Refusing A Ring Return 

Shows what a scam the jewelry business is. Pay $3500 for a ring, sell for $800. Worst investment you can make in life.

@@Bread996 Marriage is the worst investment a Man can ever make.

I highly doubt she only got $800 for it.I bet she got more.

Bless you 🥰🥰🥰

God bless you

God bless you 🙏🏽 you will! God has us in the palm of his hand 👏🏽

I wish men were the same way, but alas, most aren’t as dedicated as women can be.

A ride he wanted to go on willingly.

He was the sharpest in the 3 of them, too.

My nana says the exact same thing 😂

That was a good one 🤣

He was the best part of this case

Atleast he stands up ....I hope to God I can do that at 93

D Gaines, I think you summed it up perfectly. She's even LOOKS like a gold digger.

More like they used each other. And you really beed to look up the definition of a gold digger. Does not apply in this case.

@@karli9434 can you explain the look? Not sure what that means

@@Childfree334 no but she wasn't looking for a husband. She didn't even wait a year after his wife died. Who does that

I was about to comment the same thing. Opportunist.

you wear a ring on the finger it fits and is comfortable

I got a diamond ring on my thumb said no one ever

My sentiments exactly i wondered why nobody mentioned it. And towards the end of the case judge referred to it as an engagement ring when asking defendant a question. The defendant did not deny then that it was. I am glad some of us are observant

She is just Real with it lol upfront

Bipolar😂

It’s funny sometimes, but most of the time when she raises her voice like that. It makes me cringe!!! If I had to listen to that on a daily… I would use earplugs on a daily… She’s very good at what she does but that high voice can make me go nuts.

@@putinisageniusdjt1564 i totally hear you :)

​@@putinisageniusdjt1564was about to agree with you then i read your username. Wow.

So adorbs

We all need a Lenny in our life!

@@mikesteele05 you think he can tell off my boss? Lol

He is tooooo cute

A true romantic

🤣 That's awesome!

Be Nice!😂😂😂😂😂😂

🤔🤭😂👌

The Temu version 😂😂😂

Well said.

nope, he chose her.

😂😂

@@Marcella705 😅

Definitely!

I wonder whether she's even into males

I think u can love ppl a different way... I think

I think his grieving process didn't help his thinking process

Males for you.

Who grieves his wife's passing by hooking up with another woman?

@@small_joys2022 YEAH men grieve by trying to get with another female.

@@marilynwillett804 not just men 🤦‍♀️

@@small_joys2022 You obviously are 10 years old 😅

@@marilynwillett804 I so wish you have enough intelligence to pick a good man.

Lol

Lol!!! His testimony drained him! 😜

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😂 😂 😂

Stop!!! Lol!!!!!!!!!

A very selfish person.

Soulmate= No Freeloader =Yes is what she is!

Men do it all the time. Moreso than women.

@@LOVE_ALL_AROUND I'd believe that. 👍 That's why I didn't put a gender to the opportunist 👍

You nailed it. I didn't like her right away. That's what happens when you don't take your time to know someone.

Lolz ikr

Absolutely..she saw him coming

obviously as a friendship or dress ring you don't wear on the wedding finger where she wore it in the photo

Lmao

Girl??? Maybe 20 years ago

I thought maybe it was Stallone's ex. Lol

Brigitte

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Love the judge Judy quote lol Just made one myself on a different comment

100% agreed.

🙄 lol

I agree.

Golddigger

Yup, just trifling…

100% with you on that

Yep! She’s totally pathetic

I agree. I think she was leading him on and knowingly have him hope that they could get back together, so he didn't demand the ring back. An honest and kind person doesn't stay in your house rent free and kick you out of your room for 18 months once they know they can't be in a relationship with you. He's foolish to fall for it, but she's a horrible person to play him like this.

I also agree!! He even stated that he had Hope's they would get back together that's why he let her keep it!!

I always thought that the person who did NOT break up gets the ring . Personally, I think he waited too long Do REAL DIAMONDS crack?zi looked it and teal diamonds doNOT ctack according to Google.

@@jaynecampbell4396 Even if it’s made of plastic you should return it to whoever bought it after breaking up lol But the person who purchased the ring should get the ring back. Not the one who broke off the relationship

He should’ve went to Judy. JM is always iffy as hell on engagement rings. Judy every time I’ve seen it gives the ring back/money back.

Hey what’s your IG

@@pat22nasty Ke2times_

😂 aleast he can

she probably got her disability why she got so sassy

he didn't want the ring said from his own mouth, didn't want the money from the first sale either. At some point if she needs money it would be the first thing to sell if they break up. Even if it was a necklace or a pair of shoes...you don't want to keep stuff from your ex if you need the $$$

She's a heartless opportunist

Because it’s a promise ring and not an engagement ring. If I can’t set a date, we’re not engaged. We are actually in agreement that we are absolutely not getting married at this point

Excellent question Haniffah. That really frames what was happening perfectly

@@desireegodfrey8048 oh please I was engaged longer than their whole relationship. We both knew we weren’t in a rush to get married, but we wanted to get engaged so we could take a step beyond “boyfriends” after however many years. My husband is better with time frames lol

he used her P**** while mourning probably so it's a win win why is she more at fault. He needed something and she had that something. Also we are no where near their relationship so we can't judge.

And she stated that she contacted him.. If i was the judge I'd make her pay back the £3:400

Yeah I’ve noticed the same. They’re not use to being by themselves so they need someone to fill that void

Women too I've seen , hard to adjust to being alone.

Sure, why honor the wife's memory or start taking care of themselves now?

@@Lady.B0420 Right. I love the way men ALWAYS get a free pass. People are demonizing the woman here as usual.

