Honorary Bridesmaid doesn't hold back and wants to dictate what the bridesmaids will wear at the wedding - even if he will not be wearing a dress. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
Dude they were rude as hell. When it comes to the dress your bride chooses. I bought the ugliest floor length yellow dress bc that's what my friend wanted. Only one girl actually looked good in it. The rest of us looked like the yellow tellitubi had babies. And it was the hottest day of summer with some of the warmest material. But I gritted my teeth and got the dress she wanted because that's what you do.
turnip poppy you also don’t want your bridesmaids extremely uncomfortable though. Hottest day of summer, with the warmest material doesn’t sound like you would be comfortable and she knew what season it was. Like wear whatever the bride wants but also make sure your bridesmaids are comfortable and aren’t going to pass out
@@shailaadia974 oh no I agree. I have a 200$ dress that I hate in the lightest ugliest color bc she and her cousins like it. Meanwhile me and the other bridesmaid were like oh hell no. But 3 against 2 win. But I will never do that again. I will either wear a dress I like or drop out.
I don't see it as a valid excuse... after seeing all the fabric the bride will be wearing... like damn.. take a hit and suck it up and wear the mother fucking long dress
@@Ruzovy_ A wedding should be about celebrating the couple while the guests are happy and comfortable. It's not a puppet play were you get to dress up your friends as objects.
She chose him as the maid of honour, you cant blame him like.... if she didn't want him there then she had the choice. they want his opinion its dumb to complain because hes not wearing it. Also he was right when he said one of the girls was uncomfortable.
Fazlic But the thing is, he isn’t the maid of honour, He’s an honourary bridesmaid, meaning he isn’t in the main Bridal party, it’s like if you were to hire a bridesmaid. So he has a lot less say in it than what he thinks he has. Long story short, he’s just a twat. 😂😂😂
@Candy Girl she's using ivory satin fabric that worth of per 20 yards $3799 if you can count the yards of her dress's ivory satin fabric it's might be more than 20 yards. Don't say ivory satin fabric is cheap.
"king of fashion"????????????... but is wearing an AEROPOSTALE POLO with TEARED JEANS and DRESS SHOES..... yaaaaa sit down Luigi! edit: Thanks for them likes... LMFAO... and thank u LUIGI :P
But why are they giving them heavy fabrics in the long dresses. They were so worried about being hot for the summer wedding, they should’ve been giving them long dresses with light fabrics.
Redgucci Shoes lol!! Kim Kardashian does not set trends for POC, she steals them💅🏾. It’s not that it’s blue, it’s not the correct blue for her skin tone. And it’s not an everyday look.
For the first time on the show, the one person who wants something different from the rest, has way more fashion sense than the rest. The bride has the best taste.
I’ve seen this show a lot and they always show the brides dress at the beginning & let me tell you this bride had taste & was actually beautiful so don’t say she ain’t got taste
But it looked like layered toilet paper or as per one of the other comments here, "the McDonald's paper napkin dress" 😂. I still thought it was pretty though lol
@@silvyach , hello! Tea-length means a gown where the skirt hem is at least below the knees, at most mid-calves. It's called tea-length because the upper-class wore dresses like that in the afternoon at teatime. Often it looks nicely vintage fifties style with a wide skirt (pettycoat underneath) and tightfitted bodice.
My bridesmaids and I had a talk after I asked them to be there for me at the altar. We all agreed on long dresses, their choice even if it was a summer wedding. They all chose the Same shoe color on their own, also similar styles and hair and makeup. I chose the color, which they pulled Off (dark green). It looked great, they had a say in everything, but luckily what I had dreamt of (long dresses) was something they liked. These “friends” however are plain rude and mean. I’d wear whatever makes the bride happy, I don’t need to like it, it’s not my choice, wedding or memories. 🤷🏽♀️
It should be about the bride, but she brought him for his opinion then when he opens his mouth everyone's like :O lol. Anyway, the bride seems lovely I hope she has a beautiful wedding
Typically in the states bridesmaids pay for the dresses and they tend to be expensive so you want to be comfortable and try to get a dress you might re-wear. I recently spent $200 plus $100 in alterations for my friends wedding and we all hated the dress
@M M but if you aren't there in support of your friends dream wedding why say yes to being her bridesmaids, if you can't afford it say no I'm sorry, no one forces you to say yes, but to expect the bride to change her dream wedding for you seems selfish, often the entourage forget that it isn't their wedding from the color scheme to the length of the dresses it is the brides vision.
