"NO WAY!" Bride Refuses To Wear Her Mum's 80's Wedding Dress | Something Borrowed, Something New 

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she looked stunning in both, and although her mom wanted her to pick the borrowed dress I love how supportive she was of carly’s decision ❤

Would be nice to be able to wear the old dress to the ceremony and the new dress to the reception. She looked absolutely beautiful in both.

The naivety of youth : “this is the hardest decision I’ll ever have to make.” Bless her.

I can't believe how beautiful the remade 80's dress was, I was literally speechless. I hope she changes her mind. She looked like she stepped off a movie screen.

I would wear her mom's dress for the ceremony and the new dress at the reception.

That redesigned dress is the prettiest I've seen on the show and I watch ... a lot! congrats to the designer.. beautiful style

The repurposed gown looked absolutely gorgeous; one of the best dresses I've seen on the show ever! It looked better on her than the gown she chose.

she describes her mum as overbearing. It's not about the dress design at this point, it's about her wanting something new of her own. Making her own decision.

My hubs and I were married in the 80s. (Still married-40yrs) I’m so happy the mother and daughter could get the dress they each loved. May the new couple find health, happiness, and long years.

I loved the re-imagined 80s dress because it was different, and I thought it incorporated new elements on the design, too. The sentimental value was big for me. I liked the first dress but it wasn't unusual. The bride buy both - wear one at wedding and the other the reception.

When the bride picks the new dress, I always wonder what they do with the "borrowed" dress.

Not a hard decision in my opinion. The “borrowed” dress….. the remake of her mother’s dress…… is absolutely Stunning! And it has what no other bridal gown has…… sentimental value. First…. It’s a custom original Second….. it’s her moms dress….. which her grandmother purchased. That’s a win, win, win…… in my opinion. Love it❣️

The finished borrowed dress was really stunning! I loved how many different elements were there and yet it was still all pulled together so neatly and uniquely. I would've loved to try it on myself!

Her mother is so gracious and also hilarious. I feel like she's a little disappointed but she also fiercely loves her daughter and wants to support her. She wasn't about to make her feel guilty for picking something she truly loved . Young lady is beautiful and both the dresses

I preferred the borrowed dress too. Custom made AND with sentimental value. The new dress looks good on her too, but it was pretty basic. And can we take a moment to appreciate that mom? I mean, it must have been soul-crushing to have your daughter pick something else, but she was still so supportive and lovely.

Definitely, the borrowed for the ceremony and the new for the reception!

Absolutely beautiful. Her mothers’ dress was much more elegant

This will not be the hardest decision you will ever have to make. She looks beautiful and I am sure it was a hard decision. Many blessings to you and your husband.

Can you guys use the logos from the shows that aren’t Say Yes to the Dress?

Oh man, lol. The borrowed dress was STUNNING! Maybe she'll change her mind 😄

What a gorgeous remake of mom's dress!!🩷🩷🩷

I would think this was a no-brainer ! Off the rack versus custom designed with the added bonus of the history of the dress. I would have picked the other one, but it was her choice.

The borrowed dress was GORGEOUS on her. I am disappointed she chose the new one 🥺.

i thought she would have gotten the two of them. wear the remake borrowed one for the service and the new one for the reception. so what are they going to do with the remake one?

It's a beautiful dress she chose and her borrowed dress was stunning as well. But she is surrounded by love and she knew she would be supported which is why she chose the dress that was hers and only hers. The reasons she loved the borrowed dress was for the sentimental value and those people who made it so valuable were there hugging her in the new dress. She's so blessed with such a beautiful loving family. ❤️

I love how supportive the mother was even though she really wanted her in the borrowed dress.

I’m so jealous of the talent to remake the dresses

It's not hard at all!Wear your Mom dress at the ceremony and the new dress at the reception!Both dress are beautiful!😍♥️♥️♥️

She couldn't have made a wrong choice. Both dresses looked good on her.

I like reimagining clothes. I've been sewing for decades and cutting up and restyling clothes is the most satisfying thing to do in sewing.

TLC would have kicked me out of the show, but I'd have chosen both, one for the wedding, another for the reception.

I can't believe she picked that dress over the beautiful one, that was made over for her. She looked so much better in the made over one.

The borrowed dress is one of the most stunning pieces I've ever seen. Such class und thoughtfulness!! A shame but in the end it's her day.

OH NO NOT SOMETHING BORROWED! 😱😱😱 they BUTCHER these sentimental heirlooms and half the time the bride doesn't even wear it. i cannot describe how devastated i would be if some stranger cut up the last thing my dead mother bought me only for my daughter to decide on a different dress altogether.

Unbelievable! The borrowed was beautiful and a one of a kind. She was pretty in both.

she's so stunning in the new dress, I'm glad she picked it for her day

I’d be upset if my wedding dress was cut up like that.

I love how the mother reacted to the new dress so selfless ❤

Oh my goodness the recreated dress is stunning. She will get to have her grandma and momma with her. Either one is so beautiful. Tough choices. Love how they are supportive regardless of her choice.

The new dress looks just like what everyone is wearing. The borrowed gown was one of a kind. Nobody in the world will wear that gown. She made the wrong choice.

The remake of moms dress is absolutely beautiful

I loved her mother’s dress after it was redone. I think it looked better on her. But in the end it’s how she feels, not viewers or family.

Personally, I think the satin from her mother’s dress on the bottom aged her daughter. I prefer the first dress which fitted her personality much better.

In an age where a lot of brides have two dresses, why not take both! The borrowed dress at $800 was perfect for the ceremony and the new one was perfect for the reception.

I'd go with the borrowed dress - such a beautiful makeover!

