@@lordbison OOOH. That sounds a little scary! Is that an oracle or something ? Well...anyway, LIFE itself will bring unto our path that will force a mandatory course correction that is absolutely required if we are to improve. It'll be a Game-Changer, to be sure!🤔
At the end of the day, black men have done all they can for black women and the black community. We don’t owe them anything. Whatever you can do to find some semblance of happiness and fulfillment in this life brothers, I say go for it. SYSBM
Absolutely brother I've been tired of it I've been a Passport 🛂 ✈️ Bro long before the Passport brother movement became a Thing.........to hell with the Black Communta
The '80's was a time when divorced, sexually liberated women of the 1st feminist wave unleashed their daughters upon us. "What have you done for me lately?"
@@blackhawk6695 I know right!!!?? And that's all they were singing back in the 80s and that's NOT the only BS SONG either all the way up till now.....them women are still making BS THUGG Loving songs......
@Perverted Alchemist Well…that’s a given. The thing is, you’re gonna have to accept it as fully as ABW should. Continually hum to yourselves the wonderful Beatles’s song “ Let It Be”! 🤷🏽♀️❤️
It's disingenuous because the moment a black man has a plan and takes charge....if his plan isn't the plan of the woman...she will rebel or leave...they only want you to be the man when you are doing what they what...which is not being the man honestly...it's just being a lead based on somebody else orders....that's not what a man is...a man does what HE thinks is best for himself and family...not what a women thinks is best...while the man is forced to do the actual labor... Another great analysis brother BGS
Exactly... even the first one, Olivia Alexis... she was the precursor to Daneika Marie... as beautiful as she is, I couldn't follow her blue pill suggestions.
Funny thing is? If we were really inadequate at protecting them, why would they be mad if we walk away from them? If someone is failing at their role in the relationship and you believe it's a constant problem, wouldn't it make since for them to leave? Why do they become so upset if the black man they believe is beneath them leave? 🤔
Because without us they can't blame their bullsh!t, dysfunction and insecurities on anyone but themselves. They need BM around to continue being the sin eaters of their inequities. If BM were really the problem in the black community, you'd be celebrating their leaving and going to be someone else' problem. Instead it's the other way around: We celebrate THEM dating out.
The simple answer to that question is they literally have no other options they can't take their attitudes to white asian and Latino he'll African communities because they'll get rejected immediately
And also, why do they demand protection from either random dudes or men they clearly stated they didn't want. Notice how you never see divestors direct "protect black women" to men of other races they claimed allegiance to.
The black community, like the black nuclear family, will soon be an exhibit in the museum. Don't argue with them. Just take your time, attention, and resources away and leave them to their fate. On a different note, I have long since stopped using the possessive pronoun "OUR" women when referring to Bw.
We were never an organic ethnic community to begin with. We all came from different warring tribes and we were thrown together during slavery. After Emancipation, we should've went our separate ways. What binded us was skin color and our shared trauma. We were a trauma bond for 400 years. Those relationships never last and they are never functional. We don't owe each other anything.
Different tribes? It’s not that deep nor is it ancestral. These black American women are just disrespectful and ignorant, full stop! If everyone is having the same problems with a group of people it’s not the region of the world they started from. It’s just them. Quit with the excuses for these goofy itch’s.
@@kennethsmith6367 it's more than that, slavery was a black man's problem for the first half of slavery, BW were only transported in numbers after 1750 to breed more BM, the BW has not relationship to us so to speak, she was brought to the west to breed more of us for slavery not be wives,
@@fromafricaicame5909 OKAY! Explain how these women that weren’t ever enslaved, could always go to school and have always had equal rights are traumatized by their great, great, great, great, great grandmother’s circumstances? The excuses have to stop. These chicks are the problem, not a history that they can’t even factually recite.🧐
If the BW that was speaking is considered one of the “Best of Them” then what does that say about the rest of them?! Any BM that feels our best option is a BW that clearly has no respect for BM whatsoever only says to me that you respect yourself even less…..
