NOW THAT WE'RE GROWN ENOUGH 

Predators always study their prey

I have friends that are divorce attorneys. A woman is more likely to lose custody when she alleges abuse. Judges tend to believe the woman is making it up and trying to alienate the child. The best thing to do is to call the police during an incident and have him arrested, get a restraining order, and to file (pull money out and get a credit card that he can’t access),

Chile! Funky Dineva says you gonna pay on the front end or pay on the back end but you gonna pay! Ladies have ya own $$$

When his mama took one look at Slim's face and said, "What did you do?" "What did you say?" She was definitely giving I'm scared of my son, but he's still my son energy. I wouldn't be surprised if he was paying all of her bills, just like he told Slim, "The cost of a good life" Jenny didn't have her good moment until Slim gave her instructions to follow, go here with Gracie, and don't leave until I call you. 😂

Also something nobody ever talks about is the lengths he went to hide his friendship w/ the cop. I'm sure once shit got serious w/ slim he had to tell him like "aye bruh, you know you can't come to my wedding right? & she can't know we're friends". For her to never have seen his face again up until he was helping him look for her.

The house sale scene was a huge reg flag

A lot of things were abuse passed down. Our parents don’t even recognize their own abuse by their parents

The Fact That She Can Make Anything Topic I Love Her Content…Bondy Blue Is Winning 🏆

Hey Bondy,my girl Ashley Miller sent me to your channel, and I love your freaking content !!!! I get excited when I see you post. Ashley always shouts you out in her vids !!!! Love you both 😘😘😘😘😘😘

I think a lot of men force affection on women when they’re angry, bc they don’t take our feelings seriously. You can be screaming to the top of your lungs & they’ll think it’s cute. It’s so weird & lowkey insulting. 😭😭😭😭

Bondy can you do Fear with Reese Witherspoon next?

Whew, a "friend" of mine used to always give mfs my number and think it was either funny or I was overreacting for not liking that shtt smh.

Listen, I’m a firm believer in wishing you the worst if you’ve given me your worst. Period!

This is my favorite series of yours! Love how you break down the movies in such depth and then give us useful advice in between ugh just love it!

I’m about to sign me and my daughter up for self defend classes after this…

I always thought that it was set up for her to call her friend and act as if she chickened out so that the friend would call the police to let them know that she was in danger only for them to find Mitch dead hence self defense

Lmao you’re so funny. I’m screaming when you said “He’s not gonna be in Enough 2” Cause I just watched Rush Hour 2 lol. Anyway, I love JLo, idc what anybody says, she’s a great all around ENTERTAINER and this was one of her best performances.

@bondy I had a friend encourage me to take a number from a guy that was trying to talk to me. I took it, but felt something was off..... I called him at 1am, I could hear this man backflip out the bed😂. He whispered hello, what's going on!? I said oh not much, you said call anytime. Tell your wife I said hi! 3 weeks later my friend confirmed that one of her other friends told her the guy was married.

@Bondy Blue you should do a video on the movie eye for an eye with Sally Field

I'm going thru the same thing but with NO money and there's not enough resources for those of without a Jupiter I'm waiting to get in a shelter now but theres so many of us and not enough safe shelters for us to go-to it's a waiting game. Im in the hospital because of him and they won't release me until they find me shelter to go to

1:18:40 It was this exact thing that nade my 5yr old, (now 7yr old) not want to talk to his dad anymore. We were on a facetime call and for a moment he was talking to me and then him not knowing my son was back on the call he started hollering and cursing. I don't curse, so my son was shocked and started crying. When i hung up my son said he never wants to speak to him again. And he hasn't ever since! And im not going to force him either. He doesn't even ask about him anymore.

The way you broke downnnn at the end , by not listening to within ( intuition) and going without , How easily you can be swayed and get fed ⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⭐️ yesssssssss

Bondy you should add A Family that Preys to the list

I found it really gross and icky that Ginny basically offers herself to Joe (the former boyfriend), kisses him, and proposes that they sleep together while they are dancing at Slim’s wedding. It takes two to tangle, so obviously, Joe isn’t a saint in this either. But as her friend, why are you even interested in Slim’s former boyfriend. That’s just… creepy. Plenty of other fishes in the sea.

