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I had to walk away from my ex of 5 years he cheated and had a baby on me. We as woman have to love self first and never settle for less than we deserve! Never go back always move forward!
Hi Jessica...I have a baby with my ex as well. Been together for 12yrs and he wants to come back and fully committed and all about getting back his family...he never cheated or anything like that...I do want to give my family another chance and honestly I am hopefully but worried at the same time...any advise?
The only way I'm taking back an ex is if you have been redeemed in the blood of the Lamb, or God anoints a dog to speak and tell me that's my husband. And on top of that I still want confirmation. I'm that serious 🇹🇹👏🙏
Mr Tony I wish I knew that before, I would have not gone back to my X and going back to X means you will be deaths at any time and you don't love yourself, so Ladies listen to this very careful never go back in relationships which you have left and stayed in relationships for long it will never work. Just start a new life, love yourself and work on your 3B. Get more knowledge.
This was me. 😩 I was with my fiancé and I found out he cheated on me & the girl became pregnant. I was like, "we can work through this." Then I said to myself, myself said hum, why tf you lying! And then I threw the deuces! ✌🏾 I wish tf I would be a stepmom to some kids with my "husband" and I didn't have any. Foh! Best thing I EVER did was walk away. When you know your worth, you move different! Be blessed 🌼💖
Amen, sis!!!! Bigbro Tony speaks facts!!! I chose,to depart from the relationship with my fiance, after I sat back and analyzed it all, it was time for our season to end, I feel as tho I made the right decision, sometimes you have to walk away in order for the one you love to see, if he doesn't realize what he has in front of him and who I am it's time to depart, I know my worths and I rather allow him to heal instead of crippling him, sometimes separation is a wakeup call along your journey, Like Bigbro Tony said...If he loooves you he will break his neck to show you with ACTIONS. So share I'm happy for your fresh new start stay strong and may the Almighty guide you also, with our Bigbro Tony!!!!👑💃🙌🙌🙌❤💪
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There is a saying in my language that translates to sth like an old field is easier to plough.. Loneliness and desperation can lead you back to an ex because their familiar and it's comfortable
I just keep playing in my head when Tony said " A man will never leave you if you what he wants" You leave me ain't no getting back Point Blank Period ( in my Tony voice)! 😜☺
My EX popped back into my life after 3 months of no communication, so I remembered what you said, they only come back for 2 reasons & his was all EGO, he messed up & said something disrespectful so that was the end of that! Thank you sirrrr!!!
We are NEVER EVER EVER: getting back together!!!! Anyone who left you was NEVER worth you to begin with! They are desperate! Period dot! Only if you are separated in a marriage would I say even considering it!
I did..I went back to my ex that cheated on me..he did all that begging and chasing for months just to go and do the same thing again..listen never ever ever go back to someone that cheats on you..and never ever go back to an ex just because you have history together..you left for a reason keep your dignity intact and move gracefully..so glad I did eventually it was hard because the love I have for him..but its time to put all the love I was giving away to these ungrateful waste of time people,and put it all back onto myself..I deserve it you deserve..Be blessed!
@@zendove8258 Fall in love with yourself and believe you are enough just as you are - has been life changing for me. Marissa Peers videos on RU-vid are amazing, if you want to check them out.. Blessings and love to you 🙏❤️
@@gaiafox8158 its had been a difficult journey for me..but I an evolving and learning everyday..I will definitely check that out,thanks for the recommendation luv💜 love and blessings to you💫🙏🏽
I know the answer to this! No. Don’t gamble with your heart. Depending upon the circumstances. Take it slow and evaluate the situation carefully. Make sure that he or she is doing the work for your heart. What will it take for u to feel safe and drop your guard? You could possibly be paying a bigger price with your life by going back.
Wait women still out here concerned about getting a man, loosing a man, keeping a man??? Loool. Ladies, leave all that shit to the side & focus on yourselves & your families. Our world is changing DRAMATICALLY. Prioritise! I’m currently single, but worrying about a man is the last thing on my mind right now. I just continue putting out the energy that I’m ready for him & make myself ready for his arrival. The end.
