@@stephanien6237 Everyone makes a bad choice every now and then. It only becomes concerning when you keep making the same bad decisions over and over. I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt and say this was a lesson learned on his part.
Last story: When I was married, I wished my wife could find those coupons. I wouldn’t care if she did some dumpster diving. The most I could say is “shower after.” The contract story: That chick has serious issues, and doesn’t seem afraid to lose her boyfriend. Threaten to destroy my games? We’re done before it even gets off the ground.
Ikr? I wouldn't even propose a counter contract. Instead, I'd just tell her we're done. You expect me to pause a game at a moment's notice for 40 mins just because you called and wanted to talk? With no excuses? While not quite as extreme, I have had similar issues with my mother in the past, where I constantly have to explain to her that I'm playing an online game and I can't pause and do what she wants. And then, if I break even one rule, you're going to come here and destroy my property and not even pay me back for it? If that's how you're going to be, then no, you are NOT more important than my games. I'd rather have someone like my stepmother, who enjoys just sitting and watching my father play. Or someone who enjoys them as much as I do, and wants to play with me.
About the last story; i was just confused about why she started buying brand items instead of the same stuff they bought before. they could've gotten more out of it. And I'm confused as to why they're so tight on money and the wife has saved up while op may not have
I suspect that contract only came to existence because her boyfriend was gaming all of the time and did not give her attention. So while it sounds entitled, probably there is some context.
I will forever love how you always start a seemingly normal post with a normal voice, and as soon as it starts getting entitled, you progressively sound more and more Karen by the second 😂
Ahahahahaha the moment Dabney switches his voice in the “AITA for quitting my job” story is so good. You can tell it’s when he made up his mind about this guy lmao
Dear $80,000 Bride: It is NOT “Happy wife, happy life.” It is *”Happy house, happy spouse.”* I hope her fiancé sees this for the red flag parade that it is!
@@hiroshi7025 Honestly i wouldnt be shocked because he has a ton of past videos and this article probably didnt use the reddit titles (which is how i personally keep track of stories i've already heard) or any other indicators he could use to track the stories.
If your marrying a multi millionaire then sure spend 80k on your wedding if your marrying a doctor or lawyer sure. But if you have to work a second job to pay for you bitch of a fiancé to be happy please break up now. Leave her with all the wedding bills for extra points.
@@KittenLove536 The last one, he already did it too, now that i'm hearing it. He even clowned the guy doing stuff like "How dare she! Feeding our kids instead of my dignity!"
I’ve heard the story about the woman getting the gas receipt before. It broke my heart to hear that OP then and it still breaks my heart. What an a-hole, I hope the wife got out or the OP didn’t tell a 180 in his mind set. Providing the best you can for your kids even if your pride takes a hit is not disgusting. And I guarantee the wife is saving the money for a surprise for the kids or some thing the household really needs or a birthday party/Christmas something. I’d love to hear an update on that one.
Exactly, and he's done that subreddit before so idk. Idc since its same difference. My best guess is that using entitled parents title gets more clicks.
@5:15 "Happy wife, happy life" is for those who are already married which she is not! At this rate she may not even get to that point. If she was so determined to have a "dream wedding", she should have started saving for it long ago. Then if she can find someone who would pay for exactly what she wanted, all that money she saved was not spent on it is something extra she now has! Hope for the best, but always have a back-up plan.
I hope all these men dodged them red flags. Lol the lady who quit her job for her wedding I am currently working 80 hours a week and still managed to plan my wedding. Thanks for the laugh!
I feel sorry for you for having to work 80 hours a week... i really hope you are compensated with a high salary and a lot of vacation. That much work is absurdly unhealthy
A couple of years ago, a scientific study was published that determined the optimum amount of money to spend on a wedding, based on how long the marriage lasted. The answer? $5,000 to $10,000. Spending too much generates financial stress that kills relationships. Spending less turns out to be a symptom of lack of commitment. This is a statistical correlation, of course, your own results may vary. But if you need to get a second job to pay for the wedding, you're definitely spending too much.