That is true most mothers know exactly how they sons some even encourages it and find it entertaining

Oooh Bondy girl this was good!!! You talked cash money shit on this one…. That wisdom you get by age thirty and seen some things. Everyone is at different levels of understanding. Some folks get it some don’t… it is what it is and can’t be what it ain’t. Great show 💙Bondy💙

Your work is not in vain....I see you getting 200K subscribers this year

Bondy it sounds like we damn near had the same dad. And I was the EXACT same with protecting my mom (at the time not realizing that’s what I was doing) but my presence used to curb the anger/arguing. My dad was def a good n bad example. When I look at him as a father, he was present, he cared about n for us abs loved us… but as a husband to my mom? He was HORRENDOUS! He was physically abusive to her early on in their relationship but my mom flipped on him n started fighting back (because she didn’t want me raised seeing her be abused) so by the time I can remember, their arguments were no longer physical, but they were verbally abusive to one another. Their arguments were UGLY (n my dad was definitely the aggressor in them). But like I said, he was there as a father, he never put his hands on us. N now that both of my parents r passed, I had to end up working thru n coming to terms with the decisions they made n how they affected me in therapy. It was hard, but I did the work n am on the other side now thank God. So I know exactly what u mean when u talk about doing the work to get thru that trauma. And that even though my dad wasn’t the best husband, I still had a very present father (raised in a two parent household) but it was a toxic environment because frfr my parents should’ve BEEN broke up, but they didn’t n stayed together until my dad passed. N I used to hold resentment towards my mom for staying, but then I had to look at her background n upbringing, n she was just doing what she thought was best by keeping us altogether. That’s how I was able to forgive both of them, when I looked at their upbringing, my parents honestly did an AMAZING job considering where they came from…

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I could listen to your view on religion for hours! Omg I agree sooo much. When I look at documentaries about religion and cults and the bottom line is they convince you to be grateful for absolutely nothing, so they can continue to give you nothing. And if you question the nothing you’re given, you’re the bad guy & how dare you. And when you do get little things attribute it to god or something else, discount all of the work you did to get it. It’s wild. But it DEFINITELY works.

I absolutely loved this review, and also a big Jlo fan myself, I still listen to a lot of her early music. And you were absolutely correct about all the red flags in this movie. I had two ex bf's who would give me those red flags, the first one tried to cheat on me and so I left before he could so when we broken up and guys liked me, he started threatening to hit me. I never went back after that. Another ex of mines use to joke around about punching me in the face and I found out around the sametime that he got into a fist fight with a racist woman on his job. He would blame me for feeling scared about things so I broke it off with him too, but long story short im glad I left those situations before they got worse, even though people made it seem as if I was wrong for leaving. Women need to know when its time to leave and discontinue with men who have red flags. Lovely review Bondy, and I hope you enjoy your trip to beautiful Africa 😊🌍🇬🇭

Also in abusive homes the kids grow up to be abusive or thinking that the behavior is normal and how relationships go I myself thought physically fighting was OK and most of the way solve problems instead of dealing with their emotions and feelings because they don't know any other way

I love this movie.. It got so much hate back in the day..but to me it represents triumph ultimately, despite making the wrong decisions along the way, slim got it right and protected herself and her baby..

The movie Enough ain’t nothing but “Sleeping with the Enemy” baby 😂 Love your reviews!

This is my favorite movies by Jennifer Lopez

Guh you had me listening like i never saw the movie!! 😂😂 Sound effects and all, i was at the edge of my seat!!

I just Love Bondy. CUTE... Funny...And so Wise and Logical. My fav RU-vidr. Love Ya Bondy 💙 Btw..Enough is One of my Movies!!

I haven't watched this movie in years!! I literally can't . The scene where she was running with her daughter to catch the bus or when the little girl was crying omg 🥺🥺😥 it makes my chest hurt... Still loving the NTWG videos!! 🤞🏿🤞🏿 We get The Brothers in the future!!!

I just got out of an abusive relationship with an older man that ended with me getting a restraining order on him. Every man I knew and met during that time told me after the fact that they thought I knew he was abusive and they knew this was going to happen because he does this with all women. One of the men that told me that was someone I held in regard, a state trooper that I was close to months before I even met my abuser. It was 2 months ago and I wake up in cold sweats sometimes and shame myself for running to save my life. Not one single man, and there were many, warned or checked on me after.

I feel like the complaints people had about Fifty Shades of Grey is because they've seen this movie. Realistically his personality in that movie fits the personalities of the husband in this movie.

Love your now that we’re grown have you ever watched free way with Reese Witherspoon and Kiefer, Sutherland, that shit is wild!!!! that was one of her underestimated movies. I’ve never seen her play a role like that.

Same Bondy. My fave movies as a kid was Whats Love Gotta Do With It and idk what that was about lol

You doing the come on has me crying 😂

I cannot believe we (you) haven’t done Save The Last Dance yet 😮😍😆 I’ll have to make the suggestion in the next NTWG live. 😘😘😘 Love you Bondy 💙

Another red flag was when she had the baby and asked him to let her see their new baby and he wouldn't give the baby to her when she asked him to. He just ignored her.

