r/InsaneParents - Terrible Parenting 101 

Calling Andrew Tate cringe without even naming him by name and then moving on to the next subject like nothing. Truly an alpha move. The Click doesn't waste time on trash.

Three-year-old me: *draws in predominantly dark, sombre colours* Kindergarten psychologist: *draws my mother's attention to this, explaining that it means high levels of stress, anxiety and possibly depression* Mother: *yells at me at home for shaming her like that and being ungrateful, throws away all dark-coloured pencils, crayons and paints, punishes me if I mix dark hues from other colours* Also mother: "Why won't you visit, why won't you ever let your kids stay with me?"

A 3 or 4 month olds are incapable of being "naughty" in any way. They can't even crawl at that age. They are pretty much like newborn still. They don't cry to spite or annoy or protest. They cry because they need something or they hurt. If you manage to teach a 3-4m old to not cry, it's because profound psychological damage has been done.

What could a 4 month old possibly do to warrant being "spanked"?... That's complete abuse and he may end up shaking that baby and giving it shaken baby syndrome. Also 4 months is an infant, not even a toddler yet.

Woman on the internet: 'NO ONE knows my child exists!!!' The internet once this information is shared: 'Now wait a damn minute, something ain't right.'

This mysterious blonde lady that appears in Click’s videos sometimes is such a good actor, she should get a raise!

The mom claiming her son likes the healthy food she buys, yet "complains incessantly" is completely out of touch with her son, and reality.

The mom wanting all the food being healthy and going through the trash is definitely going to cause her son an eating disorder.

As a mom I can fully assure you that 4 months old is in no way a toddler yet my baby didn't even have her real eye color yet let alone be able to control her limbs enough to start moving around

Fun fact: being forced into eating a type of food in your childhood makes you less likely to choose to eat that food later in life, while not being allowed to eat something will only make you crave it.

The thing that concerns me about the ramen mom isn't even her attitude about food but the fact she thinks her kids are actively working against her. The boy isn't eating ramen in order to just mock his mother. Your children are not the enemy.

Can we please all agree that having sex in the same bed your child sleeps in WHILE she's sleeping in it is wrong and disgusting!?

I've started immediately translating "I'm not doing this over text/messaging" to "I don't want there to be evidence."

My therapist said i wasn't supposed to unpack my entire childhood trauma in 40 minutes

That one mom pushing down her child who was trying to walk is like a metaphor for this whole sub - when their children try to assert any kind of independence, it’s pushed down in favour of the parent’s desires.

My mom used to tell a story that was her favorite from when I was several months old. It was a story about how neglectful she was of her daughter. Apparently, she would sleep until 12 pm and I didn't cry or make any noise. I would have a full diaper but never once interrupted her sleep. I have other horror stories like the time she went to answer the phone, leaving me alone in a kitchen sink filled with water and soap. She said I had disappeared and she thought I had drowned, only to find my tiny hand holding onto the faucet and my baby cheeks puffed out because I was holding my breath. Yeah, there are some horrible parents out there.

The father abusing his 4 month old Baby as means to "discipline" him is disgusting beyond words. My daughter is just shy of 4 months, seeing her even in mild discomfort makes my Heart bleed, I can't fathom how someone would think they're fit to be disciplined in any way, let alone physically. Most Babies that age can't even roll around yet, they're completely dependent on their caregivers to show them how the world works - in an understanding, empathetic manner.

"do as i preach not as i do" is literally every facebook mom's slogan who neglects and treats their kids like garbage and acts like she is the mom of the year on her facebook

I remember my mom giving me an hour long lecture about how junk food causes cancer when she found out my friend was sharing Cheez-Itz with me at school (I was 14). I'm now in my late 20s and Cheez-Itz are still one of my favorite snacks. The rebellion makes them taste better.

How the hell is this behaviour toward babies tolerated by anyone? My dad was always so gentle and caring. Once when my sister was less than 1, had a pretty serious illness and was refusing to to take her medicine while simultaneously not being able to breath, my dad panicked and force fed her the medicine. She was shit scared of my dad for an entire year after that. My mom & dad had to help her build trust with the help of a therapist. Babies absolutely get emotional scars and its worse because they won’t remember what caused it, just the sheer feeling of terror & lack of safety 🤦🏻‍♀️

"The baby cries every night. Hubby goes in with a belt to whoop it but it won't stop!" Of course not - it associates night-time in its crib as that time when a monster comes in and attacks him. They are literally training their baby to cry at night time, and then beating it for it.