The borrowed dress is now bespoke - it is amazing. The other is typical.

Im at 6:05! I dont know which she picked but!!!!!! Were I her mom, I'd pay for the alterations to thee old dress & daughter should wear that to church... Buy the new dress and wear that to the reception. Win/win!!

Her mum being happy that she chose that dress is so wholesome ❤

80s was a great decade best one ever!!!!!

Mom's dress is the hands down winner

The SIL was loving the new dress but was so supportive while the bride was making her decision. I love that.

I vastly preferred the new dress, but it seemed like she preferred the borrowed one. Not sure that she ended up making the right choice, but she did look beautiful.

Is it bad that I would absolutely wear the 80’s wedding dress?

It's hard to say which one I like the most, but it would have to be the borrowed one. I'm making this comment before she actually makes her decision. But there's just something about the generations that's involved in that dress. Not just the mom but the grandmother as well. Phenomenal. And she looks beautiful in whatever she wears!

Her smile is so pretty and contagious!

Wow. What a sad ending😪😢 as if she wouldn't choose her mom and grandma's dress after it was made for her I would have been so greatful!

The remade dress looks so beautiful and unique. it is custom made and looks so good on her. Bride looks beautiful. New dress looks beautiful too. that dress is not one of a kind like remade one.

4:47 Omg! This dress is stunning!

Wow wasn’t Expecting Mom to be so accepting about any decision she makes

It's her day she can pick what she wants. I saved my wedding dress in case I had a daughter but I didn't but if I did and she wanted her own choice I would have been happy with that.

The hair of her sister in law is amazing !!

You go girl!! Beauty comes from within, don’t ever forget that. You are a sweetheart!❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️ 💋

The off the shoulder lace was beautiful

I was blown away by how beautiful the borrowed dress was! Aesthetically that had to be the choice! But I understand that it might have been important for her to separate herself from her mom on this decision

As soon as I saw the friend I knew she wouldn't pick her mother's dress. The friend wasn't feeling it and it showed in her words and attitude. She described what she wanted and got it, she looked how she imagined she would, she spun around in it and smiled from ear to ear. I hope they buy both, because she may change her mind. Like everyone said, wear one to the ceremony and another one to the reception

She made the wrong choice; a wedding is not a “sexy” event. A marriage is a forever commitment between the husband and the wife but it ALSO combines families. Carly’s grandmother chose Carly’s mother’s wedding dress. This beautifully re-fashioned gown retains essential elements of the original dress and would be a way to include her deceased grandmother in the wedding. If she wants her husband to cry as she walks up the aisle, this would be the right choice. I, too, hope she re-considers. Here’s a thought. She could be married in the elegant gown (which cost less than 1K in alterations) and buy the new gown for her reception and party. A win-win!

One dress for the wedding and her mom's for the rehearsal dinner.

"This is the hardest decision that I'm ever going to have to make." Oh, honey...

She could have worn the borrowed one for the ceremony and the new one for the reception (if thats an option) She looked classically beautiful in the borrowed one. Also, hate the idea of cutting up vintage dresses, and just attaching a piece of it to a new one and call it "borrowed". In this case, the old dress got cut up for no reason.

Can she just keep both 😭🥺💜

This seamstress is magic, great what she made of the old fashioned dress

The something new is beautiful but similar to many brides the something borrowed is so unique. What a bummer.

That custom made dress is gorgeous and sentimental.

I agree with the other commenters that said mom's dress for the ceremony and the new dress for the reception.

I love off-the-shoulder styles

The borrowed was beautiful. A slimmed down skirt would fit more into what she wanted.

I was so lucky my mother in law had her dress and let me use it. I didn't change a thing. Except I wore a hat with the most beautiful Amish dress. No buttons.

Sweet family, and I did cry when she came out in her choice.

I love the new dress and it did make her cry even tho the borrowed one came out beautifully

Her mother's renovated dress was WAY more beautiful, flattering and had actual history and sentimental value. Idc, she made the wrong choice.

the remade dress was beautiful. I think she should be worn both. I would've worked my ass off to make sure I had money for both! 😂

The borrowed dress looked more bridal to me, the new dress more red carpet, but both were beautiful and she would look stunning no matter which she chose. ❤

The borrowed dress was stunning. Maybe her friend should have butted out.

The designer is a genius👍🏻

I can’t believe her mother’s dress was destroyed for nothing. Even if she didn’t want to wear it, it’s a piece of history that should have been preserved. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and desires, but I’ve never understood why people insist on altering beautiful pieces of history. They should just make entirely new gowns based off the old ones while preserving the vintage dress.

I would never let them cut up the dress. I didn't like the 1st dress she put on but I did like the remake. she made the wrong choice

My daughter wore that dress 22 tyrs ago without the ruffles and train.

Her mom is just so darn pure ❤

I loved the old dress made new

Sentimentality or not - she has a right to her OWN dress - like her mother did - and not feel bullied and emotionally blackmailed into it - I can never understand mothers like this - you had your moment - Let your daughter have her dream come true

Oh, she chose something that's ordinary. It's just something other brides would choose. The remade dress is SO BEAUTIFUL, yet it has the sentimental value that the other dress doesn't have.

Is this show still on? I loved it

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Wow, magical💖

NONE of the dresses were Liberace, Great Gatsby (or perhaps not very much), or Marie Antoinette.

I wish I’d thought of this with my wedding dress

Wrong choice 😕

It's too bad they couldn't do both, but I'm glad she picked what she wanted. That first big decision as a woman. ❤

I like the new dress. Personally i liked her mum's dress in its original form and not the redone one even though i wouldn't personally want to wear the original style. Too 80s lol