r/Nicegirls | she doesn't want much. 

I really appreciate that Robin talks about these obviously abusive behaviours with the seriousness they need, allot of the time especially with this sub they're played off as funny and it's super uncomfortable.

The "C HE AT" was actually really clever wordplay, sadly it likely came from someone insane

"We're not even dating" "you don't know that" NGL if this is being said as a joke thats hilarious. If it was meant seriously then she's insane

I love short boys, I love tall boys, I love boys. It breaks my heart that some people think it's okay to laugh about any aspect of how a person looks, no matter their gender.

13:19 as a dude who was abused by a girl, Robin's speech restored my faith in humanity a tiny bit

I once dated a girl that insisted on me celebrating mothers day with her.... She had no kids.... She just wanted another holiday to be all about her. For all the men that got socks on fathers day, I salute you.

I don't think Robin have ever laughed this much in one video and it makes me so happy

Just to put a finer point on the "can't physically abuse a man" thing. Strength doesn't matter when victims of abuse are manipulated by their abusers into not fighting back.

Hey, I just wanted to say- I’m an extremely insecure guy in high school and I’ve never liked how I look. I want to thank Robin for his speech about how we can’t control how we look, and it’s not my fault. My day just got a little better and my self-esteem a little higher thanks to you. Thank you, and keep up the good work. :)

I just got dumped by my gf of three years and when I was talking to my mom she was like “I’m glad bc she was emotionally abusing you” and I didn’t believe her till I saw Robin calling out all the girlfriend texts and fame playing and realized she did that for three years, isolated me from all my friends, threw a fit and melt down when I tried to go out, and made me scared to leave. It feels like a weight has been lifted that I didn’t realize was there

I once was in a bad mood and a girl asked me what was wrong. I said ‘I don’t want to talk about it’. I wanted her to push and wanted to talk about but didn’t want to flat out say it but she didn’t push. So you know what I did? I went to bed, woke up, and messed her the next day “good morning! Thanks for talking with me last night”. Because it’s not her damn fault I was being stupid emotional. And I appreciate She respected me enough to leave me alone. Like don’t blame them because they did what they asked.

Some of these people need to be put in a psych ward 💀💀

The woman that sent a man over 159K texts actually went full stalker mode. She was eventually arrested for pushing things too far all because she thought that she was being given signs telling her that they were meant to be together. Last I knew TO THIS DAY she still believes they are supposed to be together. x_x

20:35 And this is why June is, “men’s mental health awareness month”

if someone says "you failed/passed the test" then thats most likely because they are trying to come up with a quick excuse because they realized they shouldnt have said whatever they said before.

Dated a "nicegirl" before she made me cut off all contact with my family, cheated on me with best friend and 8months after we broke up messaged me a picture of her totaled car and said "you think you get to kill me fuck you try harder" I had moved two states away at this point and hadn't spoken to her or even been in the same state as her for 7months, later found out she had been telling people I used "black magic" to curse her which is why she got in a wreck.

Say it with me kids; Chasing a girl that actually doesn’t want to be chased can be sexual harassment! I’d rather risk loosing a petty ass relationship than risk my freedom :)

11:09 I’m a girl who loves video games, but doing this to a game because you’re being an insecure, jealous loser is honestly something that would make me grab all their stuff in my house and dump it in front of their house then tell them that we’re breaking up because video games are expensive and I don’t play them often because I don’t have the time for them as much anymore and when I do play them it’s because I want to blow off steam and try not to be as toxic as their insecure self.

The whole "ugly people being in relationships makes me upset" is hilarious to me, because they never seem to realize having that attitude makes them supremely ugly 😂 it's almost like there's more to attraction and strong relationships than just a person's appearance. But hey, I'm ugly af, wtf do I know?

With the "Nine affairs," I've heard many, MANY stories from Reddit where once the first affair is discovered the past ones start revealing themselves. It doesn't mean that he forgave or took her back eight times, he could have been in the dark for many if not all but the last one of them. That said, "besides everything I did, what did I do?" is objectively funny in it's self contradiction.

