I agree with this, I’m a woman and every male friend I’ve ever had wanted more.. they all told me they had feelings for me..one actually told me he was in love with me..I had to cut everybody off when I got in a serious relationship. My boyfriend was like NOPE my girl can’t have male friends. Lol
@@monvici he had before I met him. But he doesn’t speak with them on the phone anymore.. I don’t know any of his female friends. He can talk to them in public but not on the phone. The phone is just too personal in my opinion…especially when I’ve never met any of them.
BINGO!! CONFIRMATION!! I have a male friend. I've noticed lately I believe he thinks there's a chance of being in a relationship beyond "friends". From what I've seen he is definitely a GROWN BOY. TOO NEEDY!!! CAN'T DO IT!! Thanks, I see the end of a friendship.......
thx u right..I had 4 male friends since middle school high school all the way to college I realise there is no male friends because they all want sex..at the end of day..thx god bless
Right on! Ive tested a man who didn't touch me in the same bed. I'm married to him. He's actually not a hoe-dog. I'm the type of woman who'd send flowers to her, who ever will draw him away from me.
I listen to Tony Gaskins and Pastor RC Blakes as well and I love learning about dating..I know y'all telling us what's best for us women!..Thanks for your advice!❤
Wow sis, TG & Pastor Blakes are my spiritual brother & father also. Now I can add coach Rod to the list. Not all counsel from men is sound & from God so I've learned to be selective about which men I listen to virtually. 😊
Coach Rod is absolutely right ... ✅ . Ladies, especially the very young ladies watching this video, listen to everything he is saying. It will save you a lot of unnecessary heartache and pain.
Men fall in love with me faster🙈...but when I fall it’s a choice & it’s because of him stating his intent, & how good he treats me & makes me feels over time.❤️
straight facts right here!!!! i dated a girl 6 years ago who liked having guy friends and being gullible; i let her do it. As a result we ended up having a lot of problems and trust issues in the relationship. If a female has a lot of male friends i wont get involved with her in a relationship from now on.
Thank you Coach Rod!! I experienced a relationship not working out for me so I thought friends would be okay but God was like NO, that wouldn't work because God saw the danger in it while I thought me and him could keep it innocent. An average man is about sex and money and if an opportunity to get a woman on her back came, he will jump to it. Women, we got to be more careful...
I was fooled by one man saying he was totally different to other men... Sounds classic but he was crafty at it very good at his craft. He wanted to remain friends and I said NO. I have cut all ties with anyone, not speaking to any man. Now I don't trust any man and treating all men as enemy. Im pleased thats how you say I should be doing it.
This is another reason why I want to be a stay at home wife should I be married in the future. Currently, I work in a male dominated field where of course I have to submit to men superior to me on the job. Once married, the only people I would submit to are God and my husband, no other man. Only thing is, a man still has to work and may have female coworkers. What's most important is that you stay professional at work and you protect the family after work. No man or woman should be out having drinks and fun with coworkers outside of work if it will cause damage to their committed partner.
I didn't figure out that men are not friends till I was 40! This caused me a lot of problems. Figure it out early. No confusion, no blocking of other men, no twisted relationships, no transparency/confiding. Maintain your dignity and availability.🌷🌻
Ohh thanks for the heads up! One guy got offended recently when I said we can have just a friendship. Another man said he would be glad to hang out and talk and nothing else.But he admitted he would like more but if not that's fine too.
❤Thank you!Thank you to All the men being used to school Ladies.I hope you know how much you're appreciated🙏I have always seen the wisdom in this. I'm glad to hear it said out loud.
Coach Rod, I thank God for sending you my way! Your wisdom is uncanny! Interesting that I noticed how in line your wisdom is with that of Tony Gaskins and Pastor R.C. Blakes, both of whom I am subscribed to as well. Thank you so much for what you do. I appreciate your candid ability to keep it 💯. May God continue to bless you on your journey. Your future wife is so lucky!
I like your way of teaching us with being truthful. I just told my friend that I don't have no male friends. Except for my three brother's. Even at church the men's I used to conversate with when we greet. Is like God removed them from the church away from me. Lol😂 But I trust God plans for me and the one that He chose for me. Thank you for confirming what I tell other women's.
