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I’m 51 and still turn heads...no matter the race. I don’t compete, but I don’t give any woman room either. lol. I work out regularly, eat mostly plant-based foods, and keep all of my doctor, dentist, dermatologist, hair, spa, mani, pedi and personal care appointments. I keep my drinking to a minimum (preserves the skin) and I sleep no less than 7-8 hours a night (key to beauty). I take luxurious baths with salts that make my skin glow. Best thing is I’ve educated myself on the finer things in life, I’m smart and know how to keep up with current events without having to lead the conversation. I listen twice as much as I speak and I’ve learned the art of seduction. Hell, I was engaged three times before I was 35...each man proposing within 6 months of dating. I work as an C-suite executive assistant which gives me access to the best restaurants, wineries, private clubs and venues globally...and that’s where the men holding the bag are. Best of all, I get to chime in on this platform and listen in, because you’re never too old to learn.
Viv - Never ever put your dreams and desires in a bottle and put on the back shelf. It’s really how you see yourself...and how you see yourself is how others will see you. My journey stayed in my 20s, but I lost part of me when I got married. I won’t say my ex was the “wrong” man because he was what I consider my Master Teacher, providing an experience I needed to become the woman I am today. Those life lessons taught me to Know Self, Love Self and ultimately Heal Self. I made the decision to do the work in order to attract the men who reflected the love I have for ME. So, the nails, eyelashes, hair, spa appointments are not just frivolous luxuries I provide for myself, they are external symbols of how I feel internally. Blessings, sister. ❤️
My cousin is 46 and married a 28 year old who begged her to married him. He bought her a $12,000 engagement ring and adopted her son. He has a business and said that he doesn't want her to pay for anything. She refused to marry him for 3 years because of his age. He says that she was meant for him and that he got her that expensive ring so that when men look at her, they will know that they will have to top that ring.
The Crypto Connoisseur I understand her being hesitant, I’m 41 years old and these 20 year olds won’t leave me alone. Had a 20 year old hit on me this evening! 😂
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Girl I got a fierce haircut and joined not ☝ but ✌gyms! I aint playing in fortunate enough that my face ages well and I look late 20s vs late 30s. I'm headed to DR nxt yr as a bday gift to get snatched and carved down! No I don't wanna look 20ish I am a mother so I wanna be a MILF!!! No I don't want marriage I'm over it I just wanna travel good, eat better, check the bucket list and live lavish and carefree. You right we got this. Hell we need a FB for women our age with serious goals 35-thrivin-n-vibin 40-fine-n-fit something LOL
I have just turned 25 and I have been with a dusty from a rich family for the whole of my early twenties - still building him up just because he is a nice guy. This is a wake up call!!!!
I’m 40 now and look better than ever nowadays. I say that because when I was younger, I was insecure and didn’t know my worth...confidence and a lot of self keep up works!
I'm older age wise. My man bought me a home and I got a new car yesterday. I've been in my home for 3 yrs. I don't pay any bills. I work outside the home and the money I make I use to keep myself up. I rarely see women in their 30's be able to hang with me. My daughter is 30 and people's mouths drop to the floor when she calls me mom. We look like sisters.
I recently turned 60!!! I can’t tell you how many times, I get the side eye look from much younger women. I really want to tell these ladies, I’m old enough to be your momma. Most people think that my 31 year old son is my man. I don’t like to toot my own horn but God had blessed me with GREAT genes!!! I definitely got it going on!!!
Girl, I'm 37 and someone asked me if I'm in high school or university the other day.....and these men trying to scare us with a wall ahahaha (I'm very pale white woman also so I'm supossed to age faster too)
Wow @anka6356 well you’re doing something right to be mistaken for a teen at 37! These loser guys talking about women hitting a wall are just trying to lower women’s self esteem so we’ll give it up easier. No thanks! Stick with provider men who can elevate your lifestyle!
I am 71 and still can get men. I have good skin look younger than woman 20 yrs younger. Stay out of the sun. I have had 40 yr old men ask me out. Trust me if your a women there will always be some man wanting you. So young lady you take care of yourself and at my age oh and you will be there some day then you can brag on.
I believe you Barbara. My Great Aunt got remarried in her 60's and she outlived the guy and I think he was younger than her. He died a couple of years ago. She's in her 80's now. She is definitely a level up lady. She's always put together, clothes, hair, makeup, nails.