Regarding the "guys can't be abused by their girlfriends" thing, one of my favorite responses (and the typical replies to the asked questions) is "Okay, so in a gay relationship, can one of the guys be abusing his boyfriend, or is it only because there's a girl involved that guys become abusive?" "Yes, guys are abusive" "Okay. Can a girl abuse her lesbian girlfriend, or are those girls lying about being abused by their partners?" "Girls don't lie about that, don't be toxic" _"So you admit that guys can be abused, and girls can be abusive. What's stopping a guy who could be abused from getting together with a girl who can be abusive?"_ I've yet to hear a satisfactory answer to the final question. Most of the time I hear ad hominem attacks, strawman arguments, or silence. The closest I've heard to a reasonable argument is "guys are less fragile so they can handle what girls do to them" but like... fam, that's not for the abuser to decide, if some guy were to be like "nah she's strong, she can handle being punched a few times every day" y'all'd be rightfully up in arms about that. Nobody can speak for what is and isn't a problem for others, and you're no exception. Edit: and if they say "no, guys can't be abusive to their boyfriends" or "girls can't be abusive to their girlfriends" I say "then does that not mean that gay/lesbian relationships are inherently safer and more stable than straight relationships?" because a lot of these people are also homophobic to some degree

My own experience with an insane girl: So this girl came into my school, new student, near the middle to end of the year. Shorter than me, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, really pretty. I was heavily bullied, and so when she began to give me attention, i was super excited. I felt like i had fallen in love the same day i had met her. Looking back, i really should have known about being touch starved. Two days after meeting, shes flirty and touching me, confesses love middle of class. Super excited, say i love her too. We get into a relationship that day. I know the red flags are EXTREMELY obvious here. Lovebombing, attention craving, there is obviously red flags. We have a good long run, christmas break comes up and we have to cut contact with eachother because she lives in a shared home. Christmas break is over, im starting to rethink our relationship, and realizing im not really attracted to her, more just that i liked her attention. Eventually, she starts touching me inappropriately in class without my conset, i have been raped before, and so i didnt want that to happen again. I tell her to stop, she stops for a day and returns to it right back again. I break up with her over it. Next day, she comes in heavily depressed. It looks like she has put on makeup to look more depressed for attention. She begins to stalk me. A few days after breaking up, my friend shows me to his other friendgroup, hoping to hit it off and help me get more friends. One kid shares an interestm and we are both autistic. We hit it off pretty easily. At lunch, i turn over to look at my Ex and shes glaring at my new friend. I think nothing of it, i get sick for a few days. When i come back, i get told she tried to strangle him. Straight up. Hands on neckm friend turning blue and all. She tried to kill my new friend because she thought i left her for him. I report her for stalking and attempted murder to the school, they take some reports, look at some cameras, and then shes gone for good. Middleschool is crazy man.

14:06 you should really call her out on that shit, make a comment saying "Really? Because I and the rest of our family was under the impression that it was because you were attempting to have an affair with one of your minor sons teenage friends"

3:51 to be jealous of a cat, you need to be on a whole new level ಠ⁠_⁠ಠ

10:40 when the "nicegirl" talks about how it is basically abuse for a guy to play games, she is not aware that destroying his hobbies/possesions is actual (as in not basically) abuse

Even if she sent one text every second I think it still take like 44 hours if this was over the course of a day all by herself, I would like to know how she was working on it so fast. Such a skill sounds incredibly useful to me with my own projects

every time a "nice girl" compains about a guy RESPECTING CONSENT and taking a no as a no, instead of continuing to push or doing things anyway, I wanna scream. ffs aren't we all still fighting for consent to be respected and for no to be taken as a no? though, those girls don't seem like the type to respect someone else's no or consent either

The one about the black guy on the train/bus is so weird because they didn't even have to bring up his race.

7:25 thank you! Grrrr! Women would normally complain about dudes harassing/bothering them at the gym. People normally want to go to the gym to workout, not to get ogled. Some people...