@@Childfree334 oh please lol…. Here comes the RU-vid feminist Army

yep she'll get her karma

You have no idea what you would do if that happened.

I agree 100%. That's why I don't feel bad about the lady using him (although she's a bad person too). I don't care if you fell out of love with your wife, if you've been with her for 30+ years and she fucking DIES you should wait a little bit before thinking with your dick. He's a classless person.

Agree with you.You might be lonely you might even fall in love again but to call her his soulmate means his wife was definitely not the love of his life, yes maybe married for 30+ years but stayed together for other reasons,and I think he still is in love with her and if she wanted him he would go back with her but I don't think her feelings were reciprocal.

AGREE!!!!

@@kennethbaker5223 I have an idea of my character and how I would react yes.

agree

she clearly says "I found out his wife had died and so I called him up" She also says he was a "Clammer". I bet these "Clammers" make a few bucks? She then moved in with him straight away. Umm Id like to go around to Lens for a cuppa too btw see you there

He's a sharp sweertheart that Len

So well said 👏

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The most romantic short story ever.

She didn't take advantage of him.They were old friends. The guy's wife of 35 years dies. He's now lonely and wants companionship. She calls and gives him condolences for his wife, they start chatting, rekindling a friendship. 3 months later they start dating, falling in love. They move in together, he buys the lady a ring as a gift because he wants to show her that he loves her. After 6 months, they start arguing everyday, things are not good. They break up. He tells her to keep the ring. How did she take advantage of him? If anything they used each other. Simple. It's messed up that women blame women. It takes 2 to tango, blame the gentleman as well.

He’s a SIMP duhhhh

She emotional amd financial abused him. She is also a squatter.. And had to be evicted. After all that time living with him she had no built up assets? This is not her 1st rodeo...

He was grieving the loss of his wife and jumped into a relationship too quickly because he didn't want to be alone anymore. No doubt she knew that and used him since she accepted his marriage proposal only six months after his wife died. When she saw that huge diamond ring on her finger she thought "Gold mine! I found myself a sucker!"

@@BlueIvysAssistant Who grieves the loss of a wife by sleeping around with another woman days after she passes away? The man got the torture he totally deserved.

You nailed it!

@@ciennacrowson455 He gave her the ring to nail her lolol

At least he bought a ring, many guys will just talk about getting married in the future to string her along.

Gosh that's savage

A ring means engagement to men or women . The whole world knows that

I don't think she necessarily wanted a husband, she wanted a full bank account. And if it meant pretending she would marry him to keep it going, she figured so be it.

Agreed

So he has no responsibility for his actions?

@@lauraanne5175 what actions he was grieving the loss of his wife. He proposed and wanted a long engagement and she to be selfish and sell the ring. so no he is not responsible for his actions because he had no actions other than proposing. and besides it should have gone back to him because it was an engagement ring and since the engagement didn't happen it always goes back to the person who purchased it.

@@jaynehogue2459 I disagree. We are all responsible for our own actions, grieving or not, he allowed her in and he allowed her to take advantage of him. She is completely in the wrong for what she did, but that does not excuse his fault in the relationship

She's awful........

there are a lot of women like that now! entitled and expect preferential treatment , ps u dont sound like that tho!

I'm pretty sure I saw him taking a nap, in the background, while the case continued. And I absolutely love it 😂😂

It when he said "I'm 93 years old and dont look it" 🤣🤣

it comes down to legality and the fact that the ring is property and was proved to be a gift. Unfortunately he didn’t have the evidence. I do agree the ring should always go back to the person who gave it if the relationship doesn’t work out. Unless otherwise discussed

Exactly 💯

Did you not hear they broke up in 2016? No one anticipates working things out and getting back together with someone for that long.

So if your ex comes back 2 years later and asks for their x box back and you sold it or can't find it, you should give the money back?? Doesnt make sense. He also told her to keep it. If his word was good for the proposal then why isnt it good for giving her the right to keep it?? He shouldn't have told her to keep it and he clearly said he didnt want it but he wanted her

He said"whatever happened after the separation was pure emotional"

You dont need a rulebook. Its just common etiquette.

Agreed. Let's say it absolutely in no way, shape or form was an engagement ring (I think it was). If he's so adamant about having it back, just give it back, move on, even if you disagree.

Because she is a user. She called him because she knew he would be lonely and vulnerable. Used him for as long as she could.

They are shallow users because men ALLOW them to be...I normally blame the usee as much as the user, but this poor guy was vulnerable, and she was a vulture

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He's 93. lol Cut him some slack.

He's 93 lay off

Can’t wait to see you in TV at 93!

She didn't hold on to it; she sold it to pay her rent😤😤

Energy? Oh you're one of those lmao.

Pamela. 😆

What was said and how it was said is not as important to men

Agreed. While I thought the Defendant took advantage of him, I didn't believe all the things the Plaintiff said.

@@jaynehogue2459 depends on the man

But she later admits it was one

@Tiffany A Troll

@Tiffany A She didn’t say that…..

That reminds me of Dog the Bounty Hunter proposing to that lady on tv just after his wife died 😬 🤦🏼‍♀️ So awkward and sad. Some men of a certain era need a woman to take care of them. When we were kids my mother used to get sick a lot and my father was useless without her. We’d go to school with dirty wrinkled uniforms and inedible lunches, I’d have a ponytail on the side of my head and we ate dry fried ground beef for dinner every night. He would have done the same thing if he lost her.

@@blondesense1708 I'm so sorry you went through that! That's terrible! In my uncle's situation, his son was an adult when his mom passed, which really adds to why I think his actions just really did not make any sense. I try not to judge, but I think he needed more time to cope/grieve before moving on, like the plaintiff in this case.