1. When he leaves you regardless of the reason 2. Inconsistency 3. When he makes excuses 4. When you can’t hold him accountable 5. He disregards your feelings 6. When you can’t influence him 7.Asking for financial support
Thanks for confirming that I made the right decision to end it with my ex. He didn’t want to get married and although he spent money on dinner and trips, would not offer to pay for my Nails s or hair which I had to get done to attend his family affairs or out of town events.
I was talking to this guy for 7months I told him I needed something one day and he told me I didn't need his help because I have 2 jobs...smh So I told him , your right, and gave him 2 minutes to get off my phone BLOCKED....PERIODT
In short, God's blessing wrapped up nicely with red flags! God only requires for us all to pay attention! Always remember, God isn't in the business to provide confusion, nor does he provide happiness, God provides peace. If you are not getting peace, it's not God's work!
You always give great advice 50 50 no no i take 50 steps and walk away going dutch yea i bubble dutch but not going in dutch great advice morals aswell
Coach Rod, I loved your video... You used great examples... My ex was a narcissist, I was calm and explained his behavior to him and he disregarded my feelings.. I got out and I stayed out.. God is better!.. I Thank God for wisdom...
Way maker, miracle worker, light in the darkness, lol ha ha 😆🤣😂. One told me years ago, I need a new tire. I have a slow leak. I said we'll good luck with that.
My ex sent me this message on my birthday. He was the one that walked out of the 4 year relationship I was good woman. At the time we had a good relationship for the most part. We were engaged. Also we was each others first relationship. 2 years later, my ex wanted us to be friends. We started to talk again but I stopped talking to him because he was sleeping with the lady and tried to sleep with me at the same time. I said I am waiting until marriage and didn't give in. I found out what he was doing and I walked away this was 10 months ago. He is with the lady now. " He sent me this message recently.on my Bday. Felicidades Fiona! I wish you have a great day. God bless! Hey Fi, just wanted to tell you that you can count with me as one of your best friends whenever you feel ready. I am very glad you are having a great experience traveling on your b'day, making great memories and becoming the woman you want to be. You and your family have a private room in my heart forever. Enjoy Venezia. Cuidate mucho Fi. I didn't respond to his message. His mum messaged me 2 hours saying how she loves me and I am family and said I hope one day me and her son could be friends. I said that will not happen. I was having a great time solo travelling around Italy when I received his messaged. From his message what is he really saying? Thank you God bless
friends with benefits and the mother is involved ? wth ..to be honest it depends on what you want..a man I have a crush on ghosted me and he knows I want marriage..if he sent me this text..ill reply I want him but I want marriage and loyalty him to me and me to him..if he can't do that then I wont go out with him..either way you ll know..but only do that if you want him..in my case I didnt really know him but you had something with him.so be honest and if his reply is not honest..then dont bother again..
@@coachrod8324 I'm also not going to make myself uncomfortable for a man to be comfortable. My dad told me a very long time ago, 'you're too good for any guy that doesn't value a real woman because the truth is when it's real, he's wanting to be valued too. If it's not there, you don't have to be either." He's right!
@@coachrod8324 today he asked me if I wanted to be his gf. We are long distance And I told him that I am waiting for our first date to happen and discern whether or not God is calling me to be his future wife.
Hey Coach Rod LOL You Never Lie I'm learning a lot from your Videos, Tony Gaskins Videos ❤U Guys Thank God For You Coach Rod, Tony Gaskins!!! God Bless You Coach Rod!!
Yes I've learned so much from your videos..Thank God for you Coach Rod, Tony Gaskins and Pastor RC Blakes..i binge watch on all of y'all videos..Guys are not ready for me lol..i see the signs and move on especially inconsistency❤💯
I have a question. I have been part of conversations with guys at different times. What is talked about a lot is the whole thing of the 90 day rule that Steve Harvey talked about. What I’ve heard a lot dudes say well “Well, how would y’all like it if we don’t spend money on you for 90 days” When I hear that, it irks the hell out of me and makes me mad. They treating it like it’s one in the same. To me those don’t equal each other and are totally different. Could you do a video about that?
A guy can wait 90 days and do it then run. Most men are not invested in one woman at a time they are dating a few they may value who withholds but it doesn't mean he's not getting intimacy elsewhere through someone else. So to most it's not valuable or meaningful as it doesn't effect them. You stay celibate or abstinent for you not counting days for a mans interest in you.
Are you kidding me? That's a no-brainer sis. Don't give them the time of day. A real brother will honor your desire for abstinence. Or at least he will aspire to it. 90 day rule is Harvey's invention and is not biblical. Period.
Sana Go to Dr. Ramani's videos. She's a medical expert on Narcissism. Helped me through my healing and obtaining knowledge in the topic for future reference.
Hey Coach Rod! Good video! You are funny too! If a man asks for financial support or child support start singing to him and tell him to give it to God!!! Then watch him run!! 🤣🤣✌🏽
Coach Rod, I've fallen for a man who would rather talk about the way he seasons food than how beautiful or pretty he thinks I am. I've known him for approximately 3 months and he's told me that he thinks I'm beautiful. He even told me that my smile was like the sun and my eyes were like the moon. He's 61 and I'm 58. Not a romantic bone in his body. What is that about? He is a God fearing man we stay on the phone for hours at a time. He talks about the future and relocating here and purchasing property ect. ect. But is not consistent with the I miss you's, you look good to me, your pretty, you smell good, nothing like that. Is he just not romantic or is he playing me?
Hard to say just yet because some people aren’t as romantic as others. Talk to him and ask him the questions you want answers to and also ask about his love language and explain to him yours.
I always said why would I marry a 50/50 man and take myself off the market to available suitors for him when I can get the same thing in a roommate with no commitment at all, if he won’t feed you he won’t feed y’all’s children either… smh.
SFL true when I watch you and Tony Gaskins and Eric Jackson videos you guys are all point I never forget my child's father give it another try to find you I have grown in those years I'm not the same person who I was I'm awesome grown woman stuff now and I have I watched actions like you said I watch it actions Dennis so disrespectful music a private conversation about marriage saving yourself for marriage and he really wasn't into the conversation I watch a video of the nice family's have what you wanted to free must didn't house play the video game on fire after I watch everything that you did I pretty much told him that I am no longer interested in the growing boy you said how setup call is in love with you and wants to be with you who make time I watch this man-made times to go to the mall to shop and spent $500 on shoes and clothes I mean if that is her wardrobe social me I was like you can't sit down and come up with a nice little plan or dinner day for us he claimed what is covid-19 Park in the house but you did not let him go and I let God everything that you're saying is very true and