So let me get this straight. We been having these same tired ass back in fourths with BW since the 70s(2 generations), yet black men still haven't gotten a clue when these women haven't budged one bit on their stances? So many more decades does the Ados male tend to keep having circular conversations trying to convince a hardheaded group of women that they have no control to act right?
I can’t understand how they refer to that era w/o recognizing over 367, 000 black American MALES were drafted into the Vietnam conflict against their will leaving their fragile communities behind. Those who returned were in no position to take over the helms of black families due to multiple societal factors. The disrespect from both genders about our history of compulsory genocide is disappointing.
Deuteronomy 28:56 The tender and delicate woman among you, which would not adventure to set the sole of her foot upon the ground for delicateness and tenderness, her eye shall be evil toward the husband of her bosom, and toward her son, and toward her daughter,
@Kingdom Come I think the passport brothers movement is a sign of that curse being over with. We've found our true women and are leaving the bee-dub alone for good!
"White women will take from the top. Latinas and others will clean up at the bottom. By the time we hit Generation A, Black America will be absorbed. Black women, you want one you can have one." BGS IBMOR.
They're Bytchin about Black Men going overseas for Love 💕 but they're doing the same thing, just like they were bytching about Black Men Dating Out But they were doing the same Freaking Thing!! The Double Standards....
I can be as dangerous as "The Winter Soldier" to them because my "chip" was removed in 1992 when I went SYSBM. When I cross paths with these hyena BW now that attitude changes because they can tell I'm built different. And they keep it movin. Been with a woman that appreciates me for 26 years. And I have my sanity and dignity in tact.
The brutal, uncomfortable truth is that study after study has shown that children with black mothers are more likely to have a low IQ, have poor academic performance, be unemployed, and more likely to end up in prison; so even if by some miracle black women do "fall in line", you will never be able to build a functional, globally competitive community/society with a group of women who have such poor maternal skills, your community/society will always be on the bottom and at the mercy of others due to this reason. As we're seeing with the passport bro movement, BM can build and achieve success in a short period of time when we have the right counterpart and these women just aren't the right counterpart (and likely never will be). I think it's best for BM to accept that and move on. Time to form a new culture/ethnic group/s.
Bro, you've got the best manosphere channel out there for black men. So many channels just talk about child support and pookie's and ray ray's all day long, but you're getting to the root of the problem and you provide a lot of great sources. Excellent work.
Great vid, BGS! As far as this so called American black "communitah", IT IS OVER. It is too FAR GONE to EVER be "fixed" at this point. It CAN'T be "fixed" with all of the nonsensical things that it embraces ("no snitching", "only God can judge", "don't you dare tell my kids what to do or punish them for their destructive actions and behaviors", "it takes a village" (for perceived benefits), but they sure don't want that same "village" to tell them what to do or assign them ANY responsibilities and accountability", etc.). Again, this dysfunctional azz black "communitah" is OVER. SYSBM.
It’s actually a very USEFUL conversation , which should be continued until the black female tells the truth that will implicate her part in all of this. Sister Shahrizad Ali said it best: The American Black Women have never been examined! It’s happening right now! So be it!
I was talking to a coworker few days ago and he said he’s just about done with blk women he told me he took a blk woman out to hooters and she told him she basically wasn’t cool with a $20 meal he said man they some hustlers lol u right the love language of blk women is disrespect
Hard door to close and hard chapter to finish...but what's done is done. I used to say it in a half-half hearted manner. Now I'm like, it's all good. We know too much and they simply won't cease fire. Is what it is.
"For one thing Black men stop doing live chats with women like them because you can't change them it's a waste of your time and their time so bothers just stop."
Well…in a way it’s useful, because there are brothers out here who are still not convinced that they should sysbm! Seeing these conversations on a frequent basis will help them to awaken.