My heart breaks for the boyfriend in the ring story. The story behind the ring was SO sweet! Especially when he declared that op would be the only woman he'd ever love. I may just get emotional easily but I nearly teared up, if a guy said that to me I'd marry him on the spot. Too bad the lady he though he was proposing to turned out so be such an entitled b
That last story threw me through a loop personally, on one hand my pride would probably keep me from dumpster diving.. but the practical side of doing so and scoring what is pretty much money that’s been thrown away l, well that’s an exploit well worth taking advantage over
I am a street sweeper, i pick up and separate the recyclable bottles from the rest of the trash and put them in the recycling machine. i can easily pick up about 2-3 euro's in a week. I don't really need the money but I keep it in a special piggy bank to give to delivery guys when they bring me my order.
The whole list was crazy in post five, but dude had me dying when he put "no using of mirror". Like no worries hun, I'll avoid reflective surfaces until death do us part.
@@Wendy_O._Koopa only reason I can think of is he's really insecure and doesn't want the girl to realize she can do waaaaaaay better than him and leave him. Though her being attractive wouldn't be the reason she'd run lol.
The change in tone and voice from the guy quitting his job and being mad about doing chores made me bust out laughing! I’m so glad I’m not watching this late at night.
Yup. Unfortunately, those of us who grew up in abusive homes are prime targets for these types of buttholes. Fortunately there are therapists out there to help us get our acts together and to see the abuse for what it is (we are trained from birth to interpret 'abuse' as 'love' rather than, you know 'abuse') and to create healthy boundaries (again we are trained from birth to have no boundaries at all), and to stop being in abusive relationships - hopefully before we perpetuate the cycle onto the next generation. Fortunately too, the internet has many resources for people to connect with each other and with support. And, to help our society as a whole say 'no' to buttholery. Even before the internet, Gen X started the trend towards X'g out abuse (hence the name) and the following generations have taken up the torch and are using it to burn down the societal norms that allow bullies to flourish. We are headed in the right direction.
I loved this one! Great stories. The guy at the end is nuts, you can score some seriously good stuff dumpster diving at the right times! When our kids worked retail, they always let us know the dump days and times of brand new, never opened stuff! (Never food! Don’t fret.) Christmas and Birthdays DONE! We’d always bring goodies to their shops, so they didn’t mind. She’s also doing what is necessary to feed the family well. Poor thing did all that work to make a special, spectacular, meal and he complains? No food for him!
My engagement ring was originally $100 and my fiancé was able to get it for only $60. I picked the ring and he got mad because he felt like it was too cheap but I didn't care. It could have been a ring pop and I would have still said yes. My engagement ring was stolen unfortunately but I ended up with another beautiful ring that honestly means a lot more because it's my fiance's grandmother's second wedding ring set so it's 2 matching silver bands with a small row of little diamonds, one for him and one for me. She was successfully married twice but sadly outlived both of her husnamds. Her first set went to her and her husband's children and the second set was given to my fiancé and I when she was dying because it was the only way she could think of to be there with us on our wedding day and all the milestones after which meant a lot. I'm honored and I wear that ring daily. People are too weird about rings if you ask me and have let marketing dictate what "love" is - spending way to much money on stones they told meant the most. It's literally a PR goldmine what they were able to do.
My boyfriend's dad works for a jeweler warehouse and employees and their family members get discounts on jewelry. He can get me an engagement ring for super cheap. He had me design my dream ring for him so he could have an idea because he wants me to have something special that really represents me. Something that no one else will have because I made it. And for him, I've already put together the perfect wedding ring. A black ring with mountains on it because the mountains mean a lot to him and his family, they are his place of happiness. I also want to get little sapphires on it if I can because we both love the color blue. His (one day our) last name will be engraved on the inside of the ring along with the date of our wedding day. It would cost me a couple hundred dollars but he's worth every penny. He wants to give me a ring worthy of a princess but I told him he could propose to me with a red rose (my favorite flower) the way they did back in the 1800's and I would still say yes. Nothing will ruin the proposal as long as it's private with just the 2 of us.
I had a girlfriend once telling me there's a rule that says the man must spend 6 months of salary on the engagement ring, and a year on the wedding ring. I just told her I'll know I have found the right person to marry when she'll say that it's much smarter to put that sort of money down on buying a house.
I agree. And I personally prefer a simple silver band myself. Nothing fancy, if it has a stone, a red stone. Be it garnet or a simple cheap ruby. To me, even 500 dollars would be too much for the ring.
