Learn how to flirt with girls with these psychologically proven flirting techniques. These strategies are easy to use and will allow you to take your flirting game to the next level!
Basically act like you are already in a relationship. Be playful and flirt a little (push). Then calm down show you can behave (pull). It can get stressful though. Some girls like to test your limits 😂✌️
additional tip: when you are on a date and you use the push and pull technique then remember to go 2 steps forward and 1 step backward. engage some body contact and then go back to no body contact. After a while you engage stronger body contact and then back up to only light body contact. this worked wonders for me!
Me as of two weeks ago. My attention is now a precious commodity, and it'll be a cold day in hell before I hand it out for free again. It actually makes me feel good as well.
Hmm, when i was at work fixing a pc at someone's house i noticed she acting pretty weird around me. asking alot of questions to me, telling me she was alone at home with no parents and that she wasnt going to do anything this evening, twisting her hair all the time with her fingers, changing cloths while i was there. I was just casually chatting with her i thought, but after this video i strongly think she was giving alot of indirect signs she liked me. Maybe thats why im still a virgin.
Yes, there is atleast 3 signals there, but remeber girls can change their minds very quickly. If you don't now what you're doing she can flake on you in an instant and just kick you out of her house if things get awkward. It's happened to me many times. But you should experiment with your new found charisma. Maybe you can get others girls horny as well by fixing their pc's?
On a scale from 1-10 how attractive do you think you fall into? If its anywhere above a 4.8 - you're in the money bruh
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I think some girls have a thing for computer repair guys 'cause I've actually had almost the exact same thing happen to me. I wasn't single at the time so I couldn't do anything about it but it's nice to feel appreciated. ;-)
Oh gee wiz I can't remember exactly how I flirted & got me my 1st. girlfriend who's now My Wife for 23 year's! 💕😍 Love it! She keeps me wild, I keep her safe! Thanks peace out!
once i started getting more proficant with my social skills i.e. watching downloads & practicng small talk i intuitively began implimenting the push-pull tech.
So much useful information in just one video. Nowadays push and pull is the best way, for me, to tease a girl , add some jokes and some intent and BAM! The game begins , or not , depends on the girl's response xD
2 years ago I came in my new school everything from the begining was just fine and great a super start,great new friendships, above average look(I was 15) and a lot of girls were into me,I am naturally shy in this period of life I dont know why I was extremely confident and charismatic even in interaction with the hottest girl in the school that was in my class she flirted with me but she was always a kind of unconfident while talking to me,while shes flirting her style and signals were invisible to me and she lost interest in me after some time just because I was bad at reading signals. Anyways my confidence and charisma levels was so high its like I have put a spell on girls and a lot of them showed open interest. Also in signals are really recommend
Push pull I use every now and then to keep women on their toes. It works some times because every woman is wired differently. One thing that helped me out is flirt with your bank teller or cashier at the store it will get you going. It's common to interact with people in that position it will help you gain confidence to go up and talk to a girl in your class, bar, in the isle of a store ect.
Yeah if you're struggling with specific "techniques" (which is fine because trying to learn specific moves shouldn't be how you go about it anyway) basically remember just to have fun. We aren't all extroverts which is completely okay, but we can all enjoy an interaction with someone. We all like games and playful teasing. Start from there, explore where you're at in regards to confidence and such, and work your way up. It's easy and hard. It's hard to admit but it does just take practice. I wish there was some "secret" but it's hard to identify anything like that. Have fun.