If I was the bride and I was set on not having short dresses, I would not be happy if one of the girls came out in a short dress. Its the brides wedding day not the "man diva". I dont like the guy at all
The consultants need to focus on and support what the brides want. Some brides are easily manipulated or too scared to speak up. I feel like this bride is going to look back at her wedding photos and wish she had long dresses because that was HER vision.
“Fashion” is what caused those horrific, fashion-forward wedding dresses of the 70s and 80s. Classic silhouettes won’t be embarrassing to look back on in twenty years
“ you can have a short dress you need to open up your mind” Honey you need to open up your mind it ain’t your wedding so shut your mouth and that the bride pick what she wants smh 🤦♀️
I get where they were going with short being more comfortable in the summer, but body-hugging painted-on short dresses can also be uncomfortable in the heat.
Mario needs to get his own partner to get married to so he can dictate what he wants. I don't mean to sound cruel but the bridesmaid's have to understand that they're there for the bride. There's nothing wrong with giving an opinion, but when it comes to dictation that's where you cross the line.
I had a bride's man and my husband had a groom's woman. He wore a tux and she wore a matching gown to my bridesmaids. BUT he wasn't at the bridesmaid dress appt! 🙄
This woman needs to stand up for herself and not let these "friends" bulldoze over her. They aren't real friends. They don't put her first regarding what is her big day, look down on her in a very rude manner, and talk over her. That's not friendship. She's only being used.
Mario has to be the most annoying, arrogant, disrespectful, off-putting "friend" ever. What a jerk! I was hoping so, so much the bride would kick him out, but no. I was hoping so, so much she would stick to her guns and choose a long dress! I was hoping, in fact, that she would choose something, anything Mario would hate, just so Mario would not feel that rush of supreme self-satisfaction.
Yeah, but you also asked these people to stand up infront of a bunch of people they do not know, and be there for you. A good bride taked the comfert of their bridal party into consideration. I personally like the tea lenght dresses, but my bridesmaids did not feel comfertable wearing those during winter, and with some of them it was their body type. So I let them pick the length of the dress. I also have 2 different types of fabrics for them, because certaint fabrics look different on certant body types. If you asl someone to be apart of your wedding, forcing them into a dress they do not like because 'mah wedding mah rules' shows you're a terrible friend who dosn't care about them or their feelings.
The bride does have a fashion sense. IMO a long dress esp if it's flowly is better just bc it will compliment everybody's body. Plus the bridesmaids will have more options on what shoes to wear and it will look more uniform. However, the bride is a bigger person than I am. I would either pick the long dress that I like or if they wanted a short dress, then fine but I would have picked the ugliest short dress that I could find.
I don't understand these brides giving in to their entitled bridesmaids. If my bridesmaid had the nerve, they would've got an invitation to the wedding like everyone else.
I'm torn. I know it's her wedding. But to the point of ignoring whether her friends/family are uncomfortable with what they're wearing? Good thing they found a middle ground.
I don’t think that was her intention, but her bridal party was going in an entirely different direction from her and was completely disrespectful of what she wanted, and she wanted to reel them in. Really she just needs to find new friends.
I’ll make it very clear cause this bridal party just doesn’t get it. Not your day, not your say. While some suggestions are welcomed, it’s about what the bride wants.
Yeah, but you also asked these people to stand up infront of a bunch of people they do not know, and be there for you. A good bride taked the comfert of their bridal party into consideration. I personally like the tea lenght dresses, but my bridesmaids did not feel comfertable wearing those during winter, and with some of them it was their body type. So I let them pick the length of the dress. I also have 2 different types of fabrics for them, because certaint fabrics look different on certant body types. If you asl someone to be apart of your wedding, forcing them into a dress they do not like because 'mah wedding mah rules' shows you're a terrible friend who dosn't care about them or their feelings.
@@snowbird1381 some colors do not look good on some people. To pull off yellow, for example, you cannot have any yellow undertones. Yellow undertones are very common. It's easier to pick colors that look good on a majority.
@@beans9407 I mean, if the bride wants yellow, I don’t think it’s too hard to find a shade of it that works. It’s not like She’s not asking you to wear a garbage bag.
@@snowbird1381 if you have yellow undertones, no shade of yellow will work; you'll look sick. A bride needs to take into consideration those that she wants to be her bridesmaids and maid of honor. How they'll feel in a certain style/color, or how it looks on them. Of you know for a fact one of them hates their sholders, yet want them to ware a strapless dress; you're inconsiderate of their feelings. If you know a certain color does not look good on one of them, and you pick it; again, inconsiderate.
