What are you supposed to do when someone starts to flirt with you with physical touch sexual banter but when I do it she'll say "you have to be careful" then later on she does it again but more boldy especially when no one is near
is new info means new video? if so, you're that gorgeous right now. nice info, though, if it hits the right people then it's smart. whatever, i'll just send my kisses from far away to you, anna. so you know there's another human being from other side of the world who dreams to really kiss you 😅 so... 😘😘😘🥰
They don't make the first move because they want the power over you to accept or reject . That way they can reject but they don't have to worry about a fear of rejection they would possibly have if they made the first move .
Do you think that a smaller and weaker girl can be a leader in dating? You are crazy. Every evening she has to wash her make up so she looks normal. Dating is a rejection game
I’m in the same boat this girl in the corporate company that I work for she likes me and has made enough passes and has given me the signs that she wants me and is interested but I don’t really care just because I have other things that I’m working on such as doing taekwondo, Krav, Maga, and working out at the gym. I have very little time now with all of those factors at play. All the other guys drool over her I don’t big difference.
The only signs a man should take is her opening her mouth and saying 'I want to take it to the next level'. Nothing else is acceptable. I don't want to have my life ruined.
If the girl doesn't see the guy making the move, then she should make that move. Why do we always have to be the ones making the move so we get a rejection most of the time? It's tiresome.
Because you need to be the tough guy and make it! Itll make you feel better! I wasnt sure if this girl was interested in me until I made a move...Gotta try!
@@fabian7463 Just stop. This isn't about me, it a generalization. Some men are just not aware enough too. Women should be more forthcoming if they see someone they like and want that guy. Some guys are shy, were burned in the past and cautious and some are just not catching the signs.
8/10 will be rejections, they want to be "chased", otherwise they think that you don't really like them. They also think that a "NO" will make you chase her even more and actually prove her that you want her, not just one time to get laid.
@@LiGHTProductions You must be a young guy to say that. Sorry, I don't follow that anymore. If they play hard to get, I'll look for sex only and move on.
The fact that you don't know that women like and expect men to take the lead in dating - forget about what these feminists or boss bitches say, suggests that you should leave dating to the grown ups.
You end by saying have 'clear communication' and be clear with your intentions, to close a video about SIGNS women give that they wanted to date you or more... Why don't women be CLEAR with their communication and TELL US STRAIGHT that they would like to spend more time with us or that they could just actually ASK US OUT ON A DATE THEMSELVES, if they really like us 'that much'. If they aren't that into us why would they want to even consider asking us on a date and if that's true, why would they then accept to a date offer from us if they aren't that into us?
How do you know they were “a narcissist”? If you knew why were you around them? Or are you post interaction deciding she was a narc because she wasnt attracted to you. Ive never heard someone that was with an actual narcissist use that as the excuse. Rather they give an action narcissists use to abuse people. Otherwise its using a societal get out of jail free card by dropping narc in the punchline. Narc is the new toxic.
Strong answer! I agree.. they like so much to talk everything among them but maybe not how they destroy others already...i was unknown with a narc before, i've been there..
Young lady, Men and Women are Equals and a Woman has every right to "make the first move" as any Man does. And, many Women; especially younger Woman make the mistake of not understanding the difference between a Man being "being shy" and a Man having and showing respect for a Woman/Women. If a Woman always "has to be" and thinks she has to be "submissive" bs and "wait for the man to make the first move"; then I "feel sorry for her" for shes still an immature girl, not a Woman (yet) and is going to wind up in abusive relationship(s) with prideful assholes "Boys" and Not with a good, strong, caring, loving respectful Man. I've seen it happen many times, in my lifetime (I'm a Gen-X'er) with my female friends. I'm a Christian, Educated, Physically Big Man (sports, powerlifting, "the Arts" etc...) and an Alpha and I'll tell you straight up; that :"Men dominant, women submissive" is a Pile of Very Unhealthy, Indoctrinating and Gaslighting Total Friggin BS!! ... Men and Women, Women and Men are Equals (period!) and your Man is supposed to be your Man; not your "Daddy/Father figure".
When she says, "I can't believe you haven't made a move yet!" Any "sign" short of that is, at best, a crapshoot, and these days, guessing wrong can ruin your life. If she isn't into you enough to be direct, she isn't really into you.
A complete wast of time and effort. If she can't tell you straight off how she feels.. when something big in the relationship happens she won't be able to face you at all.
I want to say thank you for you and your content. Your information has been extremely informative and revealing. Your information has helped in many ways including helping increase my self love and confidence.
