Physical Boundaries in Christian Dating | HOW FAR IS TOO FAR?? 

Our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit, so be careful how we maintain it. As a Christian, it is very hard to fight the temptation of the flesh, the world is ever before us. But we must be that light that shines for the lost to see. The journey will not be easy and Jesus knows that we have to stay in prayer and learn how to deny self, keep our hearts and MINDS pure, whatsoever we think, that we will be. Never allow yourself to be in a position you are unable to handle but also understand, God will not allow temptation to come upon us unless He has a way of escape. God bless, stay strong in the Lord. "CHOSEN"

It also depends on the situation. Cuddling in bed can lead to other things.

I used to have a lot of sex. I started very young and would have sex with any girl who wanted to be with me. I used to have multiple relationships at the same time and cheated on every girl I was with. But been single for ten years. It has been the best thing I have ever done. I wish I could have done this sooner in life. Looking around I see that it is not normal to not date. Or at least want to. Not a lot of men will turn down an opportunity for sex. But I have learned to avoid completely women who do not know themselves and know that they can wait on the Lord. I am not looking for a 'next' girl. I want her to want me. But serving the lord first is the sexiest thing there is. As for the respect. I recently met a girl who is over 30 and a virgin. But she wanted to talk dirty and 'tease' men. Her heart was corrupted to the point that I couldn't respect her. You are not where you've been. But you are what you do.

“If you’re having more fun with them doing physical stuff than not, than it’s probably a no go”

I totally agree with the not kissing until you are in a committed relationship ‼️

I really love your advice! You deserve more subscribers! 😍

What about not hugging, kissing, or holding hands before marriage? I’m weird in that I think love is entirely a choice so I don’t think doing anything that I wouldn’t be fine with another guy doing to my wife is okay. If I don’t marry this girl it’s another mans wife so I want to keep her as pure as I can for whoever that will be and for herself to give her husband all she might want to. Thanks!

Thank-you this was great :)

You truly went in on this topic. I am not building a relationship and I told him I want to wait until marriage! Taking things slow and want to start the relationship naturally!

I been single for sooooo long and I never ever want to not be single . Being single is amazing!

Can you do an advice video on college? like studying tips 📚

I hear a lot “the moment you let the man touch you in areas, it’s over. If you get married, it’s over.” What does that mean? I wish I was actually explained what that means?? Someone who knows for sure explain please?

God is watching. Amen.

I watch this video and now I wish I had set boundaries but I'm still a virgin thank God. But I'll remember next time to set boundaries. I feel so yucky and terrible but I pray to God to forgive me thank you for this video btw I love your attitude

Love your perspective on this!! Thank you!!

This is so good! ❤️

Great word!!!

Thanks for this 🌸❤️

I like the way you think !

Really love ur advice...

I wish scripture was more specific on this matter, I'm moralizing things in my head head that probably are sketch

"If you're not happy telling your mom, your dad, your pastor about [what you get up to]". It's none of their business. This is a horrible thing to put into anyone's mind. Does it work the other way round? Should your parents tell you about their bedroom activities? Your pastor? Please THINK! Stop advising this ridiculous, dangerous rubbish.

Thumbs up audio just a tad loud, reduce by 15-20% and it wont scare me so much lol

Ur talking abt enough to not lead to sex correct?

Interesting points. Just to be clear, do you believe that premarital sex should be a crime under civil law, or it more of just a moral issue for you that is between believers and God? I'm an agnostic myself, but I'm familiar with the Bible, and from what I can tell, there is most certainly nothing in the New Testament that says that people who engage in premarital sex are to be punished here on earth for it. There are Christians I know who believe in making laws about that, though plenty of Christians don't and just consider it to be a moral issue. As for my opinion on whether the Bible considers premarital sex a sin, I personally don't think it does, but feel free to share your perspective on whether my point is valid. My point isn't to change your personal beliefs. It's just to get an opinion from someone who has a different interpretation and see if they think I have a valid point. Anyway, the main reason I don't think premarital sex is inherently sinful is that there's nothing about it in the Ten Commandment. There is a Commandment against adultery, but as you probably know, adultery implies that at least one of the people is married and is basically cheating on their spouse. It's also true that in the Old Testament, there were guideline about men engaging in sexual activity with certain women having to get married or pay some price to a male relative who who their guardian, but those particular women were virgins who were under the guardianship of their father or some other male relative. Mosaic Law saw those women as particularly valuable in the sexual marketplace and they were basically the property of either their male guardian or their husband. Men and women were allowed to engage in premarital sex, but there was a price if the women in question were virgins and living under the care of a male guardian. Under Jewish/Mosaic Law, which is the law the Jesus follow, premarital sex wasn't inherently a crime, though they may have seen sex within marriage as being generally preferable Adultery was a crime though because it was seen as one man basically taking another man's property. The New Testament, on the other hand, does have some verses that could interpreted as condemning premarital sex, depending on which translation of the Bible you use. I personally like to look at the Codex Sinaiticus, which in Greek and is the original version of the New Testament that all of its translations are based on. One of the verses in question is 1 Corinthians 6:9, which, in the original Greek text, says "Í ouk oídate óti ádikoi theoú vasileían ou klironomísousin? mí planásthe: oúte pórnoi oúte eidololátrai oúte moichoí oúte malakoí oúte arsenokoítai ..." In your Bible, the verse probably says something like "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, ...". "Fornicators" and "fornication" are both terms that are found is several parts of the New Testament, and some translations replace those terms with "the sexually immoral" and "sexual immorality". In 1 Corinthians 6:9, the word "fornicators" is translated from the Greek word "pórnoi", which is the masculine plural form of the Greek word "porneía". The word "porneía" though is the Greek word for "prostitution", which is specifically sex in exchange for payment. In 1 Corinthians 6:9, since the word "pórnoi" is masculine and is plural, "gigolos" would probably be a more accurate English translation of it in that verse. The New Testament also has verses the speak negatively of "porneía", so protitution in general is obviously condemned in the Bible. In the context of Greco-Roman culture, it makes sense the prostitution would be what is being condemn since the Pagans in those communities had brothels and such were both men and women worked as prostitutes and prostitution was also something Pagans used as a means of worshipping the fertility gods and fertility goddesses they believed in. So those are the reasons I don't think the Bible shows that premarital sex is inherently sinful, but I respect if you have a different interpretation.

Clappin cheeks is my boundary

Physical boundaries are unnatural. Keep safe though girls.