I'm a millennial so I grew up getting spanked by a parent who hated doing it, but thought it was necessary for me not to grow up spoiled rotten (because that's what his parents taught him). here's what we realized after I was grown: 1. if they're not old enough to reason that they've done something wrong, they're not old enough for a spanking. 2. if they are old enough to reason that they've done something wrong, they are old enough to be sat down and talked about why they shouldn't do it. so they're too old for a spanking. (and as for kids who can't be reasoned with: no amount of spanking will cure a child with ASPD, oppositional defiant disorder, etc -- it's just going to make their behavior worse.) therefore, there is no appropriate age for a parent to spank a child. spanking is just teaching them to be afraid of you/consequences. don't keep that cycle going. back to the funny stuff!

My mother and her siblings got beaten up a lot in their childhood. When one of them did something wrong, all other siblings got punished as a collective too. My brother and I never got hit while we grew up, but my mom struggled quite a lot while she was raising two kids practically alone before she got a divorce. We weren't poor, but my mom did her best so my brother and I would never have to experience the same things that she had to experience like having to watch their father eat an entire family pizza alone. She screamed at my brother and me a few times when she was at her wits end thanks to her trauma, but she always apologized afterwards and talked to us to clear things up.

The money thing really bugs me. When i was younger, my parents needed to borrow money from me and my sibling to buy a car for the family. They made us little "credit checks" and made sure to pay us everything back as soon as they had the money.

The toddler spank story angers me That isn't a toddler A toddler is 1 or older They can't even eat solid foods yet that's around 6 months

Spanking a 4 month old IS abuse. If it doesn't stop ASAP it may change how the poor kid thinks of love and bonding, and what level of violence is appropriate to use on others casually. I would like to mention here- my Dad and all his siblings were spanked as kids. Even worse, their mother actively beat them, choosing objects based on how much pain she thought they would inflict. That kind of thing is linked to mental illness in adults, and indeed, he now has PTSD, one of his sisters is emotionally unstable, and one of their brothers will likely (hopefully) be in prison for life. Don't spank your kids, people.

The scary and sad thing is that those parent who smashes the kid's phone and someone gives them an emergency phone is something alarming. I've heard stories about a person who are hella concerned on kids that they secretly give them a phone. Then in some occasion the parent finds that phone and breaks it. Those parents need to be checked up on tbh since breaking phones which is used for emergency and everyday use is a wtf and red flag moment.

I really appreciate when this subreddit is covered, as it helps me put into perspective that my parents were, indeed, insane; my childhood was NOT normal; and that it's perfectly reasonable that I was diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety, trust, and attachment issues in middle school. My parents (mostly my mum) raised me telling me that mental illness was either a choice, or brought on by extreme traumas which did they adopted me at 13 months old, they know full well I didn't go through anything traumatic enough to kick off a mental illness. My mum would also say, "You don't need to see a therapist because therapists only teach you to hate your mother." She also told me not to talk to anyone about my brother, one of two of her own biological sons which was nine years older than me, having sex with me when I was five years old, because, "It'll ruin the reputation of this family." She absolutely refused to talk to her kids about sex, and anything that could be even vaguely associated with sex was harshly punished, and then she was surprised when I ended up being asexual ("It's just a phase- you'll want a baby someday" - I am in my mid 30s, and DO NOT and never did want children), and she would frequently gripe that I was doing her a disservice my not turning her into a grandmother. My Christmas present of 2017 was being "freed from the family" as she told me I wasn't her child because she wouldn't raise a child to turn out like I did. I stopped talking to her after that, and for months afterward she was dropping me voice and emails saying that she was soooo worried about me and NEEDED to hear from me that I'm alright. I am honestly quite happy to be done with that family, any these days spend my time rescuing and rehabilitating roosters that I get to cuddle every day, and honestly they give me more unconditional love and support than that family ever did. I am happy being a crazy chicken man living in the woods. Happier than I ever was under my childhood roof.

I always laugh when Click pulls out the wig because the idea that he bought it solely to make fun of Karens for his videos always cracks me up

‘No man would lay hands on a toddler.’ Needed to hear this, sometimes I regret cutting off my parents but things like this remind me I made the right choice.

