Shannon Sharpe & Chad Johnson discuss divorce and child support | Nightcap 

🤣🤣🤣 the way I died. Your kids see sweet grandma. As the kids we know them for the thugs they are. 🤣🤣🤣 My daughter always talks about my mom like she’s this kind soul. I look at her like we talking about the same women. Cause she use to swing on us. 🤣🤣🤣 we was shook.

@@nawill9209my dad just to whoop us too, gave us all the business when we being stupid and I’m glad he taught us that way. Mom was strict too so it wasn’t no favouritism around

@@seraphinagauld4100 my dad wasn’t around but my mom was. It kept me out of a lot of trouble. I use to have friends who use to run away. They would say girl yo momma mean. Come with me. I would be like my momma ain’t going to kill me. I am so glad I had that fear. I graduated high school. Joined the Marine Corps, got 5 degrees, raised a successful child, and doing my thing. They had a life of teen mom, welfare and abuse.

My kids never got to meet my mom but they definitely would’ve seen me behave the same way if they did 😂😂😂

No matter how old we are, we still kids to our parents! And they’ll always be Mom and dad!!! I didn’t grow up with my dad, but my Step dad is the real one!! I’d do everything I can to follow them footsteps he took!!!

Just spoke to mine after 36 years of existence and guess what he only speaks french😂😂😂😂😂....youre not alone bro

@@user-zt1dc4yt5gi knew my father but he was a traveling doctor and busy but trust me father figure does help in helping you understand right from wrong

"I dont even know his name." That sounds more like your mother's fault than the Dad.

@@cali2468so the mom suppose to teach her name and the dad.. gtfo😅😅 man just said he never met him.. go heal!

@@cali2468word that’s on the mom, she picked him to have a baby by

Says no one

3 baby mothers

@@URFAVTROLLyou a bozo

All Day!!!!

@@Earl_TheSquirrelthat’s not an indictment on his ability to parent.

Facts, they might not like it at first and it might not feel good but later on in life they will appreciate it definitely

Good for you. Maybe your dad will come to his senses one day.

❤ that's awesome for your kids and you

That’s a responsible man. Clearly you have changed the trajectory for your children.

That is why God has kept you Mighty Blessed! May he hold you ever so close 🙏🏾 in his care always!!😢

I was diagnosed with lupus so I’m in a race to witness my kids dreams come true. I hope I’m here to see it

One of the best conversations I’ve heard on this channel

I'm with Shannon 💯👌🏾About 💓Respect💓and 🤔... "I Dont DO LaZy !"👍🏾

I DONT like it... your rich ...but you tell your children...i'm the last option , not the 1st choice???...WHOA...that's COLD....

SHANNON SHARPE IS A TERRIBLE FATHER...IDE NEVER TREAT MY KIDS LIKE THAT...

Unc already said he provided the tools to his children to be productive adults. You get in a jam, you can always call him to help. He just wants to see if you are able to resolve on your own. I respect that.

Shaq the man 😂 💜💛

I never thought it would be me lol everybody has to do their part

I love that about Shannon but I never expected anything lesser from him.

Good for you.

Thank god for you mama

Yeah but tbh some ppl needs court to dictate their life caus ether don't have moral ground.

​@@hao9508that's true

Right, I did the same thing. In my opinion the child support system doesn't help, it hurts if you get behind, then there's still no financial support. And I never wanted to be in a position to have to bring my daughter to see her dad in jail.

???? The topic wasn't about that

You would b the same way if you was them

Mehhhh, I mean everybody situation different. Bc a lot people feel like if they know you need their help and you got no other option, they’ll take advantage of you and treat you any kind of way.

Usually children that get the most are the worst, not all.

@@lornegreen6755so grind your ass off to not be in that situation. Amazon hires anyone and offers 60 hours a week. Or is it easier to be a victim? If you live under someone else’s roof, you gotta live with whatever consequences that comes with.

@@lornegreen6755mannn that’s a load of bull bruh, if it’s really that bad then leave and do shit on your own, I know plenty of people that attended UCs and paid their own way through everything

I agree and if I'm not mistaken laziness is even a sin

@@princecammKids have to have structure, because when they go out in the world and someone says no it’s going to be a problem

Better to be strict than loose.

That's not strict..its respect

One day you will see why. The real world aint free. You may not be strict. May give ur kids EVERYTHING. Which is cool. BUT when thwy get old enough tht mom and dad an hold their hand or save them.frm everything cause the world really dnt care like tht thats whn u may see. U dnt have to be as strict but its about balance. I knw some ppl tht have kids and let them do whatever and the kid disrespect the f out them.and they wonder why. I have friends tht ddnt have strict parents they thought the world was the same as they home and they could get wht they wanted whn they want then reality hit them in the face. Now they in jail cause thwy thought mom and dad got me and im good so they made a bad deciaion tht cost them. And the judge wanted to make an example cause they came frm money. Another person i knw ddnt knw how to take No cause they neevr heard it before. Whn we got out of highschoolThey got depressed ddnt knw how to survive and deleted them self. So shannon maybe strict but why is the question.