@Mortal Silence your comprehension skeelz are a lol special. Cos THAT'S not what she said about 20 year old. Call to action, re-read & alter your response.
Just by acting femmine and taking care of your looks, older ladies can level up. You should hear the pickme, 50/50 crap these young girls are spewing these days. I listen to them at work. It's awful the things they believe.
if they only have an affair with one fucc boy its fine , not enough to be damage for good.But , if you keep having relationship with fucc boys you will grow bagagge emotionnaly wich is not neccassary.Theres enough burden being a women / black women. :(
So glad I'm black and a woman who has always taken extra great care of myself. I'm 57 and can stand next to women half my age and some them still can't hold a candle to me. I keep myself done up from head to toe. Younger men, older men, all colors still run after me. I am blessed, I have confidence and I can hold my own. I love being pampered by all of them though.
You and I are the same age am 57,just had a younger man of 34,trying to get with me he was very handsome and smart,but he had too many,many,on his Facebook page acting like desperate hoes,with him it was so out of hand I had to remove myself off his page too many women's after one man it's so sad,out here in this world just didn't want know parts of it at all I can't,do stress,at my age I love myself after my divorce I'm straight on other ppl mess.lol
Im a bit disappointed with myself that i didnt learn this much younger, I used to be a pickmesha and had very low self esteem from abusive relationship.s i only started learning this at 26 ( legit 1 month before my bday) haha now im 27 i hope its not too late. thank you shera for the GEM!!!
I’m a 25 year old black male and I feel similar from a male standpoint. We are not educated and prepared enough to truly thrive in life particularly when it comes to relationships. You are young trust me there are 50 year old women who don’t know what you know. I know a woman that 53 5 kids by 4 guys and told me her goal was to get married by 50 at age 48. She still isn’t married and doesn’t want to date and marry a 65 year old man the men that would take her she wants a fit 45 year old man or 35 year old. Not likely to happen. Age is the ultimate equalizer in life. Best of luck to you.
Of course, they love younger because they are naive. About the fertility issue Red Pill and MGTOW spread on the net, it's not an absolute Truth because many men do not want to procreate at all. It's all about looks and lust to feed their dopamine needs. That's all.
@katter hindu A lot of people fail to realize that falling in love and staying in love is a CHOICE and it takes work. I learned this in premarital counseling okaayyyy.
Well she does have a lot in common with B, they both drink their jewelry . They both feed their babies liquid gold and they both can upgrade him. The crowd will go apeshit...lol oh let's not forget they are both martians lol
Thanks SheRaSeven 1!! This is so true....I've been blessed with good genes, work out and take care of myself. My twenty year old daughter gets a kick out of men flirting with me. Even though younger men approach often... I prefer older distinguished gentlemen. You know you're bringing the fire when you are still getting stares when you enter the room. Honestly, I'm loving my age....no health issues, only take vitamins. The next time you have a talk for the men....please tell them hygiene is very important! Geesh!!
Although you cannot turn back the clock, I believe age is a mentality. If I feel old, I will look it. That’s why when folks say 30’s is old, I laugh. If a woman keeps herself up, especially if she has melanin, she can look much younger. I never let societal pressures from men tell me about age and hitting the wall nonsense. If we stay in the gym, eat right, sleep well, stay away from smoke and excessive drinking/partying and keep up a beauty regime, you’re fine. I see folks much younger looking tore up from the floor up. It’s all about self care imho
Funny thing is, when they say 30 is old just for women, well time goes by for them too. The younger women that they want to date when they are 50 or 60 will look at them only if they have money to spend🤑💵💰 on otherwise it is a lost battle and they know that. They are bitter for a reason, uh!
Exactly! 30s is not old, that's insane. How can you be old if you just left your twenties less than a decade ago? Lmao smh And I agree with everything you said!
It also depends on the woman when she had her puberty, some women have it later at 15 and tend to have more eggs that automatically leads them to stay young for longer, there are women who get their period until 60 or even beyond 70, also depends on the diet @@kamariatoure42
Honey, I'm 72 and I don't wear makeup. I can walk with a book on my head. I have a really nice body but I don't like to sleep around with guys, because of how I was raised by my crazy mother. All that hits on me are guys 45 years old. But I still need your advice. I thought about doing that myself lying about my age. I was 10 years older than my second husband and he was mistaken for my dad. He was so jealous of me . I sold him my home and moved off after the death of my Son. Thank you
The 90s supermodels were my feminine role models Naomi Claudia Christy Cindy were all so feminine! I'm cracking up remembering that I wore boys Levi's tho 😂
Some men over 55 y old once they had their middle life crises and tried dating younger women realised that they can not keep up with them and prefer a woman closer to their age as they fit better in their friends and family circle. Plus they have more in common to talk about and also acquired wisdom . So ladies , as Shera says as long you look good , take care of self and have youthful attitude you will be attractive to men .