Parents who yell at their kids for crying when they are getting yelled at are so weird. Like the kid crying is like the purest sign of guilt you can get out of a kid, was that not the intended outcome? YOU'VE WON! What are they supposed to do? Say "yes mother, I understand" stone faced? Just ignore you? just bury down deep to explode 10 years later? (Actually that one probably) it's happened to me when I was younger and I don't remember what I did any time it happened, just that my remorse was thrown back at me like it was even worse than whatever I had done

Oh god, that man beating and shouting at his baby is so upsetting. I hope that child's mother gets them both out of that situation quickly.

6:15 that's not borderline slave labor, this is *literally* slave labor: - She doesn't get paid for the work she does - She doesn't get a say in the informal "work contract" (quote: "this is non-negotiable") - She may be legally allowed to leave and start her own life, but good luck finding a home with no job and no money! I'm 100% sure their parents have already taken all her money, leaving her with no (safe) way to escape. They do effectively _own_ her!

In English, a toddler is a child old enough to walk unassisted, typically 2-3 years of age. A four-month-old baby (or even a baby one year old) is an *infant*. Thanks for another great video!

When they talk about their own death just say, "Ok, why don't you go already I'm tired of waiting", shuts them up real good.

The stepmom getting angry at the kid for running 3.4 miles instead of 3.5 is just…bleh. I can imagine the stepmom is the kind of lady who has a Karen attitude and nitpicks at the smallest things just to start nonexistent problems because she’s bored and beating on her lower-downs is her favorite source of entertainment. She would be such a fun boss.

"I have no memory of you kids growing up" that's an absent or substance addicted parent. Absolutely abusive either way, and bo child was at fault for a parent like that.

As a kid, my mom would borrow the money I'd get for my birthday or other gifts. Then when I'd ask for it back she'd just throw in my face everything she had given me (a roof over my head, food, clothes, etc) So I learned to hide the money and always tell her I was broke, or try and spend it as soon as I could.

12:30 bed sharing is often a big red flag for child abuse or neglect and having sex in the same room as a child is 100% child s3xual abuse. Like if you're doing that, your child should not be in your custody.

I almost started crying when you explained the family thing, so many times I brushed off the bad things my siblings said to me because they were family, thank you for finally helping me realize it doesn’t matter. They don’t deserve to keep being in my life if they don’t give me basic respect.

The funny thing about the kid waking up during fun times story is that the kid apparently said "stop it guys" which implies they were annoyed about it so probably awake for awhile and the fact they said stop it instead of asking what they were doing or something like that probably means they know what's going on.

Having sex in the same bed or same room your child is in it's really problematic, in my country you can go to jail because that classifies as sexual harassment and it really is, teaching your kid to sleep in another room is easier than making them pretend they're asleep every time you have "adult" time and yes, they're not asleep, they're pretending and they pretend to wake up when they get enough of your shit

Hearing about the abuse to a 4 month old and 20 month old. It’s just hurts my soul. 😢 I don’t understand how you can treat a baby like that. I make sure my kids are loved and they know we will always be there. Some people really shouldn’t be parents.

16:15 the worst part is it ISN'T the kid's property, it's technically the mother's since SHE paid for it. Sis destroyed her own property cause she needed to feel strong

Trauma as a baby for sure echoes into adulthood… I hope that poor mom gets her baby away from that abusive man 😢

As for that last mom... ma'am, if you're too busy for your child to start walking, you're too busy to have a child. Time to start looking into options for getting her adopted before you do more damage

We were really poor as kids but our parents still gave us each a small $5 a week allowance and I was great at saving. I’d get paid for various chores too and saved up $500 at 12 yo. My mom came to me one day and told me the family was struggling. Could she use my money for bills and pay me back the next few months? I agreed. And actually made me feel all good inside 😂 It’s 100% about the principal! Ffs. Some parents 🙄🙄🙄

35:20 is pretty much the same as saying: "My child said her first word today! But I stopped her because I don't want her to backtalk me"

My son is 4 months old next week. I can’t imagine what that child could even be doing to “get in trouble.” 4 month olds can barely even sit up by themselves. Wtf my guy?!?!

my mother has been saying "I'm not your friend, I'm your mother" my whole life to justify doing whatever abusive thing she feels like doing that day. whenever I see any parent say that shit I immediately don't trust them as a person. you can and should be both

“I hate you” “I know” “Good” That literally broke my heart

18:25 this is like saying "hey your kid started crying so I put him up for adoption"

14:29 No Click, she said 4 months. That’s not a toddler, that’s just after newborn. This man has been hitting pretty much a newborn baby. He might not plan to, but the force could’ve broken a bone, and screaming in an ear (which literally isn’t discipline by any stretch of the imagination) can cause permanent hearing loss. This isn’t a “is a father disciplining too harshly?”, he’s abusing their infant.

