you get the same blessing that you are doing to your in laws toward the end of your old aging because I do feel the same ways as you do.
15:25 when they went to a relative’s house and the Nyab carried one child and piggyback the other - I FELT THAT. Ua rau yus tu siab tshaj that even if they don’t like you they couldn’t fake it in front of their relatives to save their egg. I came home and cried my heart out that day. Oh well, I learned from that incident and moved on with my life.
I am the same like you. My mil doesn’t like me so she doesn’t like my kids and don’t like her son also bc I’m his wife. Sad to see these mean mil mistreat their dil and grandkids along. Oh well, our life goes on with or something without her.
At least your mother in law still call you nyab. Mine calls me "them." Whenever she talks to my husband about me she say "es lawv mus twg lawm" or whenever my side of the family come to visit she will say "lawv cov neeg tuaj lov?"
Wonder why these MILs don't think how they would feel if their daughters were treated mean by their MIL. They should know it's hurt them too. And not mistreat their own DIL. Just be glad your son found a love and happy. I just don't get it.
I can not believe that she caved in and accepted her monster MIL back into her home. After all that mistreatment should've just left her in the nursing home. None of her daughters or son in law or her other son wants her. Her other son and his wife turned around and mistreated her. For karma and she so desperately deserve it
Only if every niam Pog was like her. I started my life very young, and had no support, but my mom. Now a day my mom is priority to me. My MIL doesn’t like me to where she will not set the food I cook on the table nor eat my food. Today, we are okay because I ignore them and be the bigger person. From time to time I will still hear her talk shit, but it’s okay. She’s no longer marry to FIL.
Vim koj tshuav koj niam pog nqi. Kav tsij so koj niam pog quav thiaj zoo rau koj. Tab sis nco ib qho tsis tau koob hmoov vim koj ua los koj complain npaum koj es ua zoo dab tsi.