This subreddit is usually awful to look at but I am LOVING Robin's laugh troughout it omfg hahaha

I never before really thought I had THAT good of a relationship with my ex-girlfriend, but seeing just how manipulative and vile some people are with their partners, we seemed pretty fucking good in comparison

I discovered my drug addicted abusive sister has a facebook profile. She's constantly putting up inspirational and emotional posts. Talking about how great she is and how people treat her badly. She abused me my entire life. She cheats on every man she gets. And most, if not all, of her kids have been removed from her. Years of drugs and addiction have made her unrecognizable. But hey, keep posting lies, whatever makes you happy sis 👍

God this subreddit is infuriating 💀 but I love robins voice so I'm quite happy

13:10 Ad suspicious as that one sounds, I flinch so hard whenever someone is walking behind me because my family used to tickle me all the time and now I'm paranoid about it. Not exactly traumatic but I still flinch

25:09 that is the most "boy" answer to that kind of message i have ever seen GAD DAYUMN😭😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

If my girlfriend asks me to step back or leave her alone for a little while, sure I’ll ask her if she’s sure, and let her know I’m worried, but then I’ll leave her alone until she wants to speak idk what’s so damn wrong about being respectful

The one about the girl being jealous of a cat reminded me of when I had a girlfriend who was jealous of my bearded dragon that I have had for 4 years now and went through the entire pandemic with. In short I think that no one should be jealous of a god dam animal!

I was emotionally abused by a horrible girl who not only used me to cheat on her other girlfriend along with manipulation and then, after I idiotically gave her a second chance a year later, we didn't even last three days until she began to act up again, this time with an ex of mine with whom I remained close at that time. I gave her the chance to apologize twice and she refused. Dropped her instantly after that She had the gaul to attempt to contact me again a few weeks ago. I'm nobody to tell you, dear reader, what to do with your life and maybe you're more forgiving than I am but don't give people second chances unless you have proof that they've changed. You also don't owe anyone a second chance, ever

The most powerful I have ever felt as a service industry worker is a customer I was Obligated To Be Nice To said “I Have a Boyfriend” to which I responded, “oh! Me too! We have so much in common :) “

19:28 - OK, we've officially progressed from lunatics thinking we can read minds to them thinking we can predict the future well enough to have prepared an extremely random and specific photo the day before. Drop that crazy jealous lunatic, bro.

Whenever my partner is absorbed by video games I do one of two things 1) ask if I can play too, or 2) take advantage of him being distracted so I can play on my phone for hours. It’s fine having personal time for yourself while your partner is with you. Keeps me sane getting those moments of me time.

24:36 This is definitely a lose/lose situation. She asks you not to get her something, but you get her something she responds with, "Why did you get me something? I didn't ask for anything." But if you DON'T get her anything, She sks."Why didn't you get me anything?"

10:40 the irony of her calling him playing video games abuse. you know what IS abuse? destroying peoples property because they dont do exactly what you want and say or revolve their whole life around you

It's amazing how egotistical, narcissistic, jealous, manipulative, and almost every TIME an abuser, "nice girls/guys" are. 💀 Whenever I see any posts, videos, comments, or stories/articles about these kinds of people, I genuinely think that I lose some of my brain cells. Because there is absolutely NO WAY that they genuinely think what they are doing to people is considered "nice". They are like 1 murder case away from being the epitome of EVIL. Honestly, I'm convinced that these types of "people" aren't even human. 🤨😑🙄😒

Ok sorry this is unrelated but using Denji and Makima in the talking about Valentines part is gonna age like milk after Part 1 of CSM is done lmao

Remember, no matter how beautiful you are, there is someone out there who thinks you are a 5/10 at best. And no matter how ugly you are, there is someone out there who thinks you are fine just the way you are.

I am so glad I didn’t start dating in this day and age and my momma taught me how to treat boys and men. I have always asked for height, but that’s because I’m a 5’10” woman. My husband is 2 inches shorter. I just wanted someone slightly higher compatible because I have a broken spine and can’t bend very well. Honestly. But so glad I was taught to treat men the same way I treat my girly friends. People are people. And people deserve grace and mercy. These people are completely unhinged.