@@tsubakiofmelancholy6297 that sounds beautiful. Personally I'm partial to gold especially since most bridal rings are silver nowadays. I think I would want a sapphire since A. It's way cheaper than a diamond and B. Blue is my favorite color. Only I prefer the cushion shape as far as gemstones and if I get a sapphire I can't get it cushion shaped like a diamond. I would have to get just a regular circle. I'm torn. Cause I want my engagement ring to be my wedding ring too. No reason for him to get me 2 rings if he isn't getting 2 rings. I don't think that's fair.
At first I thought it was the wife dumpster diving for food. Then I found out that she was dumpster diving for just coupons and I suddenly became a little bit less upset. If all it takes is to reach into a can and grab a couple coupons and you get better food, I'm all for it
Here I am back with the ring story: there’s nothing wrong with wanting a ring that your partner went out and got with you and your relationship in mind specifically. There’s also nothing wrong with wanting to give your partner a ring from the family that carries its own family symbolism. This could’ve easily been a clash in expectations that should’ve probably been discussed at some point. Except, of course, for the fact that OP was only talking about what the ring /looked/ like, and not the symbolism she wanted from it. That’s what makes her entitled.
Yeah, I totally get her dreaming of some amazing shiny ring from some store based on what her sister told her. And being a little let down that that's not what she got. I don't get her acting like he offered her a plastic ring from the Dollar Store. The fact that she had so little regard for the gesture her would be mother in law made OR for the feelings of her partner. I'm like wow...WOW! Bridezilla in the making?
I feel like my full judgment is reserved until I see the ring because of the bf didn’t clean it first so it’s like a murky diamond and a coppery oily band I could see having a bad response when you were expecting something new because the sister did imply that Kinda like when you expect something to taste like something else and even tho what you ate didn’t taste bad the expectation effected your opinion Tho I think I’m just trying to see how the gf can be sane so I can have some peace about them already having a kid….
@@foxidermyvaughan4457 Yeah, here’s hoping he had the sense to have it cleaned lol, and I totally get the expectation affecting perception thing. I’m hoping it was a miscommunication that they worked out, and when OP wrote this post, she was still trying to work out her feelings and ended up coming across badly bc she hadn’t quite figured out what she was bothered by. We can hope
@@ApocalypticEmu I also feel like it's one of those things where it's like why ask the sister what she thinks she would like, but then not going with that and instead going with something else
my boyfriend and i have kind of already agreed that we're going to get married when we can afford it, we want some family to be there and for it to be a nice, calm get together because he and i both suffer from anxiety ( i'm a little worse due to agoraphobia and social anxiety ), and honestly ? the man could go to a dollar store and buy me a ring pop and i'd be happy with the little plastic ring after i eat the candy. i love him, and i want to be called his husband. i've never cared about jewelry, i have thick fingers so i tend to not even wear it, it'd likely go on a chain around my neck anyways... i don't understand why people take diamonds so seriously. they're just little expensive rocks. i like rocks as much as the next guy but diamonds have just never been appealing to me.
8:49 - 8:55 I love how he slowly changes from the standard OP voice, to the entitled OP voice when he realizes that the Person writing the post in the AITA is actually the Entitled one.
I hope that that fiancé ran like the wind! She wants him to work two jobs to pay for HER wedding? Doesn't she realize that it's his wedding too? Run man, run!
I am a woman irl, and even I understand if I ever get married it is not just MY wedding. But also my fiancee's wedding. He has as much say as I do in it.
It's giving heavy doses of my favourite subreddits; a bit of r/choosingbeggars, a bit of r/entitledparents, pinch of r/nicegirls and r/niceguys, sprinkle of r/AITA. All that's missing is r/treelaw
Personally, I’d say it depends on the contract. The one in the video is an obvious example of a bad one, but if the “contract” is more along the lines of just making sure everyone is aware of each other’s boundaries(without being controlling) then I think that it’s fine. Not sure how to explain this better, but I hope you understand what I mean.