My ex refused to get counseling for our relationship. He tried to convince me that if we did get counseling, they will only tell us that I was the only one with the issues that was destroying our relationship. Long story short, I'm single and loving it!
At this point you are completely totally wasting your time going back to an ex period! Remember we currently don’t know whether we are going to live or die due to that 19 virus 🦠 and you sitting 🪑 up here thinking 🤔 about an ex!? Move on live your life work on you. Be blessed.
@ Beatrice Brown Sheri took Tony back because she was the one who walked away and broke up with him. But most importantly it’s the timeline when she did that. It was during the dating phase and not within a relationship. Breakup during dating phase can be salvaged because it is done within 0-6 months. Relationships can be salvaged if there has been no damage sustained. If a woman got in a relationship blindly and then leaves years later because she gets “fed up”, then she’s just slap crazy as Tony says.
@@sanjeshnidevi982 I wish I could 100% agree with you but he also said if the couple puts in the work it could be better than before the break-up, in the case of people remarrying. However, I can agree it depends on the damage... cheating, pregnancies and the like it's no going back for me but to each its own.
Tony, Tony, Tony,.. you deserve all the credits in the world. How you expose the ugly truth, hands up for that!💯 i had to learn the hard way. Got divorced, he left.. got with another woman and went clubbin and a few years later he came back and apologized. 6 months in i got pregnant and he left again.. now im pregnant and taking care of our first child.. Hope lots of women will hear your word before its too late like in my case🤲🏽🙏🏽
Tony ever since I have found your page I have invested into myself. I'll continue to support because your books and videos have saved me. Thank you so much!
I'm seeing this video 3-years too late and he's posting this video 3-years too late because I needed this video way back when! I've learned the hard way. The last time was the last time for me!!!
I know that's right, I had to learn the hard way also but I know 1 thing. God made ugly but he's not fond of it and the God that I serve does not sleep. I will sit back and watch him do His work. You don't hurt God's children and walk away scott free like that.
tony you’ve been reading my mind with these recent topics 🥺thank you for always encouraging us to follow the right path in manifesting real love and the man/woman that we truly deserve as a life long partner in marriage
Thanks Bro Tony once again for this eye opener message. So much that is needed for me to continue to grow. You're such a blessing for such a time like this in this season in my life. God bless you abundantly Tony Gaskins.
Be Bless, Mr. Gaskins and your family as well. And I don't blame you for not coaching in person. It's a smart move, it's better to be safe. Because some people have wicked spirits. I'm an older woman and I don't have time to play games anymore. I've been listening to your videos and and taking your advice. My Mom is 95 yrs old, and she said,, "it's okay to be a young fool because you're still in the process of learning' -but it's sad to be an old damn fool." Intelligent peoples use their common senses so we truly do understand you. So I would like thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to share your wisdom and knowledge on Love Relationships. Have a Bless Day! 🙏
Got "A Woman's Influence" on audiobook..Actually this is my first ever audiobook I'm already on Chapter 8 ..I love it Tony . Great Job. Thanks for the knowledge 🙌
Because of your videos, I found myself telling this young lady, "Oh, no ma'am. Ya'll need to be getting married first. Has he proposed? No? Not yet?? That is what you two are suppose to do first, before you even think about asking me infertility questions." I had to remind myself to separate what I'm paid to do from what I'm blessed with.....Tony Gaskin advice. This is how you know the message is getting in your soul!