When i was in my 20's i was a "good catch". I often socialised one on one with female work colleagues and there was mutual attraction. I was on a journey in life, travelling the world, working contracts for 6-12 months at a time. I reàlly enjoyed their company but i was never going to get intimate. "Why doesn't he make a move?". Usually left unsaid my position was...."Sorry, i don't want to get 'hooked'. I have things to do and i have to be able to walk away. We're out socialising, having a great time but that's it, let's keep it that way". I know various women found this frustrating or felt rejection but that's just normal for everyone.
I had the same thing for a long time in thought. If I do it one time, I absolutely must have it again. If its a one time fling, I will be going bonkers & in withdrawal for months until the next time.
If i'm shy, i'm not making the first move anyway. Teasing me about it is more likely to make me clam up even more. Please get this through your head: If a guy is shy, SHE needs to be making the moves on him!!
Some say, why don't the female make the first move. It's cool if they do, however we can't change general physiology, biology, and programming of both the male and female roles. So typically females and males will do what they're wired to do. If the guy hasn't made a move for a long time for whatever reason, it's sometimes the universe way of using a slow burn time method to TEST whether the relationship will be a true and resilient one. So the universe will put the both of you through the worst spin cycle before sealing and confirming a lasting relationship. As Shakespeare probably said 'the course of true love never did run smooth' End :)
As cheesy as it seems i tend to agree. Whatever the force may be. Perhaps consiousness itself. I feel like theres a layer of gnosis or collective conscious that runs things through a series of filters to decide as you described. When we run into bed too fast without considering the personality thats our one chance at overriding the natural system. If you blow that it creates the confusion you see which is growing, collectively, ie collective conscious, and just really makes a fuggin mess of the order of things. Which ironically is how ancient secret societies see things and operate. People think that those societies or collectives control knowledge and information to usurp mankind but as you see humanity reaching dangerous levels of degeneracy thru social media especially i think it’s imperative the people who understand attraction, infatuation, bonding, becoming one etc keep that info close and pass it down to our children. My son is 13 and very much handles interactions with girls or women as a man would and often times better than most men know how to. Its all relative and you pretty much nailed it in my mind. I just wanted to add to as what im saying is not contrary to but rather in support of.
Yes we were all born into different situations for a specific reason, some are poor some, some are princes. Each to its own, to carry out their role in our matrix hologram. Within THIS universe and dimension/reality consciousness experiences itself from infinite lenses. So we are just separate lenses for the construct. So our actions are generally pre destined by karma but free choice also exist if it contributes to the purpose of higher beings, the universe and source consciousness. I cannot tell you how I know this so it's JUST MY OPINION. Agree to disagree.
Hmmm, whenever a girl wants me to hurry by saying it would be too late otherwise. That sounds like they wouldn't have the Patience to wait and rather find somebody else 👀 When you know the Art of Manifestation you have an abundance mindset. With it you know that you would never miss out, only make place for something better that you can't see yet. Just think about that 👻 Besides that in the Other World, I have learned what I Am really wishing for. If I would go for less it's like saying that I don't trust them. Like being happy with a Lesser Love than they are already giving/showing me.☀🌈
How about we just stop with women giving hints? Men aren’t that complicated. The consequences of reading a woman’s hints the wrong way are too high these days. This is why you are single, ladies!
And how long will the relationship last? The usual indicator is that she talks about feelings. If she is making sexy comments, she may want no more than a one-night stand. But I live in Australia, where long marriages are the norm. We have been married for 52 years, and ill-health is starting to take its toll, but we will still be together years from now. I used to index death notices, and found that marriages for 70+ years, although not common, were not unusual, either.
There are also other reasons why men don't make a move. I often see women who are superficially attractive to me but from past experience there is so much that puts me off. Like tattoos, overdone makeup, playing with her smartphone or excessive chatter over bullshit. I would say that less than 1% of women are really worth putting in all the effort and emotions unless you just want sex but in reality not many people are sex addicts. We want someone we can give love to and trust but immature women who are never told the truth by society aren't worth it.
I've seen it many times, some women do make moves but only if they really really like the guy. Usually a gigachad or whatever. The rest of us they aren't into enough to do that jmo
Im gonna continue to wait this one out until the moment is right 1. It actually keeps me from regressing. I take excellent care of myself 2. If the answer is a negative I'm gonna wind up feeling a lot different about her There's one huge POTENTIAL upside to telling her my feelings (key word in caps) But MANY potentially devastating downsides Fear can work both ways. The fear of not reacting can also do harm imo
Let me stop you there. I bet lunch that you aren't actually worried about ruining a friendship. You're worried about finding out. If you never ask her, the answer could be yes. If you ask her and she rejects you, you know the truth and that will hurt. The most painful regrets are for the things we DIDN'T do.
