This pageant mum wants her "baby" to shine but the bride wants a classy dress that shows her body. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
I would love a friend like him helping me and putting what I want 1st he even said on the dress she love yes girl that your dress this is what we see you in.
They try really hard to make someone clearly not in the wrong look like they're in the wrong but I think most of the time it's pretty obvious the person is usually not
You are right about that !! But i understand it’s hard for mom to let go of pageant dresses too.. that’s all she’s seen her in.. I liked the dress on her but mom was right everyone is getting that same dress ..Hailey looks great in it I’m not saying that at all ..
Right? Like a pageant is a competition, when did a wedding become a competition? Like she already has her future husband, its not like she needs to get his attention.
I caught that, too. A wedding dress isn't about pleasing judges and winning a pageant. It's more personal. What she wore for pageants may not have been what she really liked at all. Pageant dresses are costumes. A wedding dress is not.
That first dress she picked and said was beautiful was absolutely awful. I wouldn’t even choose that for a pageant that’s how awful it was. It was so tacky and did not flatter her at all. Mom needs some glasses if she thinks that dress is great.
I was amazed that 2 parents who were divorced could sit in the same room and be civil to each other- my parents have been divorced for almost 5 years and they still cant get along. Yeah I have a lot of childhood trauma due to my parents-
I respect that bridesman for standing up for the bride when even bride is not being able to do that. He respected her choice, he was supportive and when she didn't liked his choice, he accepted it and moved on and was really happy for her pick. ...
@@malloryg4251 With a mom like that who was so obsessed with pageant stuff she didn't even know what her own daughter's personal style even looked like let alone how much she hated the stuff her mom picked out for her... That friend is a miracle sent down to tell her mom to turn it tf down. I MEAN GEEZ. Is she even capable of NOT projecting herself on her daughter? Yikes. 'you like this' or 'you don't like this'- bitch! SHE LIKES THIS and she likes it enough her friends recognize this as something she'd wear. By choice. I have this feeling she has so many other people with her specifically to help with mom. Like holy crap I'd have done that too. Edit: I had a relative like this. Not pageant but 'you luke's and 'you don't like' but they couldn't have told you a single thing about what I liked or didn't like in reality and it was a lot to work through back in the day. My heart goes out to her. A little worried that when she talks about having things in common "We're both really mature" like sweetheart. The more mature you are the less you think you are and vice versa. It's one of those things like wisdom. More you think you have of it the less you have. That mom though. I hope the marriage worked out and they live a good life. That mom though. She's a just no, though her daughter clearly also loves her and at least wants her approval somewhat even if she doesn't trust her not to bulldoze and project and think about herself over her daughter. Homeboy knew what he was doing. That second dress was closer to the one she ended up choosing for herself. Mom wasn't even close. She was picking a white version of the same ol pageant dresses she picked for years. You could almost taste the similarity from the wedding dress she picked vs the old picture with the bride in a pageant dress. Like holy hell. Just no. That woman is so deep she can't even see her daughter in front of her. Just an image she projects. Heart goes out to the bride. That's... Really difficult to deal with. It's really messed up and it messes you up.
Although there might be some ounce of truth to that, I can say not all. I grew up in the pageant industry and 2000’s pageants were probably the worst decade for pageant gowns. That’s why the mom has terrible taste because im assuming she was her pageant coach in the 2000’s
It’s no accident that she’s formed a friendship with ‘Bridesman’. She’s relying on him to say the things that the bride doesn’t have the strength to say to her mom. You can tell that we only see the tip of the iceberg regarding just how overbearing the mom has been throughout the brides childhood. 😳
lori's pick was amazing, the split lace detail on the front of the skirt is very unique and they had a lace-trim veil that matched it PERFECTLY, i'm actually surprised the bride didn't give it a 12 with the veil on!
Mom: “ She doesn’t like tulle.” Bride: “ I do like tulle.” Sounds like pageant mama doesn’t actually know what her daughter likes just wants to see her in what she likes.
I love that Preston was really there for her and stuck up for her. Everyone needs someone like that in their life. Her mom was so obnoxious. Every time she said “sparkle baby” I wanted to scream. See through dresses are just so tacky for the weddings most people in the south have.
Emelia Darko I don’t think so because a mom like that would say no to every dress or make the appointment horrible. She just doesn’t know how to separate pageant from wedding which is two very different things
Hey I am not spreading hate or anything 😂 but I wanted to tell you all that pls say " I don't really like this dress." As if you call it "ugly" it disrespects the peculiar creater or designer of the dress..