Seriously to go that badly against the brides wishes because you want a short dress is just selfish. Honestly you only have to wear it for one day, and it can be "that" hot since the bride also probably wears a long dress and her make-up definitely ' can't ' be running down her face thanks to sweat.
When she came out wearing the long red dress he said “I” don’t like this dress b it’s is not at all about him or the bridesmaid it’s about the BRIDE and the Groom
If they really want to compromise, why not have a high low dress option. I don't know if the shop has high low dresses, but it would be a sort of middle road.
Ok first of all, the bride dresses very well and her wedding dress is stunning. Second of all, that man needs to take several seats and zip his lips. He’s not even wearing the dress! And lastly, he is not a friend at all. No one needs that kind of toxic, bitchy person in their life.
Mario does have a point. The wedding is not all about the bride. It's about the bride and groom, the parents and the bridal party. If you ask people to stand up there with you; you want them to feel confident, comfertable and beautiful/handsome. So if they say 'it's hot we want short dresses so we arn't dying in the heat' look at the short ones and long dresses with lighter fabric. You know how your bridal party is before you ask them to be a part of it. You know about their insecurities, and preference. If those get in the way of 'your vision', don't ask them. All you are doing is making them 'the bad guy' if they refuse to be apart of your wedding, or fight aginst the dress you are picking. Personally, if my best friend tried to put me in a yellow dress, I would ask if the color could be changed, if not, i wouldn't be apart of her wedding. Yellow makes me look jaundice; and I will not stand up there for everyone to see me looking sickly, I will not be apart of those pictures, that will encapsulate that eaither. I would feel ugly and disgusting for the whole day. As a bride myself, I wouldn't want any of my brides maids to feel like that. That is why I let then pick the length and fabric type for my wedding. I gave the requirement that they all must be in the same shade and same length; however, coverage (chest/arms) can be different. This way everyone feels comfertable and beautiful on my wedding day, as they should. Anyone who says it is all about the bride and to suck it up, are selfish; and don't really care about their friends because 'my vision' or 'what I say goes'. This just leaves your love ones feeling uncomfertable, ugly, or exiled, soemtimes all three, because they don't look a certain way. Everyone needs to get out of the mentality that the wedding is for the bride, amd the bride only. More than just her is involved. More than just her has to stand up there infront of everyone. And more than just her has to be apart of pictures. The thought of 'I'm the bride so deal with it' is so toxic.
This guy has a massive ego problem, and is simply jealous that it's not HIS big day, so wants to steal the attention away and make it about him. You can guarantee he would spend a huge amount of time at the wedding bragging about his dress choices, and how good they are, and how much this wedding is thanks to HIM.
And people in hot places like India and Saharan African countries wear long, flowy clothes, men included in some places. You need the right fabric and fit for the heat.
Long dresses during summer is not practical. But it also depends what state they live in. AZ during the summer is triple digits. A short elegant dress would be nice.
I am definitely torn when it comes to bridesmaids dresses. Where I grew up the brides family paid for everything except the honeymoon and stag night. So in that case What the bride says goes. In most cases now people have to pay for their own bridesmaids dresses that they will probably never wear again and sometimes a lot of money, so yeah, I would want to look and feel good too.
If that had been me, i would never had let them wear short dresses as a matter of principle. It's possible to have long dresses that are light and airy, just need the right material. What i had done was pick out the shirts and have them bring their favorite white skirt. I didn't have any requirements except for white skirts. I only had $2000 for the entire wedding so was trying to spend as little as possible
He said it's not about the bride suurree the bride is the one who is getting married. That's the reason the bridesmaids are there the bride is going to have the photos and memories for the rest of her life but it's about the bridesmaids right?
I don't understand these bride's maids! It's not their wedding, they agreed to be bride's maids and they are wearing these dresses for one day! The only thing that can be an issue is if the dress goes against someone's faith or religious beliefs. Other than that, WEAR WHAT THE BRIDE WHATS YOU TO WEAR!
“We have found OUR dresses?” He’s not even wearing it. And none of them are her friends when they talk behind her back and still push their own opinions on the bride. Absolutely no support or loyalty from them. And Mario just talked as though he was gonna wear the dress too. Just plain weird and rude.
Yes it is all about the bride on her day....to an extent. She can love her vision all she wants, but you have to consider weather, and comfortablity for the bridesmaids. Which then, makes you HAVE to consider some things. Otherwise, go as you want for your wedding.
