@eventydefallacy8464there’s nothing wrong with men going to therapy. But there is something wrong with letting our emotions control us. Mental illness in men matters whether you’re manly or not, but that doesn’t mean you have to let it control you. You can go to therapy and still be a man. It’s what you do outside of therapy and how you handle your emotions that determines if you’re a man or not
@@multi_potentialite men should go to the gym but tons of men have benefited from therapy that’s the dumbest shit I’ve heard. Especially men with PTSD and actual mental health issues. To say therapy only has ever helped women is beyond ignorant and completely incorrect 😂
Ladies, if you find a man who is in therapy, starts using terms like 'boundaries' & 'triggers', refuses to blame anyone & says that he needs to be responsible for his own healing, and is open and honest about his faults & what he is doing to combat them, that is a man who is on the path to being the best person, partner, and parent that you could possibly *DREAM* of. ...and will analyze YOU as closely as he analyses himself and expect you to join him on his journey to better mental and physical health. If you refuse and he is wise, he will drop you like a piece of dog dung, as he should. He is trying to become a 10 (...or at least a 7) and won't settle for someone who is settled. Cheers!
My wife and I have been together for 13 years , married 7, neither one of us has social media, I credit the standing of our relationship to exactly that, our attention is on each other, we're both 30
LinkedIn for businessq.... Facebook only for some business owner and investor groups that I'm a part of.... outside of that, no time or desire to worry about anybody else's life...I'm creating a legacy
Typically one of two not a big deal. And these are minor ones. Honestly not texting right away and not having social media are green flags to me. Man has important things to do and is focused. He also doesn't seek the approval of internet strangers. Even more healthy.
Isnt that just how they are? They want a good guy but friendzone the good guy. Good guys finish last, bad guys finish on her face. This is only the case with 304s tho, so huge red flag. She dont know what love is
She literally described me and I’m still single, I have Instagram and I’m not in therapy anymore but still, that’s too close. Imma ask a few lady’s if I’m sexy now😂
I have no social media. Asked a girl out one time. She asked me if I had Instagram. I said no. She cut off communications. Later I realized I should of answered her question with a question of my own. And the question was… “What is your body count?” Doesn’t matter anyways, she was for the streets to begin with.
Yeah, which is very strange to me. I don't use social media because I don't like it. I have a LinkedIn account for business and that's it. And I watch RU-vid and comment. That's as far as my social me usage goes.
I rarely comment on videos but for the gents out there that read this I hope this helps. Absolutely ignore the "jealousy is sexy" point. I was in a very good long term relationship and one day the girl said to me "Why is it you never get jealous, you give nothing away, it's a sign that you care" and sadly younger me fell for this after some further emotional prodding. As soon as I gave away one thing, it was used against me later that same night. She couldn't even wait a day to enact on that leverage. From that point the relationship went downhill once she realised she could rile me up emotionally. Stay stoic and stay in control of your emotions dudes.
Thats another proof of Women wanting something else and speaking something totally opposite...They can't even decide if they gave their consent that previous night🤡🤡🤡
In my experience if you allow her to get away with anything, she will keep going until you stop her. As long as you are not needy and willing to walk away it's important to set boundaries.
Look at her page, she doesn’t even understand women. She understands being toxic, childish and overall being wrong. And the fact that so many men agree with things the posts on her videos also shows how distorted their views are on women. This girl, the girls agreeing and also the guys agreeing to her are all still in their teenage phase.
Hey! Any men trying to get their shit together for real: be yourself. I’m not saying be who you think you are. I’m saying be what it is that you are. She can’t resist you because she can’t resist the fact that she’s a woman.
A woman that makes me jealous by allowing me to think something is not a good choice. I don't want to experience questions in my head. That doesn't make me insecure it makes me loyal. The only question is what will a woman do about it. By making me continue to think something, it's not okay cause proving the same thing over and over again is a game that a mature man is not willing to play.
Liking a partner's jealousy is liking that they're perceiving something which makes them fear losing you (liking the partner's insecurity) which is a direct consequence of a person perceiving things which make them have distrust in the relationships longevity, nobody should live in fear of losing their partner, that's a toxic relationship dynamic.
Nope, literally everybody. Not being self-critical and having a raised properly doesn’t mean that you don’t have any baggage that a therapist can’t help you sort through. There are some things you can’t talk to family or friends about that you can talk to a therapist about completely openly
I didn't go to college, I went into the trades and now I make over $100k a year where my mom went to 4 years of college but she didn't start making $70k until I was 20 by that time I made $70k in my first year working as a Scaffolder.
The red flags is that you find these are red flags. Check yourself sweaty before judging people for going to therapy or for anything you mentioned really 💜
I got rid of Facebook and Instagram years ago and snapchat months ago. Have to say it's a lot better not having to be on your phone so much and you can get more done or do more things with family or making income. Plus I feel it helps with mental health, we don't need social media to keep us trying to impress everyone. Just be you, no friends don't worry people come and go same with relationships. Good luck to everyone!
Not going to college is not a red flag … especially if you’re doing fine without a “ degree” that very few people ever even use !! .. but still have to pay back 👍🏻
@@kenzieusa3356 the very few LMAO??? Both the CEO and CFO at my company don't have a degree. Even they say they're useless. I know they brainwashed you into thinking they make you smarter, but they don't.
These aren't actually red flags, by the way. Only if they are extreme. These things as she states them are indicative of a solid person who is aware of their strengths and shortcomings and actually are present in most strong men.
There is nothing wrong with not having a degree or social media. The world doesn't evolve around you so not getting a text back right away could just mean that they are busy. People have lives outside of their phone
hahaha are you a man or woman. If you're a woman you're lying. If you're a man you're clueless. Let's assume you're a man. Walk around in the world and notice whether a girl is on her phone or has it in her pocket or hand. If she's not texting you back right away she's not that into you (yet). DOesn't mean that can't change but a girl who truly is infatuated WILL text back immediately.
Man can people just look for a loving and caring relationship and not worry about all this bs? If two people like each other and grow to love each other more and more then that's all that matters. Also, how is a guy responding to you quickly being a kiss-ass? God, I'm so glad I'm with the girl I'm with cause most women are a headache to try to date nowadays.
Because for most women when they don’t respond quickly it means they don’t give a shit. And I’m sure it applies to the woman from the video. So she just projects her perception on men as well. If she doesn’t reply quickly she doesn’t care, and she thinks everybody else is the same
Since when it’s a red flag if you don’t have any social media ??😂😂😂 honestly I believe it’s a big green flag !!! There is nothing more sexy than a guy which lives in a real world not virtual fake on Instagram.
I failed out of high school, RU-vid is the only social media I have, I’m usually too busy to text you back right away and jealousy is little boy shit. But I’m 6’2” so all the “toxic” shit cancels out.
I don’t have a degree. I’m definitely insecure about that but I don’t let it ruin me in dating. I may end up getting one eventually but not just a random one.
This is solid advice if you want a chick like this. Not a diss it’s just preference. I’ll tell you right now this girl is definitely slightly toxic 😂 I just left my toxic gf so thanks to her I know them when I see them now lol 🚩
Every time I see these little mics it makes me think of that scene in Zoolander when he has that tiny little cell phone 😂 What if some guy pulled one of those out? Haha Great content tho! Keep ‘em comin 👏
@@damntae6540 that is 2013-2016 era Karen Now 2022+ Karen no holds barred self entitlement to the max, holier than thou attitude and she could do no wrong 🤣
These are Red Flags that turn her ok. She is one out of Billions. There are women in the world that don’t watch TV or have any of these same aspects. If you want someone like her, then raise those red flags. 🚩
