People tend to misunderstand the actual point of no-fap. It's not about going long streaks without fapping, but rather putting your focus on actually important life things, which in return reduces the amount of time you spend fapping. I've noticed the more occupied i am with things, the less likely I am to perform this heinous act.
@@Ruminatr Shit say all that you want, you went two weeks sometimes and 3 months sometimes right? good shit, that's good, who cares if you didin't become god from doing a 10 year streak
Exactly. However, as much as it's mostly how often you fap that's impartant rater than the lenght of the streak, the lenght of the streak is also important if you want to reach certain benefits that only come over time. For example, you will feel a rise of energy after about a week, and a second rise in energy and endurance after about a month. So you need to hae that streak if you want to benefit from those extra levels of energy, especially if you're an athlete before an important competition. I did about 40 days before my last big event, and in that situation keeping my streak was really important.
@@Ruminatr As long as you're not watching porn, addicted or incessantly jacking off every day you're golden mate. Streaks are the least of concern here you should just be focusing on actual gains; minimising procrastination and reducing adverse effects of indulgence.
This video has changed my life, I was very addicted to watching porn but ever since I watched your video it has changed my perspective on no cap. Instead of counting the days and looking at it as a streak, rather instead fill my time with the more important things. I appreciate your video. Anyone who is reading this message hope we all can recover and get on the right path.
Just like to say, although you were a bit questionable at first, the general idea was amazing, this is the kind of stuff people need to hear. Btw this is closely related to the story of the two smokers which is an idea in psychology
u clearly have some maturity in this subject this is good content bro. the idea you have of yourself is EVERYTHING. its literally the reason i was able to go 2 weeks a month ago now
This was really insightful, and kind of hilarious as well as someone who has gone through a similar experience. Especially the part about orienting your life around NoFap. Good stuff bro
Men vary. Do whatever works for you to get you to where you want to be. Personally, I needed the challenge of a long streak to keep me motivated. I did 90 days and resumed. A couple of weeks later, I wanted to begin again. By about day 50-60 I extended my goal to a year. On day 370, I threw in the towel and settled into low-fap. For the next two years, I kept it to a minimum, but I still chose to do occasional streaks of 1-3 months. Eventually, I realized that what I wanted most was to eliminate release altogether, so I embraced it. At that point, it was easier than I ever imagined. Now, 5½ years later, I've never felt more masculine, and I don't expect to go back.
@@Platinumquotes-rb4wd As I said, on my second serious streak, at about 50-60 days, I was inspired to extend my goal. I had build enough momentum toward extreme retention that I wanted to see if I could do a whole year. By about four months in, I had no doubt that I could do it, and I did. Through the following two years of mixed practices (as to releasing and not releasing), I realized more fully than ever that nothing was quite as satisfying as semen retention. That's when I finally (and enthusiastically) decided to go permanently celibate. I've never regretted my decision. If I had, I could fap at any time, but I haven't.
Hi bro, great video. I never had problems with girls and all my life was called cute or handsome but I still had no confidence to approach girls and make it happen, they would show me interest and call me cute but as soon as they find out I had no confidence it would be over for me. What helped me is I joined the gym got my body muscular and in the process I gained confidence talking to girls more on daily basis, not hitting on them but just talking and not caring about the outcome and that turns them on even more, but what NOFAP has done to me it thought me SEXUAL DISCIPLINE. I dont look at every girls ass on the street anymore cause it dont bother me anymore and when I talk to really HOT girl her looks or their fat ass, big boobs, do not bother me anymore no fap made me numb to these things. Of course I like hot girls no doubt but NOFAP made me stronger and its under control now in a way that I can talk to a pretty girl and not blush all the time or lust about how she hot and they get sooo confused like why are you not acting like other guys do around me?? why are you not excited about my pretty face and big ass? They dont say it like that but they try it even harder like some girls will sit on your lap just to see what you gonna do and if you act all nonchalant not putting your hands all over her she cant figure out whats wrong lol Cause 5 years ago I was so shy around hot girls, blushing all the time thinking they are something special but now a days it means nothing to me, I ask them what else is special about you ?? and girls who see the guy dont want them for their body they immediately want to give you her body just cause you dont care it confuses them like what you dont want me? Yes I do but I can control myself babe so it dont bother me.