And when you make your move she acts all surprised or bothered and turns me down, for me that is a rejection and a sign that she is seeing someone else and that she is just playing childish games which makes me draw the line, are you interested or not, stop playing games, I am not the one losing here, you are not the only game in town, seems like you like those octogenarians promising you everything but not keeping any of their promises, you get what you ask for
😂 Funny. That sums up my years during university. I was just too focused on my studies, sports, friends, side work... I would ìnteract with women and even go for drinks and yoga classes with them. However, since I was not looking for any relationship, I could openly connect with them without any alternative motivations. Later on, I found out that 2 of them (that I know of) had a deep crush on me.😂 Younger men are so bad at reading body signs. They are just horrible at it!!! Now that I am older and much more experienced, I have gotten much better at it. 😂 So, I would advise women in the same situation to be very direct with the guy about her feelings towards him. No guy is going to spend time with a woman if he does not like her. He might not be ready for a relationship, but at least you know where you stand. Why would you be afraid of rejection? That's life, and you learn from it. The same is true with business. Any challenge, actually. I DO NOT WANT TO LIVE WITH ANY REGRET.😂
I think you should include a video example of how the girl looks when you state how she looks when… In other words instead of only giving verbal advice with verbal examples, you should give the advice with video examples… Thanks in advance!
The girl Ive been into for awhile has established she doesn’t want to date because she doesn’t want to ruin our friendship ( I say fuck the friendship) but yet she flirts all the time and has been touching my shoulder during flirting and laughing at my stupid stuff I say frequently. Sometimes when we walk together somewhere she casually walks into me bumping our arms. She also stands really close to me when we’re doing something and faces me when we’re in this close proximity situation. One time we were pulling a heavy box down from a shelf and since I’m taller assisted her. Once I figured out how to get the box down she stood next to me as I eased it off the shelf but the box was unbalanced. It quickly dropped and then shifted towards us. She reached up to help me and it pulled both of us down together (unharmed thankfully) in this entanglement. I looked over and my arms were laying across her boobs and I stood up and asked her if she was ok. She was perfectly fine. Helped her again the other day with a big box she was pulling down. She stood up on a ladder and her butt was right in my face and it was hard not to take little peeks as she was working the box down. It’s like she does stuff like that to torture me. I looked enough but not enough for her to notice. Had I been caught she probably would’ve teased about being caught staring at her. And then playful banter, teasing, and touching alot lately. You wonder why I don’t grab and her and kiss that beautiful face is because she established her boundary but yet steps over it all the time to a point people see us and think we’re dating. We go so good together, at least I think so. I’m tempted to distance myself and not come around as much because I want to do just that, kiss that face after all this time of building up to where we are and reveal what’s inside of me like buried treasure. But I’m not sure how to go about it. They say watch what she does, not what she says. I have to say her actions point towards a greater interest than just friends. And it’s been going on like this for quite sometime. I figure the ball is in her court after I made the first move and went on some dates, stuff happened, and it changed a little but we still have been in touch all this time, and IM positive she has felt something at some point to some degree. Otherwise she wouldn’t make points to come around, get my attention, flirt, laugh at my stupid jokes, make strong eye contact but then sometimes she gets shy and looks away, playfully touch me, and stand so close to me I can feel her without actually feeling her. It’s difficult to ignore a woman of this beauty completely. I’ve tried and I can get about 2 days in but she’s so damn gorgeous it’s a sin not to engage with her. I’m conflicted.
I've got the same damn thing as you bro, my one says we're just friends isn't interested I dating, but always bumps into me, pushes her tits into my arms, laughs at all my jokes, I said to her do you fancy me or not?! She gave me a round about excuse about not looking to date, then on the phone talks about dating events, she's a prick tease mate, when in doubt chuck em out! You may even warrant her attention by going in for the kiss or whatever but do you really want someone who's prepared to fuck with your head because it boosts her ego, she don't fancy you as the other person said you're a friend and she wants to play you with you like a doll, she's immature.
I appreciate that you clearly make an effort to address 21st century protocol. I was disappointed at the end- or :651 forward. You made it clear the man needs to remain 'respectful- consider etc- of course. A simple honest expression of feeling- of course. But you did not delve into the complicated part- I appreciate the difficulty-as every woman is different. You left it up to Us- the males- to figure out how to try moving the interaction to 'the next level'. That's where the problem can quickly arise. Perhaps less so with the younger generation.
Thats a but dramatic. The onus to prove that is not as easy as you say. If a friend of a friend says bla bla bla you need to consider they may in fact be a fuggin creep. Despite this accepted truth on social media first a detective, not a cop, had to investigate that stuff. If you think police havent been dealing with this forever youre not as enlightened as you think. Every Saturday and Sunday most municipalities detectives are working because they get an influx of calls by people who had lessened inhibitions only 6-10 hours earlier regretting their choice to sleep with someone. Secondly a states attorney has to review the findings and they may indeed squash many of them as theyre not prosecutable. But to not get too far as this is silly, the vast majority of those get deemed bs by detectives. And the me too thing if more people are getting in trouble its because more women with legitimate sexl assault cases are coming forward. But LE is aware of that too and investigates thoroughly. If theres any doubt they reinterview both people. If you were to be interviewed and it happens again, youre doing something youre unaware of or arent being honest with yourself bc that pattern is how serial grapists are caught. Fyi….