@@_LunarDragon 1. No cheating. 2. No doing anything illegal. 3. No smoking indoors or in the car, no getting drunk except on special occasions, and no substance abuse. 4. We both work and split expenses evenly. Luxury goods are bought with our own excess money after expenses, it is rude to consistently demand gifts. If one of us has to quit their job for any reason other than a disability, the other will support them temporarily, but it is expected they look for a new job and pay back their share of the expenses owed. 5. We both split chores evenly, as decided by us on a monthly basis. 6. Contribute x amount to a joint savings account which will go towards major or emergency expenses only, such as purchasing cars, making a down payment for a home, or paying for emergency medical bills. Neither of us shall withdraw money from this account without consent from the other, except during medical emergencies. An example of a decent relationship contract.
@@MyLittlePonyTheater Nah. Point 3, 4 and 6 would be dealbreakers. I bloody well decide what I do or do not with my own body myself, thank you very much. I would also not agree to any financial support or chore arrangement unless we were living together and plan to do so going forward. Lastly, I will NOT pay any money to any joint account unless we are married.
The proportional finance one started out well-but devolved into insanity. One spouse doesn’t get to choose to not work AND choose to not contribute to the household. However when a couple jointly decides that one spouse will stay home (usually to raise the kids) both of them should have access to the money. It is a marriage.
The OP in the second to last story with the ring is justifiably upset but there was a better way to handle it. I am a jeweler and I navigate it all the time. The current social understanding of an engagement ring is largely a gift from husband to wife that is highly symbolic of their love and their relationship - that is why the majority of couples at least talk about design before hand. My first question in the shopping and design process is always “tell me about your partner” because elements of the ring need to reflect elements of the person in order for it to be special and sentimental. No matter how sentimental it is for the husband, if it doesn’t reflect anything about the wife or anything unique about the couple, I wouldn’t like it either. The better why to talk about this is “yes I can’t wait to marry you” and then the “I love X about this ring but it would be more to my taste/more modern/better reflect us IF Y can we talk to a jeweler about that”.
Think you mean ex-boyfriend lol because I would hope he'd have the sense to dump her psychotic ass after this... coupled with setting the contract on fire. =D
Tbf the contract was mostly reasonable demands that while they spend their time together he should focus on her. I get the feeling that her past relationship her bf's focus has been mostly on games instead. Writing up a contract for something that should be a given and the threat of destruction of property though kind of sets things on the crazy territory. Kinda sucks to be ignored by the person who supposedly loves you.
The person who’s asking if they’re the butthole for quitting and doesn’t want to do extra chores is INSANE! I ended up quitting my job nearly 2 months ago because of stress (we’re talking being the person who’s ALWAYS called in to cover because I live 5 mins away and constantly being short staff but expected to do the work of 3 times as many people) as well as some other serious mental health problems. I’ve taken over all chores except laundry and washing up (we each do our own laundry and we split the washing up). I’ve even taken over the cooking but I really don’t mind that
Dog Almighty. The people in this article rSlash received take the cake when it comes to entitlement. I've even dealt with someone like the woman in the eighth story (the rules for her company). I'm actually grateful she said all that at the bar; I dodged a bullet for the cost of a drink.
To play devil's advocate as a male dude who loves video games, iv'e dated a ton of girls with so many horror stories of guys they've dated but also friends of mine with girlfriends who just literally ignore their girlfriends pretty much all the time and can't be dragged away from their video games for anything, even sex won't entice them away. They go on vacation and the guy just plays video games the whole time, the girl wants to go out and do something, they just want to sit at home and play games, the girl needs an emergency ride somewhere, the guy says call an uber cuz they're in a game. Obviously she went overboard and once she introduced property damage to it she went into full red alert territory but that stuff is weirdly common.
I hate hearing women complaining about their boyfriends because they don't spend enough money on them. On top of the woman spending $80,000 on her wedding. Lady, my "dream wedding" is just me marrying the love of my life. We could be standing outside in the pouring rain, just us and a justice of the peace, and I would still call it the happiest day of my life because I'd be marrying the man I love. Sure, a large wedding and a large reception sound nice, but I've never been one for the spotlight anyway. You can go small. The only thing that should matter is that he's the love of your life and you want to spend every last moment you have on this earth with him. It's about the ultimate commitment between two people, not about a woman's last hurrah before she's tied to her husband and kids.
I am SO HAPPY that during the "quit my job" story you quickly transitioned to the snobby voice. I was definitely getting a bit heated listening to it. I can't imagine doing that to my partner. If I quit my job just because I hate it and he makes more I would ABSOLUTELY take over at least 80% of the chores. Minimum.