This is not true for all of us, sorry lol... I'm 43 my man is 31 , young men stay chasing. I'm don't have money, he takes Care of me and my children. Just love yourself , you can have who ever you want.
Yes im 43 too and plenty of man around 30 wanting me. There as a study, today man accept woman to a relationship till around 10 years older, they dont care anymore about age.
I (44) do work hard, make up, concealer, body wraps, hair n nails, femininity, but I've always kept myself up so it's second nature to me. Although, I have noticed my make-up bag grows with my age. Haha! True story 😁
I've been told I'm young energy. I look ok too... Honestly, I was a sheltered housewife for so long. I'm finally living, learning, going to school. Maybe that is working in my favor. Along with the fact that I'm clumsy and giggly. IDK, but I've been fortunate... and the first thing I tell men is: I'm not cheap or easy✋
My mom always had a man even in her mid 60s. Our younger male friends always loved talking to her, in spite of her somewhat ordinary appearance they gravitated to her.
My brother and his friends love older women, I mean love them. My mom has had a strong dating life since 35 plus. She is 62 now and she dates more then me. Also black don't crack so she looks in her 30s. And she has a very youthful spirit.
A POT started showing me pictures of his cats and nephew yesterday at the pool...😂😂 He really love cats so you know what that means...I have a pet cat now lol
I'm 52 & still get carded I don't wear makeup but on occasions have flawless skin all men approach me & I have 5 grown children 🎶 I'm JUST getting things positivlely POPPIN it's my turn dawgggg💥
but some of us act and look almost 20 years younger than what we really are and bag men 10 years younger than us that spoil and marry us. so there's that too. call it a rare thing if it helps but it is super possible. I'm a witness. And I keep it exotic, fun, and classy.
It took a long time of watching your videos, but I finally subscribed. I t was an internal struggle between what I've seen and been taught. I'm reprogramming. I ask men for money without feeling guilty or like I've failed if I have to ask for help. That's crazy when I look back. I got a free pair of heels at the mall so I'll keep this up. I'm understanding that its all about perception. No one cares what I believe in. I think it's ridiculous to buy expensive things but it does say something about a person... Thanks for sharing your knowledge.
Sorry catching up on my videos and this is gold. I am 65 and took this photo today Feb 2020. I still get the bag, keep a great figure, and turn heads of men 45. My son is 43 so ladies...check your attitude, be fun, change the makeup, be flexible in your life. Do not go outside look ratchet. Still maintain being leveled-up and see the rest of the Shera's videos to remind yourself. I am financially secure, so getting "the bag" is more fun than ever when the older guys look ancient and we are actually closer in age but I'm the prize that looks younger. Long live heels, dresses, and makeup.
I'm 51, slim & don't have to do extra, I barley wear any makeup. Young & old guys run after me. I don't need to compete with younger folks, Age is nothing but a number!
I recently discovered your channel after feeling like I needed to "level up" and become more feminine. I married a man who is 10 years younger than me, and you are absolutely spot-on. I am 40yrs old and I work hard to maintain my appearance, even though I'm married. I know the better I become, the more my husband will give me. Thank you for your channel - I appreciate the valuable content.
I dated a lot of older man and they can get it up just like a young man probably even better and they do know how to love better because they are more seasoned
Another one *as DJ Kaleed would say. At 42, this video touched my heart lol. I sound younger and look at least 10-12 years younger so at least I'm good on that. You're right about the old sounding voice and outdated hairstyles. Sometimes I see older women wearing the same style they wore in their prime and they look ridiculous lol.