Nah first lie was she had no money nor support to be head of household without welfare from white men. That's why they had to give them financial support on order for them to believe they were on top. Take away that support and they asses on the street.
Thank God for this video, I was furious when I saw that clip the other day. It's truly bizarre to love these women as much as I do and simultaneously accept the fact that they are objectively the worst population of humans on this planet. This must be what it feels like to raise a pedo or serial killer smh...
My friend, we are PROGRAMMED to love women and children. The Most High (or evolutionary biology, for the non-believers) is truly wise and practical. Females are not meant to control their own lives--when left without fathers and later husbands, this is what they become. It happens in every society that gets too egalitarian to demand compliance from them. They become liberated, they create increasingly-problematic offspring that de-evolve with each generation, they drain the social resources of their societies, and the societies eventually crumble from lack of infrastructure. If man is to mimic the pragmatism of his Creator, he will reign in these ruthless creatures and force them to serve order, or cast them out of society to live on their own.
I commented before listening to the end...I came back to add, "MY NI@@A"...you Nailed It. Ain't $hit here for a thinking man but making money to bounce out ASAP. Stay Well BGS.
I had a hyena and her kid living with me back in the early 1990’s. Everything seemed honky dory. Heck we were even toying with the idea of getting married. Then one day I didn’t do something she wanted me to do. Suddenly I’m all types of sellout, lowly bastards etc. I looked at this ungrateful shrew and told her “If that is how you truly feel then leave”. Her response and tactics that day are a master class on how these entitled women will try anything even the legal system to try to control BM. Long story short our cozy arrangement was over and she was out of my life. Put your foot down brothers and never ever let one of these hyenas thing they are running the show. Don’t accept the disrespect as “just the way sistas are”. Nobody should be with someone who constantly tells you “you have to prove you are worthy of respect to me”.
@@pervertedalchemist9944 You got that right. At the moment I got her out of my place I looked back at all of the red flags I overlooked. I scratch my head now and then “Was this broad even worth 30 minutes of my time… hell no.”
"While Sojourner Truth and Lucy Stone could turn an angry audience into a receptive one, Americans in general remained hostile to ferninism. Other reform movements could be embraced abstractly; they called on people to change the world. The women's rights movement made people angry and frightened because it asked them to *change themselves.* *Feminism threatened the most personal relationships in people's lives. Feminists asked men and women to think of themselves in new ways and to relate differently to each other. If wives, mothers, daughters changed, husbands, fathers, and sons would be called upon to change as well. Home and family would be altered.* One antifeminist wrote, *"These garrulous women would upheave all existing institutions and overturn all relations between the sexes."* Interestingly, the antifeminists often understood the end result of the feminist platform more acutely than did feminists themselves. Many women in the movement thought of themselves as reformers, lobbying for a number of concrete, specific rights. Antifeminists saw through to the concepts behind those reforms; taken to their logical conclusion, feminist ideas were revolutionary. Public resistance was strong when feminists merely took the speaking platforms and asked for change. When they actually changed themselves, openly and visibly, public reaction went wild. *Such was the case when feminists shed their hoop skirts and corsets in favor of a costume including pants.* " -A History of Women in America, page 102
Reminds me of the last convo I had with a post wall actress. She says, "you're so smart, I just don't understand why you're like this sometimes"... I'm like, it makes total sense, I hold traditional values. I think she thought she was going to get validation and I just kept it real in the nicest way I could. I agree with you BGS, we owe them nothing. ✈️ Wheels up!
I believe it was DS that said almost every race or ethic group of people have been oppressed. And the women of every other culture of women stayed by the sides of their men. This blame that has been passed down is something ABW will not admit. So it won't be addressed by them nor corrected. An outsider might say that is heartbreaking. For an ABM, fight or flight.. ✌🏿✈️
I appreciate you BGS, you have been the Father I needed & Uncle Rom has been the uncle I needed. I wouldn’t met him or Dr. T Hasan Johnson because of you. This was a wonderful Bday gift for me today 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Remember that scene from the movie Color Purple when Whoopi Goldberg's character told Harpo to beat Oprah Winfrey's character?....Is that what these women mean?