Girlfriend: Hands over contract. "You will follow this." Boyfriend: Hands Contract Back. "Okay, guess your not my girlfriend anymore. Contract fulfilled."
I feel sometimes it's worth it to pay an ex to go away instead of drawing out an eviction. I don't like the idea of them naming a price to go away but I admit I have given in and paid an entitled ex to move out. I wish I could afford a Birkin bag but I can't but I was somehow able to afford an entitled gold digger of a bf. Go figure.
The story of the girl jealous of her sister... Her bf males $5000 a month? And he bought her a $700 LV wallet? Hands out 500 a month for her to spend? Whos paying for their living expenses? I'm making just over $5K a month, and berween a house, car and insuramce on everything, I'm pretty much living paycheck to paycheck... Wtf am I doing wrong lol
The sisters bf who makes less and pays them more is insane too. Giving the gf 1/4 of his pretax income and buying her gifts and such and expensive meals... he has to basically be living in a shack eating ramen... if true this is incredibly abusive... both these women are horrible people
Your actually working hard and deserve a nice person. These women in this video are entitled bullies who don't want to work for money and only use these poor men as money banks.
The contract for the boyfriend is expecting _way_ too much from him, holy crap! I'd be happy if he just had a text conversation with me at least once a day.
Exactly what I was thinking. If a girl tried to make me sign a contract that states if I make her unhappy she has not only the right to break my gaming console but not pay for the damages as well, I would laugh in her face, tell her good luck in finding love, and then start hitting in her BFF just to piss her off
I like how he read the story with a normal voice and then changed to an entilted voice after he noticed that he was the entilted one and not the wife:)) At 9:00
I’m familiar with last entitled parent story, that last story from AITA was also featured in an episode of r/ChoosingBeggers titled “You FED your kids?! YOUR SELFISH!”
6:40 “Because I have no willpower and stay up too late playing video games” Such a mood honestly. I get distracted by RU-vid or other nonsense and then it’s 5 am
@@Kiefsti I'd counter with cats, some would counter with fish, you may find some that even argue pigs, or turtles, and then there are the crazy few who choose birds; in general: Pets. Have some pets. Pets make getting up in the morning worth it.
@@nightdrivenen7909 I would actually agree cats, as I have those and fish, and no dogs 😅 But I find recommending cats makes people angry? Dogs seem safest in conversation lol
With the last story, the wife is at least diving for the coupons to spend on fresh food for her children rather than gathering food that was discarded in the bins for them. That method of saving money isn't sanitary since she wouldn't know how long it has been in there with the weather conditions at the time.
With the ring. I understand the sentimentality behind the gesture but I also understand the bride wanting her own ring. It's personal to her. Unless she was an asshole in the way she told him she'd rather have her own ring, I don't think she's the asshole. Unless she's just looking at it for it's value, then yep she's the asshole.
"LV is for poor people who want to look rich" is such an ironic complaint. Firstly, that's literally you describing yourself, and secondly, most rich folk, even models, more than half the time don't 'look' rich. Ask yourself, how often do you see millionaires wearing just casual clothing on camera or public or whatever.
On the other hand most of the time you can't tell shit cost 7k, these companies make normal clothes at abnormal prices as well, a person could wear 50k and look normal, there are super casual launge clothes at these prices.
13:22 that contract didn't give definitions and only mentioned playstation at that, imagine if he had an xbox lol, that would still be destruction of property, even if the contract was legal
The Contract Story: I understand that the OP wants a Boyfriend and all. But asking to not only sign a Binding Contract to essentially be controlled, but also to essentially give up Gaming for her, Which is just absurd and aggravating
Seems to me, that one might have a backstory. It might not be for any old boyfriend but her current one. One who constantly misses or arrives late due to the “just one more level” problem.
@@AndrewHalliwell I think you may be right. Definitely seems like she's sick of being ignored for a video game, understandable. Way of handling it, the contract, not so much. Especially the "I'll legally be allowed to destroy all your PlayStation games" bit. If he's that addicted and unwilling to change, dump his butt like a normal person.
