I agree. My ex wants me to pick up my life with my child to move back to his state not happening. If he wanted to marry me like he says he would do whatever especially while being free with no kids. Allows follow actions not words!
for the women that prefer to live in their own before marriage after a year of dating tell him you don't live with any guy until you are engaged . I would not date nobody longer than 3 to 4 years if they don't propose.
Yes, I do believe that you shouldn't move in with a man until there is a concrete commitment, such as an engagement ring. But, I suggest sleeping over to see how you two work together.
@@ladiiyb i agree. The man knows and will usually drop hints and add you to hi future plans; I would’ve give someone 1-2 years to get engaged/ married. Don’t be like those women that have been gf’s for 10 years
If your man is the same age as you are please be aware that he may initially Act like he wants to provide while you stay home But because he is immature because 30 is immature, he may start feeling resentment for what he offered you. Why? He has not lived long enough to be completely comfortable with who or what He is.
tg1204tgify So true I’m 31 and men my age or a few years older act like teenagers. Many of them still live at home or with family and if they don’t they basically want a second mother who provides sex as well. I need a man in his 40s.
I bet some women end up living with more than l guy and still no marriage!!! Why move in with him anyway?.........You can stay over but live with him permanently without marriage....No ma'am............
That's the type of videos we want. More like marriage types. Some of us don't want to t Go through all this sugar daddy crap. We just want a wealthy husband and be that wife they go for.. pls do more of these
My idiots guide to alchemy came in today I can't put it down, I'll read it right thorough then read it again taking notes ! Thanks for putting me onto it!
I will move in after the proposal. It takes about 2 years to prepare a wedding. I am single until married and I'm not living with a man with the hopes of marriage. Therefore we can get to know each other in a mutual habitat during the engagement. If it does not work out then we can both walk away. I'm not sacrificing my comfort unless marriage is offered.
Everything you say is so true ..I hate the idea that a women is “acting” but Not authentically being herself . It yes I have broken up with many women for not being the type of woman you have described
Also if you want to wait before you move in with a guy before you get married be on your A game . Look good and have him hook on you to the point where he hates when you leave him. Like she said , have your own life and don't be needy. Spending the night with him is cool but that's up to you
Really not sex at all...make him want you so bad that you can negotiate whatever you want within the marriage! Don't give the cow away for free! But this is if you want marriage.
@referral madness I agree. Holding back sex makes him desperate to "possess" you which is what marriage means to a man. But even if he marries you, negotiate your standard of care (in writing) living expenses and lifestyle upkeep to look as good or better than before marriage; cause even after marriage the man gets comfortable because he " owns" you! Men are naturally self centered so he's most pliable and most easily manipulated out of financial care that he will not want to do after you sleep with him a few times.
Nice makeup! You should stick to doing these 30 min videos ! I haven't watched your videos in a while because of it being 2-4 hour long and it being hard to keep up!
Thanks for covering this video topic SheRaSeven! I feel like you've been leaving this segment of your audience out. Some of us want more than just a SD or are already in a relationship that we need help with. There are a ton of topics you can cover that will be helpful. And YES, honey. These shorter videos are better. When we're IN a relationship, we don't have time to watch 3-4 hour long videos. ijs
Lawd…I’ve been following you for almost 2 weeks. We have soo much in common. I’ve been on this game all myself and you are legit official. You are inspiring me to do a RU-vid channel. So sitting back you hit a nerve hunny…you said best advice for a Virgin is to sell it. Story of my life!!! Haha!! I planned that…we need to connect Shera. I thought it was only me that was this Extreme🤑🎈
Wonderful ❤️ but all your advice and videos ARE for getting a husband already, and it works the same way. Didn’t they know LoL , do they want a dusty lol?? You always emphasize getting a high quality man With means who adores and respects us. Which is what we deserve. Do they not want that lol.? I love all your previous marriage/ wife videos I use so many of the tactics you teach, it’s working !🙏 thank you so much and keep these blessings coming xoxo 😘 ❤️
I agree with you that you speak your truth, but I disagree with you on being a U.S. citizen and everyone sleeps with everyone. I met African-American women (Christian ones) who didn't sleep with their then-boyfriends and fiances. My own husband is a U.S. citizen who did not sleep with me until we got married.
happens to me too and nothing terrifies me the most. Don't get too friendly fast and don't get too close too soon that way you know more about them than they do about you.
@@jawesome8469 ok I see now that I let them get too close too soon. When they text or call daily I usually respond without skipping days talking to them. I know I should but haven't been
@@AmaLoveGoddessTV you strike me as a person who sympathetic to other needs, meaning you're just too nice! Do not allow any man to come in your life and waste your time they just normally want to waste your time if you state your true intentions and be straight forward you will have less of that billshit stalking because after all that stalking once they get what they want they start acting like a fool and treat you like completely shit. if you beat around the bush pussyfoot and play games then they'll stay around to play games just as well you are a woman and you have wants and needs and if a man can fulfill that they shouldn't be occupying your space. Learn to understand a lot of men especially a man of no means are just here to kill time. As for my stalking experience men usually stalk me when I'm no longer interested in them and maybe in their retarded add mind they think I'm playing hard-to-get or maybe I'm hurt. But it's totally opposite I don't play games when I'm done I'm done. I get scared and angry because I want them gone to once I'm done I'm done you no longer exist to me. when I no longer want them after I already given them my all I used to do the world for men because of my lack of self-love and low self-esteem even though I'm a gorgeous female. when I back away that's when they choose to start the chase. so don't let that be you. Save yourself the mental distress early. any man that you're talkin to let your needs and true intentions show and be know at the front door please take care of yourself and let him know how you wish to be treated or else he can go. If you consider yourself a woman who has her shit together and losses sweetheart make sure that any man you get with is a man of means or you just not interested you're not even trying to get to know them any man who spends a lot of time texting and calling is not a man of means a man of means take you out take you places and show you the Finer Things in life anyone wants to stay on your phone "block and delete". All the best my love
@@jawesome8469 thanks for letting me know the last part. I've been meeting alot of men who just wanna talk or text and I said no more. If you can't take me out within a few days of meeting or a week simply don't ask for my number.
@@AmaLoveGoddessTV stop giving out your number they are not paying for your phone bill. be confident, be strong, let tem know you are not running a buisness to be giving out your number to random men/boys. ( hell there is no need for you to explain your self to man who ia doing nothing for you.bitch ass men will play around with your number ( prank call etc...) you don't need that mess.
Look I'm a woman and it's sad to see other women getting sucked into this delusion. You keep talking about aiming for "better" (richer) you will end up alone, guaranteed. These guys read you like an open book. You are the deceived one in these relationships. Learn some virtue already, don't learn vice for the sake of getting a rich guy.