Here is a tip for any parents who have screaming kids. Use earplugs while you calm them, it lowers the stress that can make you feel frustrated. Then talk with a soft voice back to them. And it allows you to keep your baby close to your body/face. PS Just don’t go to bed with them, you need to hear them.

my mom had the same energy as that ramen lady when i was growing up. all it did was make me hide and hoard food, binge like crazy when "bad" foods were available because i didn't know when i'd see them again, and make me refuse to eat anything 'healthy' for like 5 years once i moved out. so... yeah, parents, PLEASE don't do this to your kids. i'm 27 now and only just starting to be able to work through my atrocious relationship with food.

There was this woman I used to babysit for and when I first started babysitting for her, her kid was two years old and lived in a playpen. She had hidden cameras all around the house and I was not allowed to take her out of the playpen because she was afraid I would drop her. (I already had a child of my own at the time) I was not allowed to change her because it was weird for another adult woman to see her baby naked and this woman would be gone for up to 12 hours a day. She would also sit in the big chair in front of the playpen and smoke. It was wild. I ended up quitting and calling child services.

As someone who was not given a birth certificate despite being born in a hospital in the United States, I can tell you any parent who does this just abused their child if they are in the US. Getting one after the fact (and after I turned 18) was very difficult, and the parent who demanded I not have one was highly controlling and manipulative. He would have held me down the rest of my life if I had allowed it, and I was nearly brainwashed enough to do so.

I made a joke about the whole potato toxin thing and my stepmom said "well potatoes DO pull out toxins" She was serious. I don't know how I've lived this long if THAT'S what raised me.

My mother is like the mom who preached about kids needing mom in life😂. She never cared for any of us and just used us to garner pity and favors from people. She’s abusive to us at home and in public acts like a good mother when she’s not.

My dad once called me a 'stupid onion' because I forgot to take the leftovers from dinner at their place home... and that kinda hurt, even if it's a silly insult and he didn't mean to hurt me. I can't imagine having a parent actually cuss you out. That's so brutal :(

To go along with Click's note about mental illness: I suffered from terrible mental health issues in the past. I was a horrifically manipulative and emotionally abusive person, and I really hurt the people I cared about. There is nothing that can justify the way I treated them. And I had no idea that what I was doing was wrong. The only thing that made me realize that I was the problem and needed to change was them outright leaving me. It is NOT your responsibility to stay with someone if they are treating you badly. You SHOULD get out. There is absolutely no circumstance in which it is appropriate for anyone to hurt you in any way at all. They are not going to change as long as you stay with them. You cannot change them. You cannot hope that things will get better. The only thing you can do is _get away from them_ and hope that will be enough to make them realize that losing you was their fault. _You_ and _your_ mental health are more important than they could ever be. EDIT: _Never_ listen to people who say there might be hope. You are not the exception. Your relationship will not get better if you work hard enough to save it. Your abuser will prey on your hope and use it to dig in deeper and destroy your sense of what you think you deserve. Once more, _you_ are the only person that matters in your situation. If your partner, parent or friend consistently makes you feel bad, leave. _Period._

Fun fact controlling parents: if your kid payed for their cellphone you taking it is illegal because that's property theft. And snooping on it once they turn 18 is illegal because that's invasion of privacy on a personal device. Ps: destroying something they bought is also illegal because that's destruction of property

It's not just the fact of having a child and stop maturing, if a person doesn't get to experience being a child and the whole coming of age process then their "adult" mentality is severely delayed/damaged. I had my son when i was 15 and it took me SOOOO long and I've had to work really REALLY hard to grow out of that toxic, immature teenage mentality...i always thought something was wrong with me for the longest because i just couldn't seem to figure out how to be a "normal" functioning adult. But after a little therapy and a LOT of self reflection, accountability and hard work, I was SO happy to leave behind the chaos and stress... 20:43

16:06 i remember when i told my mum about my mental problems, the cvutting, su!cide idealisation and that i'm trans. Instead of helping me, she went into my room, grabbed my phone, went up to me telling me and smashed the floor in front of me. To this day, she has not apologized, and when I mention it, she excuses herself saying "oH bUt ThE fAcEbOoK sAiD tHaT fEeLiNg AnGeR iN sItUaTiOnS lIkE tHiS iS nOrMaL".