AITA makes another guest appearance. That last story though, what’s there to be mad about? Other people are basically throwing money away. What’s wrong with someone using it and not letting it go to waste? Besides, ten cents here, twenty five there, a dollar over there, that stuff builds up. That could be a whole ‘nother gallon of gas for all we know
If a girl I'm thinking about dating puts a contract before me I leave that second and I'll never look back. Last story: YTA. What if you OP give your wife your savings so she can buy better food so she doesn't have to dumpster dive? I'm sure she's not proud of it and she's doing that so you don't have to eat low quality food. You should be thanking her and helping her OP not treat her like garbage.
My parents have gathered cans from dumpsters/public trash cans, sold their blood n occasionally begged in front of a store to feed us when money + food stamps ran short. Sometimes pride has to be set aside in order to lookout for your family. 🤷♀️
On the third story: I don't understand why people think that because you make 5 grand a month doesn't make you really rich. Probably because she hasn't seen that much money in her life. I understand that you may get less, but you should feel grateful that the BF is even spending that much on you in the first place. I feel like that is definitely a red flag if I ever saw one.
@@MissShiniSato Ikr? I don't really agree with the narrator, to me a 700-1000$ purse is pretty expensive. If I got expensive gifts and a freaking allowance from my SO you bet your ass I wouldn't be complaining and calculating whether I'm getting enough. He's not her sugar daddy, he doesn't have to give her ANY presents if she's not satisfied with the ones she's getting 💁
@@v_doll if the person wants a sugar daddy they should have looked for one straight out instead of stringing that guy along and keeping him from actual love 🤷🏽♀️
It's nice to see nothing changes on rSlash (in a great way) I always love seeing the old and new videos just to laugh at these karens with all of you. ^^ I kinda do miss background music in the new videos, idk why, just hearing music while putting the karens in their place is honestly fun. But keep it up! This is awesome!
I remember that last story. You posted it a long long time ago, and it was honestly kinda depressing that OP was upset that his wife was feeding the kids with some high quality food
As a goldsmith I have to point out that you actually CAN grow diamonds! In a lab setting, yes... But they do grow them. Lab created diamonds are a lot cheaper and becoming a lot more popular these days, lol. Also having worked with many a future bride wanting their engagement rings to be perfect, I can _understand_ where the girl in story 9 is coming from, though there probably needs to be some more context as well. I would sure hope the boyfriend actually got the ring cleaned and refreshed before giving it to her because rings can get DISGUSTING, on top of that if it hasn't been serviced in a long time, it could have worn away prongs or the ring band itself could be worn, which in turn would make what was a very nice ring look like an incredibly junky one. If the boyfriend hadn't even discussed the possibility of giving her the mother's ring as well I could see where the disappointment comes from. A wedding ring is something that the wife has to stare at on her finger all day and every day, so you better hope to get one that is at least a similar style to the kind that she likes. Otherwise she might be stuck wearing something that doesn't fit her tastes and as such, disappointment arises. I think there should have been more communication about the ring to begin with in order for her to appreciate the sentimental value a little more. Its not to say that she isn't necessarily being entitled, but I can see where she might be coming from.
11:30 When you see stuff like this, it usually means the person isn't aware (or don't care) that they are toxic and controlling. They want a submissive pet, not a love partner. Those sorts of people deserve to live alone.
I have a feeling that she has been though a gamer bf that ignored her at least once or twice before for gaming and ruined the relationship. The best solution is to not date a gamer. Plenty of them out there.
@@samhainnc9416 That's basically it. If their hobby makes them incompatible, just let it be a deal breaker. I do think it's funny that she kept saying it was irrelevant to their relationship and obviously it isn't. Though reply times and minimum talk amounts makes me feel like it might be more controlling than just the gaming.
I once dug out popsicle sticks out of the garbage at school. There were points written on them, for prizes, and after taking out all the sticks I could find, I had over 4 thousand points. I don’t remember how many was needed for an NES Game, but I was close by a lot. Of course the other students made fun of me for dumpster diving, but they quickly shut up after realizing how many points I had obtained, and which prize I was close to claiming, lol.