It is best to stay off your back and your knees so you do not have a real ex. Those who you date will call you an ex for brownie points with other women. Smile and help him out. Let him brag that you gave him time in your day at one point in life. The new girlfriend does not need to know why you made him your ex. Just make sure you ask him how is he doing now and he will know that you are asking if he worked on his problem he had that made you leave him. You become his big sister, auntie, mother or who ever he respect and listen to so he can always look good in your eyes. Even if he becomes great for the woman he is dating, never go back to him because he is just be putting on that act in your eyes to get you. Lead him all the way down the isle with that women he acting so perfect for than get completely out of his life. I bet he wont be perfect with her even after he marry her. He just thought you would be there so he can show you he a good man but once he has no contact with you anymore, the real him will come back again on her. Its best to be able to tell your new man that any old man was a guy you dated, not an ex. Ex means that you did something deep with that person. Someone you dated mean just that. Your new man will not have many questions about a boy you just dated nor will he feel any jealousy about them. I do not know what to tell you about ex bed partners, baby daddies or ex husbands because I never been down that road. I only took the easy roads in life. I had my glasses on every time a boy tried to take me down those roads. Even if I felt love for a boy I dated, the love dropped instantly the moment the talk of any of those detours came up. An instant hate came into my heart because I felt total disrespect that the talk of us sharing bodies would come up before he talk to me about a future with us being married. I felt like a Queen and wanted to be treated like one. No man would walk up to any Queen and ask her to sleep with him as if she just some peasant on the street. I did not cuss, I did not fuss and I had and still have a whole neighborhood of men who worship me like a Queen. They would lay down their life for me. I have to stop them from getting on their knees and bowing to me when they had not seen me in a long time. My daughters be asking me why they do that. They pull up their pants, stop cussing and say they sorry, they did not see me walking up. My daughters be asking, why they do that only when I come around and be standing there doing disrespectful things in front of the other women they see with them. I tell them it is a legacy granted to my mother because she was a Queen and I loved her life so I lived the way she lived. I hope you love what you see in my life enough to want this life also because I gave both of you me and my mothers name. I pray they serious about this. I will have to teach them how to control their feelings because you do fall in love. You just have to have an active volcano that instantly cut off those feeling the moment you see that the one you love does not love you. It is not your job to train them to love you. It is your job to make sure they know what they did wrong so they can love the next women better and not make the same mistake they made with you. The words, "I love you" and the money they spend on you is not love. Time, money and those words with a lot of kissing and touching is what you get in the start. That is not love or real without an active ring. That is just practice. Do not go crazy or get mad when it ends, just thank him for the time and practice, it was fun and move on. You can move on with pride if his private parts never entered your body in any way. Stay off your back, stay off your knees and keep your hands off his stuff. Being a Queen gives you so much pride and satisfaction in life. Ask Tony's Wife. Only if men knew the pried of being a King, we would have a world full of great men we can be proud to look at. Ask Tony. I wish him the best on his journey to create that world so he can have friends he can hang with and know he dont have to worry of them being envious of his life and creating a world where his wife can have friends who is not envious of her life.
All I got to say is don’t waste your time move forward he is a ex for a reason, when you know better you do better, every situation is different but if you experienced all those red flags before, go back it’s gone be red white blue black yellow and green signs which means get out of that mess💯 🙏🏾 Tony right Boah I have to agree with him on this!
@Gabo H the conversation was should I get back with my ex, do I personally think a person can change absolutely, the real question is why is the person a ex in the first place? second will that person do what it takes and put forth effort to be better, and not just for ego, or to get that person back. My position remains the same move on, however let me add this disclaimer in here, if it’s ment God will bring it back together, but otherwise gone about your business. Ijs Blessings🙏🏾
I'm Listening 👂🏾. but, I was taught not to "back track!". 🤷🏾♀️ But, I guess it all depends on the couple, length of time, and the situation that caused the break up?
Im so glad to hear this advice thus morning Mr. Tony. I've been watching you for a while now. Tony after being together for years than marriage for 11 years. We're divorced now for 4 years, seperated for 7 year. Both divorce and separation my decisions. Im making the conscious decisions to remarry my x on Nov 7, 2020. Mind you be this isn't easy and yes scary, at the same token I've grown alot I'm not bringing past hurts along. Generational Curses. Its A daily fight because, the enemy doesn't want to see families together. Yes he made very bad choices and yes i did too. Throughout the divorce I've fought to release fear and control to allow me to have an amazing future. As I message this im fighting away the tears because I fight everyday why he doesn't deserve me. Knowing I've also made bad choices. Im going to give this marriage my all and trust God on this journey. I Pray to bring you great updates. Keep us in your Prayers. Were moving on to Greatness with Our Savior As Our Guide
Tony, you posted this video the same day my ex tried to get my attention after 5 months of no contact from him. You can bet I watched this video, woke up and watched it again. I needed this! Thank you 🙏🏼
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So much confusion in emotions but the eyes don't see ...All I can say is I AM GLAD I understand you and don't have to talk myself out of self abuse ...being tricked into thinking someone who is an X has any good intentions please God enlighten the word so the folks who watch become CLEAR AND AWARE of love of self and decision to care enough to change in jesus Name God Bless you Tony and your family
I believe that if a door gets slammed in your face move on and open a new door with better blessings and long lasting opportunity. The small flags were visible in the relationship from the beginning but often times they are ignored til they are inflated to jumbo flags and now we choose to run ...so ladies continue running from that slammed door and have no regrets doing so.