Thank you so much for your time. I’m 47 and don’t feel my age. I searching for tarot reading and came across your channel, I’m so glad I did as I am looking for a change
Im gonna be 35 this November but I was told i look like 22 year old even this morning by my coworker, she's 55(I work in hospital, I'm a nurse).. Im very conscious about my health.. I make sure at least one meal of my day is 100% raw vegan. I spend on skincare more than make up..I only use Clarins, Lise watier, poche rosay, Este lauder and some of the vegan brands etc etc.. i never go for all those walmart skincare and make up.. The foundation I use costs $64.. i know there are lots of ppl using expensive stuffs than i use. The reason why I said is any young girls out there start investing on your skin, body and health. Its worth it
I disagree with James. I’m 54 and full of energy. Don’t look my age at all. Always looking for a new adventure. Thus my love of travel. Men that I attract are between the ages of 32-45 and very lucrative. Entertainment area, engineers and business executives. They say they like older woman because they don’t do the drama game. I’ve been treated to private jets, luxury hotels and shopping sprees. So I guess it depends on the individual.
Lol! Atlanta house wife's doesn't have nothing on you... you are real and funny, you and James are to the point no games! I'll definitely be teaching my daughter and grandaughters. 😘
41 years young and I’m in the gym 4-5 days a week! My hair is always done and I take care of my appearance. Had a 20 year old hit on my today, you tell no lies!
Im 37 and i turn heads like crazy even though i think im just alright but not baddd...i attract alot of younger men from 20 and up...so i guess i still have it..😀
I believe Meghan Markle loves Harry!! - But, nothing wrong with researching and BEING who that man wants. She deserved to get what she wanted in life. Harry benefited from that because he didn't end up with one of those bird-looking British girls who were groomed from birth to chase down a royal. You think Harry didn't know Meghan had game?? Harry was a straight up player. He knew it and Loved it!! He made that girl a Duchess. Good boy! She earned it. - Kate did the same thing on Big Willy. Now, look....she's future Queen. Those boys are like their mom. They know what's up and chose who Chose them! lol I love it!
Harry is a dumb if he thinks he benefits anything by marrying Meghan. The only one benefitting here is Meghan. He's lucky the crown will go any length to protect it's own.
I absolutely love this advice. I feel like this is for a woman serious about getting the best out of life. She's saying a woman over 35 can absolutely win hands down..all she's saying is here are some tools to win! I'm taking notes and saying thank you. LOOKS ABSOLUTELY matter to men. Ex: a man was stalking me at the grocery store because looks, he told me that he just moved to my city with his wife because they have a successful business that is going well...think about it she's probably comfortable and excited thinking they are a mature couple now and what matters is their success together. He literally still cares how a woman looks. Ex.. A cheer leader outfit may sound cheesy to us like we're past that..a man is never past it...so never let that part of yourself go in fact do more towards your looks and WIN!!!! always. This video is the opposite of a put down Shera clearly wants us to win. Being into your looks like you probably did as a teenager should actually increase not die!!!
My God you just keep leveling up... such a long way from your old videos. You walk the talk and speak wisdom. James was right about older ladies when he started dating you... good to know
Lol "In this day and age there's too many beauty products out there to be walking around looking ugly" ! Funny but true, I'm 33...gotta step it up, tho!
I purchased a lil makeup while watching this. I'm not at the wall yet, but I'm preparing myself NOW lol! And experimenting with makeup is so fuuuunnnnnnnnnnnn! Stay ready so you aint gotta get ready! Best of luck and many money bag$ to you ladie$!
I just love you Sista, your personality is just as beautiful as you are. We're gonna get a ladies club together and send for you to come speak to a group of ladies! This if just beautiful, sharing this info because you are so right. Also this info should be passed down by women in the family but often it's not.So thank you.
I'm sixty-one listening to this. Actually I'll be 61 tomorrow. Just brushed off a 61-year-old Dusty. Every time he asked me something I said no. I'm so proud of myself cuz I truly don't want to be bothered. Know if you really wanted to spend some time with me and see me you would have taken me out on my birthday tomorrow instead of saying I'm going fishing on your birthday tomorrow. Po thing they just don't get it. I do not want to be bothered!
Love, the reverse psychology, it works in all situations with out stressing you out. Older, women occasionally make mistakes about going after men way to young for them, that want to get married. Younger, men are fun to have a good time with if that is what you are looking for, but if you are 60 do not expect to be invited to your 21 yr old's boyfriend's families house for Thanksgiving dinner or like you because they kinda of know you will not give them grandchildren. Time, is important when you get past thirty, so it is important to figure out what you want and what you do not. K. , dating and getting spoiled is great, but if you want that and commitment you have to figure out what type of man will want to share your goal whether that be marriage or just a few male companions. The dating pool is smaller when you get past 30 yrs old, because most of the guys between 30-45 yrs old if they are descent are married or taken. The way to find a man is to know what you want, go older by 10 plus yrs, date outside y race. religion, or culture basically think outside y box. lol. Maybe, date younger, but make sure that the younger man does not want babies, has mommy issues or parents are not going to become a problem, or he is not just looking to fill the fetish and then have a girl his age on the side. Plus, if dating younger men they still have to pay for your dinners and more. Remember, " We, have the cookie. lol. Take, care of yself and each other.
