r/Choosingbeggars "Your Baby Died? THEN GIVE ME YOUR LEFTOVER BABY STUFF!" 

If you get angry at a new mother because she lost her baby and won't give you her leftover baby blanket, then you are literally S tier evil

"Technically it was $10" Technically it was a gift, she owes you nothing.

"I understand what your going through!" *Proceeds to be insensitive af, proving that they do not understand what you're going through.*

CB: "Oh, your baby is dead? I want the stuff I bought for you and the money back!!" *"Everyone HATED that."*

Uhh that first story takes a toll on my mental health

This lady was literally trying to harass 10 dollars 1 WEEK after her baby died?? My brain can't do this at 8am.

My heart breaks for the first OP. I lost my baby in June and I was a mess. She’s stronger than I ever could’ve been. I would’ve bopped her in the mouth with my shoe with the strength of Thanos.🥲

OP needs to send the messages to the Laura lady so she knows where her new babies' 'presents' came from.

If you have an old wedding dress lying around, check your local L&D departments if they have any program running where volunteers use old wedding dresses to make gowns for infants to be buried in, saving the mothers one additional heartbreak.

The title of the vid is enough to make me vomit... People are disgusting.

"I thought you understand with money and Christmas coming up." They are going to spend Christmas thinking about how they won't get to enjoy it with their son because he died before he even got a chance to live. Holy shit.

That woman asking for baby gifts back from a mother who lost her baby is one of the most disgusting people I have ever heard of. I hope everyone in their town or city knows what she did. That is truly one of the most heartless things I ever heard. I can't believe how awful some people can be.

Is it only me thinking why this woman NEEDS her 7 dollars back? I don't know hun, if you can afford to come meet for a cuppa then I'm sure this won't make a scratch in your wallet.

That first story, when that CB said “seeing as you’ve been unwell and had bad news “ OMG , I have no words for this woman, no one and I mean no one understands that level of grief unless they’ve lived through it themselves. No empathy, no compassion.

More often than not, what I think of entitled beggars is: Wow. S/he's a jerk. But that first story was the first one that induces actual rage.

"I know you're busy. I'm busy too!" (Or sth like this) *few minutes later* "I'm lying in bed thinking of what you messaged me and how rude you were."

The choosing begger in this story makes me hate humanity a LOT more

People that say "hun" and "babe" all the time to people They just sound like they think they're better than everyone I'm not saying everyone, if it's a nickname that they call you it's fine I'm talking about people that are trying to make you do something and use "babe" and "hun" to talk down to you

The first story just broke my heart.

My thoughts on the first story is that if a woman ever did that to me she would very easily find herself on the I will never speak to you again list.

I remember seeing that first post on reddit. I nearly threw my phone across the phone when I saw the audacity

There is a place in Hell waiting for that "lady" in the first post. HOLY CRAP!

Holy heck. Sociopaths have more empathy than that first one..

The $5 minimum kid, i woulda said, "Was that a $1 bill? Give it back I meant to give you a five." Then I woulda pocketed the dollar.

BBC: does insane costume design/makeup and CGI effects for almost every episode of Doctor Who Also BBC: sorry we’re too broke to pay your band

That space thing in the back was a good investment. Its therapeutic while listening to all the Karen stories lol

That first post actually makes me feel sick

I'm surprised that kid from the subway story didn't get his arm broken when he pulled out the mace, the New York City subway system is not a very forgiving place...

Mad respect for first OP. She's been through some shit and I think we can all say that we are praying for her

when you give someone a gift. Its just that, a gift. Im not going to give it back just because we broke up.

The first story literally sounds like something my mum has done, down to the name of the woman she was "gifting" the stuff too.

4:34 EXCUSE ME WHILE I SCREAM THAT'S MY POST IN AN R/SLASH VIDEO I'M SHAKING Edit: I feel like I should add some things about that story. Before the point where I realized they wanted me to draw a comic for them, they sent me a couple sonic the hedgehog fan comics in which sonic characters shake their butts at the reader... also, sonic was called "son" which made me feel SUPER weird. I didn't include those drawings in the post though, since I didn't want to post someone else's private art.

4:13 £10 = $14 Hope that helps anyone who was confused by the currency difference

Honestly, if I'd gifted someone a baby blanket, then they lost their baby and chose that blanket for the baby to buried with... I'd be honored. Truly, I'd be honored that the one blanket their sweet child would be buried with was one I'd provided for them. Asking for anything back when a person loses a baby is low, but the blanket thing... I can't even. CAN. NOT. EVEN.

Joke of the day: To the guy who stole my antidepressants.. *I hope you are happy*

“The bbc is huge” I need to call a gutter cleaning service to get my head out of it

not me squinting every time i see "pounds" but hearing "dollars"

I listen to a lot of Reddit stories and the one about the miscarriage has to be the most heinous one I've ever heard! That lady is the worst!