The fact that the person in the post at 2:16 asked “besides what is wrong with me what is wrong with me” really shows how in the wrong they are because they know it but are trying to get around it

6:55 The "buff guys" are buff guys _because they spend their time in the gym working out instead of talking to people._ You're specifically targeting the _one_ specific group of people who _obviously_ don't use the gym for the purpose you're hoping to use it for.

One of my favorite parts about these petite girls insisting on exceptionally tall men is that they’re inadvertently creating a whole generation of short men by counteracting their partner’s tall genes with their own short ones!

17:08 that's called wanting the people who love you to suffer for it, and it is highly sociopathic. Buy a vibrator, stop dating, and see a therapist.

Imagine if "Nice guys" and "Nice girls" meet each other in DMs and real life. Will their relationships flourish?

This actually made me realize that my ex was abusive. He was really manipulative and would tell me to do things I was uncomfortable with and if I didn’t he would threaten self harm and even sent me pictures a few times. That was fucked up.

As someone who can't look in the mirror without thinking 'Damn, I am ugly,' I really appreciate Robin explaining that it isn't as bad as I think it is. Thank you, Emkay. I really needed that. ❤️

8:25 nah this gotta be an AI 💀

do you ever wonder what is going on inside of these guys heads? There is no way these guys can be serious sometimes....

Ok so for the one with 159,000 texts, the average adult types at 40 words per minute. lets say she was typing “I love you” over and over just so we can get a constant number of words per message. 159,000 messages • 3 words = 477,000 words. divide that by 40 and you get 11,925 minutes. that’s 198.75 hours. 8.28125 days. this girl used 2.2688356164384% of her year to blow up this man’s phone. what the hell???

I was a nice girl when I was younger. Dog, I feel so f-ing embarrassed about it now.

13:18 I flinch, but i do that with everyone cause I'm just jumpy.

The one about boys having body image issues was a hard hitter since it’s hitting me hard through middle school and my teenage years.

"I'll hurt myself and it'll be your fault" Best reply i can think to this "Don't remember who this is but sounds like you got your day all planned out. Good luck."

“besides being a manipulative liar and a whore what was wrong with me” holy shit wtf

A year or 2 ago i had this one tinder match. For refernce i am a black male, this is useful information for later. We talked a bit and asked what she was looking for. She said she was "looking for a simp." To entertain myself for a bit longer i asked what i would get in return hypothetically. She said "you get to talk to me." I had my laugh for the day and wished her luck on her ventures. She proceeded to lead with "but, BLM!" I ask how that's relevant. She then starts saying that because she isnt racist and supports blm that i should simp for her 😭😭😭

18:14 - That girl is simply envious that this man is perfectly fine and content with his own body and she isn't ( "she would really like to be on the beach with her buff man showing his gorgeous body, *_but she can’t_*."). That girl is projecting so hard.

18:56 Do. Not. Mess. With. The. Walmart Employees. Just don't. They do not have the patients.

That thing where you say you don't want anything but you do is actually pretty normal. I do it all the time. What isn't normal is complaining about it afterwards or thinking that it means literally anything. I usually do it because I know that I don't really need the thing I'm being asked about.

Emkay should let Robin laugh more. Free our baby boi goblin

9:54 Fun fact I learned recently: in Japan there's a tradition called White Day that's kind of a counterpart to Valentine's Day but a month later. The idea is that on Valentine's Day girls would give gifts to boys, but then a month later on White Day boys reciprocate with gifts to girls. Apparently getting less common these days, but yeah.

This came on from autoplay and I am not disappointed, also, your laugh is so contagious, I love it. And I appreciate you talking about how this kind of behaviour is abusive.

4:27 is what we could call a shrodinger's date

4:07 *sigh* fellas is it gay to care about your cat

I don't think I've ever once claimed to be a nice girl.

To the people scrolling in the comments, I want you all too know you are beautiful, handsome, pretty, whatever you prefer. You may not see it, but trust me, I know every single one of you are stunning. Whether in my eyes, your eyes, or someone else's. You are beautiful. I hope you have a good day or night. ❤ ( this is regarding around 20:42 )

21:38 I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again; it does my heart good that folks like Robin are taking time to lay down truth, especially as some people are young and this could be a positive moment in those years as teens and them are learning more of the world and of their fellow humans.

