Thank you for the link to the free test I’m an 8 🤔👍❤️🤗 omg my hubby will have to take the test I bet he’s a 2 🤔😉❤️🤗 I totally agree Mommy Melissa & Robin I saw that thumbs up 😉 8’s are helpful
Niether of you would like shopping with me when it comes to dolls or plushies. I think I'm a mood buyer. I buy things randomly because of the way the toy or plush makes me feel. I get fusterated really quickly but I'm working on my patience with other people.
What a beautiful process this was. Back where I'm from we have a saying: you're not tomato soup for everyone to like you. It's something I've learned quite early on, as I don't like everyone it's also natural not for everyone to like me. And letting go of the need to please everyone around was really liberating. I'm a 9 which is also very true, harmony is everything and every bit of extremism knocks me out of balance. And yes, I actually hate people who don't know what to order. We're here for the food so make up your mind already!
LOL!!!! I have a bit of that food ordering thing too. Like how long does it take to read a menu. Then people start asking everyone else what they are getting. Like there is a wrong answer to what they want to order!
Whether traits are negative or positive depend a great deal on the point of view. My own obsession with learning and spreading knowledge has been called "being a know it all" and also "ask Jeanie, if she don't know she will find out for us". Or my reluctance to take a personality test and give society yet another label to slap on me could be "combative" or "cowardly".
Sometimes I find I over analyze everything about my own behavior and thoughts as well as those of the people around me. When I'm going overboard some of my friends call me Doctor Melissa :-p
Your video sparked my interest in trying an ennegram test .I'm an a type 4 ,According to the test I took this is the individualist .This makes sense to me since I am also a helper but when I am helping I tend to either help in a creative field like arts , crafts or spirituality or doing other helping in creative ways .I like to be around people even large crowds but I also know I need solitude to recharge my energy .I like the term intense creative .I was just thinking of when I cared for my mother during her delirium .I walked the hospital hall with her withncrochet in my hands .I also draw sillyndoodles to make her laugh .It also help me to understand the times I feel different or left out .I also understand a bit more why argument upset me .I tend to be super sensitive about my feeling but on the positive side I also am sensitive to other people's feelings so Inam positive and encouraging to other people .Thank you so much Melissa , Elvira and Robin for your thoughtful and helpful videos .
That's a beautiful way to be a helper. We need artists and creatives because you are able to make us see things differently and heal our souls without us realizing it
I always thought that I was a type 4, so I took multiple test on different sites to see if I was right well almost I'm a type 5 wing 4. my husband did the test too he's a type 4
I took one of these tests before covid hit but I don't recall a lot of details. I think I might look up another one and try again. I think it makes a lot of sense that we have so many different aspects to our personal make up...Yet I do believe we have a main stream personality. Perhaps a clue is how we act when we are the happiest.
I took the test and got 4 intense creative. I read the description and it was spot on. As an artist with autism, I can be in tune to the world around me and see it with a unique perspective. I thought for sure though I would get the helper as i am a caregiver for my mom and sister. I don't find that fulfilling but I do it anyways as I feel strongly that I have to protect them and nurture them. Though helper is my stretch point whatever that means. I saved my results to dive into them at a later point.
I am very into enneagrams so I love this video! I’m a type 6 -the loyalist with a wing 5. The nature of a type 6 fits me perfectly as it’s all about having security and finding safety in other people and fundamentally I need to know that my support system is solid in order to feel mentally okay. I predicted that Mellissa would be a 3 and Elvira would be a 9 but was off by one in each case! I found when I first found out my type reading about the type’s strengths and weaknesses extremely relatable as well as reading about good vs bad mental states as I didn’t feel like it was boxing me in or making me feel I should relate to all of it but instead I saw myself in the bad mental state type 6 and the knowledge I had the potential to be the positive mental state type 6 made me feel a lot better about my personality as a whole. I also love finding out the types of other people in my life and can confirm it helps me learn more about them in a way I can understand. Thanks for making this video both of you and hope you are both happy and healthy 💫
I think we all bump up against our nearby types in some ways. When we did these kinds of tests and educational sessions at work I thought it was so great. It helped us to understand our teams and what each individual needed from me as a leader.