Strict 😂😂😂!! Don’t be lazy and you get what you want from him. He not asking for a lot.

Very well said . I agree . Ocho has a great perspective on life, want to hear more from him.

Exactly

I agree with wanting ro hear mlre from Ocho. But you lost me at Unc needs to be careful. Becareful of what he has a great relationship with his kids and they are doing great in life. He has passed down the wisdom from his grand parents onto them and provided the tools they can use to survive. Because mom and dad cannon hold their hand in the real world. The world does not care and will tell them no. I lost a friend10 years ago cahse they coukd not handle NO. Did nkt know how to survive once they were out of school and deleted themselves. This is reality. Another friend of mine is doing 10 years. He came from money made a dumb decision. Did not hold himself accountable. Parents never held hin accountable. Judge said let me show yall how it is done and made an example out of him cause he came from money. Now that crime ht would have got him about 5 to 6 is at a decade. This is not hear say either.

​@@samsneaddI agree 100% Unc made some excellent points here, appears to be a man of character with standards. Apologies if I wasn't clear, I just think he could be more reciprocal and engaged with Ocho, respond more to his experiences, interrupt less, be more of an active listener, rather than just waiting to talk more about himself - just my observations, I'm sure his intentions are good, but sometimes it benefits us to take a step back. Great podcast though, I wish him well

Wth you taking about

my bm doing this to me now I'm there but she keeps pushing me out so I say fuck it I'm tired of fighting. when child is old enought he'll search me out

I’m going through that right now child support restraining order attempts I got lawyer for time sharing still didn’t let me see my kids

My husband and I have been married 32 years and if I hurt him, I’ll be hurting our kids. Why would women do such things

100

They take all your money, then get upset when you don’t have them with you as much. They don’t think about the fact that you can barely feed yourself on child support, so how are you supposed to keep them fed for days?

Sorry to hear this. The family court system is a joke. I went through so much trying to get full custody of my oldest when he was a child. He was living in an abusive home and the courts still ruled against me because they refused to remove him from the care of his mother. I did the best I could from my end with him but it was extremely toxic on his mom side. He grew up with a whole lot of rage and bitterness towards his mother. And just angry in general. Unfortunately this rage has landed him in prison for a lengthy murder sentence. This has ripped my heart out.

This sounds like a nightmare bruh

Damn! Feel for you guys.

How many kids? Could go back in time would you still get in a relationship with that ex? Would you hit and quit? Or would you just ignore her?

Sorry you, had to go through that . That's so sad what the hell.. it's set up for men to fail also give up blessings ..

😂🤦🏽‍♂️ Ocho is a SIMP.

Thank you. Mediocrity is not acceptable.

Another journey. Be Proud. be careful and be you.

@@urserious4419 Thank you.

Thank you for being a good mom.

Congratulations for doing what you was supposed to do

Giving a child a one parent home hurts them.

Shannon’s experience is his experience…you can’t invalidate Ocho’s experience. Listening is a key component of a conversation. Love what y’all doing but you’re not always right.

I'm in the same boat. It sucks bro.

Go to court for visitation. Especially if you're paying. Mother's can't block that. If you don't do what has to be done, the kids will see you as not caring, whether it's true or not. ❤

Me too I don't even know what my kids are dead or alive

@@HolisticManifesting Spent almost 3 years going back and forth to court. Cost me a well paying job then because of the numerous absences to attend court in addition to thousands of dollars in attorney fees. Parental agreement was agreed upon and she still violates it. Tried to bring this up before to the judge and he ignored it. Women have an upper hand in family court. It's a broken system.

I'm sorry to hear that, I hope things change for yall.

Always dropping gems.

Moving with that type of fear does you no favors. If you feel you worked too damn hard then find you a woman who also worked hard so you don't have to feel like you have everything to lose. Last resort, stay single and alone for the rest of your life then, so you can pride yourself on saying you're 50 with no kids.

@@MsSwankie10aye man its nothing wrong with that. You never know what could happen when you commit that much to another person. Thats a blessing to only have to be responsible for yourself.

find someone who jas something to lose.

@@Bge12609I’m 55 single & no kids. Love it.

They are just playing it smart in my opinion. The laws around marriage / divorce need to change so that it can't be abused as such

Playing smart? Whats smart about adding to the dysfunction ? ​@@v1sudo

@@v1sudothat honestly makes no sense if they’re married no issues she was just being greedy. If they leave together that money would’ve been there’s anyways

@@edgardocardona5657 sounds like she's leaving him and wasn't willing to share. That's banditry in the first degree, at least for me and my new friend that judge 🤣🤣🤣🤣.

@@AlwaysK2withD3 excactly the other guy tripping 😂

beast😂

I see you were raised by some bums. Some of us have parents whom want to see us become our best.

⁠@@more_lifeNobody has control over their circumstances as a child, I see you have a great sense of grace

The amusing thing is even if you get married and don't get a prenup. Its cool because the state has an automatic prenup.

Facts. But sometimes ppl hide and can show you their representative for years and you don't even know it until it's way late.

​@@samsneaddyears???? There had to be flags

Didnr he marry a real housewife?