I've been privileged enough to have a loving and supporting family around me, and whenever we get into disagreements or I feel unhappy, I watch these videos and I feel grateful that I don't have these insane parents. I honestly feel sorry for anyone who has to put up with these grown-up infants and I hope you can move past them because you don't need such BS in your life.

4 months isn't even a toddler. A 4 month old has just learned to hold their head up, and is learning to roll over. They're barely discovering that they're able to control their own hands.

spanking a 4mo child is insane. My cousins ex would lock their then 2 and 5mo old in the closet, and rattle the door and scream at them through the door (like blood curdling, anger rage scream) "for fun", thankfully he's not in the picture anymore, and their lives are much better, but the oldest is incredibly shy and timid, and has severe abandonment issues, and the youngest FREAKS out and screams in terror when in the dark, and is super easily startled by loud noises. by physically or emotionally "punishing" (assaulting/harassing) a child that young you're genuinly conditioning them to be afraid of you and/or various situations. dont spank babies, or scream at them. they arent capable of understanding, but are capable of being negatively affected.

6:34 What he just said was LITERALLY how my teacher explained how Slave owners Kept there Slaves.

Ah, excuse me, I'm gonna hug my supportive parents before watching this, I'm always reminded how lucky I am on this subreddit

the saying "the axe may not remember, but the tree never forgot" (or something close to that ) is very telling. although in my case, all I remember of the majority of my life until age 18, is a small handful of abuses. So thankful for my brain protecting me, although PTSD is there

That story about the mom demanding rent and threatening to lock her kids out of their rooms really struck me. My own mom did a similar thing-- wanted $500 in rent every month while I was working a minimum wage job. I hated giving it to her because I knew that money was going towards alcohol and makeup and clothes, not the mortgage or utilities. I even offered to pick up some utility bills instead, which she denied every time. Because she traveled for work, she was gone for weeks at a time-- so I was also buying groceries for myself and my brother on top. And if I was late on payment, or gave her attitude, her first response was always threatening to kick me out. But I called her bluff and (slightly out of spite) moved in with my boyfriend to another state 6 months ago. Even with rent, utilities, groceries, laundry, etc I'm spending LESS than I did living with my mom. Plus my bf is way more emotionally mature than she is. Just because parents provide the bare minimum doesn't make them good parents. Especially if they use it as leverage to coerce you with.

When i first started watching you, i related to the r/insaneparents the most, i heard your commentary and i was worried that it might make me selfish/entitled, but it turns out that the selfishness was just wanting basic human decency. Thank you

That mom complaining about instant ramen seems kinda delusional tbh. "Healthy foods he likes but he still complains" sound like he doesn't like them actually

Every time I think I saw the worst one in the video I am corrected... that man is physically punishing a 4 MONTH OLD BABY?? WTF I don't even know what to do with this rage, he needs to be jailed and stripped of parental rights, that is so sickening

18:43 suing will work as long as you are above 18 and have full ownership over the cat. It could even be a criminal charge because of theft. Also you have to be able to buy a good lawyer.

22:27 i think that is the most passive aggressive thumbs up in a text ever

as someone who uses tracking apps for good reasons I can actually confirm that so long as all parties are not insane creatures it can be useful. I'm a minor and trans and often go on runs so me and my sister have each other on life360 so that way if im not home like 30 minutes after I normally get home she'll shoot me a message asking if im safe and if I don't respond she'll check location. we also use it when we're meeting up at a resturaunt and wanna check how far the other it.

Oh boy oh boy, arrived early to unpack my childhood traumas

26:45 HOLY SHIT THAT'S MY POST

Its haunting to see lots of similarities from your own parents to parents like these, brings chills to me.

13:33 this is basically child abuse. The little guy is an infant, the more the poor little thing gets hit the more he is going to cry. Yelling in his little ears could cause the baby to wind up deaf. And the sad thing is that mom is letting this happen. Prayers go out to the tiny ones. 🙏

My parents raised me eating a lot of natural foods...we went to Whole Foods a lot growing up. I used to love sleepovers because I got to splurge on junk. My cousins always had great sugary cereal. Honestly being raised that strictly when it came to food made me sway the other way as an adult. After years of 7 grain bread and natural peanut butter I now love white bread and Skippy. A lot of times that strictness backfires.