I don't understand the whole wallet brand stuff. If it last years then it's a good wallet/purse for me. Also can I have op's boyfriend, he sounds like a nice guy for dealing with this. With the 2 wife's I was thinking why can't my mom and her girlfriend be like that... Until it got to the entitled part. The hand me down ring story was sweet until op ruined it
i don’t think the ring story is that entitled. it is something that she has to wear forever and she’s allowed to have an opinion on something she has the wear. Yeah she should respect the sentimental value but she’s not entitled for not being a fan of it
Yeah. My wife and I were married in 1976, and I doubt our wedding even came close to the equivalent of 4k dollars. We were married for almost 37 years, when I lost her to cancer in 2012. These 'fantasy fairytale 80k weddings' are just bonkers imo.
The relationship contract is exactly why i love my gamer husband, cause instead of getting mad hes gaming you, SIT or LAY on his lap and enjoy watching him play or do what we do. Play your own game while he plays his and talk! Thank you
These bridezillas make me grateful that I do not have a dream wedding that I've been obsessing over since the age of 6, and even more so, they make me glad that I recognize some of my own red flags so that I can work on changing them long before getting married if that even happens.
lol if i ever get married I want a courthouse wedding, a venue with a playground for any kids, a Chinese buffet. dj and everything between 9 and 10 so I am hopefully out of my dress and into my pjs by eleven
Yeah that’s pretty obvious, you quit work then do the chores all week. Then once back to work go back to original chart n adjust paying bills to what you’re making. Everything was going good then something else happened. There’s more to this than quitting the job.
I love all of your videos but my most favourite ones are the entitled parents one I’m always listening to these always waiting for a new one to come out I listen to these regular when I’m doing stuff like playing games or doing dishes or whatever kind of funny how entitled people can really be
Ooh, Entitled "Parents" with a twist! *Third Post:* So far, this EP annoys me the most. I've never wanted someone to drop their phone face-down as bad as I do this woman. SN: Hearing rSlash say "not throwing shade" amuses me. *Sixth Post:* And there's the switch, lol. I think I've read this story before (not on rSlash), except I think OP or her spouse was of the opposite secks. Regardless, OP is TA. *Eighth Post:* Now I know why rSlash added this on r/EntitledParents. The woman is treating her (hopefully ex) boyfriend like her son. She better not have any hobbies if she's gonna get on her boyfriend's back about playing vidya games. The only way I could _slightly_ defend the woman is if her boyfriend is spending a lot of time playing VGs and not taking care of his responsibilities. *Ninth Post:* I think I know why it took the woman's (hopefully ex) boyfriend 10 years to propose to her. OP is TA. *Tenth Post:* At least the guy's wife is trying to save money for their family. What was _he_ doing? OP is TA.
What is op doing in the 10th post I dunno working like yeah she's saving money but buying name brand food possibly when you can buy off brand for even cheaper but they were already feed the kids why dig in trash bins for higher quality food?
@@KHFN_YT Why not? If there are still valid coupons for higher quality stuff in the trash are you just gonna leave it there? You'd better believe I'm swooping that shit up and buying me some roast beef!
@@LambertGamer while I agree with you, I also think the wife deserves an AH score because she insinuated that her savings are not for helping her children. At the moment her dumpster diving is work, but if she has a string of poor hauls and they really are struggling financially then those savings should be used (responsibly) to ensure your children taken care of. So Husband gets like 2/5 for his holy than thou thinking and wife gets MAX 1/5 for deciding her savings are too precious to use for her kids being fed.
you can take an old ring to a Jeweler and have in reset and redesigned to make it your own. I did this with the my fathers' wedding ring that I used as my own, I had the antique finish removed and added an offset stone, it looked like a completely different ring in time for our wedding...something borrowed, something blue, something old, something new... I think that's how it goes, it's been over 20 years since our wedding.
The one with the ring I kinda get, but for different reasons. Proposing with a ring from someone important to you is amazing and very sentimental. But when the relationship that ring originally represented ended with the "Till death do us part" section of the vows, I could understand hesitancy. But just because it's secondhand is asinine.
For the ring story, by your logic I am as old as the universe since the elements that make me up have been around that long. Jewelry can be new, they cut, shape, and put together stones and metals to make it.
Rslash has done this a couple of times and I think it's hilarious! Love how it gives more of a "didn't read this before" feel and it either catches the listener off guard or, if we sense this op is entitled, we wait for when the Karen voice kicks in!