The good news is that you don’t need to spend the big bucks on skincare. The only proven anti aging ingredients are 1- retinoic acid (retin-a) which is sold by prescription and doesn’t cost more than 20 bucks ... getting the prescription is really easy . 2- vitamin C in asorbic acid form only (the ordinary sells a vitamin c powder you can mix with your moisturizer, 5 bucks or so. 3- sunscreen every day. Obviously doesn’t reverse aging as the retinol and vit c do by collagen production but it is the number 1 thing you should be doing to prevent aging. Save the bucks for Botox and injections , they can make you look 10 years younger I’m 40, have been taking care of my skin since my twenties, nobody thinks I’m older than 32... most people think I’m late twenties Do yourself a favour and research the skin care ingredients I just mentioned
I'm 58. I recently scheduled some plastic surgery. I look great for my age, just tweeking some areas around my face. Men tell me all the time I have an amazing body. I can't wait to really level up! 💕💕💕
I never thought my age was an issue until I started this level up journey. I feel under pressure. I'm 34. Look 29/30 and never had issues attracting the attention of guys all my life, but now I'm pushing through this next level, corona has got us locked down. More of my time slipping away 😣
@@redkisses4362 no I'm. Scared to do it. Plus I don't see what use there is seen as we can't go on actual dates so I'm in a bit of limbo. Feel like guys are just online for sex
You are killing these blonde looks!!!!!! You look like an Instagram model! Or a very rich kept woman! We just need to send you a ring light to complete the look!!!! 😍😍😍😍
I’m 44 and some young women get jealous of me, I’m not trying to be competition or holler at young men, I always like older then me men. Thanks for the video.
Tell me you did a GRWM for this makeup look. You look better each day. 💕You and Mikki are about to make me spend way too much at Sephora smh And I will say, the blonde totally works with your complexion 👍🏾👍🏾, but you're right about it being inappropriate in nicer environments. lol
I just began listening to your channel. This one is very interesting for me. I'm 58 years young. been divorced for 3.5 yrs after an almost 20 yr marriage. Most people do not believe me when I tell them my age. I have the opposite problem. Younger men are the ones who seek me out. Men my age are normally boring. I love to travel, I enjoy dancing, music etc. I guess I need to figure out where to go to meet more age appropriate men who have and want to do more for the woman they are with. Blessings
I'm 40 and have worked behind the scenes in the entertainment industry so I kept up a lot with trends & have had a few procedures to maintain a youthful body & appearance . The issue is being recently separated from my husband who is 20yrs my senior I'm attracting much younger men is there a way to achieve the same financial security with them or am I going to have to just date men in their 60's like my ex ? I hate being single at this age lol 😂
Ladies, don’t stress about your age. I agree that you have to do more which means invest in yourself...keep yourself healthy and happy and do and buy whatever you need to look, feel and be attractive. But please don’t buy any “You’re too old for love and companionship” garbage. If the average woman lives 84 years that’s a lot of life you still have even if you’re over 40, 50 or even 60. You do NOT need to give up and wait to die. You only need to be realistic about who you will attract. But you know what? Don’t worry about it. Just get out of the house, have fun and meet and attract who you will and for as long as you don’t have a man to love you and treat you well you do this for yourself. Do not let your age hold you back from living a full and happy life. You’re ALWAYS worth it. Relaxed and happy people are more attractive than people who worry a lot.
I’m 31 and poor… til this summer people thought I was 18-20 years old but something happened last 2-3 months don’t know what.. but I’m so afraid of getting older cause of the look but also cause of people have more expectations and I can’t be all that. I’m not successful, I’m not beautiful, I can’t afford new fancy clothes make up hair every 2 months. I don’t have an interesting career etc. is it even possible finding a man in my situation?
Also I don’t understand why I would want a provider if I’m already older and having a career and money on my own? 😅 isn’t the whole point with a provider to not work and get money?