😶🌫️ thank you I find your videos very interesting and educational starting to notice thongs I was oblivious to. I can tell when someone likes someone else but when I comes to me I can't tell when a girl likes me maybe now I will be able to so thank you. Much appreciate
Can you cover why most women like to make financial issues a topic. Your points are okay but it's not worth it more while to allow a lady to get close.
There's no such thing as playful teasing unless you think wow you are tall do you know the weather report from up there ect. Here's another good playfull teasing so are those boats or feet because you have huge feet. Now all i see is crule and not very kind women when they are teasing you so i would rather just walk away.
Real question: is touching really a comon in western social behaviour? Here it always means "I like you" even in a non romantic way. Obviously it is most seen in parents to kids, but aside that is seen when old people talk to you. Aside those situations nobody touches anyone because it means "I like you" .
NO MEN WILL NO LONGER PLAY SILLY GAMES,,,IF YOU WANT A MAN ASK HIM,IF NOT STOP MESSING WITH OUR HEADS TIMES HAVE CHANGED,,,,CHANGE WITH IT OR HAVE NO BABYS
mmmmm. how many times any of those has happened to me???? Like never ever Probably because I am ugly and poor so women avoid me like the plague. It doesn't matter that I have a good sense of humor and I am very well educated, all they see is my looks and how poor i seem Please, put a disclaimer before your videos saying that these work only if you are good looking and/or rich, otherwise go home and sleep alone without anymore heartache or disappointments
One of the signs I got was disappointment when I leave. But, unfortunately, it may have been more disappointment that we "can't" do anything with each other, due to the nature of our relationship, not that she was expecting me to do anything.
Women are iffy about guys who don’t make and realize that u had your chance and since u had no interest she lost interest lol Makes since but if u r good looking then you should move in quickly and realize you have had better and that there is better out there so no lost, no harm, no foul
Hi Anna, honestly I do care much about her, and have learned so many new ways to make my approach. I'll figure it out. Just learning this new and modern style. I hope she will have patience with me. You're always a big help. Thankfully your the best !
What if her guys that she like most sees her with another guy what's gonna happen?... Is they is it gonna be problem or is they gonna get along... A girl with options gets slayed daily by guys is toxic and drama...some people get hurt or dead over a girl or guy... For what they should just move on... She must be not single if she still seeing guys to have fun with that means she seeing someone...taking turns is not being single...single means no fun with a human being at all...
true. when a woman gives men dating advice it's just a waste of your time. I wish I had never listened to them when I was young and just done what men are supposed to do.
I like to get a chance to know you an also what do you ,enjoy doing in your free time and what are your favorite foods and places you enjoy going to I enjoy dancing art bike riding tattooing on myself really I have a lot of interest really
For me the girl only comes when i ignroe her she follow me where i go she is watching me but shy. She smiles a little. I dont know if its a sign of her love or hate😅
You can make a move and it will be the worst decision you made in your life. If woman is interested, she will tell you. If not, she plays the kind of mind games that she is referring to in this video.
If she's not interested then why would she spend wasting her time,effort and energy playing mind games. Right or wrong,my thought on this is if you never ask if she's single you will stay single. 😊
Sorry, I just could not spend the time to wend my way through this entire video. I stopped after the first part "she mentions my shyness". This happened back in college, a comment late one evening in the college workshop. She was absolutely, without question, the most beautiful girl to ever enter the hallowed grounds of this particular college, in fact, a well-known art school. She was never in any of my classes, but came around from time to time, worked a little some evenings, and briefly just sat there looking unthinkably gorgeous. We all knew she "had a boyfriend", who presumably had money and treated her to some finer things like dinners and trips into Manhattan for this and that outing. It was clear she was unapproachable. I was simply a hard working (probably the best) student in the department, and kept my mouth shut. She never spoke to me. But one evening there she must have noticed my "quietude" as I worked alone. I overheard her say, "why are guys from the South so shy?" She certainly was not talking to me, only ABOUT me! That revelation carried no impetus to do anything. We knew she wasn't "available". Little did she realize that I was one of, who knows how many guys, who viewed her as unattainably attractive. So did I dare do anything or say anything? No way! It was crystal clear that wasn't any sort of invitation, just an observation. As for the rest of the "clues" mentioned in this video ---no, they may make for a video reaching a number of clicks, but no, I did not observe these things happen in real life.