I'd rather sleep 12 hours a night than fall asleep at 4 am and wake up at 12:55 pm and miss feeding the dog by an hour and have him look at me like "bitch how dare you" 🤣
As someone who’s gone through some depressive episodes, can confirm you can sleep 12 hours every day, for months at a time. Definitely not normal though asking that from someone is crazy xD
Not gonna lie, I make $5k a month. Due to the cost of just like…fucking existing as an adult and having debt, I am the poor. Not literally, but like…I got really excited last month because I got a $280 inflatable paddle board for like $170 and I had a bonus from work that let me grab it after all my bills were paid.
for the last story, as a poor person I say: WTF. You're mad because your wife found ways to save money? When life gets hard, you resort to any way to save it.
Okay but explaining how old diamonds are and the elements make wedding rings seem even more romantic. No matter shape, size, etc of the ring or band it's still a timeless piece of the universe just like the couple coming together to create and symbolize something beautiful. Oof that was too sappy for a comment on a reddit video lol
1:51 I hate how common this mentality is. Like, who would genuinely care? Also, the BF might not have a lot of money, which is why he took her to cheap places and bought a $700 gift. 4:15 Also, there is no "Happy wife, happy life" if you're asking too much out of the BF and making him miserable. Be more reasonable.
About the bridezillas... I feel like a lot of them are fundamentalists who believe they have to give up their ambitions, careers, and personal lives once they're married. They have to dedicate themselves to their husband/kids, so they view their wedding as the final day that they get dedicated to them. It's a really sad and desperate mindset. Doesn't make them less annoying though lol
Idk-most fundamentalists are all about the family and kids. And wasting money on a single day instead of on investing in the family and the dozens of children they plan to have.
First of all it is his child too, so he is not doing a favor to her. He is taking care of his own child. Second you assume she would blame him for folding wrong. You don’t know their dynamic. It may very well be the kind of guy who does a half assed job with laundry and fakes incompetence to get out of household chores. Also the expectation to be thanked when he does something for his child is gross. He is a parent and he should not expect thanks for parenting. Nobody thanks a woman for doing laundry for her child. And if you’re from US and you don’t know that folding is at least 80% of the laundry job then I don’t know what to say. It’s not like he is hand washing or hanging the clothes to dry. Men should stop weaponizing incompetence and start doing household chores as well as a woman does. And stop expecting a pat on the back for doing these work.
You missed OP's replies on the post about OP wanting to quit their job. They basically argued "The work I put in is gardening and hanging out with my wife, so I don't need more chores"
"I promise to let my girlfriend take away all my entertainment that isn't solely reliant on her and if I refuse, my girlfriend is allowed to DESTROY my PS4 and games with no repercussions." That's a list of red flags and I would actively REFUSE to sign anything that says someone is allowed to destroy my property after having gifts from an ex (who was still a friend at the time) destroyed by my at-the-time girlfriend because "he doesn't need [those gifts] anymore, he has me!"
As a female gamer I agree. Yes, if he plays those games over doing chores then he maybe too addicted but playing for 3 hours a day isn't too bad. I'd watch him play if he didn't mind or play with him if it was multiplayer.
I also love the phrase 'Its MY wedding' in the fourth story. Like yes, you're just marrying the love of your life, it's not like its a special day for him too
I mean why though looks dont matter unless you the OP In the story why do people care so much it's a family heirloom that would mean more than just money
For the story with the engagement ring: Who cares about an engagement ring? The man of my life could give me a fake diamond, I wouldn't even know the difference, and I'd still say yes and marry him. Who wants a big rock anyway? Who wants something you need to re-mortgage your house for? All that should matter is the love someone took to chose something for you and the fact that they asked at all.
The "I only get 500 a month!" Thing pissed me off. My ex made 5k A CHECK, paid me 100 a month, and took me out to Texas Roadhouse and Olive Garden as "nice" dates, so yeah she's just a brat
Yeah, but maaaybe not as bad as you think. She's jealous of her sister. This is the underlying issue. This is just your basic rivalry between sisters and she is the one who apparently always drew the shorter stick, even if her lot was pretty good as well. I think she compares herself to her sister too much.
I actually sleep for 11-14 hrs… I go to sleep at 11:00pm-1:00am and wake up at 11:00am-2:00pm. I do this mostly because I’m taking a medication that makes me incredibly tired, but I need it to live a peaceful life.
