@@chrissy7388 it’s in a man’s nature to respect… we can respect bosses, and rules we don’t love… it’s in a woman’s nature to love… God calls us men to love and women to respect… to be supernatural in the power of the Holy Ghost as a living example of Agape
@@snowplow7883 I’m talking about women in romantic relationships. When women love their partner, they naturally respect him. When there’s no love, more than likely there’s no respect. Women can’t love someone they don’t respect. That’s all I’m saying.
@@snowplow7883 20 years of marriage. Over, with no consideration for anyone but herself. It has broken me these past four months. Yet I am slowly, just starting to see that maybe, just maybe, there is a light at the far end of this dark tunnel.
I know exactly how you feel. I feel like the bottom rung on a ladder, only useful when money is needed. Work myself into the ground to provide for my wife and family, to the detriment of my physical and mental health. My wife doesn't want to spend time with me, intimately or otherwise. Pretty much living in limbo, not much of an existence.
Unfortunately I didn‘t because I felt too responsible for our three kids. I will never be able to catch up with what I missed for this reason. I long forgot the time my wife once caressed me. So the only thing that remains is being content with the situation I‘m in and live my remainig 10+ years somehow in peace.
@@geraldfranklin6049 It would require the emotional intelligence of an adult, THEY DON’T HAVE IT, they stopped maturing at 13-16, at best. Just accept it and treat them accordingly.
Yeah once they get you in the bag your stuck. Then you have to weigh trading in your kids and more than half of everything your worked for or your dignity and happiness. Sad world we live in.
I used to tell my ex wife, that it didn't seem like I was even in her top 10 list of important people. She told me many times that it was my imagination. Part of the reason that shes my ex. She couldn't deal with my opinions, thoughts, or that I didn't want her to have boyfriends.
Telling you that it's in your imagination is a classic gaslighting tactic - I've had 2 narcissistic wives who treated me like that, so you're way better off without her
You can respect someone that you don't love but you cannot love someone that you do not respect....... Let that sink in. For us men of respect is love. If you don't respect us surely you don't love us.
I've been in a handful of LTR's in the past 35 years and they all start great but within 3 years, SHE was the one to make it go to shit. Now I just don't do LTR's anymore. An occasional booty call was enough for me and now I don't even want that anymore. I just want my peace and quiet.
I wasn't allowed to talk to my wife about my day. She wouldn't hear it. I once lost my job and she refused to pray for me to find a new one( while being on a single income family).
There's been plenty of times when my wife treated me worse than I would treat any other human being, ever. She has treated me worse than I would treat a complete stranger. Hell, she's treated me worse than she'd treat a stranger.
Culturally, women are taught this growing up by watching the roles their parents play. Men being treated as second place or a personal assistant gets passed down through generations. Daddy took care of my problems so that gets put upon the partner.
That's because, how they treat you is exactly how they feel about you. The Matrix keeps reinforcing the idea that the husband is some King of Queens/Homer Simpson creature incapable of sensible decisions or leadership or worthy of respect.
This is a less talked about topic. There are, very good men out there, who take care of their partner and family and it is the woman who is knowingly or unknowingly being abusive. Thank you very much @thehappywifeschool to bring this subject to light. I was in a very long relationship and I knew something was not right, partner told me I was the one who is not right, thought it was me and always tried to make amends at my expense, but after counselling I realised she was being mentally abusive, unknowingly and most likely due to her own past traumas. Took me a long time to recognize this and take action. Thank you Ops for all your the videos and words. Big fan here.
“A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.” Proverbs 14:1 NLT It's good that you're now aware of this, as it means you can start making positive changes. Respect means everything to a man. Embracing humility and letting go of pride will foster personal growth and strengthen your marriage. During conversations, focus on listening to understand rather than to respond-this encourages genuine learning and growth. Be mindful of your tone and body language-this speaks volumes. When you make mistakes, seek forgiveness with a sincere heart. Practicing self-reflection and accountability allows you to take responsibility for your actions and decisions which builds trust and again, personal growth. Start today by showing your husband respect, appreciation, kindness, and love. Celebrate and cherish your husband's unique strengths and skills 🩵! Embrace a servant heart and cultivate gratitude towards him. Know that I'm praying for you, Ms. Erika!
YES! Thank you! It should be like my uncles and my grandfather.. ONE wife for life - thru the hard times and the good. Nothing but respect and honor in those relationships.
Wow, you're a wonderful woman! She understand how most women treat their husbands! If my wife treats me badly for nothing then I will leave her posthaste. Life is a one way trip and why one has to live like a caged animal? Respect should be reciprocal.
@@OfSoulAndSinI'm married to a narc who disrespected me and told me repeatedly I was replaceable all the while I respected him . Respect is a two way street. Divorce will be final next month.
@@sheririchardson7480 I’m very sorry. I have an idea how you feel, I’ve been with my wife for just under 30 years. Every day is a struggle to remember who I am. I hope and pray for your peace and recovery. May the rest of your life be blessed❤️.
Respect means more to me than love. You may not feel love to another human being at all times, but you can respect another at all times no matter how you feel in that moment. The moment you have lost respect, you have lost.
I would like to know percentages, age range, married vs single, and marriage length, of viewers. Please post. Married 45 years. I had 6 serious relationships previous to meeting my wife.
I see that there is a common thread through these comments. The dogs get more love than I do. My (lady) wanted me to do something today. I said sure but I am not having sex with you! I laughed, I said sex or you watch a 13 minute video. I at least got her to watch a video by this brilliant and lovely lady on The 5 Reasons Women Dont want Sex. Reason 5 was powerful. She was much nicer for the rest of the day. Maybe she learned something, she was much nicer today
@@carolynstevenson7682 Well at least you admit to this behaviour!! It takes real men and real women to admit to their wrong doings. Admitting your faults is a step towards peaceful and loving relationships. Everyone should be reflecting on their behaviour towards the other person!!!😊🙏❤️