Yes I hate that to force affection shit 😡🤬

Does anyone know what Jupiter does for a living in the movie? I know he was wealthy but I don’t think they ever disclosed his profession. I’m also curious to know where his office was filmed? Because I really liked the artwork and the murals on his walls. Edited to add: It took me forever to find the information, but I finally figured it out. Jupiter was a Venture Capitalist. I couldn’t find where the interior shots were filmed, but the outer shots of the building is located at: 1100 Montgomery Street San Francisco, California 94133 (The steps where Slim and Gracie are sitting at, where Gracie is telling her not to cry, is next to the building as well. For those who enjoy visiting filming locations!)

Another great NTWG! Always love your commentary Bondy 💙

I gotta rewatch bc it's been a while since I've watched enough

woo! I hate forced affection

I never thought- that we never knew her real name! Looking to hear your commentary on this movie! Thanks for sharing your personal story, again! I love your Now That Will Grown movies commentary!!

Replay gang 💙💙💙 This was too good!

Another fav movie Bondy!!!!

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This was sooo good bondy! Well done!

The way I be running to these NTWG

Ummm no ty I love the long ntwg videos they don't feel rushed!!!

Want to give you a hug Bondy! Big 💕 sis!

Love this review 🔥

I doubt you’re gonna see this but Bondy you should definitely cover the movie Obsessed with Beyoncé and idris Elba

Replay gang💙 This my movie 🎬

This was amazing Bondy. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I pray for your continued healing and growth. You rock queen.

This was one of my favorite movies. I knew that I was going to love the NTWG review! Loved this. Thank you👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Love your reviews🥰 You may not have wanted to review this but it’s giving, the Universe needed you to. Hence your realization. There’s no coincidences. I swear the Universe be sounding like Diddy sometimes… “Take that, take that “😁 IMHO

I like this series. Get recap. J need to go back and watch the movie. Thank you for sharing your personal journey.

OMG Bondy i said the same exact thing about the tree of knowledge in the bible ! I was having a conversation with my parents and they tried to explain it away like I was crazy and i'm like no that makes no sense! First off you put it there and say don't touch it but the tree gives you knowledge why don't you want me to know anything????

Great review like always. What about Now and Then.

Loved your commentary on this movie! Can't wait for the next movie review!❤❤

This is one of my moms favorite movies because her parents used to fight. My grandma left my grandpa and divorced him. This movie is one of Jlo’s best films! Thanks for covering it 💙

Just saw this, took me a minute to watch, cause it triggered me as well!! Even though I’m closer to your mom’s age than yours, single, pick me mama growing up, but I thank you for the way you broke everything down! Much love ❤️

Another good movie with JLO, Morgan Freeman and Robert Redford is "An Unfinished Life".

“Come get some, nih” 😅😅😅😅

You remind me of 90s jada so much 😂 I love you so much ❤

Men are exhausting!

So true: faith, what you believe in, and if it worth it! Like the part at 1:56:23. Overall love it, to pieces. I will be ooking thru the playlist to see which ones that I missed!

i went through a domestic. Moved did everything I needed to do. Had the no-contact order and everything. The courts chose to dismiss the case 6 months later and dropped the no contact order without even speaking with me or even having a court hearing. Iowa is only a mother state when i comes to money (stamps, health, child care, child support)

Hey bondy can you do madea's big happy family?

Can you please do Boyz N Tha Hood

I'm doing a rewatch after the video of diddy beating Cassie was released ... and because he's a coward..wow 😮‍💨

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I love this review!!

Hey!!! Bondy can do now that we are grown on a movie called (Carbon Copy) with Denzel Washington

Hi bondy can you please do a NTGW video on kiss the girls movie ?

Awe please dont cut them up I enjoy all think details

Bondy I request you do this movie bc I knew you would give great commentary. However, I DO NOT WANT YOU TO DO ANYMORE MOVIES THAT TRIGGER YOU. Although I’m 10yrs older than you and wasn’t raised by my mother or father our childhood’s traumas are similar. So do OZ, Friday, She’s Gotta Have it or Trios and shout out Kenya Moore

Oh, do not forget the time when a woman’s family fortune went to her husband. Leaving her totally depending on him. 💖🌟💖

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Jenny had one boy and one girl. I wonder what happened to Darcel.

I voted for Hav Plenty chileeee 🌚🌚🌚

I agree alot with what you say but women that expects for a man to provide, doesn't mean that she doesn't have income, it is to equal the playing field. As long as a woman is expected yo contribute 100 percent the home, I don't believe that she should also pay 50 percent of the bills.

Mitch was a malignant narcissist

That movie was good yet triggering.

Well it's great you're not in the Justice System, I Think!

This used to be my shit and why????? 😂

That one particular white man that ripped the couch open had always scared me he scared me when he was on charmed as the demon of Alcatraz scared me when he was on law and order svu as Abraham the child rapist and on here

Hitting the mother, is abusing the child.

This is why I hate religion they never tell the story right. There were 2 trees, not 1. The tree of knowledge and the tree of good and evil, eve ate from the tree of good and evil