I always appreciate your thoughtful, fact based analysis brother BGS. The contempt that our counterpart has for us nothing new. I live and own a business in a 95% plus black community and I see and experience the contempt everyday. She can be a customer, at a gas station or store and even an employee. She has an air of superiority. I even had a female employee physically assualt me knowing she could easily be un-alived by hand. But she was used to dealing with black men in that capacity. Willie Lynch should be proud.
The disrespect was commented on constantly by early 20th Century Black Men Blues singers. This commentary continued all the way up and through Bobby Womack’s “If You Think You’re Lonely Now” to Michael Jackson’s “Wanna Be Startin’ Something” and “Billie Jean” to Prince’s “Something In The Water They Drink” to the earliest of rappers like EPMD with “Jane” and “Golddigger”. Nothing new about this. We protested. We protected. We got sh****ed on. We are moving on. Tell her like Mr. Palmer always says, “Walmart is always hiring”.
Same old sh*t every day and every night and when it's get hard the bi**h gets out of sight! Make Shure that money is put up right because ant telling that sh*t might pop tonight! This type sh*t happened everyday! Mc Ren. Thank you for all your hard work and keep teaching the young. Later brother. B1 and shalom......
She got me she did the generation division thing which the same type will just do that to our generation inevitably. Good catch @BGS IBMOR, she blinded me with her Black girl magic.
I can’t believe she just dismissed the Medgar Evers, Malcom Xs, Marvin Gayes, Barry Whites, Hewie Neutons of Black America. Pardon any and all misspelt names if guilty, gentlemen.
Is it just me, or did anyone else notice that this lady talking, the other girl arguing with the group of brothers, and Angela Davis share similar skin tone? Hmmm🤔
Another great one, BGS! I'm expatriating in a few years, my son is making plans to do likewise (he can't wait), and my brother is coming around to the very same conclusion. Those of us who have the money...can leave. Those who don't have the money will remain here and have more ABWs to pick over. A marriage made in prugatory. LoL!
@@patriciacoley3801 there is no difference. They're the same thing. The only difference is context - Americans (and First Worlders in general) tend to look down on immigrants and don't want to associate themselves with the label once they decide to leave and live in another country. Hence where that ridiculous word "expat" comes from. You're dirty immigrants just like the rest of us.
In the 60's thru the 90's a few things were happening to the Black Community, especially to black men. 1. Vietnam took a % of black men away from their communities when they at that time needed to be there for them. 2. Heroin in the major cities totally devastated the black community. The men who became addicted to her-ron left the community very vulnerable and the black family were literally unprotected. 3. The proliferation of guns/violence entering the black community. 4. Mass incarceration of black men. 5. The loss of manufacturing jobs leaving America, ( automobile, steel, plastic etc...) 6. Republicans reeling back all the socal, and economic gains cause by the civil rights movement. 7. The nail in the coffin... Crack cocaine. 8. Safe to say we've been thru some shit... Imho
Wow! That all happened, but you left out a HUGE piece of the puzzle. Where’s the part about all the divorces initiated by women and the destruction of the community, because of the theft of black men’s children?
@@kennethsmith6367 The divorce part I don't factor in because of the institution of marriage was decaying during those times. And those critical moments that I wrote about above contributed to the children being taken away.
@@terrenceliburd8655 The black women were the first salvo in the destruction of the institution of marriage. Once black women kicked the men out of the family and seemed “fine” to the other groups of women, marriage in the west was a wrap. That happened in the late 60’s right after the civil rights movement. The other women joined their destructive marriage plan in the 80’s and all western women are regretting it in 2020’s.🤷🏾♂️🫤🤣😂🤣😂