I was going to get your new book on Amazon today, but when I went to the book aisle at Walmart today, surprisingly, I saw it. I couldn’t wait on it so I bought it then!
Another great video Nephew Tony. How about you put him out of your dream house and take him to court and get your child support and alimony if decides to fool around. SDG
Excellent advice!!!!! We need to know what destroyed the relationship before reconciling. Marriage is not about making one person happy but it's about fulfilling God's plan as one flesh.
Thank you Mr Gaskins. You have helped & answered alot within this video. I appreciate that you allow yourself to be a vessel for GOD & give him glory. Its real out here!! Lol and this helps me from looking stupid😊👍👑✨
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This is all great advice for single women and I really do enjoy your videos but you crack me up also lol...when you stare at the screen and blink your eyes!!! lol....priceless.
I’m still watching but I would like to know what growth would look like on both sides. So for the person who was dumped and the dumper upon the first (few) encounters. Like what would be markers that someone has done something significant with the time apart? I know it’s subjective but a video on this from your point of view would be interesting.
Fancy Pants yes i did. I cant remember now but I know he has hit certain things . Still....a concentrated video would be appreciated from his point of view.
Tony, can you do a video about this topic... how do you deal with friends that are in continuous BS situationships with dudes? MY friends do not listen. Do I tell them, stop telling me ish or continue to just listen?
I have never done a 2nd time around...once there's a break up I'm done..had we discussed it BEFORE the breakup I may have considered working on it...idc how much I love the person..the only way he can come back is if jesus christ personally escort him to my door and say take him back
Free 99 online... you are too much, LMBO. Tony, I would greatly appreciate a one time yearly payment instead of $2.99 per month. I’m more your Mom’s age and realize my plight you haven’t seen. Yet, I listen and take notes and laugh, laugh, laugh. You are a blessing to most, thank you! 🤣
Hmmm I think if it was very negative why go back? If both parties are apart and work on themselves and come together as one it could work. I have two couples that are now married. Now again if it was horrible why go back? Don't go back to mistreatment, disrespect or negativity. Forward and upward movement.
Thank you Tony. I may need coaching but I'm already set on moving on. It's just now I dont know what to do. I feel like I'm in that stage that I want someone but dont and I'm trying to get my life together. Ya feel me? But I keep talking to my ex and i can't get him off my mind but he did cheat and he did throw my name in the mud. To me it's not okay but I am seriously struggling with moving on.
@ Nena snake please love yourself stop talking to ex when you have left, start a new life and put everything in to prayer, love your God and work on yourself, get more knowledge work on your 3B and you will see lot of changes in your life and believe in yourself, you can do it in Jesus name.
If you have to agree to have so much loss in the event of the relationship not working out don’t waste 1 second of your life even thinking to go back. The blessings of God come with no sorrow! (Proverbs 10:22) If we are lonely only God can fill that void. God is enough! Pray to him, he is listening & will highlight the proper mate for you in HIS TIME. Be blessed!❤️👍🏾
I'M IN THIS SITCH-I-ATION RIGHT NOW. :/ MY EX AND I ARE BACK IN TOUCH AND HE IS TRYNA LINK UP AND I WANT TO TOO BUT I'M TAKING MY TIME. THE GOOD BOOK SHAYZ THAT LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGDOING AND I DO HAVE LOVE FOR HIM AND THEREFORE I AM WILLING TO LET BYGONES BE BYGONES AND START FRESH, IF GOD WOULD HAVE IT TO BE SO...