That horrible woman in the first story is the absolute worst person on the planet. How effing dare her try to get stuff back from a grieving mother!

r.i.p benjamin :( may he rest in our heart

As someone working on a comic I hate people who do that shit. Drawing my own work is hard enough and I'll be damned if I' going to be guilt-tripped into doing free work.

9 months ago when my guinea pig died I was heartbroken. I cried for about 2 hours my mom asked if there was anything I wanted to make me feel better. I'd of felt like an ass if I took advantage of my loss, so I just said no. I still miss him so much 😔 💔 he's buried at my uncles house and every time I go to his house and go to the Rock he's buried under I just cry.

Karen:*gives baby stuff to OP* Baby: *dies* Karen:GIMME BACK! Me: my disappointed is immeasurable and my day is ruined

“I’ve been having a rough time too” only works if you say “so if you want someone to be there with you, I can do that.”

3:10 so for this lady losing newborn baby is worth 3 dollars. Neat

If you struggle with self-loathing, just watch that first story. You can't possibly be that awful a person.

Thankfully, when my wife and I lost our first child, we had nobody in our lives as cold-hearted as the first story's offender.

That grieving mother story literally made me mad. I have a friend who lost his ten year old daughter very unexpectedly and if anyone treated him or his wife like this I'd take care of that person myself.

I imagine Will Wheaton trying to give his landlord one of those self-righteous speeches about having "evolved beyond the need for the accumulation of material wealth" from early TNG when asked about rent.

"I'm having a tough time myself"? WHAT? she just lost her child... wow. I don't even know what to say to that.

And that swirly galaxy background is my favorite part of your videos, it's beautiful and makes me happy to know that you got it the right way.

Story 1. "Never talk to me again" Then block it.

Since my phone screen is small I thought the title said “Your baby died? Give me your leftover baby” and didn’t see the word ‘stuff’ and I was like WAT?!

I'm really glad that first victim publicized how awful that choosing beggar is to her friend group

I cannot believe the first story I had to stop in my tracks of anything and everything that I was doing rewind and play that part again just to make sure the fuckery that I heard was indeed the fuckery that I heard

The heck is up with the nyc one. That's a pretty common scam. It's especially common for a guy in his 20s to be with a kid and do it.

I always wondered where the galaxy swirl came from

"I'm depressed and angry and self-deprecating and suicidal, but I don't need therapy I just need free art!!!"

17 seconds 😶 good morning all. Have a wonderful day, stay safe.

My cousin lost her baby in the delivery room... If anyone had the gal, the shear fortitude to talk to her like that after losing the child, she'd harm them in ways impossible to fix with any amount of physical therapy.

Guy: *uses dead friend for free art* Dead friend: dude...uncool...

You know it’s been a YEAR since I first heard the story about the newborn who passed and the $7 blanket…and I STILL sometimes think about how awful that woman was. A whole year spent hoping she would get her added kicked by karma.

Story about the kid asking for money: I have a feeling his parents told him to do that -_- Edit: 82 likes!?! This made my day 🙂

"I've been paitent with you." *spams grieving mother with messages and a gif* Damn. I've gotten messages similar to the Amino one on Amino ALL THE TIME. Like...jesus.

As someone who lost a child I can't even express properly how angry that first story made me. What the actual...?! I'm ashamed of living on the same planet with that disgusting person...

For the first time ever I just couldn't get through the first story; the audacity of the beggar to do something that cold and heartless made me mad, depressed and disgusted at the same time.

So basically she's saying" BAbE CaN I HaVe BaCk ThE StUFf I GaVe tO YoU SiNce YoUr BaBy DieD EvErThINg AnD WoNT UsE AnY oF ThE StUFf AnYWaY As WeLl aS My SeVen DoLlArs PlEAse."

What the hell? The audacity of this woman. Rest In Peace Benjamin. #flyhigh 🕊💗

5:47 "Draw me like one of your french girls,but for free of course"

I feel like there's a point when it's perfectly okay to punch a kid in the face and I'm betting it's when they pull mace and try to rob you.

The bbc was "huge" 😂😂

"I didnt have to give you and your baby anything.." THEN DONT GIVE SHIT!!! ..I literally screamed that lol. I think I scared my corgi

Just casually running to my iPad to see this vid 🏃‍♀️

yknow, that evil woman was terrible enough, but that gif at 2:14 had me choking on my lunch

OMG - just heard the first story and in shock. What kind of monster that “friend” is over a few dollars ?