19:40 doesn’t that violate HIPAA?

For V-day *I* take my *husband* out. Most of the time dinners come out of the 'house fund', but for V-day I pay to take him out to a churrascario. Because I love him. And it makes him happy.

I while back I decided to give up passive-aggressive behavior. Now whenever I have to take a course of action I ask myself, "Is this action going to be passive-aggressive? Is there a more direct way of solving this problem?" I think the girls featured in this subreddit could benefit from giving up passive-aggressiveness as well. Hell, I think everybody could!

I was in a fairly long relationship until about early last year, when my former partner decided to break up with me and started dating another dude I knew shortly after. That still holds a mental toll on me to this day. Although some of the posts in this video reminded me of certain scenarios that happened during said relationship and helped me realize how abusive my partner was most of the time. I cut all contact because I could not take it anymore and I have not heard *directly* from them since. I was told how they were telling people that I abused them, which really bothers me because I never had any ill intentions, espacially not to harm them in any mental or physical way. Still, I have done things I am absolutely not proud of and regret deeply. I have been seeking professional help for a while now. Things got a little better over time, but I'm still a long way from feeling "good" again, I think.

As a girl who loves video games... of all the games she could've broken, FALLOUT 4?? There are probably months of settlement builds in there! Hours of quests completed! Honestly I'd've probably committed murder if someone did that to me. This may sound dramatic, but seriously, she destroyed hours of that guy's work.

Can we just have Nice Girls and Nice Guys date each other and leave the others alone

12:41 i need an update lmao i hope he showed the friend that passed the number to her

When I get a boyfriend I want him to know that if he doesn’t wanna hangout or go anywhere he doesn’t have to- I want him to hangout and be around me because he wants to, that way I know he’s actually enjoying himself and not feeling forced.

1:40 Hearing Robin cackle like that does make me smile a doofus, it does.

8:12 officer dingleberry 💀💀💀

Did. Did my guy actually use Denji and Makima in reference to 'being a cute couple?' I'm somewhat in disbelief but at the same time it made me cackle

I am a grown man. I love my cat dearly. He is like my baby and I have PTSD epidoes that he comforts me through and he has such a lovely personality. My partner loves my cat just as much as I do and my cat is always excited to see him. He looks for my partner every time I come home and yells for him if he hears his voice. If your partner doesn't respect how much you love your pet and even try to show them similar love, you probably need a new partner.

Can someone (very very cute) stay 50 feet away from me and let me play Minecraft?

2:40 judge answer me please, despite me killing 82 people, bombing 13 towns and having 32 counts of vehicular manslaughter with 73 counts of armed robbery, what seriosuly did i do wrong?

2:26 Girl, you just explained it.

19:13 The only times I've ever used that is when guys just cant take no for an answer, but for some reason mentioning another dude is the only time they'll accept it no matter how many times I say no.

that "C HE AT another BITCH house" is a meme in my friend group, it began a thing for us where we take a word and try to make it into a "jumping to conclusions" sentence. its actually super fun to do

If someone ever tells you that their a "nice guy" or "nice girl" then their most likely not a nice person. Being nice to someone is based on your actions and not you saying that your are a nice person. If you are a nice person prove it with your actions not your words.

1:37 ok that was a good one 🤣🤣🤣

13:55 he said doodoo hehe

27:09 - I hope that by the time that had been retweeted, he was her *ex-boyfriend* and already in the process of getting a restraining order against her. I also hope the 59 arseholes who liked that tweet also got dumped by their partners.

1:20 YES, YES WE DID IT FINALLY. FINALLY SCHOOLS DID SOMETHING RIGHT

7:13 Not to mention all the girls trying to get clout by acting like men are actively harassing them at the gym. I'm sure most men who've seen that stuff are actively avoiding women there now.

"degrading women with common insecurities" bro than tell me what you think asking a mans height is

9:56 Did anyone else hear some sort of Puss-In_Boots accent? Just me..? Ok…

13:28 Girl, go to jail.