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She's the tip of the spear.. some 10 or 15 years ago she was speaking up for men in a logical and methodically eloquent way about the issues men are facing...much now of what she's said is prolific as we look at the relationship between men and women today.
Unfortunately it's on a podcast with Pearl, a grifter. At least she seems to be listening. Maybe she'll get better at how she reuses Karen's and Paul's ideas.
Paul Elam is THE original redpill guy that started it all. He has saved the sanity, well-being and lives of countless men and young boys. A gift to modern masculinity. Greetings from Melbourne, Australia.
My mom gave me a MGTOW talk some weeke ago. I'm 25, not in a relationship and my mom doesn't give me any shit for it. She's seen enough divorces in her life and fares about my future and my brother's, enough to not sell our family wealth before she and my dad leave this world. And I'm not American Paul, I live in Greece, a place with 93% Christians and a divorce rate that was 5% until 40 years ago, and even now at it's worst it's 30%. People aren't waking up just because of social media. They've seen enough of the reality on the ground. My mom has seen and heard plenty of stories of women lying about domestic abuse, about child sexual assault and even after all that, they still get back together with the allegedled abuser. Very glad to have found you all these years ago, you're a well of knowledge together with your colleagues and saved my butt enough times that the only hurt I ever got was my feelings, and nothing else.
Dear Paul, you've helped me a lot during my horrible divorce between 2016 to 2022. You're like my godsend father guiding me to overcome all difficulties and nightmares. Love from Istanbul, Turkiye.
@@Paul_Elam thanks god, much much better since the time I stopped blaming my fate. My salvation came with confronting my past and trying to find out what I've done wrong. How couldn't I realize everything was going south with my marriage. The answers were already on RU-vid. I don't know how many times I watched some of your work giving me the answers, patiently explaining me the way I've been taught about marriage was all delusional. I suffered during all those realizations but that was the price I needed to pay. The cure for me personally was taking responsibility for my future self and move on regardless of my awful experience. Somewhat I succeeded it. Thank you Paul.
hahahaha , negotiation only happen between 2 parties who can bring xiolenxe to bear in the final end, i am afraid it will be severely one sided and thats only if civilization still exists first.
"Has turned into..." um, nope. Bride price... dowry... It has always been a business deal. The women in the western world have just gotten better and better at negotiating the terms.
@@justiceformenboys It was a really lovely, warm conversation. Pearl really listened, and seemed genuinely in awe of Janice, at the end. I saw Janice blow Pearl's mind a few times during the interview. I know how Pearl feels, every time I hit Janice and Steve's YT channel Studio B.😵💫🤯
Pearl is a grifter that just parrots ideas that Paul and Karen originated. Of course Pearl can't add anything substantive to the conversation without looking stupid.
Paul Elam is so articulate and his clear English is matching such a smart mind with wise analysis of human interactions. It’s the real intelligence : inte (inside) ligere (read) = seeing from the inside what is real.
I appreciate how Pearl allows these two pillars in the MRA community to speak truths with few interruptions. This interview should be on a 24 hr news media loop for all of society to hear
Well Pearl is a grifter and can't compete with Karen and Paul intellectually. Hopefully she'll at least get better at reusing their arguments because of this
No screaming, no interruptions, no emotional outbursts, calm, professional, informative, factual discussion. This is a masterclass in how interviews should be conducted. Kudos to Karen, Paul, and Pearl! Can I have some more? Please!
Paul and Karen and Janice have been on the right path for years, and Pearl is riding on their coattails while not contributing anything to the conversation.
A new creator I watch talking to creators I've watched for years. Good on you Pearl for going further down the rabbit hole. These guys know what they are talking about, you may even have learned some from this. Really nice watch so far. 19:39.
@@Paul_Elam I spread the word Paul. My online guerilla propaganda helped prime the internet for the current culture war. My memes and stories caught the ear of some principal shakers and movers. You were always an inspiration. You should be recognized more by the Jordan Petersons and Tim Pools, but we made waves that are just now reverberating. Vindication is coming for us. The tides turn brother. You will be recognized one day for your part.
Yes it is except it would be much better if Karen would stop interrupting , filibustering and trying to Dominate the so called "Colab". Was starting to get just a little annoying.
@@chuckf6163 Hi, I'm only copy-pasting my response to this because you've apparently been copy-pasting your own comment. As far as I'm concerned, Karen Straughan can interrupt anyone whenever the fuck she wants, because you can just about be assured that whatever she has to say will be more relevant and insightful than whatever thought or argument she is interrupting. May not always be true if she's interrupting Paul Elam, but basically anyone else, yeah, please, interrupt away Karen.
Thank you. I learned quite a bit, even after all these years. The conversation about rudeness being necessary at times - it was particularly interesting.