You would be surprised, but unfortunately that first story is very common. My friends baby was stillborn and a couple of friends kept bugging her if they could have the baby stuff she had. It happened over a year ago but but she still can't bring herself to go through the baby stuff, her bf at the time moved it to the attic and she can't even come around to hold a baby much less go through her daughters stuff and GIVE IT AWAY! Another friend lost her 2 year old to a heart condition and some people did the same! They dont even wait for the kids to be laid to rest before they be asking for their things!

The minute I saw amino in the second story I went "oh no" whe slowly putting my head in my hands

If that person's mother actually has all the shinies, except Melmetal and Regigigas, she's obviously hacking. Certain pokémon are shiny locked and can only be obtained by hacking the game.

me: about to sleep rSlash: posts a video also me: dont mind if I do

I lost twins at 5 months. I have a few items that I kept so that I could make a shadow box out of them. I broke up with my boyfriend and lost my job and it was extremely difficult. This woman was just insane.

10:20 this just turned into a mugging

To the mother who lost her child, you will probably never see this, but that lady was the rudest person ever. My mom had 9 children die of either miscarriages or they were too early. I hope you get better soon and everything will be ok.

Ok everyone, repeat after me: *CREDIT IS NOT A PAYMENT OPTION. IT'S COMMON SENSE*

That was one of the most shocking stories I've ever heard you read! I wish we could get an update as to whether she gave back the baby things or not. The best possible scenario would be if she shredded/crushed whatever the toys were and threw a bag with the pieces onto the CB's front porch.

For the $5 minimum you should have taken the bill back and said “oh sorry I don’t have $5”

£10 is worth $13.50, so probably less than you were thinking. £7 is pretty much pocket money on this side of the pond as well. Can't believe that woman is harassing a grieving mother for what is essentially a little expendable income.

I would blocked that women from the first story SO HARD

How on earth can anyone treat a grieving mother like that, it's disgusting. I hope op's husband smashes everything in a million bits and gives it back to CB by throwing it at her face. Love and best wishes to op and her family xx

"The BBC is huge..." -RSlash 2020

Well, no wonder he doesn’t have many friends. Who wants to be around a negative attitude?

If you are big enough to pay in exposure, you are big enough to pay them with money, that is all I'm saying.

I literally just gave birth, and if I had anyone sending me such callous messages right now - with my body still broken and bleeding and my hormones going wild and my LIVING baby - I would cut them out in a second. And I'd probably be a wreck from their insensitivity. I cannot imagine the world this person is living in to make then be this cruel. OP, you probably won't see this, but I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You don't deserve any of that nonsense. You're in my prayers.

the first post physically hurt to listen to

I agree that the lady and the baby blanket was truly evil. Hope she got what was coming to her karma-wise. Absolutely sickeningly evil. Poor Mama having to deal with that on top of her loss. Also, I am so sorry about your Mother, Heit. Your update was so hard to listen to. Hearing the weight in your voice was a big change from the tone in your videos. My heart hurts for you. Thank you for keeping us updated and still providing us with your awesome content. I'll pray for you. ❤

Those first two stories are infuriating, but the Star Trek TNG one makes me feel better knowing that Wil Wheaton has always been an amazing human being.

I cannot possibly fathom what would posses a person to pester and harass a person who's infant just died, to try and renege all the gifts you gave that person. It's just stunning.

That first story makes my blood boil.

That Amino guy . . . I literally know someone exactly like that. He was a member of my main fandom and was always coming up with new characters and making drastic changes to existing ones, begging to have ships with people til they agreed, trying to shoehorn his way into projects (I ran a YT talk . . . thing? That had four of us on voice chat and a text chat running so we could include the rest of the fandom. He kept trying to join the voice group), and every conversation went "hi owo" "hi" "here's my new OC." He would make these public "woe is me" posts when things didn't go his way and would get all dramatic about walking away from fandoms. Exhausting but I thought that's just how he was I didn't learn til this year that he's a predator. Like making very unwelcome NSFW comments about people's characters, begging for NSFW RPs and art (often from minors, which is the worst part), and other such grossness that I can't even remember. We booted him from our group after he weaseled into a chat he specifically wasn't allowed in and everyone started sharing their experiences. I had no idea about the NSFW shit bc I'm openly asexual and he never tried that stuff with me, but at first I felt so guilty that he could avoid that with me but not the rest of my friends All this to say - I have zero sympathy for Mr. "Boohoo Nobody Wants To RP or Give Me Art." Nobody wants to do shit with you bc you're toxic (also a caution to people who deal with people like this, don't keep quiet. Tell SOMEONE if you're uncomfortable, please. So you're not suffering in silence like so many of my friends have for YEARS)

Who else is 4 mins in to the vid and FUMING for this poor mother?

@ 10:23 does this kid realize it went from entitled beggar to armed robbery? If some kid done that to me, id have taken him down and waited for the cops.