When results of gym and NOFAP started to show off I first noticed at my work place where certain good looking girls/women didn't bother me anymore I stopped blushing around them and was talking to them just like to any other human being and then when I placed myself in a social situations outside work and see other guys get excited around baddies and me just talking to them like they regular people thats when I started to date girls that are 8s and 9s. once you dont care about their boobs or ass is when they want it to give it to you the most
This is actually a good point, honestly I feel like your story for NOFAP is kind of facts. Like there is no shame if someone NOFAPS, but personally to the person that does it. You turn out way more confidence. Because a man does it so much, it's like I don't really care about the girl. It's more like, I just wanna try to either be friends or get to know her better other then trying to get with her if that makes any sense. But this video, I totally understand where he's coming from.
I'm only asking out a girl once, and once she says no, I'm onto the next. I don't give girls my attention unless she agrees to go out on the date with me, my attention is much more valuable than that. If I wanted to talk to people like their friends, I would just talk to guys.
By Gods grace and help ws are all trying to overcome these things.Its not easy its fine when you have a nicegirlfriend or even more so a nice lovely wife.So lets not be too hard on our selvfes.Keep pressing on.
Nofap is BS but the idea in this video is gold. We get so obsessed with self-improvement that we end up focusing on the wrong things and achieving zero results. Focus on the end, not the means.
i just gave up my 374 days streak of no fap, i just did it, i said to myself that i'll do this and see what'll happen, by then i felt peaceful because i just gave up the urge i've been holding on for 1 year, i just felt peaceful no regrets, just being happy, no fap is not all about the streaks you've made but instead it's about the essence of not becoming that person again who watches corn and bust nut every single day, close to becoming a zombie, just forget about the streaks, and remember that you have more important things to do in life, not just in no fap journey.
@@elbert3987it's ok to relapse. The nofap community is a cult and act like it will fix your life. Trust me it won't. Ejaculation is like releasing pressure, like popping, peeing, and hunger. It's ok to do it 3 times a week it just means you have a high sex drive.
I kinda agree, some of the nofap community have guilted themselves for their sexuality too much. It can be a source of issue for some men though; some people are addicted to jacking off and it prevents them from attending to their commitments so there is some merit to nofap. Just dont shame yourselves for being sexual guys, we are human, just dont be creepy and indulge sensibly, that is my advice.
@@Shellboy11thank you for mentioning the source of issue. i joined no fap bcs i find fapping started ruining my life, i get easily tired and all. When i was a kid, i bear my in my mind that fapping is normal and i got addicted. I tried different methods of no fap but all didn't help and made me more regretful when i relapse. this was just my experience but it may be different from other poeple
Nofap does not ruin your life dude, stop blaming Nofap, you ruined your life, you are responsible for your actions, Ive never heard of anyone talk bad about nofap, there is no health benifits to porn dude, Im sick of people saying nofap "ruined" my life bullshit. Clickbait title bro come on
His point is that doing Nofap is not the goal, it's a tool to achieve a goal, but people who start nofap get so caught in counting streaks that it has the opposite effect. If they relapse once, the will also relaps the next day because they're on day 0 anyway.
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Dont really see much point to going for long streaks anyway. Once made it to 6 months when I was 17 but could never get past 2 weeks at 18 yo The problem is that once i got to the 1 week + span I would get increasingly horny and at 2 weeks i'd be rock hard non stop, I wouldn't be able to sleep unless I jacked off, sometimes this would jumpstart PMO sessions regrettably. every so often instead i'll stop a few days, i find that works better for me and also cutting out porn is beneficial enough too. Feel like alot of guys discourage themselves too much just for having a healthy sex drive; yeah dont be addicted but dont make it your life either.
Started to read on your reference, it literally says if wife wants sex and becomes pregnant then the child is demon. WTF 💀💀 Bhagavad-gītā 7.11-13 "But the wife was too much agitated. So she obliged the husband to have sex life with her, and after sex life the Kaśyapa Muni said that "Your sons will be demons."
@@FirstNameLastName-uz7gy actual translation BG 7-11 :--"When sexual activity is undertaken only for sensual pleasure and is devoid of any regulative principles, it is considered beastly or animalistic. "