Hooray. You finally had a sit down with Pearl. Glad to see you guys again. You and Karen were like the first people I followed after watching the Red Pill documentary. Feels like I never hear from you two, and especially Karen these days. Bless
Yes except it would be much better if Karen would stop interrupting , filibustering and trying to Dominate the so called "Colab". Was starting to get just a little annoying.
@@chuckf6163 As far as I'm concerned, Karen Straughan can interrupt anyone whenever the fuck she wants, because you can just about be assured that whatever she has to say will be more relevant and insightful than whatever thought or argument she is interrupting. May not always be true if she's interrupting Paul Elam, but basically anyone else, yeah, please, interrupt away Karen.
I'm so lucky to be able to speak to Karen on the phone for a conversation as long as this it was truly something I will hold on to them forgotten but it's awesome to see personally how she is dealt with the people that are so-called on the right targeting her and then not giving a s*** so much to where she can't be taken down because she just simply can't care enough to be taken down. She's under sold her blog she is one of the best writers and I will not say but I think she is already exposed in this clip that she is a novelist and you can tell
When I asked her to leave like I warned her when her abusive brow beating started again I kept remembering what Paul said that "you're values will save your ass" & boy did they.
As a guy/child who was the victim of this fucked up divorce system in where women (my mom) can slander a mans name and reputation (my father) to a point it completely destroyed my family before i had a chance to understand what was going on, i cannot thank enough people like Paul, Pearl, and other "red pill creators" for doing what theyve been doing. My life would very much be different if they did do what they do and i fear where i may have been had they not done this. Cannot say how thankful i am as a person who is growing up in these times for these individuals.
On the topic of paternity fraud, I've looked at research going back decades and they've found that even doctors were in on this. They would refrain from telling the man if the child wasn't his when they received the paternity test results, but would tell the woman.
They are often women too, and they fear shootings that ensue when a man finds out he had been played. That is why armed security personnel are at hospitals.
Here in India some DNA testing Institutes have outright rejected requests for pre natal DNA testing citing they'd not want to be a reason why an innocent lost their life Keep in mind these same people won't utter a word against women wilfully getting abortions, then it somehow becomes empowering! Apart from this DNA tests hold no values in court even if you manage to get one, if you're married the child is legally yours whether you like it or not
Even though she's rehashed everything you, Karen, Barbarossa, Tom Leyks, Dr T, Helen Smith and a few others said over a decade ago when it wasn't safe, trendy or as monetizable (with the exception of TL) I'm glad to see you leveraging her audience. Not really a fan but I hope her followers realize you all were the first and still the best when it comes to this topic. Your film reviews were epic...in particular 'American Beauty." You nailed Kevin S' character to a T. I hope you do more of them. Great interview with Leykis as well..
@@myklaaron7879 Who? You mean "Red Pill" 2.0? LMAO. Yeah, I agree....they stole his stuff and then bashed the MRA. Rollo "Grandma" Tomassi in particular. Who's been getting dunked on. Watch how Lauren Southern and Brittney Venti trolled him. It was hilarious. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. Paul's leveraging Pearls audience. Smart move. I'd do it too.
I'll add 'Angry Harry', 'Man Woman Myth' and 'Bernard Chapin' to that list. Ironically, I'm seeing feminists online claim that the 00's were some kind of hellscape for women, as if feminism wasn't around then and doing what it always does. For people who watched all this stuff unfold or participated in it, it can become more than a little tiresome having to auto re-set all the same tired arguments to deal with bad faith actors who constantly try and retcon the past, or arrogant young feminists who barely remember the eras they discuss (if they were there at all). I said 25 years ago - as long as there are a new generation of know-knothing victim-minded girls to indoctrinate, feminism and the myths it peddles are never going anywhere. Try telling a twenty something know it all that the Trans lobby wasn't created by MRA's as a new form of misogyny, and they'll happily lecture you that the hundreds of arguments you had online with feminists pushing for that shit when you warned them what the consequences would be doesn't mean anything, because they have the real truth fed to them by some 40 year old lying Terf. So the dance goes on...
@@TheNightBadger Hi TNB. In case you're not aware, Angry Harry died of a brain aneurism not long before ICMI16 in London. ManWomanMyth (real name Rowland Adelagun, he has a new YT channel) had a major brain injury after falling from a height in 2015. Tragic. Along with another MRA I keep in touch with him and take him out for lunch in his local public house regularly. We also have his entire output as ManWomanMyth and Reality Bites (about 130 videos) in a playlist on our RU-vid channel. We had him as a Guest of Honour at the online ICMI20.