I haven't ran into a man yet that can stimulate my mind. The guy I was engaged to. We was unequially yoked that's why I broke off the engagement. Our conversations was so boring! The guy I dated before him..boring! So I'm not falling in love. Lol
I met this man at the park & we were talking & all of a sudden he stopped & asked me to forgive him I said forgive you for what & he said for having lustful thoughts of you in my mind After that he treated me to lunch I learned in college that men do think about sex every few min or so many times per min I forget exactly but it is so true 👍 😉
Tony is very boastful. Most of his videos go off topic because he goes to talking about himself and his wife. Also, puts Sheri on a pedestal and credits her for the man he is today. I'm not knocking that, because a man should praise his wife, but he doesn't come clean and admit that he and his wife started off their relationship in fornication. So they ain't no different to most other couples in life. They both fixed up AFTER they both did their wrongs. So no need for the constant boasting.
Hey Coach Rod! Love the video. Always good information coming from you. Can you please do a video on dating men 50 and over who never been married? I am 45 and he is 51. Been dating for almost 2 years. At this point not sure if he ever wants to marry. Good guy, just never been married.
My best friend since freshman year in college is a male. And although there has NEVER been any funny business-one of the dangers of being close to him throughout the years was knowing all of his dirt. I had to be careful and not allow myself to become disheartened thinking ALL men conducted themselves the way he did. I’ve known him for more than half my life and I’ve seen the women come and go. He was faithful to absolutely NONE of them-and I found myself beginning to be suspicious and guarded around the men I was dating-just based on what I saw this friend do over the years. NO GOOD AT ALL. 🤣
I agree I don't have none just associate guys friends at work whose like lil brothers to me and I always greet them by saying Goodmorning Brothers!!😇👌but outsider nope!
Men and women will never agree fully on this matter. Yes men have a sexual agenda even with their closest female friends, had to tell a male friend SEVERAL times that was NOT GONNA HAPPEN😂 But women shouldn't shun having male friends just because men always want sex. Just keep boundaries and refuse it every time. Yes it's ABSOLUTELY possible to have male friends. This is for single women only though. Can't speak for married women cuz I'm not married.
I have a few male friends some over 8 years, never had sex with them. They take me out, we laugh and talk, but I know they would love to have sex, but they know it's not happening.
@@treshaparker5577 Stop stringing them along. You accepting their dates is giving them false hope. It's not right for you to let a man continue to court you when you have no intentions of ever dating him.
I promise you I am not stringing them along. I've always been honest with them. They have other interest now. It's like they are not in a real relationship and niether am I, so e call each other once or twice a week, and go out to eat about once or twice a month before Rona. I offer to pay. We are just friends. I would never use or mislead them. You real what you sow
Having to keep telling these male friends "it ain't happening" is Exhausting! Easier living to simply realize and believe their pathetic game and bounce. That's what I did to 3 with 1 to go. Waiting for him to slip up.. 😐
@@coachrod8324 A while back, I was good friends with a girl who had tons of male " friends". Later I found out she slept with every last 1 of them...all 13 of them😂😂😂. I said girl bye!
I’ve always been that way. My mom told me when I was a child that women and girls are gossipy backstabbers. I find that intimidating and women talk too much.
@@genxx2724 I understand that, I used to think the same. You should reprogram your mind if possible .. Your moms experience in her life is not yours so don’t take that on. and how can women be bad if we are women too? You’d be surprised to know that we are not that different at all. When we have poor friendships and relationships we have to look within and see why we are attracting negative experiences. It’s strange, but it’s very real that the vibe you put out, is what you get in return. There are some really amazing, kind and thoughtful women out there 💕
One of my friends once told me she had a male friend who she used to tell her relationship problems to.the guy would tell her how bad men behave.one day when she went to visit the guy they ended up having sex and he said a very rude comment to her. Mind u this was the same man saying that men ain’t shit
I don't know if I'm too ugly or what but this is not true at all at least for me. I have a lot of male friends and they're not interested in me romantically at all. We're just bros and none of us has any further interest for the other. I have a boyfriend and they're all friendly with him. They're respectful to me and behave like a normal friend, nothing else and I can feel the chemistry between my male friends and I is like comrades truly.
some men dropped me..anyway I only meet my friends in cafe..wont go to anyone place..but women may not want to be friends..its harder to find women willing to sit for a cafe for a few hours..versus men ..at least for me..Im attractive but I dont want them and they are fine with it but I see them sparingly when I spent more time with some I could see some desire in their eyes..I just wish this handsome man wanted to be my friend..do a video on why non decent/unhealthy looking men approach women more than healthy men ? is this normal? or simply because they are desparate for any woman..