Practice is the key being in situations that make you nervous for example talking to a bunch of people who dont know you and even if your nervous keep going and keep trying to find opirtunities in which you can feel very very uncomfortable and soon your gonna be good at interacting with girls and people in general. This can be done in even one month i went to a trip back to my moms homeland colombia and during that time i was exposed to talking to new people and new girls and i was nervous as hell being in quarentine for a lot of months and i was there for 2 months after those 2 months i dont feel nervousness in a lot of situations the way i used to before its all about exposure and experiance and failing so that u can succeed yeah you could read what i said but its up to you to go out and put yourself out there even if your extremely nervous i overcame social anxiety and i feel great now
Love ur videos ...very helpful! I dont have problems speaking with beatuliful girls, nor do I lack confidence. That's because ...i can honestly say I'm more cuter than any guys my age or even 10-15 yrs younger. But flirting...I honestly dont know if I am or not. In the convos i have with girls. Nor do i know when or how to use push or pull...direct and or indirect ...i just say go with what ever comes to mind. I recently met this pretty Japanese girl working at the bowling ally...I've only spoken to her for like only min at a time...however...I only go to that ally once a week, so the next time I saw here. It lead to asking her phone #, without any hesitation she gave it to me....and ended up asking her to join us for Thanksgiving dinner. Was that easy...strange enough ...I cant remember how I've managed to even do that....so easy...and I hope that by watch your videos could shed some light on exactly what I have done...or why it was so easy for me to do...where when so many other guys fail or have very hard time with...thanks!
Flirting and non verbal body language Is the native language of girls. It is theirs primary language. It is better to show your interest and intentions by flirting. Once you Initiate the process, the girl will give you either yes or no by flirting back or avoiding your advances. It is cool because it tells you right away when a girl is interested in you or not. And by flirting you can ask her out indirectly without really asking her out directly and without any fear of rejection of asking her out in direct case. Flirting is fun and playful game. Use push and pull technique in flirting. It means show your interest and then take it away. It also make you mysterious. And other thing to remember about possession pool techniques to take Two Steps forward and one step backward. e.g. engage with her in somebody contact and then go to know body contact for a while. After a while engage in a stronger body contact and retract only to light body contact. And remember it does not matter but you say question mark what all matters is how do you say it. Tease her. Banter her. Be playful with her. Challenge her. Make humorous and play full statements with her while talking to her. Do not be serious but say in a confident and in a joking and teasing way.
You can also say, "Hey your pretty, not in my league but i'll make an exception" just make sure to have strong eye contact and smile while saying it, worked several times for me
15 yr old experience: some girl came up to me and pushed me, I had never spoken to her ever so I was really confused. At that moment I started to remember that one of my friends would play along and physically abuse her (mildly). I tried to attempt this but my body rejected pushing her back. I got really awkward and nervous to the extent I couldn't even speak properly. I left feeling really bad because I knew I had just destroyed my reputation as a confident cool headed kid. What do you think I should've done in that situation? I have an answer to the question it would be to over exaggerate a fall after she pushed me but like it was awkward enough that a random female creature came up to me in the first place so I wouldnt really want to do that.
THIS GUY IS, THIS FAR FROM AVERAGE, IS A DIAMOND....... I COULD NEVER FIGURE THEM OUT, OR MYSELF WHY I WOULD CRUMBLE IN FEAR....FEARS MUST BE CONQUERED IN ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE.......AND NOW I NEED TO DO WHAT FEAR HAS PREVENTED ME FROM FOR YEARS....AND FOLLOW MY GUT FEELING OUT WEST......FAR FROM AVERAGE YOUR GODDAMN RIGHT, TALK ABOUT A MOMENT OF CLARITY
A man who displays masculinity and strength when he flirts shows creepiness. But when it is done by a man with a more weaker accent and smaller build does not show creepiness. You can flirt but at the same time hold your manners as well.
Its funny because sometimes guys act like everything it takes is courage and just asking the girl to go hone with you. But without social intelligence one obviosuly is Toast when interacting with the pretty Girls.
What do I think about the push and pull technique? It seems like I've been doing it for a long time and I just figured out what it is & what it's called 🙏🏼✌🏼
I am in 7th grade and the confidence stuff was really great and helped me with a lot.I am freindss with a girl and and i am thinking of asking her out should I flit first or just ask her out . i always make her laugh and she dose show signs of atractione but i am not sure.
One big issues with this video. NEVER tell a girl she reminds you of or compare her at all too a family member, because the same way it does to guys, that reeks of friend zone and they will likely be insulted or think you aren't interested in them, unless they are genuinely like family to you, in which case you are likely not trying to have a relationship with them anyway. My assertion for this is based on a guy's reaction to being told "you're like a little brother to me" by a girl they are interested in. It definitely comes across as getting friend zoned and it can be hurtful.