God bless you Paul from uk I was 16 when I enlisted and went to basic training in the British army and I’ve seen the injustices on male infantry veterans including myself and how there ministry of Defence are biased towards men and favour women in the military most homeless veterans in my country are male women military personnel get special and added benefits and privilege and go through the ranks quicker than men 🇬🇧
Pearly; that was one of the best, engaging conversations I"ve watched on your Channel. Keep doing this kind of informed, factual contributors more in your podcasts. Genuinely funny and engaging!
To the margins of abuse / family violence: Yesterday the Edge browser was kind enough to push some of its "new tab" news articles in my face. I spent just a single glimpse on the title of a news article which described the following act: "Mom gives birth to child in the backyard. Tosses newborn over to the neighbor's property. Child expired there." This shit will give me nightmares for months to come. But it happens so often and women are never held responsible for it. Anything less than capital punishment would be a diabolical disgrace.
National women's soccer teams - including the US team - can't beat teams of schoolboys. They'h have to restrict to under-10 boys to have any hope (and I'd still place my bet on the boys!)
What is often missed in these conversations is childhood development. Many of these "women" spoken of are simply small children who ceased at some point to continue to develop to adulthood.
Excellent discourse from two wonderful people telling the truth backed by facts; compare that to the utter drival and incoherent nonsense spouted by the other side.
Pearl is just another Chameleon (using Kevin Samuels's talking points - & selling them as her own). 😌😒 She is what once was Lauren Southern/Simonsen - a clout chaser/grifter. Don't think you found a NAWALT/unicorn. Women just have an act for survival. Isaiah 4:1 will be fulfilled. 😏😎
It's good to see you are working with Pearl. She is doing well even though I think she is a grifter I still like her content. She is mostly accurate. She does bring the information needed to the younger generation!
Yeah I think she is a grifter too, I wouldn't be surprised if she went a similar route like Lauren Southern. But to focus solely on her arguments right now, she is at least in the phase where she's pushing the right points more into the mainstream.
Agreed. Every time she asks for clicks and donations, I am reminded always that she entered the manosphere with the idea of it making her wealthy. She does have good interviewing skills and decent, I'll give her that- but never a penny from me.
TFM wasn’t the spearhead. He was just one of the many arrows of MGTOW. Long live men long live MGTOW Rest in peace Earl Silverman, Paul Proteus and ventionMGTOW
I wish Karen Straughan would join the debate more actively and shows like by pearls. She could easily monetize and she'd bring factual historical context to every discussion and stop half of the points women make, demonstrating false narratives
Their declaration at Seneca Falls began as a gnostic religion -- men playing the part of the Demiurge. It's also a classic oppression narrative which has been used as social acid since humans developed language. Our brains crave enemies and those enemies will be found within if they don't exist without.
I'll finish watching this later. I have a bias for Karen Straughan as a 🇨🇦. Pearl? Grifter. Paul? Mans man we're losing now. I'd be happy with Karen and Paul one on one.
Sure a HUGE grifter, that said, what's a better alternative? Women need mass awakening, he11 men too, I'd be happy if we had a 1000 more grifters like Karen and Pearl personally
I just think she's the type of person to be easily influenced by PUA types. Gullible & thick as pig shit. Parrots opinions instead of understanding them. She reaaaallly wants a man, all this has come from that.
41:00 so common. almost every guy I know is in a relationship like this. some even have separate bedrooms from their wives. because what's the point of being in the same bed? all she does is disturb his sleep.
This show was excellent. Karen is absolutely right in her talk of our society being ill because it's actively opposing biological reality. Sex roles make perfect sense (the human primate is patriarchal) and opposing them in our insane culture of androgyny and feminism results in mental illness, inefficiency, and collapse. Paul is correct that simps are as much to blame as feminists but what wasn't covered was the elite MEN who created and fund destabilizing and demoralizing groups like feminism. They are responsible for destroying general patriarchy and installing the artificial matriarchy all us commoners are forced to live under.
''Patriarchy'' only exists because men are bigger and stronger than women. It's not the flex you think it is. Any individual is free, at least in their private life, to adopt any ''sex role'' they want.
I have a buddy who dated this girl, who was a bit crazy (ok, crazier than most women). Long story short: she told him she is on birth control. She wasn't. She got pregnant just a few months after meeting my friend. They tried the family thing, but the girl didn't like it, so one day when the baby was ~3 months the girl completely disappeared with the kid. For half a year while the courts were screwing around my friend didn't know anything about the child. The girl moved to an unknown place with the kid, she did not pick up the phone, did not reply on any channels. The child was 1 year old when my friend could first see him. The baby have not seen his father from ~3 months old for 9 months, so he was scared of his father and cried when they first met at the age of 1. Absolutely brutal. He now has a generous visitation right, and only needs to play a reasonable amount of expenses for the child, so things, while not perfect, are fairly nice. But I can not imagine my child being stolen from me for 9 months and not clawing out with my own hands the heart of the person responsible. She was completely let off the hook.