I dont have any good male friends I never have. I always had close girlfriends but not a whole bunch of guy friends. I was always kinda shy around guys especially the ones I thought were hot. I was very shy and I got real nervous around guys I thought were hot.
My best friend is a male fact most of my friends are male Female friends in my teenage years put me through hell so am very cautious but what you saying is kinda true because I have a male friend who loves me but I don't because he Always think he is right Cuss like a girl
Right I got no just basic make friends one tried stick round but he wanted sex so he kept pretending to just b a friend of mine then left bye I dnt got time for all these people in my space/ life for no reason
You stated that you don’t know about how women are when it comes to sex, Women think of sex a lot too. A woman that’s healthy physically, and emotionally, think of sex a lot Rod and that’s if a man KNOW what he’s doing. So....... yea
Only if he is gay or does not find you attractive whatsoever... I have also came across some colorist men who only will date/sleep with certain women of skin tones and or races..
no way is it ! wait until you have difficulties with your partner ( which we all go through ) then we'll see what happens with those '' friends '' then
I am going to sound horrible but I dont have any attractive male friends..in fact most are older than me but we can have good discussion..the attractive ones walk away..or maybe its because they have many options..they won't discuss..I chased one man that I thought liked me..long story short he found someone else..because I won't go with any man unless I marry them..wont live with them either..Many women go with the flow and dont ask men for anything ..Im 36 and alone..im fine with it..I just want one child..so ill take a gamble ..and im healthy iyt should be ok up to 45 years old..afterwards its dead..My point is that its mostly fake out there...and the real people..at least in my experience are not even decent looking..
Just picture that cartoon of a dog who's only thinking about his bone to chew on 24/7. That's exactly how men only think about that organ between their legs to fulfill their desires...
Opposite sex friends: never test the waters for something that's not waterproof. It's not that I don't trust my partner. I trust my partner to not have these friends.
White women fall in love faster: Biggest bullshit ever! Falling in love faster doesn´t watch race or color. It´s very personal experience. It took me fall in love first and last time nearly 2 years. After that I have never fallen in love again not even got crushed with every partner or man I´ve been with. There´s big difference between falling in love and getting crush. Getting crush migh take faster, but falling in love much slower.
It's me!! Im the 1 who said I have male co workers. I can have male friends. I've been celebate for about 10 years. Yes Im attractive. You mean to tell me that my male friends are going to end up sleeping with me? Im not a new subscriber, i watch your videos all the time. I have self control. I still disagree with your stand on men and women unable to be just friends. Its what I allow.
It's possible, for me I definitely set boundaries but it caused some conflict. For some women it's definitely easy but the men on the other hand doesn't have self-control.
Sis what I'm trying to tell you. You can be a friend to a man. And not want to have sex. But men can't. If you give them the green light. They are going to have sex with you. A true friend is someone you spend time with. Talk to in share your secrets with. With no desire to have sex. So If men desire to have sex with you. They are not your friend. They are associates. No the difference. As a man. I can call you my friend. But if I desire to have sex with you. I'm not a true friend. Because I have a motive you don't know about.
@@je39981 That's my point. It's possible for yall. But men don't have self-control like women. It can't be a true friendship. If the other person have arterial motives. That's why I say in the video. Y'all call them friends. But really they are acosiates.
@@coachrod8324 I would like to say that when you are in a relationship you shouldn't be friends with the opposite sex because what's the point in being in a relationship if you will do the same things you do with your friends that you should be doing with your significant other if you are not exclusive it's ok to be honest I'm not comfortable with my man having female friends regardless if they were there before me I know how women think because I am a woman call me jealous or whatever I'm not cool with that unless he has introduced me to her and we all do things together as friends
Kay hunter I think you are misunderstanding what coach rod is saying.you and a man can be friends but the moment you give him the green light he can definitely sleep with you easily.