“So far all of the dresses I’ve picked out for her seem to be winners” Well this is your daughters wedding day not a pageant so I don’t think you get to choose the dress because she’s not trying to win a competition she’s trying to win her love and happiness with a dress SHE is comfortable with
@@Augiegrl12 I tend more to threatening to put someone out of my misery. That mama is a piece of work! Slapping her silly is entirely too good for her!
When the mom says “she doesn’t like tulle” and then the bride says “I like tulle” I could just feel a surge of energy flow through my body because I get the feeling she doesn’t stand up for herself against her mom a whole lot
“I have always helped her select her dresses, and they always seem to be winners”.... none of the dresses they showed in the montage were pretty. If she won her pageant, it was because of *her*, not the dress. Mom’s choice wasn’t flattering or pretty
Seriously! It's disturbing when these pushy "show biz" parents take all the credit for their kid's success. Maybe this beautiful young girl is winning pageants in spite of her mom's tacky dresses?? LOL
Its a wedding, not a pageant. She shouldn't be trying to make her daughter dress for a pageant. Pageant would mean competition, and a wedding is not a competition.
Man these people and their veils. They could make the bride wear a potato sack with a veil and suddely ecerybody would be crying over how gOrGeOuS she is. Smh
Honestly I thought that too, until I became a 👰. My dress was not fancy but with the veil on, it just enhanced all the beauty of it. It really does magic!
I think what happens when they put a veil on is that it says to the haters “screw your opinion. This is MY DRESS DAMMIT”. And it usually shuts them up when they realize that.
“I have always selected her dresses for her, and it just seems like every one that I have picked for her was a winner.” Honey, this isn’t a competition. This is her wedding.
You lyin’ if you think every bride out there ain’t in a competition on their wedding day. I mean the husband it’s literally a human trophy “here is my trophy to show you I found someone to love me” then you go on to have sex trophies, also known as kids 😂 (📸: @lipsandlunges)
@@haleyfarley7758 what I meant was you aren’t competing against anyone on your wedding day. Sure you won his heart but the wedding day isn’t a competition. It’s about love.
I love that the bridesman had the balls to say what he felt and thought... because clearly no one else in the room was comfortable standing up to that pageant mom. Hailey knew what she was doing making him a “bridesman” and bringing him to the appointment
I think the mom...missed the point of the whole sparkle baby. She should've made sure that her daughter is the one sparkling in her dress, and not the dress sparkling on her daughter. Now that's what you call a "sparkle baby." I'm glad that her daughter finally got the dress that she loves!
the bridesman is amazing. good for him for standing up for her about this when she didn’t feel she could. even though it resulted in him having to argue with her, that is a good friend
When the bridesman said mom had a tacky taste I thought he was just rude, then I saw the pageant dresses and I said "Well, maybe he is right", then I saw the monstruosity mom chose as a wedding dress and I was like "Ok tacky is too less to describe this woman's taste". The dress bride ended up choosing was gorgeous on her though. She shines in it!
I feel like this a horror movie with the mom stuck in a loop, rambling along the corridors of an old house and when someone drives up to the house, she peeks out the window and goes *_Sparkle Baby_*
When the pandemic is over I get to go with my daughter to choose a wedding dress. Watching these shows is educational for me. I know how to be there for her.
Hemo Chandra I wouldn’t. She will look amazing in everything. We have been talking about doing the virtual dress shopping. It’s very sad for me but I want to make this a wonderful experience for her.
What I've learned from watching this show is that it's the veil that really makes a dress a wedding dress. So many entourages are iffy on a dress, then they see it with a veil and voila! Now it's suddenly perfect.
both the first and the last were amazing pics. too bad her mom knocked her down on the first because I think the first was along the lines of what she wanted plus her silhouette was amazing in it too. it just fit her body so wonderfully.
I noticed Bridesman generally waited for Hayley to speak first THEN agreed with her. I got the impression he was a bit more firm FOR her sake, drawing mama’s daggers so Hayley could save face but still have her opinion honored.
I like how the bride chose a bit of sparkle and a bit of form fitting. It's like she added what her mother wanted and what her bridesman wanted. But...in the end it was what she wanted.
I love the way after her mom tried to say she didn’t like tool the bride swooped in and said she does. That was the perfect example of how much confidence a bride has once there in there dream dress
Normally this type of picky friend is the kind that ruin the appointment, but I could really tell he had her best interest at heart. He wasn't there for him, he was there for her. 💕