More context about the cat situation because I read it a while ago, the cat was ops only friend in an abusive household growing up but they had to leave the cat at their parents for a year while they sorted things out at college and the parents agreed to this. If I remember rightly they found their cat and brought them into their dorm, cut contact with parents and is sorting out new living conditions so they can keep the cat

About the lady who destroyed her kid's phone & then posted it on Social Media, great way to tell the whole Internet that your kid can't call for help if someone stuffs them into an unmarked cargo van. Some things you shouldn't post on social media.

My mom is super toxic but in a sneaky way : she says that " physical abuse is bad " but thinks emotional abuse doesn' t exist, guilt trips me into doing more than I agreed to, and even didn' t react at all when I got into horribly manipulative relationships and hides behind the excuse that she was friends with the families of the people who hurt me, and keeps making me feel super bad about my weight but the very next day makes us go to the restaurant and that same evening makes crêpes pancakes and waffles with jam. She also keeps getting anger outburts about nothing. Also the type of person who says " hey you wanna do this or not ? " but in a way that impies that you actually don't have a choice so when I say no she throws a fit. She also keeps using me as a venting bag for all her trauma even though she has a therapist, and I don' t understand how she doesn' t realize what' s going on.

The post about the Woman destroying her Daughters phone is just upsetting. There should some sort of legal system to work against this. It should not be allowed for parents to destroy their childrens stuff just because "they want to teach them a lesson". That is not teaching, that is socially unacceptable behavior.

Something I've noticed from personal experience is most people that vehemently argue that you're cheating are often cheating themselves, it's that thought of "well I'M cheating and getting away with it why couldn't you?"

At 21:15. That girl needs to get out of the relationship if he's accusing her of cheating then 90% he is cheating on her possibly with a black woman. Since race seems to be on the mind. My brother did it to his relationships (he was the one cheating), and other men that I know were cheating were accusing their gf of it as well.

A 4 month old isn't a toddler. It's an infant who can't even sit up yet much less take steps or have any sense of self. Which makes that so much worse. That mother needs to take that BABY out of that situation immediately and that father needs to take classes in parenting, child development and anger managment too. I judge the mother just as much for still giving that man access to the child after the first time she witnessed the abuse.

I have always wanted to cut my hair short because of convenience and mom complains about it... only to get disowned after having it cut short today. But I'm quite proud of myself for being able to do it... this is the first time I fully defied my mom's orders about my body. She's like the parents in this subreddit... and it's quite coincidence that RU-vid recommended this to me today. I've always been afraid of defying my mom because she would always lash out at me and threaten me. But today... today is the day I did something I truly wanted, against her wishes, and I may be disowned from today forward but I have gained a new level of confidence... something I should've really had as a normal person would (but again, mom always wants to stunt all self-esteem cause that means I'll still be forced to follow her every whim). Edit: Sorry this is too long I'm, just too happy I'm crying a bit because of joy actually.

“I’m not your friend I’m your mama” is such a sad and wrong mindset. My mom is one of my best friends, and it’s really helped me growing up. Typically, people respond to love and respect far moreso than a harsh hand.

I watch these, despite how triggering they are, because it tells me that: 1) what I went through isn't good, or acceptable, and 2) a depressingly large amount of people had similar experiences. We're not better people because of what we went through, we're good people in spite of it.

I am very happy something like screenshots and cams exist. When I was a kid a lot of abuse was simply not recorded. No one believed you, because no one would do such things and this parent has a great reputation in town. Thanks god kids can record things now.

I know my parents aren't the best, but it's stuff like this that make me appreciate how normal they seem in comparison.

As someone whose parents did things like check the trash for evidence... yeah, that kid is probably gonna get good at hiding things, physical or otherwise.

Beating a 4 month old is abusive, dangerous, and absolutely disgusting. I really hope someone told that lady to get the hell away from her husband.

So horrified, especially the toddler being pushed down while starting to stand up... Can't imagine being punished for merely growing up while being so young causing any kind of trauma at all 🤦‍♀🤦‍♀🤦‍♀

The mom stopping the toddler from walking is hilariously misguided to me. As a parent of 3 (and uncle of one who is at my house for daycare often), I know that a newly-walking toddler moves way slower than a crawling one. And they stay slower than crawling pretty much until they learn to run. If you’re tired of chasing after your toddler all the time, LET THEM WALK.

Videos like this remind me how lucky I am to have the parents I have. Even though their not perfect, and they struggle with me being queer, they try and they would never kick me out. I love them

If u put a potato in an ovan at 300°C for an hour it may turn black... then possibly turn your house black as well...